CarrieMpls said: darkstranger521 said: ..... Somewhere in the vicinity of 50% of the women I've gone with in my life have told me they were either raped as women or molested as girls. Many, many of them were not being truthful, according to my definition of the truth. What you need to understand is that women and men process the truth *VERY* differently. What is *true* to a man is the facts of the matter at hand. What is *true* to a woman is that which gives her strong/strongest emotions. A woman who as a matter of fact was never raped can tell to the whole world that she was raped and to *her*, in *her* mind, she *is not* lying. The *truth* to her is the strong emotions she gets from *talking* about her *rape*. This shit is deep, I am telling you. Why do woman flock so much to men who tell them lies? Because to a woman, when men make shit it up, if it gives them strong emotions to hear it, its *not* a lie. How can it be a lie when it makes her *feel* (good, bad, whatever, any emotion really) so strongly? Get it? That's the biggest pack of BS I've ever heard. This shit makes spats look like Gloria Steinam Now I'm older than movies, Now I'm wiser than dreams, And I know who's there
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theAudience said: CalhounSq said: That was the oh so sane Mike Tyson @ a press conference speaking to a journalist. Apparently he didn't like the question I think it may have been 2 different pressers for each statement The "children eating" quote was aimed at Lennox Lewis during an after fight interview. My style is impetuous. My defense is impregnable And i'm just ferocious. I want your heart, I want to eat his children. Praise be to Allah! The "love me" quote was aimed at a reporter some time later during a press conference... Look at, you scared now, you punk. Scared like a little white (Beep). Scared of the real man. I'll (Beep) you until you love me (Beep). My favorite Tyson quote?... "I guess I'm gonna fade into Bolivian." tA Tribal Disorder http://www.soundclick.com...dID=182431 see in that context it makes perfect sense... I am a Rail Road, Track Abandoned
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theAudience said: CalhounSq said: That was the oh so sane Mike Tyson @ a press conference speaking to a journalist. Apparently he didn't like the question I think it may have been 2 different pressers for each statement The "children eating" quote was aimed at Lennox Lewis during an after fight interview. My style is impetuous. My defense is impregnable And i'm just ferocious. I want your heart, I want to eat his children. Praise be to Allah! The "love me" quote was aimed at a reporter some time later during a press conference... Look at, you scared now, you punk. Scared like a little white (Beep). Scared of the real man. I'll (Beep) you until you love me (Beep). My favorite Tyson quote?... "I guess I'm gonna fade into Bolivian." tA Tribal Disorder http://www.soundclick.com...dID=182431 OH SHIT!!! Can I just tell you when I saw him say that I was telling EVERYBODY I knew & NO ONE believed me!!! I fucking LOVE that!!! And he said it SO matter-of-factly Damn tA, you always come w/ the real shit!! | |
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paintsprayer said: CarrieMpls said: That's the biggest pack of BS I've ever heard. This shit makes spats look like Gloria Steinam Are any of you people who are telling me how full of shit I am familiar with the history of the American South, say the period of time from 1880-1945 or thereabouts? You know how many hundreds if not thousands of cats got hung from fuckin' trees and were castrated because a woman lied about being raped? Often after she was off having sex with a man other than her husband and needed an alibi to cover her tracks. Please share with the thread your thoughts about the myriad women who instigated these lynchings by making up fictional rape stories that lead directly to the deaths of innocent men with families. Thanks! | |
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Ex-Moderator | darkstranger521 said: paintsprayer said: This shit makes spats look like Gloria Steinam Are any of you people who are telling me how full of shit I am familiar with the history of the American South, say the period of time from 1880-1945 or thereabouts? You know how many hundreds if not thousands of cats got hung from fuckin' trees and were castrated because a woman lied about being raped? Often after she was off having sex with a man other than her husband and needed an alibi to cover her tracks. Please share with the thread your thoughts about the myriad women who instigated these lynchings by making up fictional rape stories that lead directly to the deaths of innocent men with families. Thanks! Honestly, nope. Not familiar. And it doesn't seem as if you are either, considering hundreds and thousands are very different numbers. I'm sorry, but in the case of rape, women by far get the short end of the stick and while being unjustly accused is indeed a travesty, it pales in comparison to the violence women have had to endure since the beginning of time. And I don't see what something that may or may not have happened in the 1800's has to do with making an absurd claim that 50% of women can't distinguish fact from fiction due to emotional response. That's bullshit, pure and simple. |
