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Reply #150 posted 11/30/08 7:29am

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WildStyle said:

Arnotts said:


What you said is not really something to think about. First of all Michael can't marry a man even if he wanted to, and who knows if he ever has 'fucked' a man before. None of that is more evidencec to either side.


Well we already know that he married and fucked Lisa Marie. There is no evidence at all that he has ever had a relationship with a man. Going by that, he's straight 'til he says he ain't.


how can you be sure if they really slept with each other? Lisa Marie probably lied.

I think maybe there's a chance he could come out if his parents die.
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Reply #151 posted 11/30/08 8:22am

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graecophilos said:

WildStyle said:



Well we already know that he married and fucked Lisa Marie. There is no evidence at all that he has ever had a relationship with a man. Going by that, he's straight 'til he says he ain't.


how can you be sure if they really slept with each other? Lisa Marie probably lied.

I think maybe there's a chance he could come out if his parents die.


now that's a logic I don't understand...Michael could have lied to prove he's straight but why would Lisa Marie lie? Please elaborate. It just seems a like a deperate attempt to prove he's gay.

I dont know if MJ is gay or not, but it's foolish to suggest Lisa and MJ didnt fuck
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Reply #152 posted 11/30/08 11:43am

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I hate hate HATE pedophilia and homosexuality being mentioned in the same sentence

Well, when you're talking about a gay paedophile, it's hard to avoid.
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Reply #153 posted 11/30/08 11:47am

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midnightmover said:

Do you guys have one shred of evidence that Janet's hatred for Madonna comes from Madge trying to "out" her brother? It sounds like pure speculation to me. Hell, the hatred could just as easily stem from that moment in Truth or Dare where one of her dancers said her outfit looked like Janet, and Madonna told him to "bite your tongue". lol It could also stem from plain old fashioned jealousy. I remember hearing once that Janet also had strong competitive feelings with..... Mariah Carey. confuse lol


That doesn't make sense - during that period, Janet was more successful than Madonna.

I make no definitive statement on it one way or the other, but I can think of about half a dozen reasons why Janet would be jealous of Madonna regardless of her temporary sales advantage.

As for Janet & Mariah, they have been friends for a long time.

Ain't nothing faker than diva-"friendship". wink
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Reply #154 posted 11/30/08 12:00pm

LightOfArt

nevermind confused
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Reply #155 posted 11/30/08 12:04pm

midnightmover

LightOfArt said:

midnightmover said:


Well, when you're talking about a gay paedophile, it's hard to avoid.


In the future please refrain from responding to me. thanks smile

Dude, you've responded to me numerous times, so it's a bit rich to complain when I do the same to you.
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Reply #156 posted 11/30/08 12:20pm

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midnightmover said:

LightOfArt said:



In the future please refrain from responding to me. thanks smile

Dude, you've responded to me numerous times, so it's a bit rich to complain when I do the same to you.


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Reply #157 posted 11/30/08 12:32pm

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LightOfArt said:

midnightmover said:


Dude, you've responded to me numerous times, so it's a bit rich to complain when I do the same to you.



As a sane, rational adult, what do you think the likelihood is of that having the slightest effect? lol I ain't going nowhere, dude. Deal with it. wink
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Reply #158 posted 11/30/08 12:41pm

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I tried my best yall confused
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Reply #159 posted 11/30/08 1:54pm

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graecophilos said:

WildStyle said:



Well we already know that he married and fucked Lisa Marie. There is no evidence at all that he has ever had a relationship with a man. Going by that, he's straight 'til he says he ain't.


how can you be sure if they really slept with each other? Lisa Marie probably lied.

I think maybe there's a chance he could come out if his parents die.

She said it on the Howard Stern show back when her first album came out when she said he used her.

She told Howard that Michael likes to role play.....

and that was then I turned the volume off lol
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Reply #160 posted 11/30/08 2:09pm

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graecophilos said:



how can you be sure if they really slept with each other? Lisa Marie probably lied.

I think maybe there's a chance he could come out if his parents die.

She said it on the Howard Stern show back when her first album came out when she said he used her.

She told Howard that Michael likes to role play.....

and that was then I turned the volume off lol

Of course. Michael's whole relationship with Lisa was role playing. lol

Lisa's made it very clear that Michael was using her to boost his image after the child sex abuse scandal. Everyone knew he was just trying to make himself look straight, but she naively believed his "humble" routine. She wasn't the first or the last person to be taken in by Michael's act.
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Reply #161 posted 11/30/08 5:12pm

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Not only does Micheal realize that he is catering to gay fans, but who runs the entertainment business? Gay Zionists. If any artist speaks out against those two categories, their career is over. Not to say that gay is right.
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Reply #162 posted 11/30/08 6:17pm

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I think that Michael is bisexual, or at least has had gay experiences.

