anangellooksdown said:

it seems all of them were able to move on when it was over, without stalking him or refusing to let him go. Why is that? Did he choose women he knew weren't that type? Did he have his handlers warn any potential problem women to move on? Did he have a way to let people go so they were on with everything moving on? Was it something else?

And the majority of them still think very highly of him. Many of his ex's have become good friends through the years. His two ex-wives put together a memorial for him. Who does that? lol He seemed to pick good people, genuine people who truly cared about him to be apart of his life and I'm happy for that.

endiadj said:

sonshine said:

The person that comes to mind is Pablo Picasso. There are certain men whose genius makes them a bit of an enigma. The women in their lives get it that they simply are not normal; it is not an act to gain even more attention then their art already brought them. I don't think there were too many boring days with Prince, frustrating maybe, but not boring.

Because he is Prince.....and he is funky

Goddess4Real said:

Because he is Prince.....and he is funky

to remain would be more troublesome than leaving

anangellooksdown said:

Still love 'im anyway. Sigh.

Me too Player or not, I just don't think it's possible to not be smitten by Prince, is it? LOL That man was one in a million, and he knew it

anangellooksdown said:

Non-Disclosure agreements.

You first get them to sign one in relation with working for you.

Then you make a romantic move.

She already signed the non-disclosure agreement.

She is shut up before she talks.

anangellooksdown said:

it seems all of them were able to move on when it was over, without stalking him or refusing to let him go. .

what good would it have been to stalk him? as if it were possible. prince left most of his relationships and the stonewalled people. a few of them just had their fill of his "get away closer,control freak BS " and left.

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anna garcia seemd bored of him

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susannah was very likely emotionally and psychologically exhausted.

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jill, susan m were a fu*k buddy/friends of his who just got on with life.

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why stay where you're no longer wanted?i think these women came to terms with his emotional limits, they knew he was a sweet man but too screwy to get it together. why hold a grudge? why get bitter about it?

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hey ...."dont A& R with your dick"

She walked away..he tried to control her with his jealous and posessive ways...it didn't work though she broke free..but in the end she said she always loved and respected him....always wondered ''what

if....'' though?

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endiadj said:

anangellooksdown said:

it seems all of them were able to move on when it was over, without stalking him or refusing to let him go. Why is that? Did he choose women he knew weren't that type? Did he have his handlers warn any potential problem women to move on? Did he have a way to let people go so they were on with everything moving on? Was it something else?

And the majority of them still think very highly of him. Many of his ex's have become good friends through the years. His two ex-wives put together a memorial for him. Who does that? lol He seemed to pick good people, genuine people who truly cared about him to be apart of his life and I'm happy for that.

I totally agree. It says a lot about Prince that his former lovers and former wives all speak well of him. Like everyone, he had his flaws, but he obviously treated these women well.

From hanging out at Paisley during the days of wild ( mid-90s) and talking with his harem. Yes, Prince had a harem and they had rules to follow.

1. Be honored Prince selected you to be close to him.

2. No fighting because Prince is not exclusive with any members of the harem; you share him.

3. Get a diamond ring (worth several thoushand dollars) as a chosen beautiful one.

4. You know its over when one of his security guards stop calling you to come to the Park.

I forgot the fifth rule. But, I was impressed by Prince's ingenuity of how to control a harem. It's the same as friends with benefits or dating, but not exclusive and letting the other party know in advance.

These young ladies (18-22 years old) were very beautiful and knew, being with Prince was only for a short time.

Hell, I was trying to become a harem girl. But, I asked myself, "Do you want to lose your self respect in exchange for getting busy with a man you have on a pedestal?" My guardian angel, earth angel, and Archangels were screaming at me, "NOOOOOO!" So, Prince got to stay on that pedestal for me as the greatest musician, God ever created.

I believe it was Prince's aura that made women walk away happy, angry, or sad. But when they looked back on what they had with him, they could say, "Thanks for the experience!"

incognito said:

From hanging out at Paisley during the days of wild ( mid-90s) and talking with his harem. Yes, Prince had a harem and they had rules to follow.

1. Be honored Prince selected you to be close to him.

2. No fighting because Prince is not exclusive with any members of the harem; you share him.

3. Get a diamond ring (worth several thoushand dollars) as a chosen beautiful one.

4. You know its over when one of his security guards stop calling you to come to the Park.

I forgot the fifth rule. But, I was impressed by Prince's ingenuity of how to control a harem. It's the same as friends with benefits or dating, but not exclusive and letting the other party know in advance.

These young ladies (18-22 years old) were very beautiful and knew, being with Prince was only for a short time.

Hell, I was trying to become a harem girl. But, I asked myself, "Do you want to lose your self respect in exchange for getting busy with a man you have on a pedestal?" My guardian angel, earth angel, and Archangels were screaming at me, "NOOOOOO!" So, Prince got to stay on that pedestal for me as the greatest musician, God ever created.

