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Reply #90 posted 11/20/09 11:24pm

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johnart said:

PurpleGstring said:

That is ridiculous to call God a lie! If God wanted
her to be a man she would have been born one. I feel
so sorry for Cher.


So if a baby is born with a fixable defect we shouldn't bother right?
I mean, if god wanted them born well, he would have made them that way.shrug

That's not comparable to Cher's daughter. She wasn't born with a physical injury, abnormal growth, or harmful chromosomal mutation that requires her to now attempt to become a man. She's also not hermaphroditic. Like Chaz said, her conception of gender/sexuality is supposedly mental since its "between the ears, not between the legs," therefore these procedures are not even necessary, and they actually contradict Chaz's own opinion. And if Chaz is implying with that statement that her issue is a neurological condition, then literally trying to build a male body is still not required.
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Reply #91 posted 11/20/09 11:33pm

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please see the thread on Transgender Day of Remembrance
http://prince.org/msg/100/324328
[Edited 11/20/09 23:33pm]
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Reply #92 posted 11/20/09 11:45pm

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Timmy84 said:

Vendetta1 said:

Religion should have never entered this conversation in the first place.


Exactly!

I agree.
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Reply #93 posted 11/21/09 2:30am

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PurpleGstring said:

That is ridiculous to call God a lie! If God wanted
her to be a man she would have been born one. I feel
so sorry for Cher.

And I feel sorry for you for being so ignorant.

Educate yourself on the subject before you go spouting stupidity on the internet, and have some respect. This goes for everyone on here insisting Chaz's decision is wrong or offensive or sick, and those who insist on calling him "she".
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Reply #94 posted 11/21/09 2:34am

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Vendetta1 said:

I will NEVER understand how Prince fans have a problem with the LBGT family, period.

bow You and me, both.

For that matter, I don't understand how Prince himself can be such a dickhead when it comes to queer people, all things considered. IMO Our Lady likely has some denial issues going on.
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Reply #95 posted 11/21/09 2:36am

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vainandy said:



I don't think God makes mistakes either. I think he does everything he does for a reason. Since we don't choose to be gay, I think he makes people gay for a reason and only he knows that reason, not us. But changing your sex goes completely against what you were born as. And not only that, I think it's more a matter of a confused gay person trying to turn themselves into something that they consider as acceptable to society such as the opposite sex. Since they are attracted to the same sex, it would certainly look more "normal" to straight society to see a male and a female together rather than to see two males or two females. Changing into the other sex probably makes them think they fit into the so-called "normal" world. It's gay self hate is what it is.

Your theory is cute, but it doesn't work. There's evidence of trans folk living in every single society there's ever been, including the ones that accepted same sex desires as normal.
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Reply #96 posted 11/21/09 2:41am

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mynameisnotsusan said:

ehuffnsd said:


wow andy you really need to talk to some transgendered people.


Yeah, a surprising attack.

I think it's quite simple. A transgendered person wants to be their true self. If 'god' has placed same-sex attraction into a body, why couldn't 'god' place female gender into a body with male sex or vice versa?

There's evidence that structurally and chemically, trans people are actually born with the brain of the gender they feel they should be and not the one that matches their external body. So a biological male has something closer to a "woman" brain, and a biological female has something closer to a "man" brain even before they seriously consider transitioning, let alone beginning treatments.
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Reply #97 posted 11/21/09 2:43am

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ehuffnsd said:

please see the thread on Transgender Day of Remembrance
http://prince.org/msg/100/324328
[Edited 11/20/09 23:33pm]

Stupid people are determined to remain stupid.

Thanks for the link though. thumbs up!
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Reply #98 posted 11/21/09 2:46am

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Good for him.


