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Reply #90 posted 09/25/09 10:56pm

kibbles

aarontj said:

mimi07 said:

this is terrible, a father having sex and doing drugs with his daughter. damn

i could never talk about this if i were her, it's shameful


So suddenly Micahel Jackson fans don't need a court room to belive when someone rape a child, big contradiction mimi07

Where is the evidence?


i would like to believe that no one would make up a story like this, but as i saw 5 years ago with mj, yeah, people can make shit up out of the blue for money.

we have a dead man who can't defend himself, a woman who has a checkered past and a motive for lying (money, fame), and who apparently told different things to different people, and later retracted.

it's a blanket allegation with only one detailed story about her being raped before her wedding day. where was said groom? where was he during this whole alleged incident and subsquently over 10 years? the devil is always in the details. once the arvisos were pressed and cross-examined by meseareau, their heinous lies about mj were exposed.

yes, it could have happened. but i'm not quite ready to join the lynch mob without a little more information.
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Reply #91 posted 09/25/09 11:00pm

kibbles

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Mackenzie Phillips: I slept with my father


The bombshell that Mackenzie Phillips will drop on Oprah today? She slept with her father.

In her tell-all book, out today, the actress says that her dad, musician John Phillips of the '60s band the Mamas and the Papas, engaged with her in a long-term incestuous relationship.

http://blogs.usatoday.com...rtainment/



She said she got drunk the night before her wedding and fucked her father. From what I gathered, it was a mistake. Knowing how fucked up on drugs that household was I can see the mistake being made. Where did you get this "long term incestuous relationship" quote from? eek



she has said that after that night, over a ten year period, she and her father began a consensual incestuous relationship that only truly ended when she became pregnant and didn't know whether the baby was her husband's or her father's.

to paraphrase her, someone has to put a face on consensual incest, which is more common than we know. (i don't know about that. incest, maybe, consensual, hell no!)
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Reply #92 posted 09/25/09 11:01pm

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10 years is a looooong time eeeep
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Reply #93 posted 09/26/09 12:56am

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dseann said:




She said she got drunk the night before her wedding and fucked her father. From what I gathered, it was a mistake. Knowing how fucked up on drugs that household was I can see the mistake being made. Where did you get this "long term incestuous relationship" quote from? eek



she has said that after that night, over a ten year period, she and her father began a consensual incestuous relationship that only truly ended when she became pregnant and didn't know whether the baby was her husband's or her father's.

to paraphrase her, someone has to put a face on consensual incest, which is more common than we know. (i don't know about that. incest, maybe, consensual, hell no!)


Come on now. Even Prince sang about consensual incest. lol
But on a serious note, I thought consensual incest was something only read about in cheap paperback porn novels. If it's more common than we know, 'tis a very sick world we live in. sad
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Reply #94 posted 09/26/09 1:24am

Ottensen

dseann said:

Graycap23 said:

Mackenzie Phillips: I slept with my father


The bombshell that Mackenzie Phillips will drop on Oprah today? She slept with her father.

In her tell-all book, out today, the actress says that her dad, musician John Phillips of the '60s band the Mamas and the Papas, engaged with her in a long-term incestuous relationship.

http://blogs.usatoday.com...rtainment/



She said she got drunk the night before her wedding and fucked her father. From what I gathered, it was a mistake. Knowing how fucked up on drugs that household was I can see the mistake being made. Where did you get this "long term incestuous relationship" quote from? eek


From her television interviews and the quotes from her book. The incest has already been backed up with public statements from her half-sister, Chynna.
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Reply #95 posted 09/26/09 7:58am

Ottensen

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Copycat said:





Chynna and Michelle Phillips React To Mackenzie Phillips Incest Bombshell

September 2009




Former child star Mackenzie Phillips said Wednesday that she maintained a sexual relationship with her father, John Phillips of acclaimed '60s vocal group The Mamas and the Papas, for more than a decade. According to a report in People magazine, Phillips, now 49, was 19 years old when she was raped by her father on the night before her wedding.