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darkstranger521 said: paintsprayer said: This shit makes spats look like Gloria Steinam Are any of you people who are telling me how full of shit I am familiar with the history of the American South, say the period of time from 1880-1945 or thereabouts? You know how many hundreds if not thousands of cats got hung from fuckin' trees and were castrated because a woman lied about being raped? Often after she was off having sex with a man other than her husband and needed an alibi to cover her tracks. Please share with the thread your thoughts about the myriad women who instigated these lynchings by making up fictional rape stories that lead directly to the deaths of innocent men with families. Thanks! Man, I'm painfully familiar with the history of the American South. I'm living with it every day. I know all about that context and how Emmitt Till and the Scottsboro Boys cases went down. As folks will be quick to tell you: "Things are a little different here in the South..." I don't think that context applies as much to what we're discussing. I'm sure there's some overlap, even in the 21st century. I just don't think there's as much as you suggest. | |
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ThreadBare said: Omadon said: ya know, some of that stuff is entirely irrelevant as to whether or not rape occured - like her being provocatively dressed, her willingly giving him oral sex etc (unless the rape charge related to the oral sex). An excellent point. Wanted to say the same. The other point I wanted to make is that a lot of people who talk about rapes being reported don't seem to understand the number of rapes THAT NEVER ARE REPORTED. It typically takes a lot for a rape victim to even file a police report, let alone tell their loved ones. I don't think nearly as many women as you suggest make false accusations about being raped. When did I ever say that alot of women make false accusations about being raped? Im just talkin about this one bitch. The other point I wanted to make is that a lot of people who talk about rapes being reported don't seem to understand the number of rapes THAT NEVER ARE REPORTED. It typically takes a lot for a rape victim to even file a police report, let alone tell their loved ones. Anyway, like I said, I see alot of y'all on here sayin shit like "didnt Pac rape a girl" and y'all dont really seem to know the real detail surrounding the situation, Im just filling y'all in. Here's the victim's account (from VIBE magazine) I am the young woman that was sexually assaulted by Tupac Shakur and his thugs. I've read Kevin Powell's interview with Tupac ["Ready to Live," April], in which I was misrepresented. Up until this point I have only told my story under oath in court; nobody has heard my story, only his side, which is much different than what Tupac stated is the true story.
A friend of mine took me to Nell's, where he introduced me to [the men VIBE identified as] Nigel and Trevor, who later introduced me to their friend Tupac. When I first met Tupac, he kissed me on my cheek and made small talk with me. After a while, I excused myself and started to walk to the dance floor. When I felt someone slide their hands into the back pocket of my jeans, I turned around, assuming it was my friend, but was shocked when I discovered it was Tupac. We danced for a while, and he touched my face and his body brushed mine. Due to the small dance floor and the large number of people, we were shoved into a dark corner. Tupac pulled up his shirt, took my hand, traced it down his chest, and sat it on top of his erect penis. He then kissed me and pushed my head down on his penis, and in a brief three-second encounter, my lips touched the head of his penis. This happened so suddenly that once I realized what he was trying to do, I swiftly brought my head up. I must reiterate that I did not suck his penis on the dance floor. He pulled his shirt back down and asked me what I was doing later. I told him that I was going home because I had to go to work that day. Then, as people started surrounding him again, he grabbed my arm and said, "Let's get out of here, I'm tired of people stressing me." We exited Nell's, got into a white BMW, pulled up at the Parker Meridien, and went to his suite. We conversed, and he rolled up some blunts. We