sonshine said:

LBrent said:

You're so civilized.

Unfortunately there are always outside parties with no scruples who have an agenda and upon seeing a chasm in a relationship have no problem swooping in to comfort" one partner the way the other partner doesn't cuz 'they don't understand you like I do, we connect".

I know! My views are the things of fantasy. If only. Human beings are capable of some pretty shitty behavior and don't feel bad about it even. I don't get it. There must be something wrong with me after spending 12 years in a parochial school where heaps of guilt is the basis of the so called religion and of the education experience overall.

There's an old saying, "How you get em is how you lose em">

How can you trust that the person who cheats with you won't cheat on you?

Maya Angelou said, "When a person tells you who they are...believe them".

I think we're done here.