All signs, imo, his relationships with womens, closeness with male friends, his ambiguity, etc, imo hints toward bisexuality, or at least not being sure of sexuality at some point... He seems to have an attraction to both strong male figures, and sultry/scandalous female figures. Do I think he's simply gay? Nope... I think if Michael were gay, it would have already been out, and life probably would have been much simpler for him. Some sort of gay porn probably would have also been found. At least a Abercrombie and Fitch catalog, or something else. Very few, simply gay men stockpile hetero. granny and barely legal porn... Porn doesn't equal his sexuality, but it gives us hints... There are been 'hints' of Michael being interested in males as well, not strong ones, he's very private, but a few vacant hints.... All of this, to me, points toward bisexuality...or at least a curiosity....

The thing is, far more people are comfortable with homosexuality, than public bisexuality, and seeing people's partners change from male, to female.

Was the public truly prepared to see Michael, or anyone really, bring Jane to the red carpet, and James the next? Claiming to be bisexual, became a fad, became a way to generate attention, and cause shock... We have still yet to see many major public figure, live an open bisexual life in public.

Nope...not yet anyway....

I also found it interesting that he had such a close friendship with Marlon Brando.... Not implying anything sexual between them, but Brando was bisexual...
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Reply #163 posted 12/01/08 6:35am

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LightOfArt said:

graecophilos said:



how can you be sure if they really slept with each other? Lisa Marie probably lied.

I think maybe there's a chance he could come out if his parents die.


now that's a logic I don't understand...Michael could have lied to prove he's straight but why would Lisa Marie lie? Please elaborate. It just seems a like a deperate attempt to prove he's gay.

I dont know if MJ is gay or not, but it's foolish to suggest Lisa and MJ didnt fuck


Why wouldn't she lie for him? Hell, back in the early 1990s when I first came out to myself, my best friend at the time, who was a female, lied to my mother when she asked her if we were dating. She told her yes. She thought she was doing me a favor. A female friend lying about their relationship with a gay man to protect them is very common.
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Reply #164 posted 12/01/08 6:57am

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You guys are just reaching now. More like you want him to be gay for some reason lol
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Reply #165 posted 12/01/08 8:21am

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WildStyle said:

You guys are just reaching now. More like you want him to be gay for some reason lol


Hell naw. Believe me, the last thing I would want to do is claim that loony toon as being one of my own because he's an embarassment to my kind. However, the signs are there. lol
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Reply #166 posted 12/01/08 8:50am

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midnightmover said:

bboy87 said:


She said it on the Howard Stern show back when her first album came out when she said he used her.

She told Howard that Michael likes to role play.....

and that was then I turned the volume off lol

Of course. Michael's whole relationship with Lisa was role playing. lol

Lisa's made it very clear that Michael was using her to boost his image after the child sex abuse scandal. Everyone knew he was just trying to make himself look straight, but she naively believed his "humble" routine. She wasn't the first or the last person to be taken in by Michael's act.

Lisa made NOTHING clear.
In Prime Time she said:
isa Marie Presley: Oh, God.

Diane Sawyer: Michael Jackson!

Lisa Marie Presley: I thought you were going to go here first. I was hoping you'd forgot.

Diane Sawyer: Why did you marry Michael Jackson?

Lisa Marie Presley: Okay, can I just, well ...

Diane Sawyer: What were you doing?

Lisa Marie Presley: Um, let me, let me now ... I've been trying to go through this. I haven't thought much about this, what I was going to say and I just figured it would fly out of my mouth. Okay, first of all, he was very quick to ... the first time I met him, sit me down and go, "Listen, I'm not gay. I know you think this, I know you think that", and he started cursing and started, you know, being a normal person. And I was like, "Wow!" So I get caught up in that I'm pulled in right away. Like, "Wow, you're so misunderstood. Oh my God, you're this guy." I fell into this whole, "You poor, sweet misunderstood thing, I'm going to save you." I fell into that. I fell in love with him, I did.

Diane Sawyer: In love?

Lisa Marie Presley: Yes, I fell in love at the time. Now ...

Diane Sawyer: Sexual attraction?

Lisa Marie Presley: I told you everything I said was the truth.

Diane Sawyer: Sexual attraction?

Lisa Marie Presley: At the time. Yeah.

Diane Sawyer: What did your mother say?