"I woke up that night from a blackout to find myself having sex with my own father," she writes in her memoir, "High On Arrival," which was released today.

In an interview that aired on the Oprah Winfrey Show Wednesday, Philips said the relationship became "consensual" and lasted for nearly a decade, until she became pregnant. Philips also told Winfrey that her father, who died in 2001, introduced her to drugs at the age of 11, teaching her how to roll joints and injecting her with cocaine. She has since been in and out of rehab, and was arrested for drug possession in 2008.

Phillips' family -- which includes former stepmother and Mamas and Papas member Michelle Phillips and half-sister Chynna Phillips of the 1990's trio Wilson Phillips -- had mixed reactions to the accusations.

In a conversation with Hollywood Reporter columnist Roger Friedman, Michelle Phillips said, "John was a bad parent, and a drug addict. But [expletive deleted] his daughter? If she thinks it's true, why isn't she with a good psychiatrist on a couch? I think it's unconscionable that Oprah would let her do her show. I have every reason to believe it's untrue. Oprah should be more judicious about who she has on her show."

On the broadcast, Winfrey read a statement from Genevieve Waite, John Phillips' wife at the time of the alleged abuse and Mackenzie's stepmother that said he was "incapable, no matter how drunk or drugged he was, of having such a relationship with his own child."

But Chynna supports her half-sister's version of events, and even claims to have known about the abuse since 1997 after a shocking phone call from Mackenzie.

"She said, 'I don't know why, but I just really felt the need to call you and tell you something that I think you need to know,'" Chynna told Us Weekly. "And she went on to tell me that she had had an incestuous relationship with our dad for about 10 years.

"Somebody could have dropped a piano on my head and I probably wouldn't have felt it," she continued. "But I knew it was true. I mean, who in their right mind would make such a claim if it wasn't true?"

Michelle and John Phillips were half of the Mamas and the Papas, along with Cass Elliott and Denny Doherty. The group's songs included hits like "Calfornia Dreamin'," "Monday Monday," and "I Saw Her Again Last Night." Mackenzie was born before the group formed in 1965.






http://www.billboard.com/...5474.story


I can understand both stepmothers claiming the story is false because think about it, if they were to believe that this really happened then imagine the guilt they would feel for not knowing and putting a stop to it. Very sad.


On the other side, Michelle does have the reputation as being tough as nails when it comes to the Mamas and Papas brand. In my own mind I would imagine that she may not have known entirely about the incest, but even more than that she's going to protect the legacy of that brand, period. This is the kind of tarnish that can be so easily shrugged off as "well, it was the 70's"...
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Reply #96 posted 09/26/09 11:34am

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sextonseven said:



I can understand both stepmothers claiming the story is false because think about it, if they were to believe that this really happened then imagine the guilt they would feel for not knowing and putting a stop to it. Very sad.


On the other side, Michelle does have the reputation as being tough as nails when it comes to the Mamas and Papas brand. In my own mind I would imagine that she may not have known entirely about the incest, but even more than that she's going to protect the legacy of that brand, period. This is the kind of tarnish that can be so easily shrugged off as "well, it was the 70's"...


In a perverse kind of way, I'm actually interested in hearing more of their music now. The few songs I already know have awesome harmonies.
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Reply #97 posted 09/26/09 12:51pm

Ottensen

sextonseven said:

Ottensen said:



On the other side, Michelle does have the reputation as being tough as nails when it comes to the Mamas and Papas brand. In my own mind I would imagine that she may not have known entirely about the incest, but even more than that she's going to protect the legacy of that brand, period. This is the kind of tarnish that can be so easily shrugged off as "well, it was the 70's"...


In a perverse kind of way, I'm actually interested in hearing more of their music now. The few songs I already know have awesome harmonies.



