The case I am think of, the two kids are 23 and 24, so their mom is technically not a babymomma, right?

scriptgirl said:

As long as dude is not still banging her, giving her money, talking to her on the phone at night, or talking to her about the current woman then...no...no longer can she wear the gold plated crown of baby momma. New crown is made out of foil and called "Ex."

DesireeNevermind said:

This is the same woman who made "Bills Bills Bills" and "No Scrub" and from what you said in your post(since I NEVER watched that garbage show) she seems like a classic "I need a man who ONLY could pay my triflin' ass way through life" broad,,,,,and then have the nerve to flinch when he cheats afterwards, WTF? You went into this shit for the wrong reasons too

When it comes to reinforcing dumb ass stereotypes, TV has ALOT of fresh new ideas,,,,but when it comes to some intelligent intersting stuff, those mofos REMAKE

The season will highlight Burruss as she raises her daughter, Riley, and tries to convince her mother that her fiance, A.J., is a good catch – despite fathering six children with other women. The Atlanta native makes no qualms about the short amount of time the couple has been together; what began as a courtship in July 2008 resulted in an engagement this January, and now Burruss is hoping that the Internet stories will die down soon.

"I feel very bad that he is catching so much heat for just being in a relationship with me, because he didn't sign on to the show I did," she said. "And I feel bad for him and his kids. The kids come over here all the time. A lot of them are older and they are on the Internet and seeing the things being said about their father. I felt horrible, [but] there is nothing I can really do about it."

But as vocal as the 'No Scrubs' songwriter is about some things related to her fiancé, when it comes to other things, she's mum about, including whether or not A.J. previously dabbled in dealing narcotics, as some have speculated.

"He is financially stable and has his own money and he has a lot of businesses that I know of. I see things that he is doing that are legit, so as far as speculating on what went on before me, he has shown me legit stuff. I don't want to go off into all of that, but it is what it is."

A wedding date has yet to be set, she said, because after taping 'Housewives,' "things got to be more stressful between my mother and A.J. and myself."

Though her personal life isn't perfectly in tact, Burruss' career is a different story. She's focusing on recording her own music and is sure that she won't be participating in an Xscape reunion anytime soon – if ever. The platinum-selling R&B quartet, from which Burruss got her musical start, is not a priority for her.

"We didn't make enough money together for me to go back," she pointed out. "We had three platinum records that I'm thankful for, but I made way more money after the group."

We have been broken up for 12 years...and Tiny [Cottle] and I get along," she confided. "Tosha [Scott] has been pretty quiet, but Tamika Scott just came out the blue with some bull a couple years ago. [And,] it let me know it would be the same drama all over again."

In addition to penning a few songs for Fantasia's upcoming album, the 'Just Kickin' It' singer has recorded a few songs for her own upcoming solo album with Rick Ross, Gucci Mane, Rashida and Tiny. Her plan is to find an independent distributor to release the project via her Kandi Koated Entertainment company.

As for those new rumors that the songstress might soon replace Paula Abdul as a judge on 'American Idol,' she quipped: "That was the biggest shock to me than it was to anybody else. I would love to do that, but no one has contacted me, and I hadn't heard it until I saw it on the Internet.
http://www.bvnewswire.com...a-strikes/

wait, how many baby mamas does AJ have and who is he?

scriptgirl said:

AJ Jewell has 4 baby mommas and 6 children. He's supposedly a music producer but rumors say he's a drug dealer who doesn't pay child support. Kandi says he has several bidnesses...whatever the hell that means.

Did she really say "bidnesses"? That man is uglier than a mug, plus he looks mean. She can do better than that. if she is really desperate for a man can't she get Star Jone's ex, Gay Al? He has no baby mammas and won't be bugging her for sex, neither.

scriptgirl said:

Ewwww. Al is I smelled his rank purse a mile away. Stevie Wonder and Hellen Keller could have told Star Jones that fool was gay.

Star wanted him cause he light and as she said on the view, he had "good hair"

scriptgirl said:

Where's Ms.Cynda and her "spaaychell" input

scriptgirl said:

Star Jones is burnt up. I'm so tired of hearing bout that wack ass heffa. First she lied about how she lost her weight, all up in denial about her man being gay and then she actually thought Barbara Walters (class act) was out to get her. Some straight up bullshit. She was more level headed when her ass was fat.

sorry if I sound harsh but that heffa is low budget bitchassedness.

who is miss cynda?

^^^

SCNDLS.

is an ex wife considered a babymama?

I can see this is topic is hiting some nerves (too bad). The bottom line is any man who fathers many children with different women is as irresponsible as women who continue to have many children with different men. Wealth isn't the only factor, it is a lack of self control, morals, responsibility, and no regard for the future of the children being produced.
Why would anyone want to marry a person (male or female) with so much baggage, drama, lack of character, and the inability to commit to anything or anyone?
DESPERATION, INSECURITY, FEAR OF LONLINESS.

scriptgirl said:

If you had children within a committed marriage, the title "baby momma" doesn't fit you. The only people offended by this topic are the ones in the same pathetic situation.
[Edited 8/17/09 17:34pm]

Harlepolis said:

An Espaaychelly Hot Mess! (my official contribution )
[Edited 8/17/09 18:04pm]

I can kinda understand Kandi's situations because the pickings are slim especially in the ATL for available black men that are not gay. A lot of people say the ATL is the gay mecca.....

plenty of fatherless 1/2 black American & 1/2 Japanese babies in Japan - kinda sad

you can take a man out of the ghetto but not the ghetto out of the man

Chic35 said:

Well what the hell women keep going there for? Are they deliberately tryna catch the HIV? You know them DL nuccas foul as the day is long. Probably tell the women they want children just to stick the HIV in their bodies.

japanrocks said:

but their mommies raise them right? or are they orphans?

I have heard a lot of them are. The Japanese tend to be very xenophobic and those kids get a lot of shit

scriptgirl said:

aw that is fucked up. i hate hearing about children being neglected and abandoned. women overseas (and here) need to learn that a uniform does not mean a man his honorable.

on the other hand.....there are women here that just want a half-baby for superficial reasons and the father has no legal rights to the child if the couple is unmarried - esp. if the father is foreign

japanrocks said:

But hold on a sec, what does a father's color have to do with this?

So basically you're asserting that only black men are from the ghetto and father illegitimate children that they abandon, or....?

Just sayin'....

totaldiva said:

Well said .... I agree with you. Personally I thinks its classless and shows a llack of thought and regard about how to live your life. People should take more thought when having kids... as a girl from a family of eight, my parents have been married for 30 years and I would be upset and resentful if my father had random kids with random women. I just think there is a better and classier way to conduct your life. I know many people who have a very tough childhood and adulthood because there father has loads of kids from different women ... its just not on.

DesireeNevermind said:

Okay wait, I don't understand how she feels "bad" for putting her fiance through all this turmoil of negativity when she AGREED TO BE ON THE SHOW IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!! Did she not think that this would happen by going on a reality show??? I guess not, since it was obviously the dollars first..but now since real reality has hit, now she's sorry? Please. So the reason why she was on the show is why no wedding date has been set??? And now there is tension between her and A.J.??? No that comes from not dating long enough before proposing marriage. Sounds like they both didn't think about what they were getting into.

My goodness....

So there is trouble between Ms. Burruss and her fiancé because of the Bravo show? This "reality show" may very well save this young woman from herself.

missfee said: