I thought most Prince fans were fairly enlightened. I have zero interest or judgement re: Andy's sexuality. Wouldn't most Prince fans be understanding? We are in 2018. | |
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I think most would be understanding and with all of hints she has dropped,I doubt many would be surprised. I saw that she liked a tweet on National Coming Out Day about loving someone even if they weren't ready to come out so it could be that she related to it or was showing support for her friends who may be in that situation. I think she may be getting closer. | |
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I think I may have found the woman Andy appears to be dating on instagram. Although I'm pretty sure this is waaaaayyyy off topic now, and perhaps needs a thread of its own. | |
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Must be diffcult to have to promote yourself all the time. Being an artist must be so fulfilling, but having to hustle and keep yourself in the public eye; exhausting. And, then to have to worry about losing your fanbase while you are going through something in your personal life. Makes me want to go back to bed. | |
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I saw that she was still following some people who are very close to her ex.I guess she became close to them while dating him and wants to still keep connected.She seems to want to still hold on to the connection with Prince it seems because I just saw on her Twitter that she retweeted a clip from Montréal 2011 of him singing DMSR when he wore the shirt with her face on it. The person who tweeted it said that they loved them and though they are apart they will always be together. I saw where she also liked a tweet recently where someone said they wished there was a room that you could walk in and it would be 2012 again. I'm beginning to think she's trying to confuse everyone I think I figured out who the woman is too and reading her profile,it definitely fits. After breaking up with her boyfriend,she said in a tweet last year that her Valentine was "the perfect illusion" and was tweeting gifs of people crying and said she would be fine alone. She must have begun dating the woman shortly after if they are together.
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I'm impressed if so because I couldn't find her in the people she follows. I saw that she was still following some people who are very close to her ex.I guess she became close to them while dating him and wants to still keep connected.She seems to want to still hold on to the connection with Prince it seems because I just saw on her Twitter that she retweeted a clip from Montréal 2011 of him singing DMSR when he wore the shirt with her face on it. The person who tweeted it said that they loved them and though they are apart they will always be together. I saw where she also liked a tweet recently where someone said they wished there was a room that you could walk in and it would be 2012 again. I'm beginning to think she's trying to confuse everyone She seems to be very confused herself at the moment. I think I figured out who the woman is too and reading her profile,it definitely fits. [Edited 11/10/18 9:02am] I've noticed the same! And I've stumbled across the same profile as you, I believe. She's even the owner of the cavalier dog Andy took photos with on several different occasions. But alas, this is a topic for a thread of its own. | |
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Yes. I looked her up on FB after and that's definitely the woman I've seen her with.Agreed. Things took an interesting turn. Andy may be closer to coming out with the relationship since she posed for the photo with her at her friend's party.
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Found the girl's profile. Yep that's her. Well I'm happy for Andy, and hope she's happy right now. The girl reminds me of Shane from The L Word.
I also agree with others, and hope she's getting support, because she seems a bit confused, and like she's represeed her emotions and hopped from relationship to relationship. She does seem to be holding on to P for whatever reason. I think their relationship impacted her more than she's willing to admit. There was talk that perhaps her sexuality contributed to their breakup (remember some posts about this a few years ago) but who knows. I'm sure if he were still here, he'd want her to be happy.
