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Reply #180 posted 10/07/08 9:51pm

filmnoirdame

He makes beautiful kids. However, out of his ten kids, I heard that he only claimed a few-not including the ones below.
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Reply #181 posted 10/08/08 12:11am

Ottensen

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I don't see any comparisons between the osmonds and the jacksons-except they both had big ass families.

Yes, I love Debarge-and I agree that in the beginning they were stiff, but if you youtube el and chico, you can see that their performing has gotten better, esp el.



I was actually ALIVE during the Debarge's heyday, I enjoyed their concerts and personal appearances back in the day and didn't find them stiff at all. smoker
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Reply #182 posted 10/08/08 4:38am

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filmnoirdame said:

I read that the mom of the Debarges did not leave her husband, that he left her for another woman that he later had 3 kids by. Some of the Debarges acknowledge those kids and others of them don't. Chico considers them family.



This would explain some of the special thanks on the back side of the Debarges first album. I believe there was a name listed as Alice Debarge and I had always wondered how did they fit in when it was always said the Debarges were a family of ten
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Reply #183 posted 10/08/08 5:05am

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marzellus said:

daingermouz2020 said:



No my source did not say chico was gay he said bobby was. he only said he and chico use to get high together. and that janet was indeed pregnate by james debarge. and that they'd leave here at james mothers house while they all went out and f***ed with other girls.

And as previously stated there was an incident at church where I guess bobby was going through some things and they wanted to pray for him.he went ballistic
saying"I don't need no m****f***ing body praying for me"

Hello dangermouse, that information you got is private, keep it that way,


Hello Marzellus, I was not there so I do not know if all or any of these things to be true. However I find it interesting indeed that amongst all the post listed you felt the need to admonish me.
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Reply #184 posted 10/08/08 7:41am

filmnoirdame

I think even Debarge can't keep all their family straight.
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Reply #185 posted 10/08/08 11:10am

Nvncible1

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i may be a LITTLE late, i dont know too much about them

but why are people putting them against the JACKSONS when it was a JACKSON (jermaine) that put ALL of them on in the first place????? eek eek eek eek






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Reply #186 posted 10/08/08 2:22pm

filmnoirdame

Because they are both big musical families that had a huge impact on RnB
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Reply #187 posted 10/08/08 8:30pm

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I just reread that Vibe article and Tommy did time for selling fake coke to a cop. And only Randy, Marty and James have never seen hte inside of a jail cell
"Lack of home training crosses all boundaries."
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Reply #188 posted 10/09/08 7:57am

filmnoirdame

I can't wait to see that TVONE show called UNSUNG about Debarge.
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Reply #189 posted 10/10/08 4:58am

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filmnoirdame said:

I can't wait to see that TVONE show called UNSUNG about Debarge.



when is this suppose to air?
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Reply #190 posted 10/10/08 7:06am

Ottensen

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I swear that the first time I heard about them was a few years ago when I saw a documentary about janet jackson!

Here in Portugal, radios did not play 80's pop/funk. sad

Thank the lords of kobol for the org cool
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Also,before they crossed over to American pop radio with "Rythym of the Night", for all intents and purposes they really were an r&b group at the time, played only on r&b radio. Because I grew up in household that listened to r&b radio most days of the week, the Debarges were a daily part of my music listening experience as soon as hit I puberty taking me right into my mid-teens. Even if you would have been in the US at the time, you wouldn't have known much about them unless you kept your dial tuned to an r&b fm format. The States were so culturally segregated back then in terms of radio, there's NO way in hell that even my Polish best friend across the street or the Italian-Hungarian kids next door would have known who the Debarges were back then, either.
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Reply #191 posted 10/10/08 7:41am

filmnoirdame

Unsung airs sometime around Thanksgiving
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Reply #192 posted 10/10/08 2:51pm

scriptgirl

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Also,before they crossed over to American pop radio with "Rythym of the Night", for all intents and purposes they really were an r&b group at the time, played only on r&b radio. Because I grew up in household that listened to r&b radio most days of the week, the Debarges were a daily part of my music listening experience as soon as hit I puberty taking me right into my mid-teens. Even if you would have been in the US at the time, you wouldn't have known much about them unless you kept your dial tuned to an r&b fm format. The States were so culturally segregated back then in terms of radio, there's NO way in hell that even my Polish best friend across the street or the Italian-Hungarian kids next door would have known who the Debarges were back then, either.


Word up. Back in the day, 80s radio was very segregated. It was MAJOR when MJ got played by white stations and then when he and Prince got on MTV. MAJOR. The big dilemma any rnb artist faced back then was "crossing over". Lionel Richie was held up as a sterling example of someone who did just that. Nowadays, you never hear that term used, as rnb and hip hop ARE music, but in the 80s, it was serious bidness.

Now as far as Debarge was concerned, Ottensen is right. They were not known outside black households, period. Not until Rhythm of the Night. But I also think to a certain extent, Debarge was not as popular with black listeners as say New Edition was.
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Reply #193 posted 10/14/08 8:30am

filmnoirdame

So Debarge had no impact on the larger world of pop culture in the 80s?
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Reply #194 posted 10/14/08 10:31am

TheWifey

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Vanity and a Debarge? Well, why not, seems she went for everything else. If she had gone for EL, she might have been his babymama.
And I seem to remember that Randy had legal trouble, but for the life of me, I can't remember what about.


Yeah, I remember reading Janet couldn't stand her because she told Janet she knew about the baby.
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Reply #195 posted 10/14/08 10:42am

filmnoirdame

say what?
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Reply #196 posted 10/14/08 10:56am

TheWifey

like I said, I read Janet couldn't stand her.
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Reply #197 posted 10/14/08 11:02am

filmnoirdame

Where did you read this? Janet may also have been jealous cause Vanity was flawless. Janet was a tubby little thing.
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Reply #198 posted 10/14/08 11:05am

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filmnoirdame said:

I know I am late by a year, but I just finished reading that Vibe article on Debarge. I do not get how in the hell a family that talented and I think they were more talented than the Jacksons (Debarge to me were more musicians and the Jacksons entertainers) just threw themselves away on drugs. I mean every last one of them kids was doing drugs. That article raised a lot of questions:

1) I was a huge debarge fan when i was a little kid in the 80s. I never heard anything about El having 10 kids back then. No rumors, nothing. How in the hell did they cover that up? Plus he never struck me as a "family man" anyway.

2) Their mama seems real self promoting and stage momish-selling Chico's stuff on Ebay

3) I read in a previous post on here that El allegedly raped a girl in 86-anyone know if this is true? And someone else said something about him having a horrific divorce-anyone know about that? El always seemed really soft spoken and mild mannered. I can't imagine him being violent

4) Also, it's odd that they are pretty much forgotten today. Debarge was pretty huge, at least in rnb circles and they made some good music. I don't understand how they fell through the cracks like that.

5) Also, is it true that Berry Gordy took all their publishing royalties from them?

5)P org member JJHunsecker said he used to deal with the Debarges when he worked in the industry and they were all crazy. J, I wanna hear the dirt!
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I was under a confidentiality agreement from when I worked in the biz, so I can't say too much in good conscience. But I will say that when the phone rang , and you found out it was a DeBarge on the other end...people would shutter !! Bunny (or Etterline, her real name) was particularly "erratic" and hard to deal with. Years later, I read an article, I think it was in Essence, where she discussed her drug use and abuse as a child...so her behavior in our limited dealings with her finally made sense, sad to say.

We used to have a rule in our office : if they were a member of an R&B family group, they were probably nuts !! We used to deal with members of the Isleys, the Sylvers, Tavares, and the DeBarges...(never handled any Jacksons though, so I don't have any first hand experience ...LOL)
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Reply #199 posted 10/14/08 11:14am

TheWifey

filmnoirdame said:

Where did you read this? Janet may also have been jealous cause Vanity was flawless. Janet was a tubby little thing.


Long time ago, can't remember where. Vanity confronted her about the baby.
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Reply #200 posted 10/14/08 1:59pm

filmnoirdame

That agreement isn't still binding is it? Pls tell me that El at least was some kind of sane? The Debarges weren't dumb as posts, were they?
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Reply #201 posted 10/14/08 9:57pm

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TheWifey said:

filmnoirdame said:

Where did you read this? Janet may also have been jealous cause Vanity was flawless. Janet was a tubby little thing.


Long time ago, can't remember where. Vanity confronted her about the baby.

If the media can pin-point Joe Jackson's love-child & put her pix all over the media, I find it very diffficult to believe they haven't found Janet Jackson so-called child with Debarge yet, after 20 yrs of searching. Therefore I doubt there is a baby. I think it has become a myth. And if there were a baby I am sure Latoya would have opened her big-assed mouth by now!!
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Reply #202 posted 10/14/08 10:45pm

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whatsgoingon said:

TheWifey said:



Long time ago, can't remember where. Vanity confronted her about the baby.

If the media can pin-point Joe Jackson's love-child & put her pix all over the media, I find it very diffficult to believe they haven't found Janet Jackson so-called child with Debarge yet, after 20 yrs of searching. Therefore I doubt there is a baby. I think it has become a myth. And if there were a baby I am sure Latoya would have opened her big-assed mouth by now!!

True. Janet WAS pregnant but she unfortunately had a miscarriage. I also believe the rumors of abuse in the marriage
"We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world."
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Reply #203 posted 10/14/08 11:17pm

filmnoirdame

You saying James hit Janet?
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Reply #204 posted 10/15/08 5:02am

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filmnoirdame said:

You saying James hit Janet?



I've always believed they fought but I have never heard anyone confirm that.
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Reply #205 posted 10/15/08 5:59am

SoulAlive

whatsgoingon said:

TheWifey said:



Long time ago, can't remember where. Vanity confronted her about the baby.

If the media can pin-point Joe Jackson's love-child & put her pix all over the media, I find it very diffficult to believe they haven't found Janet Jackson so-called child with Debarge yet, after 20 yrs of searching. Therefore I doubt there is a baby. I think it has become a myth. And if there were a baby I am sure Latoya would have opened her big-assed mouth by now!!


Yeah,I don't believe that Janet had a secret baby.But it's odd the way the DeBarge family members treat this story.When asked about it,they never flat-out deny it.They seem to *imply* that it could be true,which must really piss Janet off.
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Reply #206 posted 10/15/08 8:03am

filmnoirdame

Didn't someone say upthread that El said his mom looked into the allegations and found they weren't true? I do know that EL said no one in his family ever asked James or Janet about it and that it was their business.
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Reply #207 posted 10/15/08 9:49am

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filmnoirdame said:

You saying James hit Janet?

I believe he did
"We may deify or demonize them but not ignore them. And we call them genius, because they are the people who change the world."
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Reply #208 posted 10/15/08 10:26am

curioso

Is this thread ever going to die?
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Reply #209 posted 10/15/08 10:27am

kibbles

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So Debarge had no impact on the larger world of pop culture in the 80s?


no, they did not. i was a teenager in 1983-84 so i lived through this era. i still have the cassette with 'all this love' on it. that song, along with 'i like it', were lovely well arranged songs that became hits on both r&b and adult contemporary stations, but to say that debarge had a pop culture 'impact' would be a huge stretch. i recall them being on the usual variety shows - soul train, solid gold, etc. they were probably featured in right on mag but i had stopped reading it by the early 80s. i remember the jet cover with janet and james announcing their marriage, and thinking that i didn't know anyone else in the group aside from el.
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