SCNDLS said:

Girlfriend needs a better dermatologist if she gets cold sores/fever blisters (a different strain of herpes). A good dermatologist would hook her up with some medicine she could take when she felt it coming on to prevent a cold sore/fever blister from exploding on her lip.

Cinnamon234 said:

You're right. It's just crazy...

zoetruluv said:

He mentioned the abuse, but was adamant it wasn't his father. I assume it was a live-in boyfriend or something.

Terrible. And, yes, definitely an eye opener with regard to how the abuse cycle works.

TonyVanDam said:

Yeah, I heard from my little brother that he hit her because she gave him herpes. I don't know how reliable that info is since he says he read it on Facebook. Still, I wouldn't be too quick to judge.

That's about the only scenario he'd get a pass (from me anyway).

whodknee said:

He still doesn't to me. I'm like if you're gonna stay with someone who has a cold sore and not have someone correct that problem, then why would you hit them for it? Doesn't sound rational at all. Like Cinnamon said, Chris sounds like a dummy and is a dummy.

Mysterioso said:

OK...his sake? I agree, but for her sake too. If he beat her up he should have his ass locked up.

Timmy84 said:

Well, Herpes isn't curable. And I'm going on record right here and now saying that if a muthafucka gives me ANY STD I'ma beat his fuckin' ass. I'ma do my BEST to fuck him up. Just sayin'. . .

SCNDLS said:

I guess everyone handles it their own way. But if I ask someone if they have an STD, I'd tell them to get the fuck out. Much better than an ass-whooping!

Anyways, Bill Duke wants to add in his two cents on Chris:

Timmy84 said:

Of course I'd break up with him, but the ass-whoppin' would make me feel better and prepare me mentally for coping with the shit.

SCNDLS said:

You could just bash his brains in with the bat. Least you had good reason. We men can't do it because it'll be jail time on our ass. That's what happen to Chris if this in fact was the case. LOL!

SCNDLS said:

True, but what I'm seeing in the pictures looks like a fever blister; which is a form of herpes, but not the same as genital herpes. (It's like the difference between hepatitis B and C for example.) I know people who have gotten fever blisters/cold sores since they were children so that's not quite the same as having an STD, imo. Maybe that is the situation with Rhianna, IF that picture shows her with a fever blister.

Regardless, for a man to hit a woman over a fever blister, or an STD is unacceptable. The only time it's permissible for guys to hit women is in self-defense. I also don't think it's acceptable for women to hit men, even if the guy is bigger. Physical violence is not okay, period.

Timmy84 said:

True, but I'd risk jail if that happened to me. Not saying that this is the case with Chris and Riri. But my initial reaction would be: I'ma fuck his ass UP.

DevotedPuppy said:

In hindsight, you're right. It's not cool at all. When you hear about so many abusive relationships, it's a scary thing.

SCNDLS said:

I hear so many women say that when they find out their man is cheating on them. I've seen other women instead of battery just throw the man's clothes out, burn it and then burn other equipment.

Some did the Angela Bassett on their men!

"Leaving me for a white woman when only a white woman can tolerate your SMUG ass!
Hell I was your WHITE WOMAN for 11 years!
Couldn't have started that damn company without me, hell I WORKED my ass off!!!!"


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DevotedPuppy said:

Regardless of whether it is oral or genital herpes, both are still incurable. And although I know that physical violence is not okay, my initial reaction to finding out someone gave me something would be: I'ma fuck him up. And I swear to God I'd do my best to do just that.

Timmy84 said:

I've thrown a nucca's shit on the lawn for much less than cheating. So trust and believe for something as egregious as infecting me with an incurable disease: I'ma fuck his ASS up.
And I ain't playin' either.

SCNDLS said:

I feel ya.

Timmy84 said:

So, would you contribute to my bail fund?

SCNDLS said:

Shoot, I could give you $1,000 right now.

Timmy84 said:

You ain't said nuthin' but a word. Now. . . who needs an ass whuppin'???
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SCNDLS said:

You'd beat someone's ass over a fever blister? Really? Okay. That seems a little extreme to me. I get a fever blister on the right side of my lower lip (always in the same spot) when I am really stressed out and/or don't get enough sleep -- I have since college -- and I have had to tell the boyfriend that he couldn't kiss me until it went away. He said he didn't care if he got one, he didn't like not being able to kiss me. I was like, "Umm, yes you should care. You don't want a fever blister. They hurt." Fortunately my dermatologist is the bomb and hooked me up with an essentially bottomless prescription so I always have medicine on hand to take when I feel one starting and can avoid the nasty, swollen lip.




edit: probably too much info but whatever. a lot of people get fever blisters/cold sores.
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shes gonna need to check into rehab

I feel so sorry for her if this is True. I heard she was VERY JEALOUS and had somebody watching him or something when she wasn't around and I just Knew this sounded like a recipe for Disaster. They weren't married and even if they were you can never prevent a man from looking or cheating if he wants to. Plus they are both young. He shouldn't have punched a woman and if she started it she is also wrong. I think they should DEFINITELY BREAK-UP. She is Beautiful and could get anybody she wants. It never changes and it's best not to be in this kind of relationship.

SCNDLS said:

Beyonce!!!

from last week:



I can't deny....

DevotedPuppy said:

My younger sister has gotten them for as long as I can remember, always in the same spot. As a matter of fact, she has one, right now. They always show up in the midst of winter. It's something that we've grown accustomed to. When they show up, she stops wearing her lipstick and treats them with her medication from her dermatologist and avoids kissing her boyfriends and letting anyone drink behind her.

It wasn't until we were grown that I discovered they were a form of Herpes but that's never changed how I feel about or treat her.

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

When money talks...bullshit walks! $50,000 cash and he's out on bail!

http://www.people.com/peo...28,00.html
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I'm going to bed now but if you want an eye full...check out Rihanna's and Chris Brown's MySpace pages! DAMN!
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