started kissing, and then we had oral and vaginal sexual intercourse several times. He called my house a couple nights later and gave me his SkyPager number and told me he wanted to see me tomorrow. That evening after work, I paged him, and his road manager called me back and informed me that Pac really wanted to see me but he had a show to do in Jersey, so I should call a car service and take it to the Meridien and he would pay for the cab. Once I got to the hotel, I met Charles Fuller for the first time; he paid for the cab and led me upstairs. Inside the suite, Tupac, Nigel, and Trevor were seated in the living room, smoking weed and drinking Absolut. Tupac told me to come in and pointed to the arm of the sofa near him, and I sat down. After about 20 minutes, Tupac took my hand and led me into a bedroom in the suite. He fell onto the bed and asked me to give him a massage. So I massaged his back, he turned around, and I started massaging his chest. Just as we began kissing, the door opened and I heard people entering. As I started to turn to see who it was, Tupac grabbed my head and told me, "Don't move." I looked down at him and he said, "Don't worry, baby, these are my brothers and they ain't going to hurt you. We do everything together." I started to shake my head, "No, no, Pac, I came here to be with you. I came here to see you. I don't want to do this." I started to rise up off the bed but he brutally slammed my head down. My lips and face came crashing down hard onto his penis, he squeezed the back of my neck, and I started to gag. Tupac and Nigel held me down while Trevor forced his penis into my mouth. I felt hands tearing my shoes off, ripping my stockings and panties off. I couldn't move; I felt paralyzed, trapped, and I started to black out. They leered at my body. "This bitch got a fat ass, she's fine." While they laughed and joked to one another, Nigel, Trevor, and Fuller held me in the room, trying to calm me down. They would not allow me to leave. Finally, I got to the elevators, which had a panel of mirrors. Once I caught sight of myself, I sank down on the floor and started to cry. They came out, picked me up, and brought me back into the suite. Tupac was lying on the couch. In my mind I'm thinking, "This motherf*cker just raped me, and he's lying up here like a king acting as if nothing happened." So I began crying hysterically and shouting, "How could you do this to me? I came here to see you. I can't believe you did this to me." Tupac replied, "I don't have time for this shit. Get this bitch out of here." The aforementioned is the true story. It was not a setup, and I never knew any of the thugs he was hanging with. Tupac knows exactly what he did to me. I admit I did not make the wisest decisions, but I did not deserve to be gang-raped. And Pac's account (from VIBE magazine) Can we talk about the rape case at all? Okay. Nigel and Trevor took me to Nell's. When we got there, I was immediately impressed, because it was different than any club I'd been in. It wasn't crowded, there was lots of space, there were beautiful women there. I was meeting Ronnie Lott from the New York Jets and Derrick Coleman from the Nets. They were coming up to me, like, "Pac, we're proud of you." I felt so tall that night, because they were people's heroes and they saying I was their hero. I felt above and beyond, like I was glowing. Somebody introduced me to this girl. And the only thing I noticed about her: She had a big chest. But she was not attractive; she looked dumpy, like. Money came to me and said, "This girl wants to do more than meet you." I already knew what that meant: She wanted to f*ck. I just left them and went to the dance floor by myself. They were playing some Jamaican music, and I'm just grooving. Then this girl came out and started dancing-and the shit that was weird, she didn't even come to me face-first, she came ass-first. So I'm dancing to this reggae music; you know how sensuous that is. She's touching my dick, she's touching my balls, she opened my zipper, she put her hands on me. There's a little dark part in Nell's, and I see people over there making out already, so she starts pushing me this way. I know what time it is. We go over in the corner. She's touching me. I lift up my shirt while I'm dancing, showing off my tattoos and everything. She starts kissing my stomach, kissing my chest, licking me and shit. She's going down, and I'm, like, Oh shit. She pulled my dick out; she started sucking my dick on the dance floor. That shit turned me on. I wasn't thinking, like, This is going to be a rape case. I'm thinking, like, This is going to be a good night. You know what I'm saying? Soon as she finished that-just enough to get me solid, rock-hard-we got off the dance floor. I told Nigel, "I've got to get out of here. I'm about to take her to the hotel. I'll see you