Got this from Luvland:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...UO7pMzH7MI

The resmblence between the girl in the video and MJB is strikingly on point

This is sad

wayyyyy too late!

like 10 years too late.

CinisterCee said:

Yeah lol shit still sad though

You ever read her "Interview" magazine's interview back in 1999? She talked about the duet "Not Lookin'" and she set his name on fire in that interview.

Harlepolis said:

I wish I could say "YEAAAAA-AAAAA-EEEEEAHHHHH"



But I haven't read that 1999 Interview interview.

I saw a clip of that video somewhere and I swear I thought that was Dave Chappelle doing a skit!

Well, I guess an apology 10 years after the fact is better than no apology at all. I'm fairly certain Mary J forgave him long ago so now he can finally forgive himself.
[Edited 3/8/07 10:09am]

CinisterCee said:

I've been trying to get a hold on the sucka in findarticles.com but somehow I couldn't

Anyway lol she talked about him threatening to kick her ass becoz she really let him have it in the duet(esp when she said @ the end "I KNOW you're sorry!") she fired back @ him "Thats why I left you in the 1st place, coz you been kicking my ass, motherfucker" and hung up the phone.

That was a really candid interview.

SexyBeautifulOne said:

Its a broke ass video, so its a giving

wow. thats bad. Its funny as hell, though! Did homeboy really draw an imaginary house in the air, and then that mf actually appeared? Then he did the 'talk to the hand' twice. To 2 different women. K-ci gots no love for those.



i like the way the songs fades out.
[Edited 3/8/07 10:33am]

CinisterCee said:

That’s what I'm talking about. That’s some in your face shit right there. 4 those who know any thing about K-Ci and Jodeci, they know those brothers are truly gifted with beautiful voices. This is one act I’d love 2 see live.

this video is fucking terrible


and i like k-ci
[Edited 3/8/07 11:07am]

hey, i didn't think the video nor the song was bad. Actually it's pretty decent sounding to be released independently. I just wish that he and Mary J. would stop singing songs and releasing videos about their relationship that ended over 10 years ago. It seems they are the only ones who keep taking the skeletons out of the closet on it....why? aren't they over each other by now?

here's a vid of K-Ci and Jo-Jo performing recently:

http://www.youtube.com/wa...b3WSXAnRyU

missfee said:

I agree that they should move on. But when there's pain inflected, it ain't easy to get over the grudge.

Harlepolis said:

true, but it's been 10 YEARS!!! doesn't K-Ci have like 3 kids now?? i mean c'mon!! And I know Mary claims that he use to beat her like Ike use to beat Tina, but I can't really picture him beating someone like Mary who seems to look like she could break his little skinny body into half or throw him into a wall. I know looks are deceiving and everybody aren't what they seem, but i'm just saying.

missfee said:

Child, the whole Jodeci crew are just straight up vicious. Ask Ginuwine, Timbaland, Missy, Tweet and the rest of them about Devante and Jodeci.

Mary was around this shit, so she knew what kinda of mess she was putting up with. K-Ci was as vicious as Devante, the "skinny" bastard went after her with a pistol gun when she packed her stuff and went out the door, threatened to kill her @ the middle of the street, buried the gun through her wig and clicked(it was empty). All of this is according to her btw.

K-Ci's abuse was psychological more than it was physical, and it takes years and years to recover from mental scars more than the obvious ones.

Tina Turner still refuses to sit face-to-face with Ike Turner and she left him 30 years ago,,,,that should tell you something.

Us humen ain't as tough as we claim to be, the whole "get over it" talk is easier said than done.

this is not sincere, just last year he was talking trash about her, he's hoping it will create some..ANY buzz for his album because Mary is at her peak

Harlepolis said:

I knew Mary had some trouble times with some of the men she loved, but I never imagined it had been to traumatic.

twink69 said:

well if that's the case, with Mary's album being on top, then why is she still writing and singing songs about him? you don't see Tina running about singing songs about Ike.

Harlepolis said:

i don't recall saying that it was easy, but it just seems to me that neither on both ends have made steps into at least "trying" to get over the situation. putting it on blast for all of the public and the fans to see is unnecessary. As for what you said about Tina and Ike, i dont think anyone expected her to sit down and talk face to face with Ike, what point would that make? She doesn't have to talk to Ike....

i wasn't there to witness Mary and K-Ci's relationship every day or every moment, so I don't know for sure what happened, only by what they "said" happened.

the whole point of my previous response was that, they don't have to put their past on blast for ALL of us to listen and watch. Mary's got a husband, sure she may still hurt or be affected by her past with K-Ci, but why keep singing about it? K-Ci has probably moved on to other women as well, so why make a video symbolizing your past relationship with a woman from your past? I just don't get it.

missfee said:

People, dahling I wasn't talking about you in my post, just in general terms.

Not all people are as tough and positive as Tina Turner. Comparing Mary to Tina is unfair. Both are different women from different times and places.

But I'm not condoning either Mary or K-Ci's acts, but it ain't my or anybody's place to judge them. Thats all I'm saying.

If they feel like dragging this shit to eternity, its their toothache for all I care.

Harlepolis said:

okay