RJOrion said:

funny that you ask...i bought it...but i kept it in the back of my crates behind other albums, so visitors didnt see it

What would have happened if visitors saw it? Would they have made you feel shame, or hurt you?

Was it less arousing stashed in the back of your crates next to the Village People and other "Gay porn"?

Did it upset you that your "girl" didn't have an ass as fine as his?

[Edited 1/29/20 11:47am]

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

Please, you would run if a man in drag was standing in your way ...

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check #155 it covers all the synonyms you posted

de·test·a·ble

/dəˈtestəb(ə)l/

adjective

adjective: detestable

deserving intense dislike.

Similar:

abhorrent detested loathed despicable despised abominable

repellent repugnant repulsive revolting disgusting distasteful

horrible reprehensible obnoxious nauseating offensive contemptible

Opposite:lovable admirable

if i did run, would that be a crime?...no...would it be what the religious call a sin?...no...so yeah, depending on the demeanor and size and if the said drag queen approached me in an agressive manner, and i wasnt able to effectively defend myself, i probably would run...no regret or shame in my game...but just seeing gays and trans people in my path, causes me no fear...i be on this site interacting back and forth with people who are admittedly gay or bi...my sister and niece are both gay...i love them and never ran from them...running implies true "phobia" [Edited 1/29/20 11:29am]

If you ran it would be 'fear' lol I said nothing about him attacking you lol

You know men respond differently when it comes to women who are bi/homosexual right?

The phobia is usually directed at a man. A paranoia of sexual assault or something.

OldFriends4Sale said:

lavendardrummachine said:

RJOrion said:

and yes men are usually more accepting of gay behavior from a woman...its only natural...men put up with or tolerate ALOT of things from women, that they would never tolerate from a man...so it only makes natural sense.

Just like it's natural that men and woman must buy their clothing in separate departments? Isn't that another one of your rules?

RJOrion said:

and yes men are usually more accepting of gay behavior from a woman...its only natural...men put up with or tolerate ALOT of things from women, that they would never tolerate from a man...so it only makes natural sense.

isn't that then hypocritical?

a man would put up with another man farting or burping over a woman

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

If you ran it would be 'fear' lol I said nothing about him attacking you lol

You know men respond differently when it comes to women who are bi/homosexual right?

The phobia is usually directed at a man. A paranoia of sexual assault or something.

thats why i specifically and clearly said, "IF HE APPROACHED ME IN AN AGGRESSIVE MANNER AND I WAS UNABLE TO DEFEND MYSELF"...cmon homie, u can do better than that...cant you?

No you needed to add that part, that it would be the deviant ready to do you harm. lol

Usually it's the other way around

You needed to add the 'threat' that homosexual men allegedly present, you know that Sodom and Gomorrah rapey stuff lol that people were taught

your so hot that a gay man needs to force himself on you thingy lol

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So did Prince get what he deserved for coming out there all sissified?
I know you cannot answer that, just an observation.

OldFriends4Sale said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

isn't that then hypocritical?

a man would put up with another man farting or burping over a woman

wrong...id rather hear and smell a woman fart than a man, anyday... hearing burping doesnt bother me at all

lol yuck, that would turn the sexy off for me lol

men are generally around men from youth, brothers, fathers, cousins freinds, locker room, camping, sports, so it is natural for men to not have much issue with other men farting and burping.

Women would be turned of generally by men farting and burping, (sexually or platonic)

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Now do you understand why seperately created threads work? lol

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

No you needed to add that part, that it would be the deviant ready to do you harm. lol

Usually it's the other way around

You needed to add the 'threat' that homosexual men allegedly present, you know that Sodom and Gomorrah rapey stuff lol that people were taught

your so hot that a gay man needs to force himself on you thingy lol

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So did Prince get what he deserved for coming out there all sissified?
I know you cannot answer that, just an observation.

i added that part about the aggression, to be clear in my answer...the order in which it was presented is irrelevsnt...and the question about Prince "getting what he deserved", makes no sense to me...either i dont know what youre asking, or youre gonna have to ask Prince himself

But there was no reason to add it.

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it makes sense, because so many people think like that. "Well if you weren't flouncing around like that they wouldn't have beaten you up. You know how people can be."

poppys said:

RJOrion said:

poppys said:

Just like it's natural that men and woman must buy their clothing in separate departments? Isn't that another one of your rules?

i shop exclusively in mens departments...i would never wear a garment meant for a woman...so if you call that a "rule" so be it...u mad?

R U ? I'm laughing. Lots of issues here with what is "natural".

OldFriends4Sale said:

poppys said:

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

I mean that by nature, we don't come into the world wearing garments.

Clothing is something we put on for a reason and take off.
Why do human wear clothing...
Your African-American, there are many ethnic African groups that wear very little or nothing at time.

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Sorry you cannot tell me your opinion isn't influenced indirectly. Someone taught you something...

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Prince was everything you find detestable right to the end

the world taught me...starting with my parents... i dont know how old you are, but homosexuality was LONG considered a sickness...and deviant...and reprehensible...and evil..and underground..this age of acceptance for homosexuality is a new agenda and a new creation...perpetuated by the media and federal and local governments...includng the school systems... but to each their own beliefs... i can be a fan of someone and even a friend or family member to someone who has different beliefs about sexuality [Edited 1/29/20 10:06am]

If giving equal rights to ALL people is an 'agenda' that's 'perpetuated' by the media seems wrong to you, I feel sorry for you. You're making it seem like it's wrong for everyone to be treated the same. The media and gay people are not going to make you gay.

