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Thread started 08/13/09 10:33am

Chic35

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T-Boz and Khandi discuss dating Men with a string of babymama's

T-Boz's Advice Is To Not Date Men With Over 2 Baby Mamas (At least she has limits) confused The look on T-boz's face is priceless at the end. lol


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Would you consider marrying a woman or man with four or more babymothers or babyfathers? I am curious to what you would do if LOVE was staring you in the face?

Khandi- Don't thing I'm not



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Reply #1 posted 08/13/09 1:52pm

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If his pockets were deep, I wouldn't care! biggrin
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Reply #2 posted 08/13/09 2:32pm

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one is enough 4 me
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Reply #3 posted 08/13/09 3:48pm

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Yes i know T-boz was daayum. lol
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Reply #4 posted 08/13/09 4:31pm

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Yeah,,,Khandi is the QUEEN of chickenheadery bored2
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Reply #5 posted 08/14/09 9:28am

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I have to agree with T Boz and Kandi's mother. It takes more than money to raise children. They show the entire family on television, but I doubt this is the case when the cameras stop rolling. There is no way this man can be in 4 to 5 different households simutaneously to emotionally support these children. To have 6 children by 4 different mothers (never married one of them) says a lot about this mans character. He is sloppy, never heard of protection (STD's anyone?), and has problems commiting to anything. Why isn't the same judgement passed on men who father many children out of wedlock the same as women who have many children by many different men? Irresponsible people like this is one of the main reasons that the Black community as a whole will never get ahead. Statistics show that fatherless boys are more likely to become future inmates, and fatherless girls are more likely to become a babymommas themselves at much younger ages. It's pathetic and very ghetto.
The only thing Kandi can look forward to is becomming babymomma number 5.
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Reply #6 posted 08/14/09 11:57am

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No.. T-Boz said 2 kids and 1 Babymama wink and i don't know what this dude AJ does to be able to afford a 4 carat ring... but he seems to be in the kid's life
and it's her choice.. so i don't see what the problem is
[Edited 8/14/09 11:59am]
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Reply #7 posted 08/14/09 12:45pm

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banks said:

No.. T-Boz said 2 kids and 1 Babymama wink and i don't know what this dude AJ does to be able to afford a 4 carat ring... but he seems to be in the kid's life
and it's her choice.. so i don't see what the problem is
[Edited 8/14/09 11:59am]

oh please, a little hustlin on the side can have to easily afford a 4 karat ring plus child support....but I do agree with Kandi's mom and T-Boz though. She don't know what she getting herself into. She blinded by love and the 4 karats right now to see it.
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Reply #8 posted 08/14/09 2:36pm

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If your walking through the woods and you see an apple tree - and your hungry. You decide to eat an apple.

a) do you pick one off the tree?

b) chose one on the ground that has been stepped on and has a worm in it.

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Anyone who chose (b) dates someone with kids

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Reply #9 posted 08/14/09 3:10pm

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Are you trying to say people with kids are damaged goods? Cause that is offensive.
"Lack of home training crosses all boundaries."
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Reply #10 posted 08/14/09 3:35pm

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ohhh i didn't know T-boz had a new song out biggrin
and as for the question. I would not date/marry someone with more than one "babymama" hammer
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Reply #11 posted 08/15/09 8:19am

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I would never say that people with children are damaged goods. I have a problem with men who continue to drop their seeds in different women only to move on to the next. Morals and responsibility doesn't just apply to the less wealthy. it show a lack of character, responsibility, self control as well as his fear to commit to anything or anyone. Why isn't the same judgement placed on men who impregnated different women as it is on women who choose to have many kids with different baby daddies. It is very irresponsible.
If I touched a nerve of anyone (male or female) who allowed themselves to be in this position, tough. Sex is a beautiful thing, just be responsible. NOTE TO LADIES: If a man has more than 3 babymomma's, havent made a commitment to any of them, don't think that your snatch is so much better than the last chick that he will treat you and your potential offspring any differently. If a person shows you their character, believe it.
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Reply #12 posted 08/15/09 1:06pm

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scriptgirl said:

Are you trying to say people with kids are damaged goods? Cause that is offensive.


No, I was just wondering would you consider marrying or dating someone with a lot of baby mothers or baby fathers. It's a big responsibility and not an easy thing to do. I know some men that bash women for numerous children with different fathers', and won't even consider them as marriage material.
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Reply #13 posted 08/15/09 1:42pm

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Khandi just annoys me , I find her to be so beautiful but desperate. Her mom was speaking the truth. And I know alot of Black Women was looking at that screen saying Stop Hating Mom.

When Khandi saying how her Aunts and Mom are single it just made me disbelief. She has that as long as he a man mindset.
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Reply #14 posted 08/17/09 10:19am

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Flowerpower said:

Khandi just annoys me , I find her to be so beautiful but desperate. Her mom was speaking the truth. And I know alot of Black Women was looking at that screen saying Stop Hating Mom.

When Khandi saying how her Aunts and Mom are single it just made me disbelief. She has that as long as he a man mindset.

sounds desperate to "have a man" to me. i can't stand women with that type of attitude. Her only excuse is, "oh well he had all them kids back when he was 19, 20"...and being young and dumb is suppose to make it right? For somebody so talented she sure is dumb.
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Reply #15 posted 08/17/09 11:00am

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Talent and intelligence do not go hand in hand.
Would you consider a man with 2 grown children-over the age of 18 and two children under the age of 18-would you consider the mother of the oldest kids a baby mama, even if the kids are adult?
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Reply #16 posted 08/17/09 11:31am

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Desperation has many faces.
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Reply #17 posted 08/17/09 12:04pm

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Harlepolis said:

Yeah,,,Khandi is the QUEEN of chickenheadery bored2


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Well...she pretty much said she wanted to get married for her daughter. Perhaps to show her that it's better to be married with a child than be a single mom with no daddy in the picture. She seems to stigmatize being a single mother. Hell if you got money and your kids' dad spends time with the child then fuck being married. Marriage without genuine love on both sides just sucks and will result in divorce.

Watching Khandi crying with her own mom, who was opposed from jump about AJ, was sad. But uh...in their line of work...aint no such thing as a single/eligible black man with no baby momma drama who is also straight and has his own change.
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totaldiva said:

I would never say that people with children are damaged goods. I have a problem with men who continue to drop their seeds in different women only to move on to the next. Morals and responsibility doesn't just apply to the less wealthy. it show a lack of character, responsibility, self control as well as his fear to commit to anything or anyone. Why isn't the same judgement placed on men who impregnated different women as it is on women who choose to have many kids with different baby daddies. It is very irresponsible.
If I touched a nerve of anyone (male or female) who allowed themselves to be in this position, tough. Sex is a beautiful thing, just be responsible. NOTE TO LADIES: If a man has more than 3 babymomma's, havent made a commitment to any of them, don't think that your snatch is so much better than the last chick that he will treat you and your potential offspring any differently. If a person shows you their character, believe it.
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clapping Brilliant!!!

And to add to that...dudes like that will always marry the chick that has the money! Khandi is getting the ring from ole dude (on credit no doubt) because she is the most fiscally sound of the 5 women he has hit up. He's no fool- he sees paper! He would have Khandi supporting all his damn brats and paying off his child support. NOTE: Khandi already said "his kids are over here [her house] all the time." First clue that dude tryna make her pay for his play.
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Reply #19 posted 08/17/09 12:50pm

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could someone answer my question upthread?
"Lack of home training crosses all boundaries."
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Reply #20 posted 08/17/09 12:52pm

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scriptgirl said:

Are you trying to say people with kids are damaged goods? Cause that is offensive.



well i can't answer for the thread starter but it appears the general consensus is that a man with several baby mommas (never married to any of them) and several chillun IS damaged goods. confused
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Reply #21 posted 08/17/09 12:53pm

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scriptgirl said:

Talent and intelligence do not go hand in hand.
Would you consider a man with 2 grown children-over the age of 18 and two children under the age of 18-would you consider the mother of the oldest kids a baby mama, even if the kids are adult?



I would consider the mother of the oldest kids a baby momma if she and the kids are still in the picture.
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Reply #22 posted 08/17/09 12:54pm

Graycap23

DesireeNevermind said:

scriptgirl said:

Are you trying to say people with kids are damaged goods? Cause that is offensive.



well i can't answer for the thread starter but it appears the general consensus is that a man with several baby mommas (never married to any of them) and several chillun IS damaged goods. confused

...and is at the very least NOT very bright.
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Reply #23 posted 08/17/09 12:59pm

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Somebody posted or suggested something about viewing women with several baby daddies differently than men with several baby mommas. They are both equally stupid but I have to give some bit of credit to the mommas because they want and are taking care of those children (most of the time). The dudes just delivering sperm like morning papers - and gone in the morning. I think a guy is much worse because he neither cares about his potential offspring, his health, her health, and the next woman.
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Reply #24 posted 08/17/09 1:10pm

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Yeah, but if the kids are over 18 they are adults-therefore their mother isn't really a babymomma cause the kids no longer need child support, right? I always understood a babymomma to be the mother of kids under the age of 18
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Reply #25 posted 08/17/09 1:42pm

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missfee said:

Flowerpower said:

Khandi just annoys me , I find her to be so beautiful but desperate. Her mom was speaking the truth. And I know alot of Black Women was looking at that screen saying Stop Hating Mom.

When Khandi saying how her Aunts and Mom are single it just made me disbelief. She has that as long as he a man mindset.

sounds desperate to "have a man" to me. i can't stand women with that type of attitude. Her only excuse is, "oh well he had all them kids back when he was 19, 20"...and being young and dumb is suppose to make it right? For somebody so talented she sure is dumb.

Yep. I mean four babymammas come on. Her daughter even said she doesn't know the kids like that.
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Reply #26 posted 08/17/09 1:59pm

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"i cant deal wit too many heffas" falloff
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Reply #27 posted 08/17/09 2:23pm

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Talent and intelligence do not go hand in hand.


True. And I don't think either of these chicks are that talented.
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Reply #28 posted 08/17/09 2:40pm

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scriptgirl said:

Yeah, but if the kids are over 18 they are adults-therefore their mother isn't really a babymomma cause the kids no longer need child support, right? I always understood a babymomma to be the mother of kids under the age of 18
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Not necessarily. Some custody issues and some states provide that the child receive support up until aged 21. Also, some baby daddies still hit up their baby mommas for sex. My aunt was dating some dude who had a 19 year old and she said his baby momma told her they were still having sex so she broke up with him. You just never know what some people got going on.
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Reply #29 posted 08/17/09 2:43pm

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How the hell can he afford a wife and stepchild if has 6 kids of his own? Plus his youngest child is 6 so his last relationship (baby momma) could not have been that long before him meeting Khandi. It's just sad that there are not enough brothas for her to pick from down there in ATL.
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