Its REALITY,,,,,the result of people letting others think FOR THEMSELVES can be seen loud & clear everytime you turn on the news,
What with the who now? This entire thread is relevant how? If its not one thing, its the other with you, huh?
That's a question you should be asking yourself. Really? Hmmm
Hmm indeed. YET you huffed & puffed your way to punch holes in my case all this time? Girl, please
Don't confuse my amusement at your lack of basic critical thinking skills with being overly involved in making you look like a moron. You do that perfectly well on your own. [Edited 11/25/09 20:21pm] | |
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lazycrockett said: daPrettyman said: Well, almost everyone should know that Adam is gay. I don't think that Adam's sexuality or the kiss has that much to do with the uproar. I think the uproar stems from the fact that he was on network television (you know, the one that is on the FREE airwaves) simulating oral sex and s&m.
Adam could have easily done a SOLID performance that was groundbreaking and memorable for network television. I don't understand why his people didn't tell him that he couldn't do it there? If nothing else, Adam has definitely learned the difference between MTV and ABC/Disney. In defense, of ABC, they did wait until after 10pm EST to air it. That did give parents plenty enough time to put their kiddos to bed. That's where I think you miss the boat, the general public are 'supposedly' fine with a male homo, as long as hes a non threatening nuetered femmy comic relief type of man. What Adam did was do something sexual that was to the majority seen as active and dominant. That is rarely seen in this country. That's the problem. Exactly. Although I'd say it's rarely seen in ANY country, not just America. | |
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What with the who now?
This entire thread is relevant how? All derived from your It's all about who one CHOOSES to listen to comment. That's a question you should be asking yourself.
Why? You don't see me twisting your words to make a point. Don't confuse my amusement at your lack of basic critical thinking skills with being overly involved in making you look like a moron.
You do that perfectly well on your own. Oh, we're calling names now? Fabulous! Take my word for it, if there's anybody who appeared to be slow with a serious reading handicap on this side of equation, it was you. I couldn't be any CLEARER And whats really amusing is, all the mind games trickery you were pulling couldn't fog that,,,,,nice try though [Edited 11/26/09 3:31am] | |
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Why? You don't see me twisting your words to make a point.
Who's twisting words? Oh, we're calling names now? Fabulous!
Making salient observations & calling names? Two different things. Take my word for it, if there's anybody who appeared to be slow with a serious reading handicap on this side of equation, it was you. I couldn't be any CLEARER
...Right. Keep tellin yourself that sweet sugar dumpling. And whats really amusing is, all the mind games trickery you were pulling couldn't fog that,,,,,nice try though
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lastdecember said: You know i see that people are saying that Britney and Madonna didnt take the fallout that Lambert took, which is true, but neither came out, also neither is UGLY, thats a huge point, if these were two ugly females, that came out, and tongued each other down on stage, that shit would have the same backlash. 99% of the females that kiss are not even gay, its a fucking trend to get you on Girls Gone Wild DVD or YouTube.
Lets not forget that ELLEN did all this, and got blacklisted, lost her show, lost her endorsements, didnt get booked anywhere to even do standup, couldnt get any work, so please already with "poor adam" [Edited 11/25/09 18:06pm] But Ellen did get her own daytime show. For anything, "coming out" actually saved her career a lot more than ruining it. | |
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TonyVanDam said: lastdecember said: You know i see that people are saying that Britney and Madonna didnt take the fallout that Lambert took, which is true, but neither came out, also neither is UGLY, thats a huge point, if these were two ugly females, that came out, and tongued each other down on stage, that shit would have the same backlash. 99% of the females that kiss are not even gay, its a fucking trend to get you on Girls Gone Wild DVD or YouTube.
Lets not forget that ELLEN did all this, and got blacklisted, lost her show, lost her endorsements, didnt get booked anywhere to even do standup, couldnt get any work, so please already with "poor adam" [Edited 11/25/09 18:06pm] But Ellen did get her own daytime show. For anything, "coming out" actually saved her career a lot more than ruining it. Woo not at the beginning, after she came out her show was canceled her next show was axed. It took Ellen bout 5 to 7 years to recover and even now on her talk show she plays the lesbian shit way down. The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. | |
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lazycrockett said: TonyVanDam said: But Ellen did get her own daytime show. For anything, "coming out" actually saved her career a lot more than ruining it. Woo not at the beginning, after she came out her show was canceled her next show was axed. It took Ellen bout 5 to 7 years to recover and even now on her talk show she plays the lesbian shit way down. Fair enough. But Ellen looking straight at Christina's post-giving birth breasts isn't exactly playing the lesbian thing down. And also, Ellen did bring her wife Portia de Rossi on the show once before. | |
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Just a mimic | |
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Even Adam is like "what's the big deal?" He's moving on but I guess folks wanna make an example oh well. I really like Adam so no biggie. | |
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I really don't see what the big deal was over what he did, he was just being an artist. People forget what century we're living in. | |
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alphastreet said: I really don't see what the big deal was over what he did, he was just being an artist. People forget what century we're living in.
Try tell that to the Bible Belt region. | |
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TonyVanDam said: lazycrockett said: Woo not at the beginning, after she came out her show was canceled her next show was axed. It took Ellen bout 5 to 7 years to recover and even now on her talk show she plays the lesbian shit way down. Fair enough. But Ellen looking straight at Christina's post-giving birth breasts isn't exactly playing the lesbian thing down. And also, Ellen did bring her wife Portia de Rossi on the show once before. Yeah but Ellen lost her TV show which was a hit at the time for a "kiss", i mean can u imagine the craziness if Adam lost his "conctract" with his label? Ellen was more than blacklisted for her coming out, she also had VERY few in the industry that would back her, kind of like PRINCE when he wrote SLAVE on his face. "We went where our music was appreciated, and that was everywhere but the USA, we knew we had fans, but there is only so much of the world you can play at once" Magne F | |
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lastdecember said: TonyVanDam said: Fair enough. But Ellen looking straight at Christina's post-giving birth breasts isn't exactly playing the lesbian thing down. And also, Ellen did bring her wife Portia de Rossi on the show once before. Yeah but Ellen lost her TV show which was a hit at the time for a "kiss", i mean can u imagine the craziness if Adam lost his "conctract" with his label? Ellen was more than blacklisted for her coming out, she also had VERY few in the industry that would back her, kind of like PRINCE when he wrote SLAVE on his face. I disagree with this...Ellen lost her show because it returned to being the muddled mess it originally started off as. Don't forget that people tuned in to see what the show as all about and the ratings increased up to the big "reveal"...it wasn't until the writing started to suck that the ratings started it's inevitable nosedive. Heck, Roseanna added Sandra Bernhardt to it's cast and the ratings didn't nosedive...well, until, once again, the writing started to suck. Lambert isn't event giving himself the chance to grow into talent. He just jumped into the "stunt mode" without having well crafted art to hold him afloat...IMHO. Space for sale... | |
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sosgemini said: Lambert isn't event giving himself the chance to grow into talent. He just jumped into the "stunt mode" without having well crafted art to hold him afloat...IMHO. if Britney had started off with something like that, instead of the eventual build into a super skank she'd probly be perceived alot different right now. instead this turning into this 2012: The Queen Returns | |
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sosgemini said: lastdecember said: Yeah but Ellen lost her TV show which was a hit at the time for a "kiss", i mean can u imagine the craziness if Adam lost his "conctract" with his label? Ellen was more than blacklisted for her coming out, she also had VERY few in the industry that would back her, kind of like PRINCE when he wrote SLAVE on his face. I disagree with this...Ellen lost her show because it returned to being the muddled mess it originally started off as. Don't forget that people tuned in to see what the show as all about and the ratings increased up to the big "reveal"...it wasn't until the writing started to suck that the ratings started it's inevitable nosedive. Heck, Roseanna added Sandra Bernhardt to it's cast and the ratings didn't nosedive...well, until, once again, the writing started to suck. Lambert isn't event giving himself the chance to grow into talent. He just jumped into the "stunt mode" without having well crafted art to hold him afloat...IMHO. Adam knew EXACTLY what he was trying to do. He was looking to shock some people just so everyone can talk about him. These days, having great talent is no longer enough to reach mainstream success in pop culture. Just ask Lady GaGa what it was like to be know only for her talent on an underground level right BEFORE she had to take her image to new extremes to reach mainstream success. | |
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sosgemini said: lastdecember said: Yeah but Ellen lost her TV show which was a hit at the time for a "kiss", i mean can u imagine the craziness if Adam lost his "conctract" with his label? Ellen was more than blacklisted for her coming out, she also had VERY few in the industry that would back her, kind of like PRINCE when he wrote SLAVE on his face. I disagree with this...Ellen lost her show because it returned to being the muddled mess it originally started off as. Don't forget that people tuned in to see what the show as all about and the ratings increased up to the big "reveal"...it wasn't until the writing started to suck that the ratings started it's inevitable nosedive. Heck, Roseanna added Sandra Bernhardt to it's cast and the ratings didn't nosedive...well, until, once again, the writing started to suck. Lambert isn't event giving himself the chance to grow into talent. He just jumped into the "stunt mode" without having well crafted art to hold him afloat...IMHO. No i dont buy that excuse on the Ellen show, they got alot of negative feedback on the show, and even if the ratings were the issue, why was she "blacklisted" industry wide? The same thing is what they said about Bill Maher when he was on ABC and right after 9/11 he made a comment that was more or