all later." Nigel was, like, "No, no, no. I'm going to take you back." We drive to the hotel. We go upstairs and have sex, real quick. As soon as I came, that was it. I was tired, I was drunk, I knew I had to get up early in the morning, so I was, like, "What are you going to do? You can spend the night or you can leave." She left me her number, and everything was cool. Nigel was spending the night in my room all these nights. When he found out she sucked my dick on the floor and we had sex, he and Trevor were livid! Trevor is a big freak; he was going crazy. All he kept asking me was, "D-d-did you f*ck in the ass?" He was listening to every single detail. I thought, This is just some guy shit, it's all good. What happened on the night of the alleged rape? We had a show to do in New Jersey at Club 88. This dude said, "I'll be there with a limo to pick you up at midnight." We went shopping, we got dressed up, we were all ready. Nigel was saying, "Why don't you give her a call?" So we were all sitting in the hotel, drinking. I'm waiting for the show, and Nigel's, like, "I called her. I mean, she called me, and she's on her way." But I wasn't thinking about her no second time. We were watching TV when the phone rings, and she's downstairs. Nigel gave Man-man, my manager, some money to pay for the cab, and I was, like, "Let that bitch pay for her own cab." She came upstairs looking all nice, dressed all provocative and shit, like she was ready for a prom date. So we're all sitting there talking, and she's making me uncomfortable, because instead of sitting with Nigel and them, she's sitting on the arm of my chair. And Nigel and Trevor are looking at her like a chicken, like she's, like, food. It's a real uncomfortable situation. So I'm thinking, Okay, I'm going to take her to the room and get a massage. I'm thinking about being with her that night at Nell's. So we get in the room, I'm laying on my stomach, she's massaging my back. I turn around. She starts massaging my front. This lasted for about a half an hour. In between, we would stop and kiss each other. I'm thinking she's about to give me another blow job. But before she could do that, some niggas came in, and I froze up more than she froze up. If she would have said anything, I would have said, "Hold on, let me finish." But I can't say nothing, because she's not saying nothing. How do I look saying, "Hold on"? That would be like I'm making her my girl. So they came and they started touching her ass. They going, "Oooh, she's got a nice ass." Nigel isn't touching her, but I can hear his voice leading it, like, "Put her panties down, put her pantyhose down." I just got up and walked out the room. When I went to the other suite, Man-man told me that Talibah, my publicist at the time, had been there for a while and was waiting in the bedroom of that suite. I went to see Talibah and we talked about what she had been doing during the day, then I went and laid down on the couch and went to sleep. When I woke up, Nigel was standing over me going, "Pac, Pac," and all the lights was on in both rooms. The whole mood had changed, you know what I'm saying? I felt like I was drugged. I didn't know how much time had passed. So when I woke up, it was, like, "You're going to the police, you're going to the police." Nigel walks out the room, comes back with the girl. Her clothes is on; ain't nothing tore. She just upset, crying hysterically. "Why you let them do this to me?" She's not making sense. "I came to see you. You let them do this to me." I'm, like, "I don't got time for this shit right here. You got to chill out with that shit. Stop yelling at me and looking at me all crazy." She said, "This not the last time you're going to hear from me," and slammed the door. And Nigel goes, "Don't worry about it, Pac, don't worry. I'll handle it. She just tripping." I asked him what happened, and he was, like, "Too many niggas." You know, I ain't even tripping no more, you know? Niggas start going downstairs, but nobody was coming back upstairs. I'm sitting upstairs smoking weed, like, Where the f*ck is everybody at? Then I get a call from Talibah from the lobby saying, "The police is down here." And that's what landed you in jail. But you're saying that you never did anything? Never did nothing. Only thing I saw was all three of them in there and that nigga talking about how fat her ass was. I got up, because the nigga sounded sick. I don't know if she's with these niggas, or if she's mad at me for not protecting her. But I know I feel ashamed-because I wanted to be accepted and because I didn't want no harm done to me-I didn't say nothing. How did you feel about women during the trial, and how do you feel about women now? When the charge first came up, I hated black women. I felt like I put my life on the line. At the time I made "Keep Ya Head Up," nobody