damn surely this chick doesnt look that bad does she? i didnt even know he was engaged till i read it on the org.

VoicesCarry said:

BlaqueKnight said:

Co- sign!

RipHer2Shreds said:

What's the lotto pick for next week?

Anywho, that's my point, so what if he's gay. The preoccupation on this board and in society in general about who is gay and who is not is ridiculous. Someone on this board even said that Alicia Keys was homophobic because she has not come out of the closet...wtf???

Why would John Travolta be discussed in this forum? I don't frequent GD, so count me out as knowing whether there have been tons of threads calling him gay.Not to say that they don't exist, but I have not come across any threads about JT being gay, but I have come across plenty about his music being sh!t or that LS/FS is better than anything that Prince has put out in the past 28 years.

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VoicesCarry said:

Excellent!

purplecam said:

Between this cancellation and Lindsay Lohan, it should be a Best Of Monday.

He should'nt have cheated on her They were too cute together...and I don't even like Usher, but I liked the two of them together



Smooches;)

hey if you're being called gay, you must have made it in the industry, I said this way before ne yo did

MsMisha319 said:

thats how i felt. they were good together.

...he's engaged?

Damn, news to me.

PurpleCharm said:

yeah... sick of this type shit too.. but she's having his Kid in November so
i guess she's going to be around for awhile

heybaby said:

Exactly, but like most men, they always treat the good ones like shit and scandalous ones like queens...

I saw something on TV last night that he cancelled the wedding because his mother wasn't there and she's still not over him firing her so he decided to cancel...

uPtoWnNY said:

missfee said:

Slow ya roll there with that "most men", bitter Betty.
Temptation is incredible for celebrities. They have everyone they've ever dreamed about clawing after them when they "make it". Anyone in their early 20s is going to be less likely to settle down. Add fame and money to that mix and its even less likely. The problem is Chilli had been there and done that while Usher was still indulging. Seemed like a case of bad timing or them.

BlaqueKnight said:

More than likely, its seems like a combo of both when you take in consideration how it all went down.

MsMisha319 said:

Are you kidding? Usher & Chilli should've broke up a lot sooner. That boy was never ready to become a instant stepfather. And it didn't help that she try to hard to change him.

BlaqueKnight said:

Exactly.

BlaqueKnight said:

okay but i am a woman, and nothing you say will not change my mind. like the saying goes, "a good man is hard to find"...i'm old enough to know that most men aren't about shit, but if you are patient the right one will come to you. And it is true, by the time most men get to the woman they are meant to be with, they have probably dogged a few good women in the process of "sowing their wild oats"...that's just a fact. Just like a good woman is hard to find, thats what a lot of (good) guys tell me. And don't get it twisted, i'm not bitter, i have a good man by my side right now. but don't try to knock me because i'm telling the truth.
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TonyVanDam said:

so how did she "try hard" to change him? did he call you and tell you that?

missfee said:

OFF-TOPIC: I wish Chilli would have call me. I use to have a little crush on her during TLC's hey-day.

But seriously, my opinion is based upon the kind of man that Usher really was at the time (young & care-free). It was no way that this dude was ever really to settle down. I believe that Chilli was wasting her time trying to get Usher to feel otherwise.
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update bump

At first I read that as if he had married his own 40 year old mother.
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novabrkr said:

his mom:



his wife:



they could be sisters..i tell ya...freaky. his wife is 39, his mom is 50 (and dating somebody who's 36)....

Fury said:

His mom is cuter than is wife.

i was just watching usher in "light it up" he wasnt bad acutally. lol

So somebody answer me on this one.....is his chick really 39, or are ya'll exaggerating? (sp) They're gonna have those old babies.

illimack said:

i wonder how old her/their kids are? kinda hard to be a teenager and call usher "pops" especially if there are any girls--they probably had young girl moisture about their stepdad
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illimack said:

Mike Tyson is cuter than his wife. What a dumbass Usher is.

TonyVanDam said:

Oook, and now he's instant stepfather to Tameka's 3 kids


I don't think she tried to change him, she seemed to be a down ass chick and he did her wrong




Smooches;)