nurseV said:

Also, so that you don't feel that you are alone on this matter, deep inside, when my selfish, self-centered, and shallow disposition gets in the way, I can definitely concur with you. Hell, a lot of these people in this thread would turn down a lot of people on pure instinct and/or what is held in front of their eyes. They can be shallow, so the whole almighty, condescending, and snooty boolshit has got to go. I concur with them, as well. But, they couldn't possibly sit here and tell me that their aren't extremes immediate turn-offs in their eyes of what blurs the line between attractive and unattractive.

banks said:

WOW! Really? I mean, ummm.....

FarrahMoan said:

Exactly, we all have our opinions of what is attractive and what is not-I'm cool with that and heaven knows I'd be the last person to bring skin tones into this-hell I am an African-American

FarrahMoan said:

Yeah, but Chilli's fine.

jbchavez said:

That's what had me saying, "WOW!!!" Some people are.....you know; luckier than others. I mean, "DAMN!" I shouldn't have said that. I take that back.....kinda sorta!

TonyVanDam said:

She ain't bad to me, she is not Miss World but she ain't ugly neither. She is an attractive, more mature black woman. I bet if she had exactly the same features and was 5 shades lighter people wouldn't be dissing her like they do. I think people still find it amazing that rich, famous black men can still find dark-skin sistas attractive And as someone said Usher ain't exactly God's gift to women either.

Graycap23 said:

Nothing against her, but she looks like a straight up MAN!

whatsgoingon said:

Damn, damn, "DAMN!!!!" What is it with people and skin tones? Is Usher's Wife Gabrielle Union? Is she Angela Fershgenet? Is she Meagan Good? Is she Iman? Is she Lark Voorhoes? Last, but not least, is Usher's Wife the random actress who played Dr. Dre's Love Interest in "The Wash" (OH MY GOD!!! THAT WOMAN WAS SOOO FUCKING BEAUTIFUL!!!!)? HELL NO!!! The women I have listed are not supposedly "FAIRER" skin-toned women. They are chocolate beauties. There you go.

Skin tone has nothing to do with looking like a dude!

You know nurse, the older I get the more I see that we tend to change what attracts us to the opposite sex.
I'm sure most of the men will agree with me that as they matured their interest shifted from "just plain pretty " to "sexy and exotic".
A woman doesn't have to possess features that are considered classically pretty to be seen as attractive, in Tameka's case, maybe Usher sees her as "very sexy".

I personally think they make a good looking couple..... I don't think as Usher as being fine 'cause he hes a teeny head(weird of me, yeah I know), but between his teeny skull and her big one, their baby is gonna have the perfect look

FuNkeNsteiN said:

EXACTLY!
Folks put too much emphasis on looks.
ex. Jenny's boyfriend beats her ass, but she doesn't mind cause he's fine as hell! WTF!

whatsgoingon said:

I'd still be joking her cuz anyone who wants to marry Usher is a fucking idiot

nurseV said:

man oh man the tripped out thing is, chilli was close to her age and she just looked a lot bit more hip. she seems really reserved. she makes a good point about if a man is with a black woman evryone has something bad to say.
She just looks much older and has this mean look about her. I guess it is just her face and she is nice.

bboy87 said:

Amen to that. He's nothing to look at. He's got a hot body, no doubt but that's it. Ur-sha is a hot mess IMO .

chewwsey said:

Well, no offense but.....she does look like she could give him a good ass-pounding (Interpret that one how you feel.).

and she's wrong for this picture:

DawnD said:

I much rather have an ugly man that treats me right than a fine one that treats me like crap. No blackeyes for me thank you very much

look how he is looking at her in the pic. they don't look good together

FarrahMoan said:

chewwsey said:

Chilli and Tameka are the same age ... 36

I think Usher is an attractive young Brother (mousey face and all - most people look like some type of animal; cat, bird, whatever), and there is no disputing his talent, but I believe his apparent arrogance takes his appearance down a couple of notches. Although, his ego seems to be taming itself as he matures.

Regarding Tameka, I'm sure she's probably actually a woman. But at the very least, she looks like a woman that has been taking testosterone injections or some other sort of steroid. Disregarding whatever it may mean, she does have a very masculine appearance. Just my opinion, and God bless them both, but it remains my belief that Usher is just trying to camouflage his actual sexuality. It's still not generally accepted, and it's still a hostile world for a young black man to try to "come-out" in.

Of course, anything is possible and I don't know either of them personally. I have no intention of being vindictive and am just stating my beliefs, but I firmly trust my intuition. Many confirmed Gay performers whom have "come-out" later in life, employed similar tactics in their youth in an effort to maintain their popularity, particularly male artists that retain a largely female fan base (Johnny Mathis and Elton John immediately come to mind, although there have been many others).

bboy87 said:

Ya'll are hilarious!

bboy87 said:

She's not wrong for anything. That was a fucking light test and it WAS NOT supposed to be seen by ANYONE outside of the studio.

All i know is that CalhounSq called Usher a Moon Head Fucker

bboy87 said:

along with me and too short (world famous rapper)

and i agree...there is something inherently manly about her

From the neck down, Tameka has a real nice natural womans body...like it or not a woman is blessed to look like that after having 3 kids, her stretch marks aren't that bad at all.

"Looks" are over-rated.

Graycap23 said:

YES! They sure the heck are. No matter how good someone looks, if they suffer from BO or halitosis they might as well be the Hunchback of Notre Dame.

nurseV said:

someones jealous