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SoulAlive

80s R&B song of the day: "B.Y.O.B (Bring Your Own Baby)" by Sister Sledge (1983)



you come struttin' in,actin' like you're the best thing happening tonight
but you better think again,if you think you can leave with any man that you like

I guess you didn't read the invitation carefully
Let me tell you how the invitation reads,this party is strictly

B.Y.O.B
that means bring your own baby
B.Y.O.G.
that means bring your own guy
B.Y.O.B
that means bring your own baby
B.Y.O.B
don't try to take away mine!


music lol
[Edited 10/4/06 2:21am]
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Reply #1 posted 09/28/06 6:48am

Icicle

I LOVE and worship Sister Sledge, i just bought 3 of their LPs, "The sisters, "When the boys meet the girls" and "Bet cha say that to all the girls", which includes B.Y.O.B, but my favorite song from the album is "Thank you for the party" dancing jig

The best album they made is "The sisters" from 1982, with great songs like "Grandma", "Super bad sisters" and my favorite "Jacki`s theme: There`s no stopping us now", one of the best songs they recorded.

btw, have you heard the "Together" album that came out before "We are family"?
They covered two songs by Stevie Wonder, "As" and "I was made to love him", i`m so curious about these songs.

During the early years, they also covered Gladys Knight and the pips` "Neither one of us", as a b-side to the "Mama never told me" single.
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Reply #2 posted 09/28/06 7:05am

SoulAlive

I think their best album is 'We Are Family'.Every track is excellent.

The follow-up album 'Love Somebody Today' is also great.The songs "You Fooled Around" and "Easy Street" are ridiculously good...why weren't those songs hits??
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Reply #3 posted 09/28/06 7:35am

Icicle

SoulAlive said:

I think their best album is 'We Are Family'.Every track is excellent.

The follow-up album 'Love Somebody Today' is also great.The songs "You Fooled Around" and "Easy Street" are ridiculously good...why weren't those songs hits??

Yeah, both were wonderful albums, it`s a shame most people think of Sister Sledge as a one-hit-wonder...
The song "How to love" from the love somebody today album is beautiful cloud9, "Reach your peak" is also amazing nod
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Reply #4 posted 09/28/06 7:56am

Icicle

Oh, and "I`m a good girl" lol

"What is this feeling i feel, i don`t like it, no, honey
I don`t know, what`s come over me, i must have loosed control of my senses"
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Reply #5 posted 09/28/06 9:23am

vainandy

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I remember that one. I've got the 45 around here somewhere.
Andy is a four letter word.
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Reply #6 posted 09/28/06 9:32am

phunkdaddy

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I remember i used to have a serious crush on the two in the middle.
I do not own any of their music but i did like he's the greatest dancer,
reach your peak(i did thinking about them as a middle school student) lol ,
and reluctantly we are family. I loved them and they were great but i am
just not familiar with a lot of their music because i don't have any of their
albums.
For you sports fans, remember we are family was the theme song for the
Pittsburgh Pirates 1979 world series team and their captain the late
Willie "Pops" Stargell. The funniest shit i can remember is when they
asked their other star player dave parker about the song,he said i ain't
no damn sister. I will never forget that. Just a little trivia for today.
Don't laugh at my funk
This funk is a serious joint
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Reply #7 posted 09/28/06 10:22am

Icicle

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Reply #8 posted 09/28/06 10:40am

Icicle





btw, is anyone familiar with Kathy`s solo album "Heart"?

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Reply #9 posted 09/28/06 10:51am

vainandy

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Icicle said:



Every time I see her, I always think of Lassie. lol

Andy is a four letter word.
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Reply #10 posted 09/28/06 10:57am

Icicle

vainandy said:

Icicle said:



Every time I see her, I always think of Lassie. lol


omfg
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Reply #11 posted 09/29/06 12:22am

SoulAlive

Icicle said:

SoulAlive said:

I think their best album is 'We Are Family'.Every track is excellent.

The follow-up album 'Love Somebody Today' is also great.The songs "You Fooled Around" and "Easy Street" are ridiculously good...why weren't those songs hits??

Yeah, both were wonderful albums, it`s a shame most people think of Sister Sledge as a one-hit-wonder...
The song "How to love" from the love somebody today album is beautiful cloud9, "Reach your peak" is also amazing nod



I think they should have continued to work with Niles Rodgers and Bernard Edwards.Their best work is the stuff they did with those guys.
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Reply #12 posted 09/29/06 12:28am

Icicle

SoulAlive said:

Icicle said:


Yeah, both were wonderful albums, it`s a shame most people think of Sister Sledge as a one-hit-wonder...
The song "How to love" from the love somebody today album is beautiful cloud9, "Reach your peak" is also amazing nod



I think they should have continued to work with Niles Rodgers and Bernard Edwards.Their best work is the stuff they did with those guys.

Nilde Rodgers produced the "When the boys meet the girls" album, but that`s my least favorite Sister Sledge album, although i love the song "Following the leader" music
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Reply #13 posted 09/29/06 12:30am

CinisterCee

My friend and I played "He's The Greatest Dancer" at the last house party we DJ'd.
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Reply #14 posted 09/29/06 12:31am

SoulAlive

CinisterCee said:

My friend and I played "He's The Greatest Dancer" at the last house party we DJ'd.


thumbs up! that song is a classic!
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Reply #15 posted 09/29/06 12:32am

SoulAlive

Icicle said:

SoulAlive said:




I think they should have continued to work with Niles Rodgers and Bernard Edwards.Their best work is the stuff they did with those guys.

Nilde Rodgers produced the "When the boys meet the girls" album, but that`s my least favorite Sister Sledge album, although i love the song "Following the leader" music



I never heard that album,but I'm curious to hear what it sounds like.The first single "Frankie" was unlike anything they had ever done.
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Reply #16 posted 09/29/06 12:33am

Icicle

How is their "African eyes" album?

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Reply #17 posted 09/29/06 12:52am

SoulAlive

Icicle said:

How is their "African eyes" album?




Never heard that one.I only own two albums by them,the two albums produced by Chic lol
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Reply #18 posted 09/29/06 12:56am

Icicle

SoulAlive said:

Icicle said:

How is their "African eyes" album?




Never heard that one.I only own two albums by them,the two albums produced by Chic lol

It was released in 1997, there was one single from the album, "World rise and shine".

http://www.artistdirect.c...07,00.html
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Reply #19 posted 09/30/06 6:13am

menace

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Loved Sister Sledge. Just bought a different anthology recently. Reach Your Peak, The Greatest Dancer, BYOB, Frankie...they have a ton of hits
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Reply #20 posted 09/30/06 6:40am

100MPH

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Icicle said:

How is their "African eyes" album?


I bought it once on the Japanese Avex label .
Outstanding tracks i dig are Let It Out and You Are The One .
I also have Kathy's album @ home but have to give it a re-run .

Here's some info : http://www.artistdirect.c...49,00.html
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Reply #21 posted 09/30/06 6:45am

Icicle

menace said:

Loved Sister Sledge. Just bought a different anthology recently. Reach Your Peak, The Greatest Dancer, BYOB, Frankie...they have a ton of hits

nod Lots of hits, and even more great songs that weren`t released as singles.

There`s a new anthology with several songs previously not available on cd, called "Definitive Groove" This is the compilation to get...




DISC 1:
1. Mama Never Told Me
2. Love Don't You Go Through No Changes On Me
3. Pain reliever
4. Thank You For Today
5. Cream Of THe Crop
6. Blockbuster Boy
7. He's The Greatest Dancer
8. We Are Family
9. Easier To Love
10. Thinking Of You
11. Lost In Music
12. One More Time
13. Got To Love Somebody
14. Reach Your Peak
15. Let's Go On Vacation

DISC 2:
1. All American Girls
2. Pretty Baby
3. You Fooled Around
4. Next Time You'll Know
5. He's Just A Runaway
6. Make A Move
7. My Guy
8. All The Man I Need
9. Super Bad Sisters
10. B.Y.O.B. (Bring Your Own Baby)
11. Gotta Get Back To Love
12. Thank You For The Party
13. Bet Cha Say That To All The Girls
14. Frankie
15. Dancing On The Jagged Edge
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Reply #22 posted 09/30/06 6:47am

Icicle

100MPH said:

Icicle said:

How is their "African eyes" album?


I bought it once on the Japanese Avex label .
Outstanding tracks i dig are Let It Out and You Are The One .
I also have Kathy's album @ home but have to give it a re-run .

Here's some info : http://www.artistdirect.c...49,00.html

That would have been great, give a short review. You have very good taste, I LIKE YOU!!! biggrin
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Reply #23 posted 10/01/06 4:29am

Icicle

I just found out about a studio album from 2004, it`s called "Style"



Love's Abyss
Style
The Philly Song
Amber's Song
Sass
Nothin' But A Party
Something
Purple And Gold
When I Fall In Love
My Funny Valentine
Embraceable You
Until Its Time


Source: http://www.kolumbus.fi/so...sledge.htm

This CD is not widely advertised and I was not aware of it's existance until Ismo, the Editor of Soul Express, made me aware of it. If you are expecting a return to the disco hayday of Chic then forget it. I loved that era and their superb work with Nile Rodgers and the late, great Bernard Edwards, and this album really is a separate entity from that time period for which they will always be known. This CD, though, still does see a marked change in the style of these four talented sisters, even from their excellent "African Eyes" set back in 1997. "Style" is a spectrum of sounds that include jazz, rap, R&B and well known and loved standards by the likes of Gershwin. The result is sheer brilliance, and even the youthful rap cut which is actually an ode to Philadelphia and its rich musical heritage appeals to me. This song, "The Philly Song", also bemoans the fact that the music has died and has to come back. Damn right, Sisters!

Well, Debbie, Joni, Kim and Kathy Sledge do their bit to pep up the current trashy R&B scene with this excellent set. Listening to this again and again, I am always thinking of how the songs on this CD would stand great stead as a live show or tour and would certainly appeal to all ages, all tastes and all sets of ears.

For me, the better cuts are the jazzy vocal cuts. If you love the classiness of Nancy Wilson's later musical backdrops, or even Norah Jones, then you will lap up the opening song, "Love's Abyss" which is a KILLER. It's a lazy, sultry Latin effort crammed with real instruments and percussion. This song really is superb and is contrasted well with the party funk of "Style" complete with James Brown's much sampled 1972 classic "Papa Don't Take No Mess" guitar riff.

The following song is a weird, fanciful but totally embraceable mix of Latin flavours, contemporary R&B beats and rap. Eclectic but it somehow works! "Amber's Song" is a KILLER cut by any standard. The real instruments are really set off by a Stanley Clarke slap-bass groove. This is classy, classy and classier still. The sisters' remind me, vocally, of a younger version of The Emotions. This is really pleasing for my ears and the Ladies shine especially on the aforementioned song.

From The Emotions we enter a great En Vogue "My Lovin' (Never Gonna Get It)" accapella moment with the funky "Sass / Nothin' But A Party". The guitar in this has a great Nile Rodgers feel at the beginning and helps solidify a great song which includes hi hat beats and that familiar, fun, new jack swing squeak that was son in fashion in the early 90s. A great dancer and a lot of fun.

For me the most essential song on this CD is the delightfully jazzy "Purple And Gold", a joyful excursion by any standards. Those of you who love vocal jazz in a Latin vein will love this; I can imagine this being on a David Benoit CD - it really is that good.

The CD ends with some delicious covers of traditional songs such as "When I Fall In Love", "My Funny Valentine", Embraceable You" and "Until It's Time". These songs are thoroughly essential and are profusely filled with real instruments and delivered such class and finesse.
What a great album this is and it is only available via their website: www.SisterSledge.com. Worth every penny.
- Barry Towler



drool
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Reply #24 posted 10/02/06 12:07am

SoulAlive

Icicle said:

menace said:

Loved Sister Sledge. Just bought a different anthology recently. Reach Your Peak, The Greatest Dancer, BYOB, Frankie...they have a ton of hits

nod Lots of hits, and even more great songs that weren`t released as singles.

There`s a new anthology with several songs previously not available on cd, called "Definitive Groove" This is the compilation to get...




DISC 1:
1. Mama Never Told Me
2. Love Don't You Go Through No Changes On Me
3. Pain reliever
4. Thank You For Today
5. Cream Of THe Crop
6. Blockbuster Boy
7. He's The Greatest Dancer
8. We Are Family
9. Easier To Love
10. Thinking Of You
11. Lost In Music
12. One More Time
13. Got To Love Somebody
14. Reach Your Peak
15. Let's Go On Vacation

DISC 2:
1. All American Girls
2. Pretty Baby
3. You Fooled Around
4. Next Time You'll Know
5. He's Just A Runaway
6. Make A Move
7. My Guy
8. All The Man I Need
9. Super Bad Sisters
10. B.Y.O.B. (Bring Your Own Baby)
11. Gotta Get Back To Love
12. Thank You For The Party
13. Bet Cha Say That To All The Girls
14. Frankie
15. Dancing On The Jagged Edge



I'm gonna get that compilation!! All of the hits are accounted for,and there's alot of good album tracks as well.The only song that's missing is "Easy Street",an excellent song from their 1980 album 'Love Somebody Today'.

A little trivia: in 1981,Sister Sledge released two versions of the same single.The song "He's Just A Runaway" was released as a reggae version,and a more electronic disco version.I think this confused many listeners,as this was in the days before multiple remixes.
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Reply #25 posted 10/02/06 5:37am

Icicle

SoulAlive said:

DISC 1:
1. Mama Never Told Me
2. Love Don't You Go Through No Changes On Me
3. Pain reliever
4. Thank You For Today
5. Cream Of THe Crop
6. Blockbuster Boy
7. He's The Greatest Dancer
8. We Are Family
9. Easier To Love
10. Thinking Of You
11. Lost In Music
12. One More Time
13. Got To Love Somebody
14. Reach Your Peak
15. Let's Go On Vacation

DISC 2:
1. All American Girls
2. Pretty Baby
3. You Fooled Around
4. Next Time You'll Know
5. He's Just A Runaway
6. Make A Move
7. My Guy
8. All The Man I Need
9. Super Bad Sisters
10. B.Y.O.B. (Bring Your Own Baby)
11. Gotta Get Back To Love
12. Thank You For The Party
13. Bet Cha Say That To All The Girls
14. Frankie
15. Dancing On The Jagged Edge


I'm gonna get that compilation!! All of the hits are accounted for,and there's alot of good album tracks as well.The only song that's missing is "Easy Street",an excellent song from their 1980 album 'Love Somebody Today'.

A little trivia: in 1981,Sister Sledge released two versions of the same single.The song "He's Just A Runaway" was released as a reggae version,and a more electronic disco version.I think this confused many listeners,as this was in the days before multiple remixes.

You`ll love it nod The song "Super bad sisters" includes some rapping by the sisters, it`s a great song music

The song "Thank you for the party" is also a favorite of mine, a real feel-good song.
[Edited 10/2/06 5:38am]
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Reply #26 posted 10/02/06 5:41am

SoulAlive

Icicle said:

I just found out about a studio album from 2004, it`s called "Style"



Love's Abyss
Style
The Philly Song
Amber's Song
Sass
Nothin' But A Party
Something
Purple And Gold
When I Fall In Love
My Funny Valentine
Embraceable You
Until Its Time