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Yes, she seems to have jumped into the relationship right after coming out of the last one.That appears to have ended in fall of that year and he was posting photos with the new girl by January.Andy seemingly was very hurt over that.I agree that the relationship with P impacted her and she seemed very shaken by his loss and alluded to that in some of her posts after he passed. She appeared to be trying to move past it and be happy with her bf and he suggested in a post on his FB about Andy's show at The Mint that she may have been having a difficult time. I recall that during the show she announced that she had been seeing someone for then over six months and it was "still awesome" I wondered if her difficulty with losing P may have led to their breakup. She went through such a drastic change after that with her appearance and alluded to having bouts of grief in some of her FB posts.I hope that she is happy right now as well and works everything out. [Edited 12/14/18 15:47pm] | |
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I agree. I think the loss of Prince devastated her in ways that we can only imagine. If my suspicions are correct, I don't think she will be able to find true happiness until she unpacks and works through those feelings. Maybe she should have taken some time off right after he passed away instead of throwing herself into her work. | |
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She posted on FB in July of 2016 about how hard it was to lose someone close and that she was being overcome by waves of grief. It seemed she was reaching out at that time and I wondered if she was seeking professional help at that point. She did seem to throw herself into her work I agree, along with taking up boxing that she said helped release her emotions. She also said in her post at the end of 2016 that losing Prince was one of the hardest things she ever went through,if not the hardest and that it forced her to face things that she thought she had faced but really hadn't. It seems she may have realized that she still had feelings for him and she said in her tribute post that she wished she had told him more what he meant to her and that she loved him. She did seem to regret not telling him that while he was here. I was looking through some of Andy's tweets from 2015 and saw that on 10.28 she shared a poem she has since removed called "When You Kiss Me In A Dream" the day after Prince first posted the IG clip of him singing her verse in "Time" The next day he tweeted the same clip so it made me wonder if she directed the poem toward him or if he at least thought that she had. I remember reading it and wondering the same then.I also saw a tweet by her that I had forgotten about from 12.20.12 where she said that she had packed her bags,enough oatmeal for two,an umbrella and a toothbrush right before the last time she visited his home in T&C. It made me feel kind of sad seeing that. She seemed to be really happy then. There was also a tweet from January 2013 where she said she was listening to "Do Me Baby" Something seemed to happen a few months after and she left, though she and Prince saw each other periodically at their shows. He last saw one of hers in September 2015 but she never said anything about it or if they talked. They seemed to still have a fondness for each other at least. | |
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I've heard that most of the songs on Superconductor were written about Prince or their relationship. Perhaps there are clues as to what may have ensued; probably several irreconcilable issues. I get the sense she tried several times to make it work and had to come to a decision. I don't think she left lightly and I am certain he knew of her love for him. Sometimes, when you have to, it is best to make a clean break. (I'm never good at that) Just my thoughts as I don't follow Andy too much.
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Yes,she told Prince in the letter that was discovered that "Nothing More" was inspired by him and for him which I think most people assumed. They wrote "The Calm","Long Gone","Superconductor" and "Story of You & I" together. "The Calm" seemed to be Prince's favorite and I saw that he recommended it to someone on Twitter after he streamed the Oui Can Love album on Tidal and called it "Aural Excellence." She wrote "If I Was King" for Prince to sing but ended up keeping it for herself. I believe that her songs on her EP Hello speak of their struggles and breakup, "Don't Ever Say","Fighter" and "Into The Wild" especially. She did say in some interviews in 2013 that sometimes you love someone but it hurts too much to stay and you have to get out of the situation. | |
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I used to have a lot of jealousy issues about Andy.
