midiscover said:

She is not a homewrecker. There is no such thing. I always blame the person who is in a relationship/marriage. If there is a homewrecker it's swizz or whatever his name is

bboy87 said:

Right.

http://prince.org/msg/8/319976

I just can't get over that Alicia likes men.

Adisa said:

Oh well, what goes around comes around.

This post from Countthedays on the previous thread you provided had me rolling..

Oh please, i can't believe folks are saying that Swizz beats is the only one to blame in this mess. Last I checked it takes two to fuck, two to fall in love, and two to fuck up a marriage. She's to blame too. But I could care less, as long as she isn't fucking my man, my only concern is that she stop making them boring ass records that put me to sleep.
[Edited 11/2/09 4:39am]

missfee said:

missfee said:

Somebody put thi in there sig, PLEASE!

LightOfArt said:

I agree with this point of view. If I left my husband tomorrow for someone else, I choose to leave. "You took my lady." No, he didn't, he didn't take jack, I left you.


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[Edited 11/1/09 20:45pm]

TD3 said:

I thought you were male. But I'm sorry to heare you've got troubles with your husband anyway.

graecophilos said:

Nah were are ok, I was using me/us as an example. Nope, I'm not a guy I'm a

LightOfArt said:

They are both responsible.
He wrecked his home and she helped him wreck it.
He didn't put a gun to her head and said "U better hook up with me even though I got a wife and baby and it'll wreck my household".
One instigated...the other participated...
They're both homewreckers.

graecophilos said:

She shouldn't have been messing with a married man!

daPrettyman said:

Who's this guy she's sleeping with. Is he well known? Is it common knowledge he's married?

Anyway, whenever a married person starts a love affair with someone else (not just a one night stand, a love affair over the course of months) the marriage is unhappy anyway.

graecophilos said:

yes he is

JayJai said:

It's not Alicia's responsibility. Alicia does not need to think about swizz's wife. It's the man's responsibilty, he is the one who cheated on and betrayed his wife. Who did Alicia betray, she is not the one who said the wovs.

And I'm not an AK fan. It's just I hate that shit when they blame the other person who has no responsibilty what so ever.

graecophilos said:

His name is Swiss Beats. He has written and produced lots of hits for people like Beyonce, Alicia, Eve and a few others.

LightOfArt said:

It seems like the tie-up here is the word "responsible".
I made sure I looked it up so I wasn't using the wrong term and here are some definitions:
1. Liable to be required to give account, as of one's actions or of the discharge of a duty or trust.
2. Involving personal accountability or ability to act without guidance or superior authority: a responsible position within the firm.
3. Being a source or cause.
4. Able to make moral or rational decisions on one's own and therefore answerable for one's behavior.
5. Able to be trusted or depended upon; reliable.
6. Based on or characterized by good judgment or sound thinking: responsible journalism.
7. Having the means to pay debts or fulfill obligations.
8. Required to render account; answerable: The cabinet is responsible to the parliament.

Although Swizz might've messed things up even without Ms. Keys, he is solely responsible,
but since the subject is whether Ms. Keys is responsible or not for her part in the affair which led to the way things are now,
I say she is.

JayJai said:

Ok you're getting all oxford dictionary here. I stand by what I said, it's the guy's job to think about his wife/home/kids

Swizz is a ugly motherfucka She can do better.

Well, I'm under the "Swizz Beats is the one who stood before God and whoever else and promised to love, honor and cherish his wife, Alicia didn't" umbrella. His marriage was his responsibility to take care of, it doesn't matter to me how much ass was thrown his way nor who was throwing it.

My only thoughts about Alicia, in regards to this is...she'd be wise to tread slowly and carefully because if he cheated on his wife with her, chances are better than most that he'll cheat on her with someone else.

Alicia doing her thang what can i say
[Edited 11/3/09 1:23am]

missfee said:

missfee said:

Yeeeesssuh!

LightOfArt said:

It's disrepsectful...period!

Alicia and LeAnn Rimes should hang out since they both seem to like to go after married men with kids. I could care less about the wives of these guys because if they were smart, they'd be living the Ivana Trump slogan right about now: 'Don't get mad, get everything' . I care about the kids who have to witness their asshole fathers be less than men by cheating on mommy with women who obviously have little to no real self-esteem or respect for the bonds of marriage and family, but hey, nobody really thinks about the kids now do they? Let Alicia and LeAnn have the cheaters because they are really just selling themselves short anyway because once a cheater always a cheater and neither of these dudes is worth the skin that they are printed on and the space they are taking up after everything's all said and done. Why females insist on going after and fighting over worthless men I'll never understand, but again I have a IQ higher than my shoe size so I guess that's why I don't really get it.

nurseV said:

Both of them are to blame I believe.

I must admit, they look like a happy couple, but it is always wrong when someone comes between two people. Would've been nice if Mashonda and Swizz were officially broken up before Alicia entered the picture. Unfortunately, the world and the people in it are not perfect. But damn, Alicia, I'm shocked! lol That she just does not have any care in the world.

The blame goes on both of them equally. Swizz knew what he was getting himself into, and Alicia knew he was married.