Chaz, if you're ever in the area, let's go for a coffee. call
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Reply #99 posted 11/21/09 5:51am

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The interesting part is that majority of biological scientists who hate the notion of God (like some of you) and are atheistic would refer to Chaz with "she" and "her" also, since they would not disregard the fact that Chaz had female-specific hormone levels and development (breasts, menstrual cycle, etc) before this procedure. Sure, Chaz is attracted to women, and certain portions of Chaz's brain may have developed to express a masculine mentality or psyche causing Chaz to feel like a man. But unless Chaz was born with a genetic abnormality like Swyer syndrome (a female body with male sex-chromosomes), the average scientist would not recognize Chaz as actually being a male human if Chaz was born with normal female XX sex-chromosomes. So are these particular scientists (who would base these facts on non-Biblical, scientifically proven evidence) negatively judging Cher's child as well?
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Reply #100 posted 11/21/09 6:50am

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meow85 said:

PurpleGstring said:

That is ridiculous to call God a lie! If God wanted
her to be a man she would have been born one. I feel
so sorry for Cher.

And I feel sorry for you for being so ignorant.

Educate yourself on the subject before you go spouting stupidity on the internet, and have some respect. This goes for everyone on here insisting Chaz's decision is wrong or offensive or sick, and those who insist on calling him "she".
[Edited 11/21/09 2:45am]

I am not being ignorant for my opinion. If gender was between
your eyes, why is Chaz getting a dick implanted between her legs???
The whole idea is SICK! She is calling God a lie to change what she
was born with. For the record she will always be a WOMAN. Go ahead be
a lesbian but to alter your woman hood is ridiculous. What now she's
gonna be scratching and trying out her new set of balls and her new pool stick?

The issue she needs to be worried about is her weight and health right now. If Cher is okay with it, then it's only because she doesn't have a choice. Behind closed doors I would cry bloody tears! cool
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None of them got what it takes
2 B a future baby mama
Gotta bend in the wind, but don't break
2 keep your man
Show me 1 of them and I'll make her mine
With no more drama
Future baby mama
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Reply #101 posted 11/21/09 7:05am

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Chaz reminds me of John Candy now. Anyhow, glad he is feeling good now.

Exactly my point her weight is the last thing on her mind!
It shouldn't be that way. disbelief
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None of them got what it takes
2 B a future baby mama
Gotta bend in the wind, but don't break
2 keep your man
Show me 1 of them and I'll make her mine
With no more drama
Future baby mama
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Reply #102 posted 11/21/09 7:33am

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WaterInYourBath said:

johnart said:



So if a baby is born with a fixable defect we shouldn't bother right?
I mean, if god wanted them born well, he would have made them that way.shrug

That's not comparable to Cher's daughter. She wasn't born with a physical injury, abnormal growth, or harmful chromosomal mutation that requires her to now attempt to become a man. She's also not hermaphroditic. Like Chaz said, her conception of gender/sexuality is supposedly mental since its "between the ears, not between the legs," therefore these procedures are not even necessary, and they actually contradict Chaz's own opinion. And if Chaz is implying with that statement that her issue is a neurological condition, then literally trying to build a male body is still not required.


Are you kidding me with this? It is totally comparable if the basis of ignorant rants is what God/god did or not intend.
So you're just dismissing psychiatry and psychology as not legitimate medically?? Or just the mental disorders you don't personally understand or accept? Sorry that some disorders are do not express themselves physically enough for your liking/acceptance.
But fine, let's go that route. We shouldn't really treat folk with mental disorders either since in bible reality they are probably just POSSESSED by demons....wooooo spooooky!!!rolleyes
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Reply #103 posted 11/21/09 7:56am

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PurpleGstring said:

meow85 said:


And I feel sorry for you for being so ignorant.

Educate yourself on the subject before you go spouting stupidity on the internet, and have some respect. This goes for everyone on here insisting Chaz's decision is wrong or offensive or sick, and those who insist on calling him "she".
[Edited 11/21/09 2:45am]

I am not being ignorant for my opinion. If gender was between
your eyes, why is Chaz getting a dick implanted between her legs???
The whole idea is SICK! She is calling God a lie to change what she
was born with. For the record she will always be a WOMAN. Go ahead be
a lesbian but to alter your woman hood is ridiculous. What now she's
gonna be scratching and trying out her new set of balls and her new pool stick?