I said a lot of things that were very hurtful. And for that I apologize from the bottom of my heart to her. At the same time, I also hurt for her. I just wasn’t woman enough to say it or think of her feelings. I really regret that. Then I allowed myself to be used by someone and I stated here that there was “another woman” Prince had a “relationship” with in 2011-2012. I have since found that wasn’t the case. Prince simply had people he was “spending time with”, as we say, until he went off with Andy, that is... Ive done a lot of self-reflecting myself. I really hope for Andy’s happiness today. THAT would make me VERY happy. [Edited 11/14/18 16:21pm] | |
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I find it a bit strange that she has suddenly become so quiet when she was posting almost daily on her socials. It's been weeks since her last one on IG and I noticed that she deleted several photos along with her clips from the recent MMs and most from last year. She also still hasn't replied to her last FB post about "Breakdown" or any of the others. She said in her recent chat that she was trying to work out the best "frequency" for Music Monday and asked the fans to let her know what works for them but she's been more quiet than ever since then.In August,she said on an IG story that she was wanting to use social media more effectively and make it less shallow but apparently she's decided to distance herself from it instead. She's always been a very open person and it's just unusual for her. Even her brother Chris has been posting more often on IG lately. Maybe she's just really busy working on the new music along with her acting projects. She seemed really excited about everything in her chat and it sounded like a lot of things were in the works. I see that Andy just shared a story on IG and was cutting up with Chantal Thuy of Black Lightning. She seemed to be very happy. I saw that she also updated her IG profile to: "Cameroonian American Professional Story Teller,Truth Seeker & Joy Giver" Nice
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anangellooksdown said: I used to have a lot of jealousy issues about Andy. I said a lot of things that were very hurtful. And for that I apologize from the bottom of my heart to her. At the same time, I also hurt for her. I just wasn’t woman enough to say it or think of her feelings. I really regret that. Then I allowed myself to be used by someone and I stated here that there was “another woman” Prince had a “relationship” with in 2011-2012. I have since found that wasn’t the case. Prince simply had people he was “spending time with”, as we say, until he went off with Andy, that is... Ive done a lot of self-reflecting myself. I really hope for Andy’s happiness today. THAT would make me VERY happy. [Edited 11/14/18 16:21pm] It's alright, Angel. Everyone has said hurtful things before, and on the org. I know I have. It's all okay. 💜 | |
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pinkcashmere23 said: I find it a bit strange that she has suddenly become so quiet when she was posting almost daily on her socials. It's been weeks since her last one on IG and I noticed that she deleted several photos along with her clips from the recent MMs and most from last year. She also still hasn't replied to her last FB post about "Breakdown" or any of the others. She said in her recent chat that she was trying to work out the best "frequency" for Music Monday and asked the fans to let her know what works for them but she's been more quiet than ever since then.In August,she said on an IG story that she was wanting to use social media more effectively and make it less shallow but apparently she's decided to distance herself from it instead. She's always been a very open person and it's just unusual for her. Even her brother Chris has been posting more often on IG lately. Maybe she's just really busy working on the new music along with her acting projects. She seemed really excited about everything in her chat and it sounded like a lot of things were in the works. I see that Andy just shared a story on IG and was cutting up with Chantal Thuy of Black Lightning. She seemed to be very happy. I saw that she also updated her IG profile to: "Cameroonian American Professional Story Teller,Truth Seeker & Joy Giver" Nice
[Edited 11/14/18 14:23pm] Great! Glad to see she’s having some fun! And that is a wonderful IG profile description. Thanks for the update, Pink. | |
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pinkcashmere23 said: I find it a bit strange that she has suddenly become so quiet when she was posting almost daily on her socials. It's been weeks since her last one on IG and I noticed that she deleted several photos along with her clips from the recent MMs and most from last year. She also still hasn't replied to her last FB post about "Breakdown" or any of the others. She said in her recent chat that she was trying to work out the best "frequency" for Music Monday and asked the fans to let her know what works for them but she's been more quiet than ever since then.In August,she said on an IG story that she was wanting to use social media more effectively and make it less shallow but apparently she's decided to distance herself from it instead. She's always been a very open person and it's just unusual for her. Even her brother Chris has been posting more often on IG lately. Maybe she's just really busy working on the new music along with her acting projects. She seemed really excited about everything in her chat and it sounded like a lot of things were in the works. I see that Andy just shared a story on IG and was cutting up with Chantal Thuy of Black Lightning. She seemed to be very happy. I saw that she also updated her IG profile to: "Cameroonian American Professional Story Teller,Truth Seeker & Joy Giver" Nice
[Edited 11/14/18 14:23pm] I'm glad I wasn't the only one who'd noticed. She used to have over 1,000+ photos on her Instagram and most of them are gone. She also deleted the posts she made on his birthday of her singing the songs they wrote together on MM. Story of You & I was one of them. I wonder why she did that. Deleting so many posts. She's been very inactive too, yes. | |
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Yes I noticed that she deleted the clip of Story of You & I that she posted on his birthday too. It was still up on her Facebook though. I thought that she may have deleted the video clips to make her IG look more professional but I don't know. She edited her IG profile again. It now says "Cameroonian American Story Teller,Truth Seeker and Joy Giver Catch Me on #cwblacklightning and #pitchperfect3" I wonder if she will still be starring in Upload since she doesn't mention that? I saw that she tweeted about the Black-ish tribute and thanked them for honoring him and for sharing his music with the younger generation. She said she thought he would have liked it.
