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Reply #90 posted 07/05/06 8:27am

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Dayspring said:

DavidEye said:




Bullshit.Jill Scott may not sell records like Mariah Carey,but she is still a big name in the R&B/neo-soul world.She has a large fanbase.People will listen to her.Hell,look at us here on this site,dissecting her comments lol



Her fanbase is only as big as the number of albums she's sold.

Damn. I must admit, you are consistent with your ignorance at least.
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Reply #91 posted 07/05/06 9:32am

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peppeken said:

its amazing how only ugly singers say crap like that biggrin


Surely, you jest. Jill Scott is gorgeous, inside and out.

Furthermore, what about the "crap" that she said threatens you so much that you react with a post that way?

It's almost as if the prospect of more women realizing their worth sounds like a bad thing to you.


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[Edited 7/4/06 9:02am]


I think what Peppeken is trying to say, is that it would be nice if the Beyonce's and Alicia Key's of the industry came out in support as well. Nothing against Jill.
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Reply #92 posted 07/05/06 10:19am

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Jill's pleas will fall on deaf ears. The rap video world is just a microcosm of Hollywood itself. Everything these guys have learned, they've learned it from the old pros and just taken it a step further and gone right to the titilation - straight, no chaser. Since attention whoreing is at an all time high with talent/reality shows, the desire for people to make a spectacle of themselves just to be seen has increased tenfold simply because now it seems more possible than ever before. Good luck to the sista with this one.
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Reply #93 posted 07/05/06 10:47am

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Moonwalkbjrain said:

theAudience said:

Jill Scott is making some very valid social points but here's the sad reality.
This is a choice certain women are making of their own free will for whatever the reason.
Just like women that decide to do porno or pose naked in magazines.


Bottom line, it's the consumer that will determine the final outcome.
And we can all see what the consumer has been buying.


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exactly, but i have a question: why do u see that as sad?


Well, sad in relation to what Jill Scott is trying to say.
Now, I have nothing against women who "chose of their own free will" to be vid-hoes, do porno or pose naked.
But in the grand scheme of choices for the long haul, they aren't really top shelf imo.

What do they do once their looks fade?


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Reply #94 posted 07/05/06 12:13pm

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Graycap23 said:

Listen.....one of the points that seems 2 be missing from this discussion is that there is a MARKET for this trash. What is going on in our communities where this CRAP is actually purchased and tolerated?

I'd rather address the consumers. There are way more of them 2 deal with. If we focused on IMPORTANT things in our children like, EDUCATION, RESPECT, DECISION MAKING, etc.....the topic of this thread would NOT be an issue. I'd whip my son's ass if he came home looking, speaking, or acting like any of the CLOWNS I see in these video's.


Once again, I was the FIRST to point that out. I'm always the first to speak the truth. Nobody wants to hear it, though. I'm like Jesus in that respect.
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Reply #95 posted 07/05/06 12:28pm

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theAudience said:

Moonwalkbjrain said:




exactly, but i have a question: why do u see that as sad?


Well, sad in relation to what Jill Scott is trying to say.
Now, I have nothing against women who "chose of their own free will" to be vid-hoes, do porno or pose naked.
But in the grand scheme of choices for the long haul, they aren't really top shelf imo.

What do they do once their looks fade?


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Reply #96 posted 07/05/06 12:31pm

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Graycap23 said:

Listen.....one of the points that seems 2 be missing from this discussion is that there is a MARKET for this trash. What is going on in our communities where this CRAP is actually purchased and tolerated?

I'd rather address the consumers. There are way more of them 2 deal with. If we focused on IMPORTANT things in our children like, EDUCATION, RESPECT, DECISION MAKING, etc.....the topic of this thread would NOT be an issue. I'd whip my son's ass if he came home looking, speaking, or acting like any of the CLOWNS I see in these video's.



