SCNDLS said:

What does the length of time have to do with anything? My great grandparents knew each other for 2 weeks before they were married and they were together for 35 years. They would probably still be married if one had not died. Biggie and Faith obviously loved each other. Maybe not enough for all the extra stuff to stop, but enough.

Smooches;)

sassybritches said:

Whoa! How and at what point did he forget about of his kid?


Smooches;)

Wow @ Voletta...

Notorious BIG's Mother Believes Rapper Cheated On Lil' Kim

She wants meeting...

by Jason Gregory
Saturday, January 17, 2009

Voletta Wallace, the mother of the late Notorious BIG, has said she believes her son cheated on his girlfriend, Lil’ Kim.

Wallace, who co-produced the recent bio-pic Notorious, also said she wanted to meet with Lil’ Kim to discuss who ill-felling towards the film.

"I felt bad for Kim. Bad because Christopher (Wallace, Notorious BIG) did not treat her well," Wallace told a US radio station.

"Christopher didn't love her the way she deserved to be loved. I honestly felt Christopher cheated on her, Christopher lied to her."

Wallace also acknowledged that Lil’ Kim was understandably hurt when the rapper married Faith Evans in 1994 following a short whirlwind romance.

"If you're gonna get married and you're dating somebody and seeing somebody, at least sit down and talk to this person," she said.

"Don't just go get married and walk away from somebody that really cared for you. I really felt bad for her."

As previously reported on Gigwise, Lil’ Kim has voiced her anger at Notorious, saying she doesn’t like the way she is portrayed in the film.

Wallace said she would like to meet with Lil’ Kim because she wanted to "believe" that she loved her son.

Notorious charts the rapper’s rise to international stardom, which came to a tragic end in a drive-by shooting in Los Angeles in 1997.

MsMisha319 said:

When you're dealing with a clearly dysfunctional womanizer, drug dealer, drug user, and abuser, a girl MIGHT wanna take her time before jumping the broom. But, uh, okay, maybe that's just me.
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MsMisha319 said:

When you're dealing with a clearly dysfunctional womanizer, drug dealer, drug user, and abuser, a girl MIGHT wanna take her time before jumping the broom. But, uh, okay, maybe that's just me.
[Edited 1/17/09 10:36am]

LiquidGold said:

I read someplace recently that Kim claimed Big had called her the night before he died saying those two would talk about moving things forward in the relationship department once he moved back to NY. But that part in the movie? Like he was at that hot party, getting ready to leave, and while he waited for his car to pull up, pulled out his cell phone to call and tell Kim some mess like that. RANDOM as hell.

He may have had those conversations about bringing his children out while he was in Cally, but all that calling from a party?

I do think the movie captured the essence of Big and Kim's dysfunctional relationship. From all accounts, he treated her pretty badly. Too bad they didn't show him making her have an abortion or putting that gun to her head. Makes me wonder if Kim exaggerated some stuff after his death to make it seem as though their relationship was more than it was. I mean, was she REALLY ever pregnant by Big? She struck me as such a fool in love she would've had his baby because she worshipped him to the point of wanting to always have a piece of him. And I think she claimed she found out and aborted after he was killed. She would've had that child to "always rep Biggie" and have something to remember him by.

And, yes, you can wait for netflix to have this one. I went to the matinee--with a free movie ticket. (Those reward programs they have pay off.) I don't think I would've paid a full $9-10 on it.

SCNDLS said:

Well, it wasn't clear to her yet. She hadn't known him long enough


Smooches;)

It seems that a lot of people were looking for lil kim's role in this movie to be bigger than it was. This was not a movie about her and I'm sure she was a small part of his life. I heard an interview the other day that Ms Wallace gave in which she states that this movie would not focus primarily on Big and Kim's relationship, for the simple fact that so much of what kim has said about their relationship was said AFTER he died...leading one to believe that she exaggerated a lot.

I personally didn't want her to have a bigger role than what she had. She was the side bitch. Faith was his wife and she deserved to have a bigger role than Kim He wifed her for a reason.


Smooches;)

SCNDLS said:

You can't help who you love, you just love them. We don't know what Faith in Biggie, but she saw something passed the persona that you just described. It think that's what's most important.

You know what was BIG's full real name?

Christopher George Latore Wallace. He was named after his father, a Jamaican-based welder named George Latore.

MsMisha319 said:

He "wifed" her after 3 weeks. At least Kim got with him before be became famous

Timmy84 said:

So why do people call moms MRS Wallace???

SCNDLS said:

Sometimes in the west indian culture, the son will take on the mother's name is the parents are not together.

MsMisha319 said:

He "wifed" her after 3 weeks. At least Kim got with him before be became famous

SCNDLS said:

Sometimes in the west indian culture, the son will take on the mother's name is the parents are not together.

shorttrini said:

Yeah, it's suppose to be like that in the states too, but I think the question was why do some call her Mrs as opposed to Ms since Wallace is her maiden name

sassybritches said:

Whoa! How and at what point did he forget about of his kid?


Smooches;)

SCNDLS said:

You can't help who you love, you just love them. We don't know what Faith in Biggie, but she saw something passed the persona that you just described. It think that's what's most important.

LiquidGold said:

The legend and Wikipedia says they married after NINE days.

SCNDLS said:

The movie stated 3 weeks. Wow, I can't even wrap my brain around that. No wonder gay people are pissed

sassybritches said:

Yes, he sold drugs, but the money that came from it, was used to feed his little girl. I don't if you have have children, but when it comes to mine, I would do anything to make sure that she has what she needs. Biggie rapped about what was going on his his neigborhood and the surrounding streets, and that's all he knew. How is that promoting violence? If one rap song can drive a person into doing something violent, then the problem is with that person, not the song.

shorttrini said:

You insult black men when you defend fools in this way. Most of us grew up on the streets. I have never sold a drug in my life. There are always answers if you're not looking for the quick and easy way out. Poisoning our people is counter-productive no matter how you look at it and either you are part of th problem or part of the solution. Biggie was part of the problem. His music was bullshit.

Timmy84 said:

So why do people call moms MRS Wallace???

BlaqueKnight said:

Not to mention he started dealing drugs at the ripe old age of TWELVE while he was still in private school and his mother was busy working TWO jobs to support him. I don't think he had a child to support at that time, but I could be wrong, not that that's an excuse anyway.

SCNDLS said:

The only reason he sold drugs was to get new sneakers

LiquidGold said:

Was that in the movie??? Cuz I wanna say that I remember hearing that in an interview or Behind the Music.
[Edited 1/17/09 11:32am]

SCNDLS said:

Yes. He saw some kids with sneakers and chains and went to his drug dealing friend and started dealing. Then, it cuts to him as a teenager, going to the roof and changing clothes before going to school: He pulls out fresh white sneakers and a chain. He wasn't trying to support anybody then. He had no intention on stopping and even sold crack to a pregnant woman. He continued when he found out he was going to be a father, but that wasn't why he started. He could have gotten a real job