less "that the terrorists were not cowards that we were for lobbing in missiles from 2,000 miles away" he was agreeing with this statement which was true. ABC cancelled Politically Incorrect shortly after, it blamed it on ratings slipping, which when looked at was not the case, they caved to pressure to let him go for his views. As for Lambert growing into an artist, it cant happen, he was constructed by a show that pulls the strings, if he is still here after 5 albums and isnt doing things to just shock you to get notice, then maybe i can say he is showing signs of being an artist, but he is light years from that status. [Edited 11/26/09 20:49pm] "We went where our music was appreciated, and that was everywhere but the USA, we knew we had fans, but there is only so much of the world you can play at once" Magne F | |
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lastdecember said: As for Lambert growing into an artist, it cant happen, he was constructed by a show that pulls the strings, if he is still here after 5 albums and isnt doing things to just shock you to get notice, then maybe i can say he is showing signs of being an artist, but he is light years from that status. [Edited 11/26/09 20:49pm] I agree with you alot, but don't completely count him out, go ahead and laugh at me but Kelly has come quite a long way. 2012: The Queen Returns | |
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RKJCNE said: lastdecember said: As for Lambert growing into an artist, it cant happen, he was constructed by a show that pulls the strings, if he is still here after 5 albums and isnt doing things to just shock you to get notice, then maybe i can say he is showing signs of being an artist, but he is light years from that status. [Edited 11/26/09 20:49pm] I agree with you alot, but don't completely count him out, go ahead and laugh at me but Kelly has come quite a long way. Yeah i dont really like Kelly but i give her cred for standing up to her label at one point though she did back down later on. I think AI has brought forward some good talent at times, but, its when they turn them out into the industry that AI doesnt have the right vision. I think one of the best things to come from this show is Katharine Mcphee, amazing voice and great range. now since she was runner up she was under the AI contract so basically they molded the image, the sound the songs, though she did write a few. But they wanted her to be this sexy pop/rb singer, they felt they had her with her looks, plus she could sing, so they brought in the producers of the day, and it really did not work. But lucky for her people saw through it, and when she wasnt picked up by her label at the time BMG, she got picked up by VERVE and now is being touted by the likes of Andrea Boccelli to duet with. So who knows. But then again she didnt really pull any shocking performances at shows. "We went where our music was appreciated, and that was everywhere but the USA, we knew we had fans, but there is only so much of the world you can play at once" Magne F | |
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lastdecember said: RKJCNE said: I agree with you alot, but don't completely count him out, go ahead and laugh at me but Kelly has come quite a long way. Yeah i dont really like Kelly but i give her cred for standing up to her label at one point though she did back down later on. I think AI has brought forward some good talent at times, but, its when they turn them out into the industry that AI doesnt have the right vision. I think one of the best things to come from this show is Katharine Mcphee, amazing voice and great range. now since she was runner up she was under the AI contract so basically they molded the image, the sound the songs, though she did write a few. But they wanted her to be this sexy pop/rb singer, they felt they had her with her looks, plus she could sing, so they brought in the producers of the day, and it really did not work. But lucky for her people saw through it, and when she wasnt picked up by her label at the time BMG, she got picked up by VERVE and now is being touted by the likes of Andrea Boccelli to duet with. So who knows. But then again she didnt really pull any shocking performances at shows. Very true, AI doesn't seem to know what to do with their winners at all, Reuban, Fantasia, etc. even Jordin Spark's career is headed no where. Its only the ones that branch out like Carrie going into country or Kelly going her own direction after that dreadful debut. The only reason I think Adam has a better shot at be successful is he sort of seems like a loose canon unlike Kris who I doubt is headed anywhere. 2012: The Queen Returns | |
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musicjunky318 said: Well if girlfriend isn't out yet, she sure will be soon. The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. | |
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We're putting this much thought into this dude? "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." | |
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bboy87 said: We're putting this much thought into this dude?
what,would you rather have the umpteenth thread on mj,madonna or janet? Space for sale... | |
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I think it was purely a stunt. Whether it succeeds in getting Lambert categorized more concretely as a "gay artist" as opposed to a music artist or AI artist will become clearer with time.