Exactly. What's missing is strong parental presence. I wouldn't let my kids (if I had any) watch that nonsense and I'd give them constructive things to replace it with. You can't control what they decide to do down the line but you hope you taught them well enough so that they'd avoid shaking their asses on t.v., disrespecting everybody including themselves, and promoting that nonsense just to make money.
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Reply #97 posted 07/05/06 1:23pm

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theAudience said:

Jill Scott is making some very valid social points but here's the sad reality.
This is a choice certain women are making of their own free will for whatever the reason.
Just like women that decide to do porno or pose naked in magazines.

Bottom line, it's the consumer that will determine the final outcome.
And we can all see what the consumer has been buying.



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Reply #98 posted 07/05/06 1:53pm

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StoneCrib said:

Dayspring said:




not at all. in her case, she's never sold any records. wink

Next on ..."When 15-year-olds ATTACK!" lol lol

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Reply #99 posted 07/05/06 1:59pm

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minneapolisgenius said:

StoneCrib said:


Next on ..."When 15-year-olds ATTACK!" lol lol

lol

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Reply #100 posted 07/05/06 6:30pm

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StoneCrib said:

Dayspring said:




Her fanbase is only as big as the number of albums she's sold.

Damn. I must admit, you are consistent with your ignorance at least.



how's that ignorant? she's a recording artist who hasn't sold a lot of records. how can she have a big fan base if very few people have bought her product?


and anyway, nothing you have to say on this thread matters as long as you've got that avatar shrug
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Reply #101 posted 07/05/06 6:49pm

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Dayspring said:

StoneCrib said:


Damn. I must admit, you are consistent with your ignorance at least.



how's that ignorant? she's a recording artist who hasn't sold a lot of records. how can she have a big fan base if very few people have bought her product?


and anyway, nothing you have to say on this thread matters as long as you've got that avatar shrug

See, this is whay I hate when people post on shit they know nothing about. Jill's debut ALONE sold over 2 MILLION copies, so you need to do some research before you post.

And since you know so much, please tell me who the person is in my avatar? Can you, Mr. X-Men? Are you Charles Xavier? You can read minds and shit? Well impress the fuck outta me and please tell me who it is in my avatar.
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Reply #102 posted 07/05/06 6:50pm

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its amazing how only ugly singers say crap like that biggrin


I think she's damn beautiful, inside and out.
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Reply #103 posted 07/05/06 6:54pm

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VoicesCarry said:

peppeken said:

its amazing how only ugly singers say crap like that biggrin


I think she's damn beautiful, inside and out.


Amen to that!
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Reply #104 posted 07/05/06 7:08pm

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Dayspring said:

StoneCrib said:


Damn. I must admit, you are consistent with your ignorance at least.

and anyway, nothing you have to say on this thread matters as long as you've got that avatar shrug

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Reply #105 posted 07/05/06 7:13pm

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Adisa said:

Dayspring said:


and anyway, nothing you have to say on this thread matters as long as you've got that avatar shrug

evillol

If he only knew, huh? wink

I liked him better as GrayKing LOL!
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Reply #106 posted 07/05/06 7:16pm

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purplerein said:



"That's what I've been saying all along...."


Not really, Bill...

When If first say the headline I had no idea who the Scott in question was and I asumed it was Kristen Scott-Thomas or whatever her name is...I was glad to hear it was Jill because I was starting to wonder what happened to her. Glad she made the news for making a statement like this. She's cool
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Reply #107 posted 07/05/06 7:22pm

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Dayspring said:

only people that don't sell any records get on these sorts of high horses. remember Joni Mitchell and her retirement tantrum over Britney Spears? Tom Petty and his rally against radio? this seems like the same thing. these people want to tell everyone else what they should do and be, so that in that made up fantasy world, they'll be much more successful.



Tom Petty had a valid point (and that was a great song). Joni was reaching and is kind of crazy (as was Billy Corgan..breaking up the Pumpkins). I think Jill is right and her comments aren't hurting anyone. She isn't that vicious but is just adding her voice to the converstaion about music and entertainment. I agree to an extent that far too many music stars just piss and moan to get their names in the paper but I don't think Jill really knew she would be a feature story like she was...she just wanted to make her point about the hotchies....and what is your problem with that. It's not like she has an album out or anything...
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Reply #108 posted 07/05/06 7:27pm

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StoneCrib said:

Dayspring said:




how's that ignorant? she's a recording artist who hasn't sold a lot of records. how can she have a big fan base if very few people have bought her product?


and anyway, nothing you have to say on this thread matters as long as you've got that avatar shrug

See, this is whay I hate when people post on shit they know nothing about. Jill's debut ALONE sold over 2 MILLION copies, so you need to do some research before you post.