had no songs about black women. I put out "Keep Ya Head Up" from the bottom of my heart. It was real, and they didn't defend it. I felt like it should have been women all over the country talking about, "Tupac couldn't have did that." And people was actually asking me, "Did you do it?" Then, going to trial, I started seeing the black women that was helping me. Now I've got a brand-new vision of them, because in here, it's mostly black female guards. They don't give me no extra favors, but they treat me with human respect. They're telling me, "When you get out of here, you gotta change." They be putting me on the phone with they kids. You know what I'm saying? They just give me love. What's going to happen if you have to serve time? If it happens, I got to serve it like a trooper. Of course, my heart will be broke. I be torn apart, but I have to serve it like a trooper. And other two guys Nigel and Trevor didnt get a prison time at all, while Pac did - dont y'all find this funny since they were the one's do who alledgedly did the acutal raping (even according to the witnesses account). They were both on trial, but their trial was seperated from Pac's. And thats because they were working for police as informants. If you saw the video, you heard Pac say they found no evidence of the girl ever gettin raped - and that was fact coming police and courtroom themselves. And if y'all think Pac paid the police off to say that, y'all are dead wrong - he hate them and the feeling the neutral. OTher than his lyrics against cops, he was the son of a Black Panther and had just got away with shooting two white policeman in ATL for harassing the black motorist at the time. [Edited 6/2/06 7:40am] | |
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CalhounSq said: Please folks, never just assume a woman is lying about rape. It's an incredibly difficult thing to have happen to you... I dont, but at the same time I aint gonna act like some of the dont lie about it either. There are bitches out there who would love to see a nigga in jail especially if they cant get what they want out of them. Kinda makes me think of what happened to Sam Cooke... [Edited 6/2/06 7:42am] | |
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Did the girl really do oral to Tupac on the dancefloor???
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Prospect said: CalhounSq said: Please folks, never just assume a woman is lying about rape. It's an incredibly difficult thing to have happen to you... I dont, but at the same time I aint gonna act like some of the dont lie about it either. There are bitches out there who would love to see a nigga in jail especially if they cant get what they want out of them. Kinda makes me think of what happened to Sam Cooke... [Edited 6/2/06 7:42am] The comment was directed more generally to folks that think a woman crying rape is most often lying, it wasn't directed right at you | |
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Tyson didn't do , neither did Kobe.
I never believed somebody like Pac would have to or ever rape a chick. setup! [Edited 6/2/06 19:19pm] | |
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EmbattledWarrior said: ThreadBare said: I'd be interested in knowing the contexts and circumstances of those studies. For example, did the military study investigate cases only on bases? And, 15,000 based on dna evidence out of how many cases total? 20,000? 30,000? Numbers without context don't really prove anything. 24 bass players are lefthanded. i went back to the site, seems i got the stats confused give you a link and a quote of the article i got it from http://www.fathersforlife...kingDV.htm "Rape. Advocacy information: 1-in-4 of college women are raped annually Actual statistics: A review of Oklahoma University enrolment data and information supplied by campus police yielded the estimate that the annualized rape risk for 1996 freshmen women at OU was 1 chance in 476. [Source: Deflating the Date Rape Scare: A Look At Campus Police Records by Michael P. Wright, Scientific Social Research, Norman, Oklahoma] BJS report NCJ-151658 notes that there are 2 rapes or attempted rapes reported per 1,000 US citizens, which is 530,000 reports of rape per year. There are 15,000 rape convictions annually. Based on new DNA tests, a third of those convictions are now found to be false. Therefore, there are potentially 520,000 false rape allegations a year." Ok, first of all, let's take a good look at where this "information" is coming from. This website you're quoting as fact is a male advocacy/father's support group called "Fathers for Life". In addition to their contention that most rape charges are false is also that male-against-female domestic violence rarely exists and that girls are "at least" as violent as boys. | |
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