I feel kinda weird listening to their stuff now boxed...but you're right, they used to do killer harmonies lurking
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Reply #98 posted 09/26/09 2:01pm

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Ottensen said:

dseann said:




She said she got drunk the night before her wedding and fucked her father. From what I gathered, it was a mistake. Knowing how fucked up on drugs that household was I can see the mistake being made. Where did you get this "long term incestuous relationship" quote from? eek


From her television interviews and the quotes from her book. The incest has already been backed up with public statements from her half-sister, Chynna.


no, that's not entirely true. chynnna has backed up that mac TOLD her about the incest. that's not to say chynna knew anything about it specifically except that mac told her there was this relationship. it's not the same as saying she knew. she knows what mac told her, and it seems she does believe it.

at the huff post, they have an extended quote from bijou. she said that mac also TOLD her about the alleged relationship...but then later retracted, just like she did with michelle phillips. bijou further wonders aloud how mac could have left her with her father, who bijou says was kind and loving in spite of his other problems. she's not saying that mac is lying but she seems more equivocating on the subject.

HOWEVER, the daughter of one of the founding members of the m&p says that her father did state that he knew that the relationship was going on. she's the one that for me now puts this in 51% category of truthfulness.
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Reply #99 posted 09/26/09 8:05pm

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TonyVanDam said:

vainandy said:

He must have had a hell of a dick if she continued sleeping with him willingly. lol


There is nothing funny about incest at all. no no no!

Now if we're dissing some rednecks for doing it, THAT's funny! lol


Shouldn't that be YOU find nothing funny about incest?
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Reply #100 posted 09/26/09 8:07pm

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DesireeNevermind said:

Like I said..."where the hell was her momma!!" If I had a husband and daughter doing that shit I would kill him and beat her ass before shipping her off to rehab in serbia.


That's why the moms are saying she's lying. Because if this really happened then the blame is on them for not 'killing him and beating her ass before shipping her off to rehab in serbia'.


How is her mother responsible for her adult behavior? Do you think she was discussing her sex life with her mother?
I don't see why others in the family are responsible for their behavior.
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Reply #101 posted 09/26/09 8:07pm

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Wasn't she on that show, One Dad At A Time.


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Reply #102 posted 09/26/09 8:10pm

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kibbles said:

dseann said:




She said she got drunk the night before her wedding and fucked her father. From what I gathered, it was a mistake. Knowing how fucked up on drugs that household was I can see the mistake being made. Where did you get this "long term incestuous relationship" quote from? eek



she has said that after that night, over a ten year period, she and her father began a consensual incestuous relationship that only truly ended when she became pregnant and didn't know whether the baby was her husband's or her father's.

to paraphrase her, someone has to put a face on consensual incest, which is more common than we know. (i don't know about that. incest, maybe, consensual, hell no!)


So how much is consensual?
My guess is we don't know. And can't ever actually know.
Most people are not going to confess to incest being consensual.
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Reply #103 posted 09/27/09 1:19am

Ottensen

kibbles said:

Ottensen said:



From her television interviews and the quotes from her book. The incest has already been backed up with public statements from her half-sister, Chynna.


no, that's not entirely true. chynnna has backed up that mac TOLD her about the incest. that's not to say chynna knew anything about it specifically except that mac told her there was this relationship. it's not the same as saying she knew. she knows what mac told her, and it seems she does believe it.

at the huff post, they have an extended quote from bijou. she said that mac also TOLD her about the alleged relationship...but then later retracted, just like she did with michelle phillips. bijou further wonders aloud how mac could have left her with her father, who bijou says was kind and loving in spite of his other problems. she's not saying that mac is lying but she seems more equivocating on the subject.

HOWEVER, the daughter of one of the founding members of the m&p says that her father did state that he knew that the relationship was going on. she's the one that for me now puts this in 51% category of truthfulness.


Okay...well yay for you that you can break this down into molecules. Bijou is a person that I've actually worked with in my profession and and don't trust anything she says so far as I can throw her because she's crazy as batshit, and that without the inclusion of her own drug usage, God bless her. That being said, having extensive experience doing private community work with heroin addicts and sexual abuse survivors, call me stupid, but witnessing the pathos that exists within these people ( as well as recognizing the ways in which they act out or lie) up close and personal makes me inclined to believe her. Just sayin', that's my opinion.