And since you know so much, please tell me who the person is in my avatar? Can you, Mr. X-Men? Are you Charles Xavier? You can read minds and shit? Well impress the fuck outta me and please tell me who it is in my avatar.


Who cares?...Ugly people and fatties bought those records...Waaa...(sorry).
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Reply #109 posted 07/05/06 11:12pm

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MESSAGE TO Stonecrib AND BlaqueKnight:

Speaking as a child of the 1980's, I remember Heavy Metal going through THE SAME kind of controversy that Hip-Hop/R&B/Rap is still going through:

Women is general were being use as sex objects in the videos.

Everything explict that I could see in a 50Cent/G-Unit video is no different than what I could see in a classic Motley Crue video.

But there is one major different that I think is racially motivated:

In the 1980's: The women were Vixens

In the later 1990's - 2000's: The women are Hoes & Bytches

Now can anyone please explain to me how in the hell did we allow THIS to happen? Who change the rules all of a sudden?

A woman was (and still is) a vixen if she really is beautiful & drop-dead fine. This is a positive thing to stay about a woman (IMHO).

I don't see anytime positive about calling a woman a ho or bitch at all.

[Edited 7/5/06 23:14pm]
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Reply #110 posted 07/06/06 4:51am

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TonyVanDam said:

MESSAGE TO Stonecrib AND BlaqueKnight:

Speaking as a child of the 1980's, I remember Heavy Metal going through THE SAME kind of controversy that Hip-Hop/R&B/Rap is still going through:

Women is general were being use as sex objects in the videos.

Everything explict that I could see in a 50Cent/G-Unit video is no different than what I could see in a classic Motley Crue video.

But there is one major different that I think is racially motivated:

In the 1980's: The women were Vixens

In the later 1990's - 2000's: The women are Hoes & Bytches

Now can anyone please explain to me how in the hell did we allow THIS to happen? Who change the rules all of a sudden?

A woman was (and still is) a vixen if she really is beautiful & drop-dead fine. This is a positive thing to stay about a woman (IMHO).

I don't see anytime positive about calling a woman a ho or bitch at all.

[Edited 7/5/06 23:14pm]

so the young lady who bent over and let Nelly slide a credit card down her butt crack on the "Tip Drill" video is a vixen too??? hmmm wow.
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Reply #111 posted 07/06/06 5:30am

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missfee said:

TonyVanDam said:

MESSAGE TO Stonecrib AND BlaqueKnight:

Speaking as a child of the 1980's, I remember Heavy Metal going through THE SAME kind of controversy that Hip-Hop/R&B/Rap is still going through:

Women is general were being use as sex objects in the videos.

Everything explict that I could see in a 50Cent/G-Unit video is no different than what I could see in a classic Motley Crue video.

But there is one major different that I think is racially motivated:

In the 1980's: The women were Vixens

In the later 1990's - 2000's: The women are Hoes & Bytches

Now can anyone please explain to me how in the hell did we allow THIS to happen? Who change the rules all of a sudden?

A woman was (and still is) a vixen if she really is beautiful & drop-dead fine. This is a positive thing to stay about a woman (IMHO).

I don't see anytime positive about calling a woman a ho or bitch at all.

[Edited 7/5/06 23:14pm]

so the young lady who bent over and let Nelly slide a credit card down her butt crack on the "Tip Drill" video is a vixen too??? hmmm wow.


No. Actually THAT's a exotic dancer that can take Visa or MasterCard only!!! lol

Seriously, you're missing the points.

I only should all of you how racist the entertainment industry is sending the wrong message.

I'll agree if THAT woman was white, it's still degrading. Except, the industry would call her a video vixen, not a video ho.