The issue she needs to be worried about is her weight and health right now. If Cher is okay with it, then it's only because she doesn't have a choice. Behind closed doors I would cry bloody tears! cool


You're not being ignorant for having an opinion.
You're being ignorant in the sad and insensitive way you express it.
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Reply #104 posted 11/21/09 8:15am

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johnart said:

PurpleGstring said:


I am not being ignorant for my opinion. If gender was between
your eyes, why is Chaz getting a dick implanted between her legs???
The whole idea is SICK! She is calling God a lie to change what she
was born with. For the record she will always be a WOMAN. Go ahead be
a lesbian but to alter your woman hood is ridiculous. What now she's
gonna be scratching and trying out her new set of balls and her new pool stick?

The issue she needs to be worried about is her weight and health right now. If Cher is okay with it, then it's only because she doesn't have a choice. Behind closed doors I would cry bloody tears! cool


You're not being ignorant for having an opinion.
You're being ignorant in the sad and insensitive way you express it.
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I wonder if any of these people feel the same way about people who do anything to themselves physically from wearing makeup to have a nose or boob job. I don't seem to remember them posting to any of those types of threads.
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Reply #105 posted 11/21/09 8:16am

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And it's beyond hilarious to me the purplegstring has Apples in his/her profile. falloff
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Reply #106 posted 11/21/09 10:00am

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PurpleGstring said:

xlr8r said:

Chaz reminds me of John Candy now. Anyhow, glad he is feeling good now.

Exactly my point her weight is the last thing on her mind!
It shouldn't be that way. disbelief



Huh?

Im not even talking about the weight. Im talking about in the face, he resembles John Candy. Eyebrows and expressions.

And I know this type of thing rocks your beliefs regarding god/religion but just as several things rocks other peoples thinking enough for their deterination that there is no god etc.

Why not be respectful of an individual regardless and if you so believe in god, let someones life decisions be between them.

Its that defiant fervent attitude/opinion you are expressing that has caused the death of millions of people since the dawn of time.
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Reply #107 posted 11/21/09 10:29am

Vendetta1

xlr8r said:

PurpleGstring said:


Exactly my point her weight is the last thing on her mind!
It shouldn't be that way. disbelief



Huh?

Im not even talking about the weight. Im talking about in the face, he resembles John Candy. Eyebrows and expressions.

And I know this type of thing rocks your beliefs regarding god/religion but just as several things rocks other peoples thinking enough for their deterination that there is no god etc.

Why not be respectful of an individual regardless and if you so believe in god, let someones life decisions be between them.

Its that defiant fervent attitude/opinion you are expressing that has caused the death of millions of people since the dawn of time.
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Reply #108 posted 11/21/09 10:33am

LightOfArt

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Chic35 said:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091119/ap_on_en_tv/us_people_chaz_bono

He tells ABC: "To me, gender is between your ears, not between your legs. I've felt male as far back as I can remember."



If gender is between your ears, then why is she having her tits cut off and having male horomone treatments? I think she's just conforming to society's definition of a "man." Since she feels like a dude on the inside, she can't have tits on the outside. But who says? Why can't someone be masculine and have female parts?

It's an interesting discussion. I am gay and loved playing with my sister's dolls when I was a kid, but I never felt like a girl on the inside. I felt like me. I was a boy who liked dolls. It's not that deep.

As long as she is happy she should do whatever she chooses to do.