I believe it was Prince's aura that made women walk away happy, angry, or sad. But when they looked back on what they had with him, . they could say, "Thanks for the experience!"

yeah but did they actually fuck him? sounds like it was just for show- you know how hard the man worked to keep up appearances. i bet he only fucked 2 out of 10 women his was ever around. still above average playa but a lot of it was for show.

wavesofbliss said:

incognito said:

From hanging out at Paisley during the days of wild ( mid-90s) and talking with his harem. Yes, Prince had a harem and they had rules to follow.

1. Be honored Prince selected you to be close to him.

2. No fighting because Prince is not exclusive with any members of the harem; you share him.

3. Get a diamond ring (worth several thoushand dollars) as a chosen beautiful one.

4. You know its over when one of his security guards stop calling you to come to the Park.

I forgot the fifth rule. But, I was impressed by Prince's ingenuity of how to control a harem. It's the same as friends with benefits or dating, but not exclusive and letting the other party know in advance.

These young ladies (18-22 years old) were very beautiful and knew, being with Prince was only for a short time.

Hell, I was trying to become a harem girl. But, I asked myself, "Do you want to lose your self respect in exchange for getting busy with a man you have on a pedestal?" My guardian angel, earth angel, and Archangels were screaming at me, "NOOOOOO!" So, Prince got to stay on that pedestal for me as the greatest musician, God ever created.

I believe it was Prince's aura that made women walk away happy, angry, or sad. But when they looked back on what they had with him, . they could say, "Thanks for the experience!"

yeah but did they actually fuck him? sounds like it was just for show- you know how hard the man worked to keep up appearances. i bet he only fucked 2 out of 10 women his was ever around. still above average playa but a lot of it was for show.

i tend to agree with this theory

wavesofbliss said:

incognito said:

From hanging out at Paisley during the days of wild ( mid-90s) and talking with his harem. Yes, Prince had a harem and they had rules to follow.

1. Be honored Prince selected you to be close to him.

2. No fighting because Prince is not exclusive with any members of the harem; you share him.

3. Get a diamond ring (worth several thoushand dollars) as a chosen beautiful one.

4. You know its over when one of his security guards stop calling you to come to the Park.

I forgot the fifth rule. But, I was impressed by Prince's ingenuity of how to control a harem. It's the same as friends with benefits or dating, but not exclusive and letting the other party know in advance.

These young ladies (18-22 years old) were very beautiful and knew, being with Prince was only for a short time.

Hell, I was trying to become a harem girl. But, I asked myself, "Do you want to lose your self respect in exchange for getting busy with a man you have on a pedestal?" My guardian angel, earth angel, and Archangels were screaming at me, "NOOOOOO!" So, Prince got to stay on that pedestal for me as the greatest musician, God ever created.

I believe it was Prince's aura that made women walk away happy, angry, or sad. But when they looked back on what they had with him, they could say, "Thanks for the experience!"

Interesitng insight! I'm guessing the fifth rule was probably something like "Can't see other guys while seeing Prince?"

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Krystalkisses said:

incognito said:

From hanging out at Paisley during the days of wild ( mid-90s) and talking with his harem. Yes, Prince had a harem and they had rules to follow.

1. Be honored Prince selected you to be close to him.

2. No fighting because Prince is not exclusive with any members of the harem; you share him.

3. Get a diamond ring (worth several thoushand dollars) as a chosen beautiful one.

4. You know its over when one of his security guards stop calling you to come to the Park.

I forgot the fifth rule. But, I was impressed by Prince's ingenuity of how to control a harem. It's the same as friends with benefits or dating, but not exclusive and letting the other party know in advance.

These young ladies (18-22 years old) were very beautiful and knew, being with Prince was only for a short time.

Hell, I was trying to become a harem girl. But, I asked myself, "Do you want to lose your self respect in exchange for getting busy with a man you have on a pedestal?" My guardian angel, earth angel, and Archangels were screaming at me, "NOOOOOO!" So, Prince got to stay on that pedestal for me as the greatest musician, God ever created.

I believe it was Prince's aura that made women walk away happy, angry, or sad. But when they looked back on what they had with him, they could say, "Thanks for the experience!"

Interesitng insight! I'm guessing the fifth rule was probably something like "Can't see other guys while seeing Prince?"

[Edited 7/27/16 12:02pm]

Sounds like the perfect fifth rule.

I remember when Prince and Bria went on Tavis Smiley's show. She talked of meetin him during that time and it really not clicking. I thought he had plenty of others born between 1974 and 1976. Mayte, Nona Gaye, I think Martika was there. I think Miss Pink Cashmere was also there. He had his quota filled, he didn't need Bria. Some are very pretty and not exactly sultry, others in his life add the heat but aren't as photogenic. He balanced them all out.

Deadflow3r said:

Krystalkisses said:

Interesitng insight! I'm guessing the fifth rule was probably something like "Can't see other guys while seeing Prince?"

[Edited 7/27/16 12:02pm]

Sounds like the perfect fifth rule.

