TonyVanDam said:

If you say you're keeping it real, doesn't that mean that's really your opinion? Well, most women in the world don't groom it at all. You're single? Really???
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SCNDLS said:

Until further notice, I'm never getting married.

vainandy said:

This is what I want to know because it's a question that's very seldom asked. Why is it that white women are not reporting being infected with HIV at the same rate black women are? There's more white "trade" than black because white men outnumber black men, period. And what about the black "trade" who have sex with white women? Those women don't report being infected by these men? I think I may have a reason, and this comes straight from the mouths of black men. White women are much more likely to request that the man wear a condom. Black women are less likely to require the man to where a rubber.

vainandy said:

Great reading here...
I agree with alot of your definition about lifestyle practices but I disagree that you can limit these guys to the trade category. Not to say it doesn't exist but when you are dealing with black men for the purpose of this discussion, they are often gay and hiding. These aren't guys who will fuck anything cuz they have an uncontrollable sex drive, they have their preference and they use women to hide behind. Alot of times they have a lot of women they may date but they aren't fucking them regularly which leads the woman to think her man is cheating on her with another chick when it's really a dude. I don't believe them to be more masculine than a straight men nor unfeminine like a drag queen. These are men who have become well adapted at fittin in to any situation which is why black women are at such high risks because they have no idea what they are getting and what goes on when their back is turned (no pun) . The gay guys in prison are definitely gay as they also tend to live a closet gay lifestyle on the streets. You can call them bisexual but if your preference is ass and dick and you have a woman who hardly get's it from you, then you are straight up gay. I hear ya about hypocrits and again this is society's fault because of racism/discrimination. They fear the black man whether he appears straight or gay and they have special contempt for him if he is indeed gay, unless society can make money off of him. I've been exposed to these men when I've volunteered at the aids clinic, even had them try and date me and have viewed documentaries and listened to discussions from women who have been HIV infected by their men - often times the moment they fuck without that condome they are infected and ole dude is gone! The thing is, gay in black america is not necessarily the same as gay in white america so there is this perception that the games the white gay guys are playing are the same as the black gay guys. You're dealing with different societal pressures, discrmination in both the white and black community, fear of getting medical treatment and top that with facing racism in everyday America. It aint as simple as trade.

wonder what happened to the discussion of Ray J and Young Buck.

DesireeNevermind said:

dumb bitch said she lied (like no, duh!)....nothing left to say

TonyVanDam said:

banks said:

Those are the type of queens that I would like to slap the hell out of because they are helping those men and boosting their ego by allowing them to think they are straight. Those same "straight men" getting their dicks sucked and fucking queens up the ass, are THE biggest gay bashers in the world. They think a gay man should be grateful that he let them suck his dick (which usually ain't all that to begin with). Many of them think that gay men owe them something. No honey, that's the other way around. We're the ones giving pleasure, not them.

It's that double standard that a straight person is above a gay person which is why those men don't even want to consider themselves as even a bisexual. But they do know in the back of their mind that they aren't straight. They brag about all their women with the other guys in public. Well, when they used to tell me they were straight, I used to ask them why they don't brag about all the men that have sucked their dick and see how many of those straight guys would think they are straight after hearing that. I saw one bastard I had been with in the mall one day from a distance. He was with some other thugs and when he saw me, you should have seen his ass trying to walk faster and turn the corner. He knew good and damn well I was going to bust his ass out. That don't seem like a "straight" man to me.

angel345 said:

Exactly. And not just for safety measures, but also, when one of them is busted out, so they can start calling these men fags, faggots, and every other homophobic name that these men call us. I remember there was this homophobic piece of trade that was trying to talk to one of my co-workers back in the 1990s. I set his ass up to be caught and exposed and she turned his advances down because of it but the crazy bitch was polite and didn't call him all those names. I cussed that crazy bitch out and asked her why was she didn't. She said it was out of respect for me. I said..."Hell, bitch, why the hell do you think I set his homophobic ass up to be caught to begin with? I wanted the fucker to get the same treatment that he dishes out!". That heffer just defeated the purpose of me busting him out.

And straight folks like to call us sweet. Hell naw. Sweet my ass. We're some mean bitches and have damn good reason to be.
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There was also this rapper Pimp-C who was outting closet queens in the rap business. Later on, they found him dead in a hotel of a overdose. Was he murdered? Who knows. Anything is possible.

There was also this rapper Pimp-C who was outting closet queens in the rap business. Later on, they found him dead in a hotel of a overdose. Was he murdered? Who knows. Anything is possible.

angel345 said:

Girl please. Pimp C died from an addiction to codeine cough syrup and sleep apnea.

angel345 said:

Girl please. Pimp C died from an addiction to codeine cough syrup and sleep apnea.

SCNDLS said:

I was about to say the samething ( minus the girl please)
plus he never named names.. he just said there is Homo's in Hip Hop

SCNDLS said:

I was about to say the samething ( minus the girl please)
plus he never named names.. he just said there is Homo's in Hip Hop

banks said:

I was trying to find this video on YouTube when he was giving a show, and he started talking about it, and dropped names. There's another clip on YouTube where they was talking about the music industry, and they suspected Pimp-C was murdered. Who knows

banks said:

I was trying to find this video on YouTube when he was giving a show, and he started talking about it, and dropped names. There's another clip on YouTube where they was talking about the music industry, and they suspected Pimp-C was murdered. Who knows

angel345 said:

The coroner knows. I read his autopsy report and it attributed his death to the codeine in combination with sleep apnea and asthma. I have sleep apnea and asthma and my doctors been telling me to be careful with cough syrup which I don't use. Pimp C was KNOWN to be on that syrup so ain't no conspiracy there.

http://www.latimes.com/ne...8941.story

Rap artist Pimp C, an influential hip-hop figure who had recorded an ode to getting high from cough medicine, died accidentally at a Sunset Strip hotel because of the combination of a medical condition and cough syrup, the Los Angeles County coroner said Monday.

But Butler had a history of sleep apnea, a condition that causes the sufferer to stop breathing for short periods during sleep. In tandem with that malady, the cough medication probably suppressed the artist's breathing long enough to bring on his death, Winter said.
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SCNDLS said:

How did you get access to his report?

angel345 said:

It was posted on the internet. I found it last year when we were talking about him in another thread.

SCNDLS said:

I noticed and it looks like you've edited before I asked the question. I'll leave the death conspiracy alone, but only if I can find that video of him outting gay rappers.

RnBAmbassador said:

Method Man ain't gay. He's got a wife that he loves.

Exactly. And not just for safety measures, but also, when one of them is busted out, so they can start calling these men fags, faggots, and every other homophobic name that these men call us. I remember there was this homophobic piece of trade that was trying to talk to one of my co-workers back in the 1990s. I set his ass up to be caught and exposed and she turned his advances down because of it but the crazy bitch was polite and didn't call him all those names. I cussed that crazy bitch out and asked her why was she didn't. She said it was out of respect for me. I said..."Hell, bitch, why the hell do you think I set his homophobic ass up to be caught to begin with? I wanted the fucker to get the same treatment that he dishes out!". That heffer just defeated the purpose of me busting him out.

And straight folks like to call us sweet. Hell naw. Sweet my ass. We're some mean bitches and have damn good reason to be.
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Sandino said:

Yeah, cuz no man has EVER married a woman to hide his love of the dick. You gon' have to come up with a better reason than that partna.

SCNDLS said:

Actually the burden of proof is on you since you are arguing that he is.What proof do you have btw? the fact that he's made records with redman and a couple tv shows?