Lisa Marie Presley: She called me and said, you know, "Oh Lisa, there's helicopters outside the house and they're saying you married Michael Jackson", and I go ... I was just quiet and she goes, "You didn't?" She goes, "You didn't?" And I go, "Yeah, I did" and then it was just, you know, that was that was game on for me. Whoo! Mum doesn't like it, let's go!

Diane Sawyer: She didn't you know you were going to get married?

Lisa Marie Presley: No, no that was quick, that was like run away and do this quick thing.

Diane Sawyer: And you did live together?

Lisa Marie Presley: Yeah.

Diane Sawyer: I didn't believe that.

Lisa Marie Presley: Well, let's just put it this way, if he was in town, he was at my house.

Diane Sawyer: Which was how often?

Lisa Marie Presley: I don't know. It started to get less and less towards the end.

Diane Sawyer: Again, you can slug me on this question but I've got to go back. So these were, like, romantic nights?

Lisa Marie Presley: Mmm, mmm, yeah. I don't remember them very well, but yes. I mean, it was normal. I wasn't going to get married if it wasn't that.

Diane Sawyer: By the time Lisa Marie Presley married Michael Jackson, Jackson reportedly had been treated for addiction to painkillers. He was also under siege. He had been investigated for child molestation with a 12-year-old boy. Jackson settled a civil suit with the family reportedly for millions of dollars and his camp implied he was the victim of extortion.

Lisa Marie Presley: I was already friends with him, there was already some romantic stuff going on a little bit before that happened. So it was like, I was already like, you know, I was the only one he would be calling so I felt all privileged and, you know, that he was trusting me and telling me what happened and it was very convincing and I believed him, at the time.

Diane Sawyer: But she says her mother looked at the timing of the marriage and tried to make her see something else.

Lisa Marie Presley: That's what my mum was trying to point out like "Hello, are you awake? Can you see this might be co-ordinating or coinciding with something else?" And I didn't see that, like, I was young. I don't know. I mean, it looked a little suspicious but at the same time I know that he loved me, you know, as much as he can love someone, I think he did.

Diane Sawyer: What do you mean as much as he can love someone?

Lisa Marie Presley: I just mean, you know, as much as he can be capable of doing that. It's not something he's used to doing is having relationships with women, you know? He's sort of been a one-man show his whole life.

Diane Sawyer: How did it end? What happened?

Lisa Marie Presley: It just kind of went really sour, really fast.

Diane Sawyer: But you filed for divorce from Michael?

Lisa Marie Presley: Yes.

Diane Sawyer: And how did you tell him that was it?

Lisa Marie Presley: It was when he was, you know, it was over the phone. I'd had enough. There was a lot of stuff going on then. It got really ugly at the end. It wasn't pretty but I don't want to get into it.

Diane Sawyer: Did he fight you getting a divorce?

Lisa Marie Presley: No, he ... I think he got on to, you know, getting somebody else pregnant, right? Or having a baby. That's what he wanted. He seemed to get on that pretty quick. You know, I don't know.

Diane Sawyer: Did it shake your confidence?

Lisa Marie Presley: Yeah, I was pretty much needed to be mopped up off the floor after that one.


Here you have it. How could he used her for something that did not even exist? She said there was something going on BEFORE that happened. Now, even Priscilla confirmed he wanted to meet her back when she was 18. So why would he contact her back than when there was nothing to be repaired?

As you can see, it was Priscilla who convinced Lisa, she was being used because Priscilla never liked MJ.

And at the end, she kinda makes it clear why they divorced. She didn´t wanna have any more kids at that time, but Mike did. And the fact that it shook her confidence means to me, that that she loved him and she must have been sure that he was sleeping with someone else to get kids. Otherwise, I don´t udnerstand why her confidence would be shaken.

At the end of the interview, she also said that Michael called her after the divorce with Nick Cage to see if she was OK. If he didn´t love her and only used her for anything, why would he bother calling her years later to make sure she was OK?
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"When Michael Jackson is just singing and dancing, you just think this is an astonishing talent. And he has had this astounding talent all his life, but we want him to be floored as well. We really don´t like the idea that he could have it all."
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Reply #167 posted 12/01/08 10:54am

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MJ fans look like loons when they try to prove/disprove anything based on his first marriage...

Just, please let it go... lol
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Reply #168 posted 12/01/08 12:09pm

midnightmover

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MJ fans look like loons when they try to prove/disprove anything based on his first marriage...

Just, please let it go... lol

The blinkers these guys wear are pretty amazing, aren't they? Jonathan Ross asked her point blank if she thought Michael used her and she said "It certainly seems that way, yes". What the loons don't realise is that Lisa is walking a tightrope everytime she talks about Michael. She promised Michael she wouldn't bad-mouth him, but she also says enough to make it clear what went down. She sums up her dilemma here... "I'm not into Michael-bashing at all. I have no interest in doing that. I know people want to know what that was about, and I'm trying to say it without making him a bad guy, you know. . . . It's hard to do, because it was such a bad situation and it was so fucked up."
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Reply #169 posted 12/01/08 12:17pm

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Even in the interview daq quoted she tries to defend him by saying they lived together, but when Sawyer challenges her on that she says "Well, if he was in town he would come to my house". When asked how often that was she says "I don't know". lol When asked if these were romantic nights she says "Mmm, mmm, yeah. I don't remember them very well, but yes. I mean, it was normal."..... lol "I don't remember them very well"?! Best way to mitigate a lie is always to plead a faulty memory. It gives you more room for manouvre. This is clearly a girl walking a thin line between not wanting to lie too blatantly, but also trying not to make herself look like a total sucker at the same time (bare in mind she described him elsewhere as sexually reluctant). Here's an interview where she lays it down more clearly.....


They were introduced at the friend's house, and that is how it started.
'He immediately went into this whole explanation of what he knew people thought of him and what the truth was'.
Which was persuasive?
'Yeah. You get sucked into the 'you poor, misunderstood person, you'. I'm a sucker for that.
After that first conversation, they were friends who talked. Then the child-abuse accusations surfaced, and Michael Jackson's world exploded. 'That whole shit hit the fan', Presley recalls, 'and he was quick to call me and tell me what his side of the story was, so it looked like an extortion situation. I believed him, because he was so convincing'. She frowns wryly. 'I don't know. . . . I just believed everything he said, for some reason. It's very strange, because there's not a lot of people who he'll allow to see who he really is -- there's probably only five or six people, not including kids, who have seen who he really is. But when you do . . . ' She smiles. 'He didn't get where he is because he's an idiot. You see a real person who's very much the opposite of what he was presenting'. Jackson was under attack, and it brought out Presley's protectiveness. 'I got into this whole 'I'm going to save you' thing', she says. 'I thought all that stuff he was doing -- philanthropy and the children thing and all this stuff -- was awesome, and maybe we could save the world together'. She pauses. 'OK. Hello. I was delusionary. I got some romantic idea in my head that I could save him and we could save the world'.
At this point she was still married, and they were yet to become girlfriend and boyfriend. 'He called me a lot', she says. 'Confided in me a lot. Which could be very manipulative -- I don't know. I hung out with him more, and I made the mistake of saying I was not happy in my marriage, and the courting started. And I left [my marriage] probably quicker than I would have, and that was probably one of the bigger mistakes of my whole life'.
When you say 'courting', do you mean as between any boy and girl?
'Yeah. Flowers. Calls. Candies. You name it . . . everything started coming'.
I think people are still pretty incredulous at the idea that you had any kind of normal married relationship with him.
'Right'.
But I presume that is the case.
'That is the case. Like I said, I got caught up in this thing of 'it was all a show'. That was my first experience with being accused of that, which was shocking for me'.
But, to be clear, is it fair to say that in private you were doing all the things that married people do: kissing, going to bed together, having sex?
'Yeah. That was part of it, for a while. And then it became the Def Con 2. It just got really ugly at the end'.
Before that, when it was good, was it your understanding that that was what he wanted?
A pause. 'I don't know what he wanted anymore. I know that it looks very timely for him, in retrospect -- the record was coming out, that other shit was happening, and I was too caught up in . . . ' She stops, and recasts the thought. 'I can tell you my intentions; I can't tell you what his were'.
News of their union leaked out slowly -- of a marriage in the Dominican Republic in May 1994, first denied, then confirmed. Their first surreal public appearance was opening the 1994 MTV Video Music Awards, during which -- as they stood center stage -- Jackson kissed her fully on the lips.
'That was not my idea, by the way', she says. 'I was terrified. It was his manager's idea. I thought it was stupid. All of a sudden I became part of a PR machine'.
It seemed like a blatant gimmick to prove -- to start with -- that he was straight.
'Yeah, but again, I wasn't looking at it like that. See, if I had been, that wouldn't have ever happened'
.
Even stranger and more astonishing was the interview the married couple gave to Diane Sawyer in 1995, in which Presley steadfastly defended her husband, the genuineness of their relationship and his character.
'I don't recognize who I was then, now, watching it', she says. 'I was really in this lioness thing with him -- I wanted to protect him. Naive as all hell. I never thought for a moment that someone like him could actually use me for any reason like that. It never crossed my mind, and I don't know why -- I'm sure it crossed everybody else's'.
People are still confused by Michael Jackson's love of a certain kind of relationship with young kids, whether it's totally innocent or not. And you made a huge defense in the Diane Sawyer interview of how you watched him with kids and how it was all totally innocent. Is that what you think on reflection?
'The only thing I can say is that I didn't see anything that would ever allude to that ever. Otherwise I would have been the first one out there going, 'You motherfucker'. I've got children. But I never saw anything like that. I meant what I said when I said it, because I didn't see anything weird or bizarre like that ever. And I did notice that he had an amazing connection to kids, whether it be a small baby or a two-year-old girl or a four-year-old -- children really responded to him'.
Back then did you ever worry or even think whether there could be any truth in what he was accused of?
'Did I ever worry? Of course I fucking worried. Yeah. I did. But I could only come up with what he told me. The only two people that were in the room was him and that kid, so how the hell was I going to know? I could only go off what he told me'.
And what do you think now?
She purses her lips. 'I don't know. I still don't know. I wasn't there.
She says, by way of recap, this: 'I understand it did affect people's perception of me. That's fine; I understand why. But I did fall in love with him. I can't say what his intentions were, but I can tell you mine was that I absolutely fell in love with him and fell into this whole thing which I'm not proud of now'.
Do you rule out that he fell in love with you?
'As much as he can, possibly. I don't know how much he can access love, really. I think as much as he can love somebody he might have loved me. It was always like a mind that was constantly working. It was a scary thing -- somebody who's constantly at work, calculating, calculating, manipulating. And he scared me like that'.
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Reply #170 posted 12/01/08 12:44pm