When it's all said and done, white women will never be single out as jungle bunnies. Just black women. neutral
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Reply #112 posted 07/06/06 6:19am

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TonyVanDam said:

missfee said:


so the young lady who bent over and let Nelly slide a credit card down her butt crack on the "Tip Drill" video is a vixen too??? hmmm wow.


No. Actually THAT's a exotic dancer that can take Visa or MasterCard only!!! lol

Seriously, you're missing the points.

I only should all of you how racist the entertainment industry is sending the wrong message.

I'll agree if THAT woman was white, it's still degrading. Except, the industry would call her a video vixen, not a video ho.


When it's all said and done, white women will never be single out as jungle bunnies. Just black women. neutral


There's a crucial difference:

You might have had a few exceptions, but most heavy metal/rock bands with big hits that talked about women and sex with women didn't refer to them as hoes and b_tches. They didn't refer to each other or themselves in racial slurs either.

I wouldn't for a moment try to suggest the misogyny in that genre -- particularly in the 1980s -- wasn't explicit. MTV was practically built off of the "wink-and-nudge" naughtiness of sex in videos (Duran Duran's racy videos come to mind, too).

But the sheer number of rap artists who in the 1990s adopted disrespectful names for women, and wrote from a place of apathy and disrespect in general, was staggering. And, that continues in today's scene.

And, when you have a marginalized people (poorer blacks) who have embraced a devalued picture of themselves -- instead of combating mainstream society's devalued opinion of them with pride, collective excellence and unified industry -- their dysfunction becomes mass marketed as edgy, thuggish and street. The same way rock bands' rebellious images used to be cool.

The difference?

Most white families whose children bought into rock bands' rebellion had the financial resources to weather whatever real-life storms resulted from their children's behavior and decisions. Whereas black families -- even if they're led by two parents -- tend to have significantly less wealth (lower salaries and far less inherited wealth) at their disposal.

So, the urgency of Jill Scott's mission becomes a little clearer. Cycles of poor decisions by black young people can have -- and have had -- dire consequences with regard to breaking cycles of disenfranchisement.

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Reply #113 posted 07/06/06 6:23am

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ThreadBare said:

TonyVanDam said:



No. Actually THAT's a exotic dancer that can take Visa or MasterCard only!!! lol

Seriously, you're missing the points.

I only should all of you how racist the entertainment industry is sending the wrong message.

I'll agree if THAT woman was white, it's still degrading. Except, the industry would call her a video vixen, not a video ho.


When it's all said and done, white women will never be single out as jungle bunnies. Just black women. neutral


There's a crucial difference:

You might have had a few exceptions, but most heavy metal/rock bands with big hits that talked about women and sex with women didn't refer to them as hoes and b_tches. They didn't refer to each other or themselves in racial slurs either.

I wouldn't for a moment try to suggest the misogyny in that genre -- particularly in the 1980s -- wasn't explicit. MTV was practically built off of the "wink-and-nudge" naughtiness of sex in videos (Duran Duran's racy videos come to mind, too).

But the sheer number of rap artists who in the 1990s adopted disrespectful names for women, and wrote from a place of apathy and disrespect in general, was staggering. And, that continues in today's scene.

And, when you have a marginalized people (poorer blacks) who have embraced a devalued picture of themselves -- instead of combating mainstream society's devalued opinion of them with pride, collective excellence and unified industry -- their dysfunction becomes mass marketed.

This is what has happened to hip hop and, by extension, younger and poorer blacks who lack the parental guidance that has been requested in earlier posts.

Add to that the disparity in generational wealth in white and black families, and the urgency of Jill Scott's mission becomes a little clearer. Cycles of poor decisions by black young people can have -- and have had -- dire consequences with regard to breaking cycles of disenfranchisement.


Exactly. And you use better words BTW! cool
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Reply #114 posted 07/06/06 8:19am

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clapping Well said, Threadbare.
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Reply #116 posted 07/06/06 9:09am

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The difference?