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

how would you respond if someone typed 'ni&&afied'?

you do know 'sissy' is directed at women and gay men right?

Start a thread bro... lol

i could care less if someone typed ni&&afied...i might even type it my damn self...some people are so weak now obsessing over words on a blog, typed by a stranger, just because they dont agree with or like something they see in a comment box..i know racism exists just like i know homosexuality exists...let the racists be racists and let the straights be straight and the gays be gay..EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN BELIEFS... whether its liked or not...but im gonna express my pride and conviction in being straight, just like the gays express their pride in being gay...and comparing chosen sexual behavior to born ethnicity is an old, tired, and irresponsible comparison that makes zero common or scientific sense.

So wrong. I knew from the age of 5 that I was different from other boys. I just didn't know what that meant until I was 12 or so. It's not a chosen lifestyle. Who wants to chose a lifestyle where you are hated, villified, etc.? Seriously?

cmon RJ..you aren't that dense are you? In 2020?

rdhull said:

RJOrion said:

rdhull said:

cmon RJ..you aren't that dense are you? In 2020?

so its 2020 and you resort to name calling if people believe act differently or have different opinions than you?...see how that works?...we're all human and as such, we're all wired differently.. so if you think im "dense", im so cool with that.. think what thou wilt... as i will continue to think and express how i feel. [Edited 1/29/20 16:09pm]

Ok, so its not 'dense.' Maybe I should have stated you expressing arhaic beliefs in these days and time. Thats your right, yes. But that's the hill you choose to die on in 2020? smh

Personally, I think it was Prince's true nature to be gender fluid but he did acquiesce to outside forces and eventually dressed more conservatively.

Even as a young boy( age 9-10) he was wearing a scarf around his neck. I bet he got shit for that.

Before he was a star he routinely wore necklaces and bracelets.

RJOrion said:

rdhull said:

cmon RJ..you aren't that dense are you? In 2020?

so its 2020 and you resort to name calling if people believe act differently or have different opinions than you?...see how that works?...we're all human and as such, we're all wired differently.. so if you think im "dense", im so cool with that.. think what thou wilt... as i will continue to think and express how i feel. [Edited 1/29/20 16:09pm]

I get the sense you're in a country or community where homosexuality is illegal and women/men are separated. It's given you some things to work out. That isn't what was going on at this Rolling Stones concert though, and your desire to roll back the clock to explain the discomfort some people in some pars of the world still have for sexuality and race, is neither here nor there.

PeggyO said:

Personally, I think it was Prince's true nature to be gender fluid but he did acquiesce to outside forces and eventually dressed more conservatively.

Even as a young boy( age 9-10) he was wearing a scarf around his neck. I bet he got shit for that.

Before he was a star he routinely wore necklaces and bracelets.

I believe so to, it wasn't a 'act' at all. Yeah at times for show he turned up things, he was an entertainer. But that Prince we saw on American Band Stand, 1999, Purple Rain, UTCM Lovesexy Gold Experience Musicology right up to the end was the same Prince.

RJOrion said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

But there was no reason to add it.

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it makes sense, because so many people think like that. "Well if you were flouncing around like that they wouldn't have beaten you up. You know how people can be."

i dont think that way... i have no beef with gay people...just because im not gay, it doesnt mean i hate, or dislike them or want to inflict violence upon them...

I'm just saying. It is very common for people to respond like that, even if passively.

You cannot deny there is a 'dislike' there. "Well you wouldn't have gotten a disease if you didn't..."

People do this very easily.
Even in this thread, people have said, well if he wouldn't have sung that song, or looked like he did etc then they might not have...
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People have and still do kill, beat, abuse them for being they way they are 'naturally'.
The only 'Choice' they had in it, was to be open about being themselves.

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Why would a straight up Black person also 'choose' be gay just to be treated like shit, by people, especially other Black folk. I mean really.
A kid chooses to be homosexual then is troubled by it because of what people/family might think/do, then goes to get help to change? Why not just change back to heterosexual...

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Anyway, this would have been a good P&R discussion.

rdhull said:

RJOrion said:

rdhull said:

Ok, so its not 'dense.' Maybe I should have stated you expressing arhaic beliefs in these days and time. Thats your right, yes. But that's the hill you choose to die on in 2020? smh

"dying on a hill in 2020" is a lil bit dramatic no?... ive been freely, peacefully and honestly expressing my views and beliefs since 1963 ...its what most human beings are designed to do...im not the slightest bit concerned about "dying on a hill" (figuratively or literally) over a comment box on a Prince fansite about my past or present opinions, beliefs or feelings...its not that serious..

Saying that someone chooses to be gay and is not born that is serious. But you keep doing you.

rdhull said:

RJOrion said:

rdhull said: "dying on a hill in 2020" is a lil bit dramatic no?... ive been freely, peacefully and honestly expressing my views and beliefs since 1963 ...its what most human beings are designed to do...im not the slightest bit concerned about "dying on a hill" (figuratively or literally) over a comment box on a Prince fansite about my past or present opinions, beliefs or feelings...its not that serious..

Saying that someone chooses to be gay and is not born that is serious. But you keep doing you.

rdhull said:

RJOrion said:

rdhull said:

Saying that someone chooses to be gay and is not born that is serious. But you keep doing you.

to have sex PERIOD, is a choice...as is, whom youre gonna have sex with...

LOL bro lol let it go lol

"It's not wrong to have those feelings, but it's wrong to act on them" - so many people