Gender IS between your ears. What's between your legs is sex. Two different concepts, one is biological the other is a social construction
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Reply #109 posted 11/21/09 10:48am

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Gender IS between your ears. What's between your legs is sex. Two different concepts, one is biological the other is a social construction
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ok just a revision, sex is not between your legs neither. a lot of people agree that your sex is defined by your chromosomal make up. so altering one's genitalia still won't change one's sex. and i guess that's why it's called a gender reassignment surgery and not a sex reassignment surgery...

i can't even begin to imagine what trans people go through in this life...my deepest sympathies heart
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Reply #110 posted 11/21/09 11:34am

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This has nothing to do with some god or anything along those lines, I don't understand why it was even brought up in this thread. There are many factors that contribute to transgenders making the ultimate change in life. These factors range from biological factors such as genetic influences (DNA), prenatal hormone levels, early experiences in family of origin and of course social influences. All of these contribute to the development of transgender behaviours and identities.
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Reply #111 posted 11/21/09 11:40am

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And it's beyond hilarious to me the purplegstring has Apples in his/her profile. falloff


God must have wanted Apples tits that big. Maybe she got a Divine Permission Slip or something. shrug
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Reply #112 posted 11/21/09 12:12pm

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johnart said:

Vendetta1 said:

And it's beyond hilarious to me the purplegstring has Apples in his/her profile. falloff


God must have wanted Apples tits that big. Maybe she got a Divine Permission Slip or something. shrug

Don't be talkin' about Apples' titties! mad
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Reply #113 posted 11/21/09 12:15pm

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johnart said:

Vendetta1 said:

And it's beyond hilarious to me the purplegstring has Apples in his/her profile. falloff


God must have wanted Apples tits that big. Maybe she got a Divine Permission Slip or something. shrug
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Reply #114 posted 11/21/09 12:16pm

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bboy87 said:

johnart said:



God must have wanted Apples tits that big. Maybe she got a Divine Permission Slip or something. shrug

Don't be talkin' about Apples' titties! mad
I love tits.

I rather talk about the hatchet job she did to her face.
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Reply #115 posted 11/21/09 12:22pm

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johnart said:

WaterInYourBath said:


That's not comparable to Cher's daughter. She wasn't born with a physical injury, abnormal growth, or harmful chromosomal mutation that requires her to now attempt to become a man. She's also not hermaphroditic. Like Chaz said, her conception of gender/sexuality is supposedly mental since its "between the ears, not between the legs," therefore these procedures are not even necessary, and they actually contradict Chaz's own opinion. And if Chaz is implying with that statement that her issue is a neurological condition, then literally trying to build a male body is still not required.


Are you kidding me with this? It is totally comparable if the basis of ignorant rants is what God/god did or not intend.
So you're just dismissing psychiatry and psychology as not legitimate medically?? Or just the mental disorders you don't personally understand or accept? Sorry that some disorders are do not express themselves physically enough for your liking/acceptance.
But fine, let's go that route. We shouldn't really treat folk with mental disorders either since in bible reality they are probably just POSSESSED by demons....wooooo spooooky!!!rolleyes
[Edited 11/21/09 7:35am]


The first thing that came to my mind when reading that post was bi-polar people. nod
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Reply #116 posted 11/21/09 12:38pm

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johnart said:

WaterInYourBath said:


That's not comparable to Cher's daughter. She wasn't born with a physical injury, abnormal growth, or harmful chromosomal mutation that requires her to now attempt to become a man. She's also not hermaphroditic. Like Chaz said, her conception of gender/sexuality is supposedly mental since its "between the ears, not between the legs," therefore these procedures are not even necessary, and they actually contradict Chaz's own opinion. And if Chaz is implying with that statement that her issue is a neurological condition, then literally trying to build a male body is still not required.


Are you kidding me with this? It is totally comparable if the basis of ignorant rants is what God/god did or not intend.
So you're just dismissing psychiatry and psychology as not legitimate medically?? Or just the mental disorders you don't personally understand or accept? Sorry that some disorders are do not express themselves physically enough for your liking/acceptance.
But fine, let's go that route. We shouldn't really treat folk with mental disorders either since in bible reality they are probably just POSSESSED by demons....wooooo spooooky!!!rolleyes
[Edited 11/21/09 7:35am]

You're right about how doctors would treat Chaz if this were a mental problem, especially since the desire to become transgender is listed as a disorder in the DSM-IV. I do recognize the fact that Chaz's feelings could be biopsychological, but that still does not require this type of reproductive alteration. If it could be determined by medical testing that there is some sort of abnormal activity in Chaz's brain affecting Chaz's mental conception of self-gender, it could be recommended for Chaz to be treated at the source of the issue (neurologically), to somehow suppress or alter whatever neurotransmitters are causing Chaz to think and feel like a man. However, if this isn't a neuropsychological condition, but rather caused by Chaz's social experiences/environment, then there would not be a "defect" at all, but rather a learned mentality that could still be treated with psychiatry. And this is based on medical science, not anyone's spiritual beliefs.
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Reply #117 posted 11/21/09 1:04pm

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WaterInYourBath said:

johnart said:



Are you kidding me with this? It is totally comparable if the basis of ignorant rants is what God/god did or not intend.
So you're just dismissing psychiatry and psychology as not legitimate medically?? Or just the mental disorders you don't personally understand or accept? Sorry that some disorders are do not express themselves physically enough for your liking/acceptance.
But fine, let's go that route. We shouldn't really treat folk with mental disorders either since in bible reality they are probably just POSSESSED by demons....wooooo spooooky!!!rolleyes
[Edited 11/21/09 7:35am]

You're right about how doctors would treat Chaz if this were a mental problem, especially since the desire to become transgender is listed as a disorder in the DSM-IV. I do recognize the fact that Chaz's feelings could be biopsychological, but that still does not require this type of reproductive alteration. If it could be determined by medical testing that there is some sort of abnormal activity in Chaz's brain affecting Chaz's mental conception of self-gender, it could be recommended for Chaz to be treated at the source of the issue (neurologically), to somehow suppress or alter whatever neurotransmitters are causing Chaz to think and feel like a man. However, if this isn't a neuropsychological condition, but rather caused by Chaz's social experiences/environment, then there would not be a "defect" at all, but rather a learned mentality that could still be treated with psychiatry. And this is based on medical science, not anyone's spiritual beliefs.


That sounds a lot like what some people think should be done to all gays.
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Reply #118 posted 11/21/09 1:14pm

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sextonseven said:

WaterInYourBath said:


You're right about how doctors would treat Chaz if this were a mental problem, especially since the desire to become transgender is listed as a disorder in the DSM-IV. I do recognize the fact that Chaz's feelings could be biopsychological, but that still does not require this type of reproductive alteration. If it could be determined by medical testing that there is some sort of abnormal activity in Chaz's brain affecting Chaz's mental conception of self-gender, it could be recommended for Chaz to be treated at the source of the issue (neurologically), to somehow suppress or alter whatever neurotransmitters are causing Chaz to think and feel like a man. However, if this isn't a neuropsychological condition, but rather caused by Chaz's social experiences/environment, then there would not be a "defect" at all, but rather a learned mentality that could still be treated with psychiatry. And this is based on medical science, not anyone's spiritual beliefs.


That sounds a lot like what some people think should be done to all gays.

That's not what I was referring to. There are plenty of homosexual women who feel that they are and should be females (mentally and physically), so this science would not apply to them. The medical issue in this case is Chaz perceiving her/himself as being a male in a normal female body, not Chaz's attraction to women.
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Reply #119 posted 11/21/09 7:01pm

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I really don't get the great opposition to gender re-assignment. Even if you want to back it up with some other science.
It's not like this is something that has just "come up" and is in vogue or trend.It's not like it's not based on decades of research and studies. It's not like folk just request a reassignment and get scheduled for one next month.

This is not something that affects anyone but the person undergoing the procedure and their immediate family. Why does it bother anyone? confused
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