That doesn't go to say that you, however, don't have a right pick this apart as you must and believe whatever you feel is correct. We shall just agree to disagree on this one wink
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Reply #104 posted 09/28/09 7:47am

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sextonseven said:



That's why the moms are saying she's lying. Because if this really happened then the blame is on them for not 'killing him and beating her ass before shipping her off to rehab in serbia'.


How is her mother responsible for her adult behavior? Do you think she was discussing her sex life with her mother?
I don't see why others in the family are responsible for their behavior.


They are not. But as mothers, they would feel that they are.
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Reply #105 posted 09/28/09 8:58am

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I would think both mothers and fathers have a duty to protect their child from harm and destructive people even if those people are other relatives. I think these women (mom & step mom) ought to feel some degree of guilt for not trying to put an end to a very destructive and unhealthy relationship if it indeed occurred. They could have done a drug intervention, called in the cops (assuming the relationship was at anytime non-consensual) or they could have exposed and publicly shamed both Mac and John. They could have done a lot besides turn a blind eye.
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Reply #106 posted 09/28/09 9:45am

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DesireeNevermind said:

I would think both mothers and fathers have a duty to protect their child from harm and destructive people even if those people are other relatives. I think these women (mom & step mom) ought to feel some degree of guilt for not trying to put an end to a very destructive and unhealthy relationship if it indeed occurred. They could have done a drug intervention, called in the cops (assuming the relationship was at anytime non-consensual) or they could have exposed and publicly shamed both Mac and John. They could have done a lot besides turn a blind eye.


I wonder how easy that would have been if maybe even the moms weren't (or still aren't) in their right heads. I mean the whole mystique connected to the Mamas and the Papas always placed John in an savior-svengali kind of light in that hippy trippy cult-like kind of way that's unique to the 60's. Their stories (like many of the celebritry stories from that era) were an intricate sorrid mess fueled by heroin and black beauties and God knows what else...I'm just trying to imagine what the realities of their daily lives were like compared to what the rest of us experience, and how cognizant we are with ethics, when we are not entrapped by the fortress of fame, influence, yes-people, an endless drug supply etc.
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Reply #107 posted 09/28/09 11:31am

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Ottensen said:

DesireeNevermind said:

I would think both mothers and fathers have a duty to protect their child from harm and destructive people even if those people are other relatives. I think these women (mom & step mom) ought to feel some degree of guilt for not trying to put an end to a very destructive and unhealthy relationship if it indeed occurred. They could have done a drug intervention, called in the cops (assuming the relationship was at anytime non-consensual) or they could have exposed and publicly shamed both Mac and John. They could have done a lot besides turn a blind eye.


I wonder how easy that would have been if maybe even the moms weren't (or still aren't) in their right heads. I mean the whole mystique connected to the Mamas and the Papas always placed John in an savior-svengali kind of light in that hippy trippy cult-like kind of way that's unique to the 60's. Their stories (like many of the celebritry stories from that era) were an intricate sorrid mess fueled by heroin and black beauties and God knows what else...I'm just trying to imagine what the realities of their daily lives were like compared to what the rest of us experience, and how cognizant we are with ethics, when we are not entrapped by the fortress of fame, influence, yes-people, an endless drug supply etc.



I agree but wouldn't they have all ended up just as ruined as Mac? I mean the moms and the other daughters don't have such horrid stories as hers. Somebody somewhere had moments of lucidity and clarity else they'd probablly all be dead or writing their own books of sex with each other and being drugged out of their minds. I think their daily lives must have had some degree of normalcy (sp) and in that vein they could have saved Mac or at least attempted to save her. She honestly sounds like she was all alone in the clutches of this evil step dad. disbelief And she still aint right in the head.
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Reply #108 posted 09/28/09 12:35pm

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Ottensen said:

DesireeNevermind said:

I would think both mothers and fathers have a duty to protect their child from harm and destructive people even if those people are other relatives. I think these women (mom & step mom) ought to feel some degree of guilt for not trying to put an end to a very destructive and unhealthy relationship if it indeed occurred. They could have done a drug intervention, called in the cops (assuming the relationship was at anytime non-consensual) or they could have exposed and publicly shamed both Mac and John. They could have done a lot besides turn a blind eye.


I wonder how easy that would have been if maybe even the moms weren't (or still aren't) in their right heads. I mean the whole mystique connected to the Mamas and the Papas always placed John in an savior-svengali kind of light in that hippy trippy cult-like kind of way that's unique to the 60's. Their stories (like many of the celebritry stories from that era) were an intricate sorrid mess fueled by heroin and black beauties and God knows what else...I'm just trying to imagine what the realities of their daily lives were like compared to what the rest of us experience, and how cognizant we are with ethics, when we are not entrapped by the fortress of fame, influence, yes-people, an endless drug supply etc.


You can't be suggesting that people without fame, influence, yes-people, etc are more ethical?

Ethics is a matter of personal conduct and personal behavior. It's the choices we make. The world around you doesn't make you more or less ethical, although, admittedly you may bend or dismiss those ethics based on the situation you are facing but that is still an individual choice.
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Reply #109 posted 09/28/09 12:39pm

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nasty...just nasty
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Reply #110 posted 09/28/09 1:14pm

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voyevoda said:

nasty...just nasty



and sad. Drugs aside, I don't see how they could do that with each other. Maybe somebody else's daughter or father but not in the same family. disbelief
But then again....they probably did do somebody else's daughter/father.


It's bloody awful.
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Reply #111 posted 09/28/09 1:22pm

Ottensen

DesireeNevermind said:

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I wonder how easy that would have been if maybe even the moms weren't (or still aren't) in their right heads. I mean the whole mystique connected to the Mamas and the Papas always placed John in an savior-svengali kind of light in that hippy trippy cult-like kind of way that's unique to the 60's. Their stories (like many of the celebritry stories from that era) were an intricate sorrid mess fueled by heroin and black beauties and God knows what else...I'm just trying to imagine what the realities of their daily lives were like compared to what the rest of us experience, and how cognizant we are with ethics, when we are not entrapped by the fortress of fame, influence, yes-people, an endless drug supply etc.



I agree but wouldn't they have all ended up just as ruined as Mac? I mean the moms and the other daughters don't have such horrid stories as hers. Somebody somewhere had moments of lucidity and clarity else they'd probablly all be dead or writing their own books of sex with each other and being drugged out of their minds. I think their daily lives must have had some degree of normalcy (sp) and in that vein they could have saved Mac or at least attempted to save her. She honestly sounds like she was all alone in the clutches of this evil step dad. disbelief And she still aint right in the head.



I think I'm on the fence with agreeing with you in some places, and disagreeing in some others. We just haven't heard whether or not they have horrid stories. Some people are simply better at supressing, blocking, or downright denying abnormal behaviors that have taken place in their lives, and they allow their reactions to manifest in other ways. For some it's drug addiction, alcohol addiction,sexual addiction, sociopathic behaviors or other actions usually deemed in society as deviant or perverse...I don't know, there are a lot of shades to these situations and I don't think it's so easy to interpret them in black & white...

Look, I have to re-visit y'all after a wine break ... lol


Oh, but b4 I go and slightly off topic, did y'all hear about Kathy Griffin's new memoir that came out the same time as McKenzie's? Good grief, now even she is going through admitting a family member (her brother) was pedophile and once tried to make the moves on her. She describes their incident as him crawling into bed with her and whispering sweet nothings in her ear. She says that back then they didn't even have a term that you could speak out loud when this sort of thing happened in families, an it was ignored and swept under the rug...I'm just thinking, good grief, what the hell was in the water back then???