I remember when Prince and Bria went on Tavis Smiley's show. She talked of meetin him during that time and it really not clicking. I thought he had plenty of others born between 1974 and 1976. Mayte, Nona Gaye, I think Martika was there. I think Miss Pink Cashmere was also there. He had his quota filled, he didn't need Bria. Some are very pretty and not exactly sultry, others in his life add the heat but aren't as photogenic. He balanced them all out.

About fifteen years ago, I used to work with a woman who knew him. She had known him before I had met her. Reading this thread made me realize she was proabably most likely a part of his "harem" as when she knew him it was proabably around the era incognito was describing. I honestly was shocked Prince would be interested in someone like her. Yes indeed she was very sexy and beautiful and what one would "imagine" his type would be (dark hair/tan/dark eyes) but I found her a bit bitchy to be honest and sort of crass. She didn't know I was a Prince fan so I never talked to her about him, not that she would because the one real interaction I had with her she was agressive towards me so...

...but anyway, I think us female Prince fans get confused with our fantasy of Prince being that he was so in touch with his feminine side and seemed like a sensitive person, and did have feminine energy we would assume him to be much more like "us" women and sort of forget that he was a man, and he could operate from that place men can at times, men's sexuality can be different than us women's and they are much more able to compartmentalize love, like and sex. I can imagine Prince's only interest in this woman was sexual as I really couldn't imagine him liking anything else about her honestly.

Sometimes I think we women really would prefer the fantasy of Prince or who we thought he was than knowing real detalis, like incognito observed, because he was a human man and just as how we women can be disillusioned sometimes in how everyday men can treat women like sex objects perhaps Prince could as well. It seems confusing to us as, because of all the deep, beautiful songs he has written that "spoke" to us women we just couldn't imagine him having that typical "masculine" side to himself as well....but Prince was a complex individual who had many sides. He was just fascinating!

incognito said:

From hanging out at Paisley during the days of wild ( mid-90s) and talking with his harem. Yes, Prince had a harem and they had rules to follow.

1. Be honored Prince selected you to be close to him.

2. No fighting because Prince is not exclusive with any members of the harem; you share him.

3. Get a diamond ring (worth several thoushand dollars) as a chosen beautiful one.

4. You know its over when one of his security guards stop calling you to come to the Park.

I forgot the fifth rule. But, I was impressed by Prince's ingenuity of how to control a harem. It's the same as friends with benefits or dating, but not exclusive and letting the other party know in advance.

These young ladies (18-22 years old) were very beautiful and knew, being with Prince was only for a short time.

Hell, I was trying to become a harem girl. But, I asked myself, "Do you want to lose your self respect in exchange for getting busy with a man you have on a pedestal?" My guardian angel, earth angel, and Archangels were screaming at me, "NOOOOOO!" So, Prince got to stay on that pedestal for me as the greatest musician, God ever created.

I believe it was Prince's aura that made women walk away happy, angry, or sad. But when they looked back on what they had with him, they could say, "Thanks for the experience!"

Did he have this harem when he was married to Mayte? If he had the harem in the mid-90s, it means he was still sleeping around when he was in a relationship with Mayte. She said that they started to get serious when she was 18, so in 1991 or 1992; her birthdate is 11/12/1973. Source: http://www.latina.com/ent...ationship.

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I just ask about this because it seems that in the mid-90s, especially after marrying Mayte, he was really presenting himself with a new image as a "family man" as having "settled down." Was he actually true to this new image or was he living a double life?

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206Michelle said:

laurarichardson said:

206Michelle said:

Did he have this harem when he was married to Mayte? If he had the harem in the mid-90s, it means he was still sleeping around when he was in a relationship with Mayte. She said that they started to get serious when she was 18, so in 1991 or 1992; her birthdate is 11/12/1973. Source: http://www.latina.com/ent...ationship.

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I just ask about this because it seems that in the mid-90s, especially after marrying Mayte, he was really presenting himself with a new image as a "family man" as having "settled down." Was he actually true to this new image or was he living a double life?

[Edited 8/2/16 13:44pm]

--/ A young lady posted on here a few weeks ago that he tried to get her to come on his bus doing the jam of the year tour. I believe he was living a double life when he was married to her maybe after the babies did not come he got bored. A man has to really be ready to settle down in order for a marriage to work.

Do you know the name of the thread with the post to which you are referring? Can you provide a link to that thread?

Deadflow3r said:

Sounds like the perfect fifth rule.

I remember when Prince and Bria went on Tavis Smiley's show. She talked of meetin him during that time and it really not clicking. I thought he had plenty of others born between 1974 and 1976. Mayte, Nona Gaye, I think Martika was there. I think Miss Pink Cashmere was also there. He had his quota filled, he didn't need Bria. Some are very pretty and not exactly sultry, others in his life add the heat but aren't as photogenic. He balanced them all out.

yeah after robin power all his "known" ladies were 10+ years younger:

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anna > 1970

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carmen > 1972

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mayte > 1973

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nona > 1974

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manuela > 1976

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bria > guessing btween 1976-78

-- strange that they say men like younger woman for fertility reasons and yet none of these women bore him healthy, living children.

206Michelle said: