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goodlookingmofo said: DesireeNevermind said: yeah but they don't need ALL PUSSY.  maybe he couldn't keep up with her. maybe she a ball bustersome want as much as they can get. They try to settle down but it's not for them. we should be free to stick our pink torpedos in any hole we want. Digging down the same rabbit trap gets boring.  | |
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DesireeNevermind said: Graycap23 said: About 2 get heated up.....
Usher's wife 'faithful and loving' during marriage ATLANTA — A lawyer who's opposed rapper T.I. and boxer Evander Holyfield in child-support cases is representing R&B singer Usher's wife in their split. Usher filed for divorce on Friday from Tameka Foster Raymond after less than two years of marriage. The singer whose real name is Usher Raymond IV has two sons with Foster Raymond. (enlarge photo)FILE - In this May 27, 2008 file photo, Usher appears onstage during MTV's 'Total Request Live' at the MTV Times Square Studios in New York. Court records show singer Usher has filed for divorce from Tameka Foster Raymond after less than two years of marriage. (AP Photo/Jason DeCrow, file) Sports and entertainment family lawyer Randy Kessler said Monday his 38-year-old was a "faithful wife and loving mother." He declined to comment on the singer's conduct during the marriage. The singer wed his former stylist in a glitzy ceremony in August 2007. Kessler also represented rapper Mack 10 in his divorce from R&B singer T-Boz of TLC. Kessler is a shark. Tameka is about to get PAID! but she will be comfortable but not super wealthy cuz of the short length of her marriage. Usher knew what he was doing by filing after only 2 years. You don't get much unless you reach that 5 year or better still 10 year mark. Well she got the kids so that's a good 10 grand a month (each).  She's got one major thing on her side here...the age of the kids. I believe her youngest is about 6 months old and walking out w/ a kid so young, he's gonna pay big for that. | |
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Copycat said: That's what he gets for marrying old coochie.
No, that's what he gets for marrying a man. |
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uPtoWnNY said: Copycat said: That's what he gets for marrying old coochie.
No, that's what he gets for marrying a man. ...if he HAD married a man, this story would have had a very different ending. Something along the lines of "Happily Ever After", lol.  | |
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No, you should not be free to stick your "pink torpedo" in any rabbit hole you want. What are you, in junior high? Grow up and be monogamous. Secondly, men don't NEED p****-that word is disgusting, btw. Have some respect for the female anatomy, why don't you? Men need food, water, air, not sex. That is a WANT. Lastly, do you know how many women out there hate or dislike the women their sons married? Most do. What is more important is if a man's friends don't like the significant other, not if mama doesn't like you. A lot of mothers won't like a man's wife cause she sees the woman as having taken her son away. "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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"she a man!"
"he gay!" "she gettin' paid!" "that marriage was fake!" How do y'all stand your damn selves??  I feel like I'm in a ghat dayum beauty parlor w/ some cacklin' bitches & shitty radio in the background. Where's the exit??!! 
. [Edited 6/15/09 15:07pm]   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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scriptgirl said: Men need food, water, air, not sex. That is a WANT. Lastly, do you know how many women out there hate or dislike the women their sons married? Most do. What is more important is if a man's friends don't like the significant other, not if mama doesn't like you. A lot of mothers won't like a man's wife cause she sees the woman as having taken her son away.
 Strongly agree. | |
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PDogz said: uPtoWnNY said: No, that's what he gets for marrying a man. ...if he HAD married a man, this story would have had a very different ending. Something along the lines of "Happily Ever After", lol. Dayum!!  |
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scriptgirl said: No, you should not be free to stick your "pink torpedo" in any rabbit hole you want. What are you, in junior high? Grow up and be monogamous. Secondly, men don't NEED p****-that word is disgusting, btw. Have some respect for the female anatomy, why don't you? Men need food, water, air, not sex. That is a WANT. Lastly, do you know how many women out there hate or dislike the women their sons married? Most do. What is more important is if a man's friends don't like the significant other, not if mama doesn't like you. A lot of mothers won't like a man's wife cause she sees the woman as having taken her son away.
Monogamy is not neccessarily synomous w/ adulthood or even marriage. Marriage, OTOH, is attached to adulthood....so if you don't wanna be married, don't get married. Too many people get married when they clearly don't want to because they feel it's expected. That's where the trouble lies. Most people DO need sex, BTW....the sex impulse may be bigger than the hunger impusle as some scientists assert. Methinks that poster is trollin'....BTW. [Edited 6/15/09 15:48pm] | |
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brooksie said: Monogamy is not neccessarily synomous w/ adulthood or even marriage. Marriage, OTOH, is attached to adulthood....so if you don't wanna be married, don't get married. Too many people get married when they clearly don't want to because they feel it's expected. That's where the trouble lies.
Most people DO need sex, BTW....the sex impulse may be bigger than the hunger impusle as some scientists assert.  |
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I am not trolling. I am simply posting my opinion "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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scriptgirl said: I am not trolling. I am simply posting my opinion
I meant, the OTHER poster (ie pussy guy) not you!
He keeps saying lame teenagery stuff on the matter. Usher clearly didn't want to get married to anyone from what I saw, but he chose to.  [Edited 6/15/09 16:05pm] | |
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OH! It's all good! "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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CalhounSq said: "she a man!"
"he gay!" "she gettin' paid!" "that marriage was fake!" How do y'all stand your damn selves?? I feel like I'm in a ghat dayum beauty parlor w/ some cacklin' bitches & shitty radio in the background. Where's the exit??!!
. [Edited 6/15/09 15:07pm] I don't understand the "she looks like a man" this or cracking on her age. Usher seems to prefer women older than himself and I'm always at a loss when peope say a woman looks like a man. I mean, what exactly are women SUPPOSED to look like?
I never thought I'd see the day when someone says Chili looks like a man. | |
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scriptgirl said: I don't think his mother disliking Tameka was a biggie. A lot of mothers dislike who their sons marry. It's quite common and people have happy marriages anyway. Usher should have stayed with Chili
So true. I think mothers are more critical of there son's choices in a mate. I think most of the time moms can see and smellthe true motives of another woman.That the man may not be able to see. | |
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I don't mean to sound shallow but here goes. I am not a celebrity nor am I rolling in alot of funds but I could go into a dark room blindfolded and just reach out and randomly grab 5 women and they'd all be finer than Tameka. I was always wondering what the hell was Usher thinking? | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: goodlookingmofo said: some want as much as they can get. They try to settle down but it's not for them. we should be free to stick our pink torpedos in any hole we want. Digging down the same rabbit trap gets boring.  | |
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daingermouz2020 said: I don't mean to sound shallow but here goes. I am not a celebrity nor am I rolling in alot of funds but I could go into a dark room blindfolded and just reach out and randomly grab 5 women and they'd all be finer than Tameka. I was always wondering what the hell was Usher thinking?
She was pregnant, that's what he was thinking. If you believe everything on the net, you'd think that everybody was fine and they only hooked up w/ fine people.  Truth is, he's no masterpiece either. Not every famous man's got a dimepiece either. | |
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daingermouz2020 said: scriptgirl said: I don't think his mother disliking Tameka was a biggie. A lot of mothers dislike who their sons marry. It's quite common and people have happy marriages anyway. Usher should have stayed with Chili
So true. I think mothers are more critical of there son's choices in a mate. I think most of the time moms can see and smellthe true motives of another woman.That the man may not be able to see. Absolutely. My mother didn't like any of the men I've dated over the years, including my daughter's father. None of those relationships worked out. Back in the day, I went out on one date with my neighbor's son, but there was no chemistry. However, my mother liked him. I don't know what else to say | |
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brooksie said: I don't understand the "she looks like a man"...
brooksie said: ...I never thought I'd see the day when someone says Chili looks like a man.
Haven't cared to take any particular note of her appearance recently, but I do recall having observed pictures of Tameka in the past where she did appear to me to have some rather masculine qualities. From my perspective, it had to do with her strong jaw-line, broad shoulders, and general musculature. Though I thought she pulled it off as femininely as possible, I would have characterized the look more like the appearance of a woman on steroids. However, I have never noticed ANY of those qualities in regards to Chili. | |
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angel345 said: daingermouz2020 said: So true. I think mothers are more critical of there son's choices in a mate. I think most of the time moms can see and smellthe true motives of another woman.That the man may not be able to see. Absolutely. My mother didn't like any of the men I've dated over the years, including my daughter's father. None of those relationships worked out. Back in the day, I went out on one date with my neighbor's son, but there was no chemistry. However, my mother liked him. I don't know what else to say I don't think my mom approved of my ex wife she delt with it, she liked her.But I don't think she approve 100% [Edited 6/15/09 16:32pm] | |
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daingermouz2020 said: angel345 said: Absolutely. My mother didn't like any of the men I've dated over the years, including my daughter's father. None of those relationships worked out. Back in the day, I went out on one date with my neighbor's son, but there was no chemistry. However, my mother liked him. I don't know what else to say I don't think my mom approved of my ex wife she delt with it, she liked her.But I don't think she approve 100% [Edited 6/15/09 16:32pm] I know what you mean. Though my mother didn't see them as my potential mates, with, she was cordial with them. | |
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brooksie said: Chic35 said: That is why he married her in the first place. Tameka has manly features of a transvestite. Usher been turned out, from way back in the day, that is nothing new. I hope they can reconcile for the kids or at least be civil! Usher likes his women to look manly, Chili was a tomboy to the max. This new jump off he's been seen with around town is manly looking too.
If it is true, Tameka shouldn't give a hoot, she fixing to get broke off properly paid! Let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!!!! Who cares do what you do... Chili looks...manly?  I said Chili was a tomboy to the max she was an exception. I think her dick was bigger than Usher's to be honest! Usher was trying to fight those urges, when he was with Chili. He wanted something more masculine looking after he and Chili broke up. It's a lot of male celebrities out there faking relationships because they are on the down low. I don't really give a damn cause Usher was NEVER handsome to me. He favored a little _____ well whatever it doesn't matter. [Edited 6/15/09 18:31pm] The message you are about to hear are not meant for transmission. Should ONLY be accessed in the privacy of your mind. Words are so intense so if you dare to listen.Take off your clothes and meet me between the lines.  | |
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CalhounSq said: "she a man!"
I love you girlie. "he gay!" "she gettin' paid!" "that marriage was fake!" How do y'all stand your damn selves?? I feel like I'm in a ghat dayum beauty parlor w/ some cacklin' bitches & shitty radio in the background. Where's the exit??!!
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I don't follow Usher very closely,so please hip me. Why do folks think he's gay? Is there some incident or something? | |
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PDogz said: brooksie said: I don't understand the "she looks like a man"...
brooksie said: ...I never thought I'd see the day when someone says Chili looks like a man.
Haven't cared to take any particular note of her appearance recently, but I do recall having observed pictures of Tameka in the past where she did appear to me to have some rather masculine qualities. From my perspective, it had to do with her strong jaw-line, broad shoulders, and general musculature. Though I thought she pulled it off as femininely as possible, I would have characterized the look more like the appearance of a woman on steroids. However, I have never noticed ANY of those qualities in regards to Chili. Just my observation, but I usually come across the "manly" thing when it comes to a woman w/ strong ethnic features. Giselle Bunchen is usually the one I normally see (tho sometimes Kim Kardashian), but it's almost always someone w/ very ethinc features. | |
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brooksie said: I don't follow Usher very closely,so please hip me. Why do folks think he's gay? Is there some incident or something? If you are a male performer and not Prince, you are gay. | |
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brooksie said: CalhounSq said: "she a man!"
"he gay!" "she gettin' paid!" "that marriage was fake!" How do y'all stand your damn selves?? I feel like I'm in a ghat dayum beauty parlor w/ some cacklin' bitches & shitty radio in the background. Where's the exit??!!
. [Edited 6/15/09 15:07pm] I don't understand the "she looks like a man" this or cracking on her age. Usher seems to prefer women older than himself and I'm always at a loss when peope say a woman looks like a man. I mean, what exactly are women SUPPOSED to look like?
I never thought I'd see the day when someone says Chili looks like a man. Yeah, what the hell is up with that? Nobody cared about her look when she was just dating Usher but since she married him and had his babies there have been all this talk about how old she is and how bad she looks. I also find that when people say a certain chick "looks like a man" it's always aimed at either an older woman like 35+ or a dark skinned black woman. Yeah I said it! I'm sick of this "she look like a man " shit. Unless a woman is donning a mustache sans makeup or is bald then why would she look like a man? I mean I could maybe see it if she had a really HARD face but I don't think she does. What are women supposed to look like? Maybe its because she's not wearing 10 pounds of weave and makeup? that would make her look manly because it would be overkill and take away from her feminine beauty. Folk are hard on this woman who is a mother and was a wife. I think folks would have been more satisfied had she been some near white looking shank fresh off the pole. SAD!  | |
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A lot of people speculated, including Tameka and Usher themselves, that the reason that Tameka got shit re her looks is because she is not the typical light skinned biracial woman that a lot of black male celebs marry. Tameka says people are so used to that that they were incredulous that Usher chose her. She says it was people were brainwashed that is how it is supposed to be-black male celebs with biracial women. "Lack of home training crosses all boundaries." | |
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