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Even in the interview daq quoted she tries to defend him by saying they lived together, but when Sawyer challenges her on that she says "Well, if he was in town he would come to my house". When asked how often that was she says "I don't know". lol When asked if these were romantic nights she says "Mmm, mmm, yeah. I don't remember them very well, but yes. I mean, it was normal."..... lol "I don't remember them very well"?! Best way to mitigate a lie is always to plead a faulty memory. It gives you more room for manouvre. This is clearly a girl walking a thin line between not wanting to lie too blatantly, but also trying not to make herself look like a total sucker at the same time (bare in mind she described him elsewhere as sexually reluctant). Here's an interview where she lays it down more clearly.....


They were introduced at the friend's house, and that is how it started.
'He immediately went into this whole explanation of what he knew people thought of him and what the truth was'.
Which was persuasive?
'Yeah. You get sucked into the 'you poor, misunderstood person, you'. I'm a sucker for that.
After that first conversation, they were friends who talked. Then the child-abuse accusations surfaced, and Michael Jackson's world exploded. 'That whole shit hit the fan', Presley recalls, 'and he was quick to call me and tell me what his side of the story was, so it looked like an extortion situation. I believed him, because he was so convincing'. She frowns wryly. 'I don't know. . . . I just believed everything he said, for some reason. It's very strange, because there's not a lot of people who he'll allow to see who he really is -- there's probably only five or six people, not including kids, who have seen who he really is. But when you do . . . ' She smiles. 'He didn't get where he is because he's an idiot. You see a real person who's very much the opposite of what he was presenting'. Jackson was under attack, and it brought out Presley's protectiveness. 'I got into this whole 'I'm going to save you' thing', she says. 'I thought all that stuff he was doing -- philanthropy and the children thing and all this stuff -- was awesome, and maybe we could save the world together'. She pauses. 'OK. Hello. I was delusionary. I got some romantic idea in my head that I could save him and we could save the world'.
At this point she was still married, and they were yet to become girlfriend and boyfriend. 'He called me a lot', she says. 'Confided in me a lot. Which could be very manipulative -- I don't know. I hung out with him more, and I made the mistake of saying I was not happy in my marriage, and the courting started. And I left [my marriage] probably quicker than I would have, and that was probably one of the bigger mistakes of my whole life'.
When you say 'courting', do you mean as between any boy and girl?
'Yeah. Flowers. Calls. Candies. You name it . . . everything started coming'.
I think people are still pretty incredulous at the idea that you had any kind of normal married relationship with him.
'Right'.
But I presume that is the case.
'That is the case. Like I said, I got caught up in this thing of 'it was all a show'. That was my first experience with being accused of that, which was shocking for me'.
But, to be clear, is it fair to say that in private you were doing all the things that married people do: kissing, going to bed together, having sex?
'Yeah. That was part of it, for a while. And then it became the Def Con 2. It just got really ugly at the end'.
Before that, when it was good, was it your understanding that that was what he wanted?
A pause. 'I don't know what he wanted anymore. I know that it looks very timely for him, in retrospect -- the record was coming out, that other shit was happening, and I was too caught up in . . . ' She stops, and recasts the thought. 'I can tell you my intentions; I can't tell you what his were'.
News of their union leaked out slowly -- of a marriage in the Dominican Republic in May 1994, first denied, then confirmed. Their first surreal public appearance was opening the 1994 MTV Video Music Awards, during which -- as they stood center stage -- Jackson kissed her fully on the lips.