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You're welcome. Yeah she and Chantal looked like they were having a great time I love her profile description as well! | |
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sharpieheartz said: anangellooksdown said: I used to have a lot of jealousy issues about Andy. I said a lot of things that were very hurtful. And for that I apologize from the bottom of my heart to her. At the same time, I also hurt for her. I just wasn’t woman enough to say it or think of her feelings. I really regret that. Then I allowed myself to be used by someone and I stated here that there was “another woman” Prince had a “relationship” with in 2011-2012. I have since found that wasn’t the case. Prince simply had people he was “spending time with”, as we say, until he went off with Andy, that is... Ive done a lot of self-reflecting myself. I really hope for Andy’s happiness today. THAT would make me VERY happy. [Edited 11/14/18 16:21pm] It's alright, Angel. Everyone has said hurtful things before, and on the org. I know I have. It's all okay. 💜 🙂💜 | |
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[Edited 11/15/18 2:53am] "Time is space spent with U" | |
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[Edited 11/15/18 2:53am] Oh— I'm not the one you replied to, of course... but I do remember a lot of crazy and cryptic, weird stuff that Susa used to post on the Andy threads. She claimed she knew Andy and that she and Prince used to laugh at Andy together behind her back and whatnot. Weird shit. | |
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For someone who read the LSA thread twice, Catb sure has reading comprehension problems.
Either that, or - and this is probably more the case - she has a reason to lie about what is said over there. I guess some people get upset about others making progress or being happy? Like, misery loves company? Catb...please provide links to back up what you said above. I have no issue with anyone seeing anything I said on LSA or I would’ve been more anonymous. It really wasn’t that big a deal. Once I made the truth clear, I left. And I feel good about the way it turned out. Apparently Catb, who is a member there, doesn’t. And talk about duplicate monikers on various websites. A lot of people were being used and hurt on both websites by one poster, and I was one of them, so I revealed it. It really isn’t catb’s business. Her need to keep drama going while sitting on an imaginary pedestal trying to look “innocent”, judging others as being “sick”...is more troubling than anything I’ve ever said. Edit to add: Further down in this thread... When I ignored CatB’s nastiness and [u]once again[/u] challenged her to provide links or proof of her claims... She was unable to do so. She yammered on and on... Creating more lies as a deflection. The Blame Game. That’s what people do when they hate themselves. The only thing that is clear to me... Is that CatB, whom I do not know... Is VERY focused on me. I am sorry for her inadequacies. She has revealed only who she is. Sometimes, people should just mind their own business. [b] [b][Edited 11/16/18 17:37pm] | |
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ISaidLifeIsJustAGame said:
Definitely! LSA has always been LSA. It really isn’t that interesting. Its a few pages of arguing. For those who like that kind of thing [Edited 11/15/18 18:46pm] | |
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That was very nice of you to say angel. I didn't think you said anything that hurtful. I thought you were trying to be objective or that you did have inside info that the rest of us were not aware of. I remember you also expressing concern for Andy at times over a decision that she had made or something she had said and giving advice on how she could have better handled a situation. I felt that you were coming from a place of love then. | |
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That was very nice of you to say angel. I didn't think you said anything that hurtful. I thought you were trying to be objective or that you did have inside info that the rest of us were not aware of. I remember you also expressing concern for Andy at times over a decision that she had made or something she had said and giving advice on how she could have better handled a situation. I felt that you were coming from a place of love then. Thanks, Pink. You’re a good person. 🙂💜 | |
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