I say this because it's been touched upon with insufficient context (IMO): Homosexuality is most commonly viewed negatively by blacks because of our deep associations with the church, 'tis true. But the context is deeper than that. In the lynchings of black men that were so prevalent, it was a common practice to castrate them. It would be incomplete to assert that the obsession with black heterosexuality was exclusive to blacks, when clearly the sexual identity of black males weighed on the minds of white America to some extent. As a result of that violent, oppressive climate, one reaction by blacks was to focus on concepts of strength, survival and perpetuity. On two levels, learning that your son or nephew was gay, within that context, was seen as a negative (in addition to longtime biblical teachings on the subject). To simply say blacks are intolerant of homosexuality -- without at least acknowledging historic factors that have influenced intolerance (which is not to defend that or any other intolerance) -- perpetuates the vacuous implication that blacks are somehow inherently or irrationally homophobic. | |
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Homosexuality is most commonly viewed negatively by blacks because of our deep associations with the church,
No. It's not. To simply say blacks are intolerant of homosexuality -- without at least acknowledging historic factors that have influenced intolerance (which is not to defend that or any other intolerance) -- perpetuates the vacuous implication that blacks are somehow inherently or irrationally homophobic.
And again. Black People are no more homophobic than any other race of people. | |
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sassy33 said: Homosexuality is most commonly viewed negatively by blacks because of our deep associations with the church,
No. It's not. To simply say blacks are intolerant of homosexuality -- without at least acknowledging historic factors that have influenced intolerance (which is not to defend that or any other intolerance) -- perpetuates the vacuous implication that blacks are somehow inherently or irrationally homophobic.
And again. Black People are no more homophobic than any other race of people. I've said this many times over, here on the Org. If my post implies otherwise, it's my error. I was sure my last sentence made that clear. My aim was to explain the broader context of what intolerance there has been and remains. | |
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lastdecember said: sosgemini said: I disagree with this...Ellen lost her show because it returned to being the muddled mess it originally started off as. Don't forget that people tuned in to see what the show as all about and the ratings increased up to the big "reveal"...it wasn't until the writing started to suck that the ratings started it's inevitable nosedive. Heck, Roseanna added Sandra Bernhardt to it's cast and the ratings didn't nosedive...well, until, once again, the writing started to suck. Lambert isn't event giving himself the chance to grow into talent. He just jumped into the "stunt mode" without having well crafted art to hold him afloat...IMHO. No i dont buy that excuse on the Ellen show, they got alot of negative feedback on the show, and even if the ratings were the issue, why was she "blacklisted" industry wide? The same thing is what they said about Bill Maher when he was on ABC and right after 9/11 he made a comment that was more or less "that the terrorists were not cowards that we were for lobbing in missiles from 2,000 miles away" he was agreeing with this statement which was true. ABC cancelled Politically Incorrect shortly after, it blamed it on ratings slipping, which when looked at was not the case, they caved to pressure to let him go for his views. Did Ellen herself say she was blacklisted? How can one be blacklisted and get another sitcom a few years later? And then a hit talk show...doesn't add up in my book. I will concede your point on Maher but the circumstances between the two situations are totally different. The aftermath of 9/11, handled by the Bush Admin, was a truly horrible time for the US. Space for sale... | |
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My aim was to explain the broader context of what intolerance there has been and remains.
Gotcha. What you were discussing was racism & perceptions of Black masculinity. What needs to be stressed still though is that regardless of effects of racism on Black masculinity, homophobia (unfortunately) is universal. | |
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sosgemini said: bboy87 said: We're putting this much thought into this dude?
what,would you rather have the umpteenth thread on mj,madonna or janet? yeah! "We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world." | |
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Timmy84 said: Even Adam is like "what's the big deal?" He's moving on but I guess folks wanna make an example oh well. I really like Adam so no biggie. | |
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