'That was not my idea, by the way', she says. 'I was terrified. It was his manager's idea. I thought it was stupid. All of a sudden I became part of a PR machine'.
It seemed like a blatant gimmick to prove -- to start with -- that he was straight.
'Yeah, but again, I wasn't looking at it like that. See, if I had been, that wouldn't have ever happened'
.
Even stranger and more astonishing was the interview the married couple gave to Diane Sawyer in 1995, in which Presley steadfastly defended her husband, the genuineness of their relationship and his character.
'I don't recognize who I was then, now, watching it', she says. 'I was really in this lioness thing with him -- I wanted to protect him. Naive as all hell. I never thought for a moment that someone like him could actually use me for any reason like that. It never crossed my mind, and I don't know why -- I'm sure it crossed everybody else's'.
People are still confused by Michael Jackson's love of a certain kind of relationship with young kids, whether it's totally innocent or not. And you made a huge defense in the Diane Sawyer interview of how you watched him with kids and how it was all totally innocent. Is that what you think on reflection?
'The only thing I can say is that I didn't see anything that would ever allude to that ever. Otherwise I would have been the first one out there going, 'You motherfucker'. I've got children. But I never saw anything like that. I meant what I said when I said it, because I didn't see anything weird or bizarre like that ever. And I did notice that he had an amazing connection to kids, whether it be a small baby or a two-year-old girl or a four-year-old -- children really responded to him'.
Back then did you ever worry or even think whether there could be any truth in what he was accused of?
'Did I ever worry? Of course I fucking worried. Yeah. I did. But I could only come up with what he told me. The only two people that were in the room was him and that kid, so how the hell was I going to know? I could only go off what he told me'.
And what do you think now?
She purses her lips. 'I don't know. I still don't know. I wasn't there.
She says, by way of recap, this: 'I understand it did affect people's perception of me. That's fine; I understand why. But I did fall in love with him. I can't say what his intentions were, but I can tell you mine was that I absolutely fell in love with him and fell into this whole thing which I'm not proud of now'.
Do you rule out that he fell in love with you?
'As much as he can, possibly. I don't know how much he can access love, really. I think as much as he can love somebody he might have loved me. It was always like a mind that was constantly working. It was a scary thing -- somebody who's constantly at work, calculating, calculating, manipulating. And he scared me like that'.


See, she´s calling the fact that he called her a lot manipulative. Well, maybe she was one of the very few people he trusted at that difficult time, that´s why he called her a lot.

See, it is very easy to start believing that someone used you when everyone around you keeps trying to convince you that way and especially if you have people reacting to that the way Diane did:

And the fact that she gets heavily influenced by what other people say is when she says that the timing was OK perfect for him, but she was the one who made the timing possible, getting divorced at that time and refusing to meet him when he first wanted to meet her. If it was only up to him, the timing would have been shifted. And of course the public got suspicious given what was happening at that time, but she knows he was interested a long time before that, that´s why she says one thing in one interview and another in other interview. She knows the truth about the timing (the truth confirmed even by Priscilla), but the whole world tells her the opposite and how could possibly the whole world be wrong?

In prime time interview she also said that she couldn´t imagine him being like that (sexual) and that he quickly desilusioned her about that idea. Another contradiction from her.

She has contradicted herself so much about him that and obviously her quotes have been misused to many times that she started issuing statements that she does not stand behind some of her interviews. And while midnightmover raised some questions, he/she still did not answer mine.

