You got it twisted; what does she SEE IN HIM?

I've said this a million times, never found this guy attractive the least bit, in fact everytime I see his pix I think of....


Honest to god, what am I missing?

nurseV said:

On Usher's part, he was always into older women.

AFAIC, it should be a good thing that there are black men out there that still like dark-skinned sistas, despite the music videos showing otherwise.

nurseV said:

Usher' mom doesn't have room to talk. She's dating younger men!

nurseV said:

It's isn't so. Tameka is a woman, mother of one child. And it's not her fault that she looks too much like her father.

I never understood the backlash against this woman, but it must just come from folks who think Usher is something to look at From the neck down he's good, but that little moon head fucker has never been cute to me - he's an attractive man in general though. But back to her, here's at least 2 reasons he'd be with her:





She doesn't look like a man to me. Yea, her shoulders are little big & her jaw is strong but nobody's perfect & he doesn't seem to mind so why should anyone else care? She's not at all ugly, so what's the fuss? Her face is cute & he's obviously smitten. She's older, probably taught him some shit that he can't get enough of. Let them be...

TonyVanDam said:

Let's not snap on mom

PDogz said:

bboy87 said:

Well, 3T gets you a pass

Najee said:

Seriously, did anybody mention race? NO! I simply said she looks like a man to me and that's just my opinion and If Christie looked like a man I'd still say the same thing. Let's not make this into a racial issue because it's not. We have enough to worry about and whether Tameka is dark-skinned or light-skinned really has nothing to do with it.

CalhounSq said:

Man

nurseV said:

Well if she's a man he obviously LOVES her dick

CalhounSq said:

Well, then he's strictly dickly

nurseV said:

I didn't say anything about race -- DID I? The only person who has mentioned race has been you. Moreover, I wasn't addressing my comment toward you or anyone, so apparently that is your personal hang-up (and apparent confession).

The point I was making is that Billy Joel and John Mellencamp are two otherwise average-looking men who were/are married to supermodels, so if people didn't obsess about those apparent odd couples then why are people so fixated on the fact that Usher married his wife (based on some other people's superficial reasonings, not his logic).
[Edited 12/5/07 5:35am]

Najee said:

Everyone in your statement is of the caucasian persuasion if I'm correct-so what gives? How did we go From Tameka to Billy Joel?

nurseV said:

Apparently, you didn't bother to read my entire statement while I was typing an explanation -- just pulled something out of context in order to make an argument.
[Edited 12/5/07 5:34am]

Funny, how just my opinion of Tameka's appearance has become a dark/light skinned issue. It wasn't even meant to go that way people Damn! Why do we always have to go to skin tones?

Najee said:

Edit Let's not turn this into something bad

nurseV said:

I feel you need to take your own medicine. I never mentioned anything about race -- only you did in some blanket allegation.

All you're really saying is its rare as hell for a black man (let alone a successful one) to choose a woman of darker skintone than himself.

Her take: We (black women) don’t like ourselves. If I were Hispanic, Usher would have the sexiest wife alive. If I were mixed, he’d have the sexiest wife alive.

“But he has a black girl, and it’s like, ‘She’s horrible and she’s ugly!’ OK, maybe I don’t fit the cookie-cutter standard - 25 and a size two - but this is who he loves.

Ottensen said:

Whateva

SpecialEd said:

NO! You said that!

Najee said:

Seriously, stop using the edit feature-you made the comparisan, not me You've got your opinion, I have mine's. I can agree to disagree with you.

TonyVanDam said:

She's a mother of 4 children... 3 from her previous marriage and her new bundle of Joy

Najee said:

This was my take when i first saw this thread... that's liking asking someone what they see in their partner or what someone's mother saw in their father..

banks said:

Fair enough So if you guys didn't like the topic why even bother to respond? You know when I come to this forum I never make comments like this in the threads of others. So if the thread is not to your liking then get off the boat!

I just hope for the guy's sake that she's a good woman because marriage takes "GREAT" commitment (Something of which I don't think that guy in particular is ready for. But, who knows?). I think that she's probably a "VERY" loving person and her personality probably clicks/cliques with his like butter on toast. So, why don't we just embrace that part of it all. Ain't it beautiful (To some extent.) that a guy like Usher wouldn't "SEEM" to be so "SUPERFLUOUS". This is where the factor of "PERSONALITY" comes clear and lies beneath and above the surface. There's something about her, I bet. But, in the end, it's none of our business, rather than it is our prerogative to speak of this matter. I just wish them both the best because I wouldn't be in the situation of legal, monogamous bondage, one way or the other. I just don't find it sacred, anymore.....

FarrahMoan said:

I can respect that

TonyVanDam said:

Chilli and Tameka are the same age ...36