Anyhoo...
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Reply #112 posted 09/28/09 1:24pm

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Ottensen said:

DesireeNevermind said:




I agree but wouldn't they have all ended up just as ruined as Mac? I mean the moms and the other daughters don't have such horrid stories as hers. Somebody somewhere had moments of lucidity and clarity else they'd probablly all be dead or writing their own books of sex with each other and being drugged out of their minds. I think their daily lives must have had some degree of normalcy (sp) and in that vein they could have saved Mac or at least attempted to save her. She honestly sounds like she was all alone in the clutches of this evil step dad. disbelief And she still aint right in the head.



I think I'm on the fence with agreeing with you in some places, and disagreeing in some others. We just haven't heard whether or not they have horrid stories. Some people are simply better at supressing, blocking, or downright denying abnormal behaviors that have taken place in their lives, and they allow their reactions to manifest in other ways. For some it's drug addiction, alcohol addiction,sexual addiction, sociopathic behaviors or other actions usually deemed in society as deviant or perverse...I don't know, there are a lot of shades to these situations and I don't think it's so easy to interpret them in black & white...

Look, I have to re-visit y'all after a wine break ... lol


Oh, but b4 I go and slightly off topic, did y'all hear about Kathy Griffin's new memoir that came out the same time as McKenzie's? Good grief, now even [b]she is going through admitting a family member (her brother) was pedophile and once tried to make the moves on her.[/b] She describes their incident as him crawling into bed with her and whispering sweet nothings in her ear. She says that back then they didn't even have a term that you could speak out loud when this sort of thing happened in families, an it was ignored and swept under the rug...I'm just thinking, good grief, what the hell was in the water back then???

Anyhoo...



eek eek bawl not my Kathy!!!!!
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Reply #113 posted 09/28/09 1:28pm

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SUPRMAN said:

Ottensen said:



I wonder how easy that would have been if maybe even the moms weren't (or still aren't) in their right heads. I mean the whole mystique connected to the Mamas and the Papas always placed John in an savior-svengali kind of light in that hippy trippy cult-like kind of way that's unique to the 60's. Their stories (like many of the celebritry stories from that era) were an intricate sorrid mess fueled by heroin and black beauties and God knows what else...I'm just trying to imagine what the realities of their daily lives were like compared to what the rest of us experience, and how cognizant we are with ethics, when we are not entrapped by the fortress of fame, influence, yes-people, an endless drug supply etc.


You can't be suggesting that people without fame, influence, yes-people, etc are more ethical?

Ethics is a matter of personal conduct and personal behavior. It's the choices we make. The world around you doesn't make you more or less ethical, although, admittedly you may bend or dismiss those ethics based on the situation you are facing but that is still an individual choice.


Not at all. I'm just trying to say (in a rush and few words), that I've experienced situations where high degrees of money, fame, and prestige are involved and situations get so lax...things have changed drastically since the onslaught on 24/7 celebrity news, but some of things I've been witness to when I was younger (thankfully never incest) on film sets, concert tours, at record labels...jeezus in retrospect it was all so wretched...just no sense of ethics anywhere....anyhoo...I'm late damn it....later....
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Reply #114 posted 09/28/09 2:00pm

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WOW what a confession!
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None of them got what it takes
2 B a future baby mama
Gotta bend in the wind, but don't break
2 keep your man
Show me 1 of them and I'll make her mine
With no more drama
Future baby mama
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Reply #115 posted 09/28/09 2:29pm

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A man's gotta be pretty damn hard up to sleep with his daughter! barf
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Reply #116 posted 09/28/09 4:06pm

Ottensen

DesireeNevermind said:

Ottensen said:




I think I'm on the fence with agreeing with you in some places, and disagreeing in some others. We just haven't heard whether or not they have horrid stories. Some people are simply better at supressing, blocking, or downright denying abnormal behaviors that have taken place in their lives, and they allow their reactions to manifest in other ways. For some it's drug addiction, alcohol addiction,sexual addiction, sociopathic behaviors or other actions usually deemed in society as deviant or perverse...I don't know, there are a lot of shades to these situations and I don't think it's so easy to interpret them in black & white...