And for someone who had never worked before, MJ´s working schedule at that time must have scared her. lol
"When Michael Jackson is just singing and dancing, you just think this is an astonishing talent. And he has had this astounding talent all his life, but we want him to be floored as well. We really don´t like the idea that he could have it all."
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Reply #171 posted 12/01/08 1:38pm

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MJ once said and just paraphrasing that the more controversial he is, the more famous he is. Look how he keeps us guessing and wondering about him.
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Reply #172 posted 12/01/08 1:49pm

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bravo to all of you for keeping this thread alive lol
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Reply #173 posted 12/01/08 2:06pm

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bboy87 said:

bravo to all of you for keeping this thread alive lol


Why? You know we're only gonna force it to be locked. evillol
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Reply #174 posted 12/01/08 2:28pm

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Even in the interview daq quoted she tries to defend him by saying they lived together, but when Sawyer challenges her on that she says "Well, if he was in town he would come to my house". When asked how often that was she says "I don't know". lol When asked if these were romantic nights she says "Mmm, mmm, yeah. I don't remember them very well, but yes. I mean, it was normal."..... lol "I don't remember them very well"?! Best way to mitigate a lie is always to plead a faulty memory. It gives you more room for manouvre. This is clearly a girl walking a thin line between not wanting to lie too blatantly, but also trying not to make herself look like a total sucker at the same time (bare in mind she described him elsewhere as sexually reluctant). Here's an interview where she lays it down more clearly.....


They were introduced at the friend's house, and that is how it started.
'He immediately went into this whole explanation of what he knew people thought of him and what the truth was'.
Which was persuasive?
'Yeah. You get sucked into the 'you poor, misunderstood person, you'. I'm a sucker for that.
After that first conversation, they were friends who talked. Then the child-abuse accusations surfaced, and Michael Jackson's world exploded. 'That whole shit hit the fan', Presley recalls, 'and he was quick to call me and tell me what his side of the story was, so it looked like an extortion situation. I believed him, because he was so convincing'. She frowns wryly. 'I don't know. . . . I just believed everything he said, for some reason. It's very strange, because there's not a lot of people who he'll allow to see who he really is -- there's probably only five or six people, not including kids, who have seen who he really is. But when you do . . . ' She smiles. 'He didn't get where he is because he's an idiot. You see a real person who's very much the opposite of what he was presenting'. Jackson was under attack, and it brought out Presley's protectiveness. 'I got into this whole 'I'm going to save you' thing', she says. 'I thought all that stuff he was doing -- philanthropy and the children thing and all this stuff -- was awesome, and maybe we could save the world together'. She pauses. 'OK. Hello. I was delusionary. I got some romantic idea in my head that I could save him and we could save the world'.
At this point she was still married, and they were yet to become girlfriend and boyfriend. 'He called me a lot', she says. 'Confided in me a lot. Which could be very manipulative -- I don't know. I hung out with him more, and I made the mistake of saying I was not happy in my marriage, and the courting started. And I left [my marriage] probably quicker than I would have, and that was probably one of the bigger mistakes of my whole life'.
When you say 'courting', do you mean as between any boy and girl?
'Yeah. Flowers. Calls. Candies. You name it . . . everything started coming'.
I think people are still pretty incredulous at the idea that you had any kind of normal married relationship with him.
'Right'.
But I presume that is the case.
'That is the case. Like I said, I got caught up in this thing of 'it was all a show'. That was my first experience with being accused of that, which was shocking for me'.
But, to be clear, is it fair to say that in private you were doing all the things that married people do: kissing, going to bed together, having sex?
'Yeah. That was part of it, for a while. And then it became the Def Con 2. It just got really ugly at the end'.
Before that, when it was good, was it your understanding that that was what he wanted?
A pause. 'I don't know what he wanted anymore. I know that it looks very timely for him, in retrospect -- the record was coming out, that other shit was happening, and I was too caught up in . . . ' She stops, and recasts the thought. 'I can tell you my intentions; I can't tell you what his were'.
News of their union leaked out slowly -- of a marriage in the Dominican Republic in May 1994, first denied, then confirmed. Their first surreal public appearance was opening the 1994 MTV Video Music Awards, during which -- as they stood center stage -- Jackson kissed her fully on the lips.
'That was not my idea, by the way', she says. 'I was terrified. It was his manager's idea. I thought it was stupid. All of a sudden I became part of a PR machine'.
It seemed like a blatant gimmick to prove -- to start with -- that he was straight.
'Yeah, but again, I wasn't looking at it like that. See, if I had been, that wouldn't have ever happened'
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Even stranger and more astonishing was the interview the married couple gave to Diane Sawyer in 1995, in which Presley steadfastly defended her husband, the genuineness of their relationship and his character.
'I don't recognize who I was then, now, watching it', she says. 'I was really in this lioness thing with him -- I wanted to protect him. Naive as all hell. I never thought for a moment that someone like him could actually use me for any reason like that. It never crossed my mind, and I don't know why -- I'm sure it crossed everybody else's'.
People are still confused by Michael Jackson's love of a certain kind of relationship with young kids, whether it's totally innocent or not. And you made a huge defense in the Diane Sawyer interview of how you watched him with kids and how it was all totally innocent. Is that what you think on reflection?
'The only thing I can say is that I didn't see anything that would ever allude to that ever. Otherwise I would have been the first one out there going, 'You motherfucker'. I've got children. But I never saw anything like that. I meant what I said when I said it, because I didn't see anything weird or bizarre like that ever. And I did notice that he had an amazing connection to kids, whether it be a small baby or a two-year-old girl or a four-year-old -- children really responded to him'.
Back then did you ever worry or even think whether there could be any truth in what he was accused of?
'Did I ever worry? Of course I fucking worried. Yeah. I did. But I could only come up with what he told me. The only two people that were in the room was him and that kid, so how the hell was I going to know? I could only go off what he told me'.
And what do you think now?
She purses her lips. 'I don't know. I still don't know. I wasn't there.
She says, by way of recap, this: 'I understand it did affect people's perception of me. That's fine; I understand why. But I did fall in love with him. I can't say what his intentions were, but I can tell you mine was that I absolutely fell in love with him and fell into this whole thing which I'm not proud of now'.
Do you rule out that he fell in love with you?
'As much as he can, possibly. I don't know how much he can access love, really. I think as much as he can love somebody he might have loved me. It was always like a mind that was constantly working. It was a scary thing -- somebody who's constantly at work, calculating, calculating, manipulating. And he scared me like that'.


See, she´s calling the fact that he called her a lot manipulative. Well, maybe she was one of the very few people he trusted at that difficult time, that´s why he called her a lot.

See, it is very easy to start believing that someone used you when everyone around you keeps trying to convince you that way and especially if you have people reacting to that the way Diane did:

And the fact that she gets heavily influenced by what other people say is when she says that the timing was OK perfect for him, but she was the one who made the timing possible, getting divorced at that time and refusing to meet him when he first wanted to meet her. If it was only up to him, the timing would have been shifted. And of course the public got suspicious given what was happening at that time, but she knows he was interested a long time before that, that´s why she says one thing in one interview and another in other interview. She knows the truth about the timing (the truth confirmed even by Priscilla), but the whole world tells her the opposite and how could possibly the whole world be wrong?

In prime time interview she also said that she couldn´t imagine him being like that (sexual) and that he quickly desilusioned her about that idea. Another contradiction from her.

She has contradicted herself so much about him that and obviously her quotes have been misused to many times that she started issuing statements that she does not stand behind some of her interviews. And while midnightmover raised some questions, he/she still did not answer mine.

And for someone who had never worked before, MJ´s working schedule at that time must have scared her. lol

MJ wanted to meet her years earlier, but it's very naive to think that means he wanted her romantically. MJ was obsessed with showbiz royalty with links to earlier eras like Katherine Hepburn, Jane Fonda (daughter of Henry Fonda), etc. He knew nothing about these peoples' work, but he was intoxicated with their glamourous history. Lisa Marie was daughter of Elvis Presley, the biggest solo artist in history, and the man who's success Michael wanted to surpass. It's perfectly natural that Michael at that time (when he was quite the star fucker) would have wanted to meet Elvis's daughter. But it's silly to think he had any sexual interest in her, especially since he's shown no sexual interest in women at all over the years, and Lisa Marie's whole affair with Michael is such a clear case of a gay man covering his tracks. It's the oldest cliche in the book, but Lisa couldn't see it. This is why she's so embarrassed now. She's embarrassed by her own naivety. The embarrassment is pretty plain to see in that clip you posted. She's in a classic "What the fuck was I thinking?" situation.
“The man who never looks into a newspaper is better informed than he who reads them, inasmuch as he who knows nothing is nearer to truth than he whose mind is filled with falsehoods and errors.”
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Reply #175 posted 12/01/08 2:59pm

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Timmy84 said:

bboy87 said:

bravo to all of you for keeping this thread alive lol


Why? You know we're only gonna force it to be locked. evillol

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Reply #176 posted 12/01/08 3:26pm

angel345

I have a question for MidnightLover. If LMP was embarassed about the whole situation, why did she continue to see MJ three years AFTER the divorce. I don't know how true it is but I heard and read a rumor that she followed him around during the "History" tour. Is it the case of fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me?
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Reply #177 posted 12/01/08 3:34pm

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bboy87 said:

Timmy84 said:



Why? You know we're only gonna force it to be locked. evillol


lol
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Reply #178 posted 12/01/08 3:35pm

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"We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world."
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Reply #179 posted 12/01/08 3:54pm

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MJ fans look like loons when they try to prove/disprove anything based on his first marriage...

Just, please let it go... lol

Me thinks it may be the other way around.
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