"Love is what we make it" I heard a live version by Whitney Houston from the bodyguard tour. I found out that Kenny Rogers (!) has a song with the same title, but it`s a different song. Here`s a few lines:

...Love is sacrifices, sweet advises
Toward one another
So let`s discover what love has undercover...

...I found that love is what we make it
So let`s make it love...