im just a bit uptight, i havent had my leg over for eight months and its starting to get to me,so if i appear a little grumpy then you know why.
all you married men out there, is this normal or im i just unlucky in life?
as john lennon once sang" nobody told me there would be days like this"

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[This message was edited Thu Oct 24 11:52:51 PDT 2002 by LadyLove]

Just know,relationships split on sex or money. This is true. Talk about it ,this is not normal. I would be grumpy too ,and u're married ,i am not. Good luck.

We (women) tend to withhold sex intentionally if we're unhappy with the men in our lives. I think she could be angry with you about something. If it was only 1-2 months, I'd say that maybe she's just tired, needs help with the housework, or is going through a phase, but 8 months is quite abnormal.

(I'm assuming your sex life was healthy up until now...)

AnotherLoverHoleinYoHead said:

theC
that's very honest(i always felt women did that)

theC said:

I'm not saying all women do it, a lot of the time we say no because we're just tired, or we're not turned on by your wham-bam-thank you ma'am technique A few times, I've been so frustrated with the man in my life that I didn't want him to touch me, because it gave me the creeps! I prefer to talk things out and be upfront. But some women will purposely withhold sex because they know that's the most important thing to you guys, they know it will really get to you.