Most white families whose children bought into rock bands' rebellion had the financial resources to weather whatever real-life storms resulted from their children's behavior and decisions. Whereas black families -- even if they're led by two parents -- tend to have significantly less wealth (lower salaries and far less inherited wealth) at their disposal.

So, the urgency of Jill Scott's mission becomes a little clearer. Cycles of poor decisions by black young people can have -- and have had -- dire consequences with regard to breaking cycles of disenfranchisement.

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[Edited 7/6/06 6:24am]


U hit the nail right on the head but what pisses me off is that MOST people don't seem 2 get this. Or don't want 2.....
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Reply #117 posted 07/06/06 10:00am

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ThreadBare said:

TonyVanDam said:



No. Actually THAT's a exotic dancer that can take Visa or MasterCard only!!! lol

Seriously, you're missing the points.

I only should all of you how racist the entertainment industry is sending the wrong message.

I'll agree if THAT woman was white, it's still degrading. Except, the industry would call her a video vixen, not a video ho.


When it's all said and done, white women will never be single out as jungle bunnies. Just black women. neutral


There's a crucial difference:

You might have had a few exceptions, but most heavy metal/rock bands with big hits that talked about women and sex with women didn't refer to them as hoes and b_tches. They didn't refer to each other or themselves in racial slurs either.

I wouldn't for a moment try to suggest the misogyny in that genre -- particularly in the 1980s -- wasn't explicit. MTV was practically built off of the "wink-and-nudge" naughtiness of sex in videos (Duran Duran's racy videos come to mind, too).

But the sheer number of rap artists who in the 1990s adopted disrespectful names for women, and wrote from a place of apathy and disrespect in general, was staggering. And, that continues in today's scene.

And, when you have a marginalized people (poorer blacks) who have embraced a devalued picture of themselves -- instead of combating mainstream society's devalued opinion of them with pride, collective excellence and unified industry -- their dysfunction becomes mass marketed as edgy, thuggish and street. The same way rock bands' rebellious images used to be cool.

The difference?

Most white families whose children bought into rock bands' rebellion had the financial resources to weather whatever real-life storms resulted from their children's behavior and decisions. Whereas black families -- even if they're led by two parents -- tend to have significantly less wealth (lower salaries and far less inherited wealth) at their disposal.

So, the urgency of Jill Scott's mission becomes a little clearer. Cycles of poor decisions by black young people can have -- and have had -- dire consequences with regard to breaking cycles of disenfranchisement.

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[Edited 7/6/06 6:24am]


Definitely agree with pretty much every you've said here. Dysfundtion has been marketed as edgy and such for as long as the music industry has been around. Take Charlie Parker and Dizzy Gillespie. Who gets more credit even though both of them had a huge hand in developing modern jazz? Parker, because he was the romanticized dysfunctional junkie wheras Gillespie was a family man and kept his mind right, yet was every bit as great a player (maybe even better!) as Parker.

The part I bolded is the only part I slightly disagree with. I wont' disagree about the money and the class issue, but I think it comes down to how involved the parents are. I knew kids in the small, relatively poor town I grew up in whose parents were INVOLVED! They didnt' have tons of money, but their folks would be damned if they were gonna let their kids get into that thug shit. Parental involvement is what separates the video "vixens" from the Jill Scotts of this world.
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Reply #118 posted 07/06/06 10:05am

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its amazing how only ugly singers say crap like that biggrin


Ugly?? WTF?!

Jill is a beautiful woman. Too bad you can't see her beauty.
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Reply #119 posted 07/06/06 10:17am

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The part I bolded is the only part I slightly disagree with. I wont' disagree about the money and the class issue, but I think it comes down to how involved the parents are. I knew kids in the small, relatively poor town I grew up in whose parents were INVOLVED! They didnt' have tons of money, but their folks would be damned if they were gonna let their kids get into that thug shit. Parental involvement is what separates the video "vixens" from the Jill Scotts of this world.


I totally agree. But, I think the numbers bear out the fact that it's far harder for parents to be as involved as they should be if they're over-overworked and under-paid, drug-addicted and/or trying to keep it all together without a spouse or significant other to help shoulder the load emotionally, spiritually and financially.
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