Source: http://www.kolumbus.fi/so...sledge.htm

This CD is not widely advertised and I was not aware of it's existance until Ismo, the Editor of Soul Express, made me aware of it. If you are expecting a return to the disco hayday of Chic then forget it. I loved that era and their superb work with Nile Rodgers and the late, great Bernard Edwards, and this album really is a separate entity from that time period for which they will always be known. This CD, though, still does see a marked change in the style of these four talented sisters, even from their excellent "African Eyes" set back in 1997. "Style" is a spectrum of sounds that include jazz, rap, R&B and well known and loved standards by the likes of Gershwin. The result is sheer brilliance, and even the youthful rap cut which is actually an ode to Philadelphia and its rich musical heritage appeals to me. This song, "The Philly Song", also bemoans the fact that the music has died and has to come back. Damn right, Sisters!

Well, Debbie, Joni, Kim and Kathy Sledge do their bit to pep up the current trashy R&B scene with this excellent set. Listening to this again and again, I am always thinking of how the songs on this CD would stand great stead as a live show or tour and would certainly appeal to all ages, all tastes and all sets of ears.

For me, the better cuts are the jazzy vocal cuts. If you love the classiness of Nancy Wilson's later musical backdrops, or even Norah Jones, then you will lap up the opening song, "Love's Abyss" which is a KILLER. It's a lazy, sultry Latin effort crammed with real instruments and percussion. This song really is superb and is contrasted well with the party funk of "Style" complete with James Brown's much sampled 1972 classic "Papa Don't Take No Mess" guitar riff.

The following song is a weird, fanciful but totally embraceable mix of Latin flavours, contemporary R&B beats and rap. Eclectic but it somehow works! "Amber's Song" is a KILLER cut by any standard. The real instruments are really set off by a Stanley Clarke slap-bass groove. This is classy, classy and classier still. The sisters' remind me, vocally, of a younger version of The Emotions. This is really pleasing for my ears and the Ladies shine especially on the aforementioned song.

From The Emotions we enter a great En Vogue "My Lovin' (Never Gonna Get It)" accapella moment with the funky "Sass / Nothin' But A Party". The guitar in this has a great Nile Rodgers feel at the beginning and helps solidify a great song which includes hi hat beats and that familiar, fun, new jack swing squeak that was son in fashion in the early 90s. A great dancer and a lot of fun.

For me the most essential song on this CD is the delightfully jazzy "Purple And Gold", a joyful excursion by any standards. Those of you who love vocal jazz in a Latin vein will love this; I can imagine this being on a David Benoit CD - it really is that good.

The CD ends with some delicious covers of traditional songs such as "When I Fall In Love", "My Funny Valentine", Embraceable You" and "Until It's Time". These songs are thoroughly essential and are profusely filled with real instruments and delivered such class and finesse.
What a great album this is and it is only available via their website: www.SisterSledge.com. Worth every penny.
- Barry Towler



drool




Thanks for the info.I had no idea that they're still recording and releasing new music!! And I'm glad to see that Kathy is back with the group.I may have to hunt this CD down.
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Reply #27 posted 10/02/06 7:11am

Icicle

SoulAlive said:

Thanks for the info.I had no idea that they're still recording and releasing new music!! And I'm glad to see that Kathy is back with the group.I may have to hunt this CD down.

I hope she is, but i saw an interview recently, and there was no Kathy, and if you visit the website, it only says Joni and Debbie hmmm Their website is currently under construction, i just hope they fix it soon, so i can order the cd!!
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Reply #28 posted 10/02/06 7:12am

Icicle

It`s not even on ebay omfg

stfu
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Reply #29 posted 10/02/06 10:37am

chewwsey

I don't understand why kathy performes we are family alone. then two of the other sisters perform the same song alone as well. meaning, they won't perform the song together. I will say that I had the pleasure of seeing kathy perform we are family without her sisters except one who I think wasn't one of the popular ones. but she did the song exactly how she performed it on midnight special in the seventies the whole song--all 12 or so minutes and had the audience on their feet the whole time! it was great. we were all shocked while glad to see her perform the song. she was in excellent shape too. wink
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