Look, I have to re-visit y'all after a wine break ... lol


Oh, but b4 I go and slightly off topic, did y'all hear about Kathy Griffin's new memoir that came out the same time as McKenzie's? Good grief, now even [b]she is going through admitting a family member (her brother) was pedophile and once tried to make the moves on her.[/b] She describes their incident as him crawling into bed with her and whispering sweet nothings in her ear. She says that back then they didn't even have a term that you could speak out loud when this sort of thing happened in families, an it was ignored and swept under the rug...I'm just thinking, good grief, what the hell was in the water back then???

Anyhoo...



eek eek bawl not my Kathy!!!!!



She says they didn't do anything sexual, but damn, the trauma:



up until 4:30 she addresses what it was like growing up in that...man, family secrets... shrug
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Reply #117 posted 09/28/09 4:55pm

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no, that's not entirely true. chynnna has backed up that mac TOLD her about the incest. that's not to say chynna knew anything about it specifically except that mac told her there was this relationship. it's not the same as saying she knew. she knows what mac told her, and it seems she does believe it.

at the huff post, they have an extended quote from bijou. she said that mac also TOLD her about the alleged relationship...but then later retracted, just like she did with michelle phillips. bijou further wonders aloud how mac could have left her with her father, who bijou says was kind and loving in spite of his other problems. she's not saying that mac is lying but she seems more equivocating on the subject.

HOWEVER, the daughter of one of the founding members of the m&p says that her father did state that he knew that the relationship was going on. she's the one that for me now puts this in 51% category of truthfulness.


Okay...well yay for you that you can break this down into molecules. Bijou is a person that I've actually worked with in my profession and and don't trust anything she says so far as I can throw her because she's crazy as batshit, and that without the inclusion of her own drug usage, God bless her. That being said, having extensive experience doing private community work with heroin addicts and sexual abuse survivors, call me stupid, but witnessing the pathos that exists within these people ( as well as recognizing the ways in which they act out or lie) up close and personal makes me inclined to believe her. Just sayin', that's my opinion.


That doesn't go to say that you, however, don't have a right pick this apart as you must and believe whatever you feel is correct. We shall just agree to disagree on this one wink


no need for you to get salty and insulting. what's up with that?

you said that chynna confirmed the incest. she didn't. she didn't witness it, she had no evidence on it. she is simply repeating what mac told her and believes it. which she has every right to do, i didn't say she didn't.

further, i merely repeated what i read from the extended quote from bijou at the huff post site that i saw the other day, now gone, the jist of which is she didn't what to believe since mac told her one thing one at one point, and something different the next. under those circumstances, i understand why she and the step mothers, whom mac also retracted her earlier statements from, question whether it is true.

it's interesting to me that you give all this 'expert' opinion on the pathos of the drug addicted, and don't trust what bijou has to say...but you trust mac? i'm just saying i don't know who to believe. neutral
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Mackenzie Phillips: I slept with my father


The bombshell that Mackenzie Phillips will drop on Oprah today? She slept with her father.

In her tell-all book, out today, the actress says that her dad, musician John Phillips of the '60s band the Mamas and the Papas, engaged with her in a long-term incestuous relationship.

http://blogs.usatoday.com...rtainment/



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Reply #119 posted 09/28/09 5:05pm

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sextonseven said:



That's why the moms are saying she's lying. Because if this really happened then the blame is on them for not 'killing him and beating her ass before shipping her off to rehab in serbia'.



Now see this is strange to me because wouldn't they already share some blame in 1) being married so long to a known druggie/bad father and 2) having their kid/step kid exposed to drugs and thus becoming an addict? Incest aside, they still failed her. It's like they can tolerate anything except the incest when in actuality it is all sad and pathetic. Mackenzie's whole life seems like a wreck. sad


Agreed.
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