Hiya thanks 30yearfan for all your points! Yeah I think the Empty Room video is using alot of his language (baths, mirrors which he won't even look into! etc). I hadn't even noticed the stairs in WDC! And the reference to The Ballad of Dorothy Parker - am I correct in thinking that the meaning to that song is that next time he fights with his lover he needs to be quicker to go out and chat up someone as per "I took another bubble bath with my pants on, all the fighting stopped. Next time I'll do it sooner"?? Maybe bathing is just code for sex? If that's the case, it would explain the use of it in "Pretty Mess" and "Hot Wit U" (thanks for pulling those together too!)
That statement on ONA tour is great cause it takes Susannah out. Wow! I'd agree with you about the bios (although I haven't read any of them) - they seem to be laying a different story out for people to follow other than the one really intended! It's so amazing that it all falls apart once you put Vanity at the centre of the stage as his main muse/focus. | |
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To me, God and music were the most important things in life. I don't think any woman could compete with those two. | |
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Exactly what I think I do think he would/could have been open to it, but it just wasn't in the cards for him. I'm okay with that, I'm not one to think that everyone must have a partner or get married or have kids in order to be happy with their life. We're just all so different, ya' know? And yes, I also agree that he had specific priorities and that's just the way it was for him. Welcome to "the org", Mumio…they can have you, but I'll have your love in the end | |
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Here's one thing I keep thinking about..Prince and Vanity, if our timelines are correct, were together beginning in 1980- that is nearly 36 years ago. That a LONG time, a lifetime really, to get someone out of your system. If his love for her had cooled, he probably would've made a comment or two during his concert and that's about it. No, the man dedicates a whole concert in her honor and not only that, pours himself out.
. This is no fanfic. Much of what we've covered in this thread, has been based on true sources- interviews, articles, and then connections to lyrics. Of course, most importantly, things Prince and Vanity have both each said themselves (recent concerts right before his death and excerpts from her book). It's not made up. I'm sure more will come out in the weeks, months, and years ahead. [Edited 5/28/16 12:45pm] | |
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I think the article I posted about the photographer showed it was not an act. I don't think he went around telling people how upset he was, he dismissed them and kept to himself but she saw a tenderness and vulnerability she had never seen before. I think other than what he said in the shows, he was quite private about his feelings. | |
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Yes, Jehovah and his music. And truthfully, that's the way it was for Vanity too....except it was God for her. Similar paths but not intended to pursue them together. I think many of us can relate to meeting someone who becomes part of your life, but they aren't ever meant to stay in your life. Welcome to "the org", Mumio…they can have you, but I'll have your love in the end | |
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Yeah I posted it. It's a couple of pages back (Reply#1289). It's from the Spin Magazine and it talks about all sorts of things and updates alot of viewpoints that people have discussed/disputed on this thread. http://www.spin.com/2016/04/prince-the-oral-history-of-purple-rain-brian-raftery/ | |
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like I said earler, he could have stopped with a short announcement and LRC because that one is not really so romantic. If he had no feelings for her anymore he would have stopped there. He didn't even stop with 1 concert, he did it again in the 2nd concert and there are bits in Oakland and Atlanta that I am aware of and perhaps other concerts too I haven't listened to Toronto. or all the Calif concerts. | |
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Prince never talked about his personal life ever, I don't think. He never even spoke about the death of his baby. I think he was one of those people who just grieved when they were alone. He kept everything to himself. I don't even think he would have even spilled the beans in his bio. He would have talked in code and it would have had us like, 'c'mon now, Prince!. LOL. | |
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And the no entourage thing aligns with what his bodyguard (who got sent back to Texas for a break in the week he died in PP) said. The bodyguard cameout and was trying to defend Prince over the drug allegations as he said he would pack his bag when he was touring and had been on the road with him. He implied that as it was a cut down tour of just Prince on the Piano that he was only travelling with his minimum security staff. Same as on the plane - I think there were only 2 people with him (I don't know if that included the pilot). | |
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Ding, ding, ding! See, I almost stood up and did a church shout because what you said really gave me chills! | |
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Thanks. I'm looking for the one that says Prince told her she had to choose. This one says that she had to make a choice, as a logical thing. I think Genius is the one that mentioned it. | |
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I'm pretty sure it was used in the NME article that referenced Vanity's death at the time. | |
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Yeah and from experience, having been on the road can be very boring, tedious and hard work. You want a good team of people around you to work with and if you're shagging all of them (which his story/bio constantly seems to imply as every female collaborator/musician he works with is meant to be part of a harem - I mean come on get real!!!) the whole thing would fall apart pretty quickly. Why do you think he constantly refers through his work to lonely hotel rooms? [Edited 5/28/16 13:59pm] | |
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right code like PR and his songs. although he diid come right out and say the Beautiful Ones was about Vanity, and he came right out and said they used to love each other deeply. and other snippets in the concerts are very direct, bring her back home to me etc don't make sense without Vanity | |
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If you want confirmation that his focus wasn't on a traditonal relationship just listen to Way Back Home off the Art Official Age album (2014). He sings "I never wanted a typical life scripted role, huh...trophy wife. All I ever wanted was to be left alone" [Edited 5/28/16 14:25pm] | |
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Again, she said it during the donnie simpson interview and i heard her talk about the prince days during her christian radio interviews she had in the 2000's it wasn't one particular time i can remember or place i read it (i've read so many things) other than those i have mentioned. I just know she said that she couldn't stay in MPLS with Prince and his camp and still do her Motown deal, which make s a lot of sense...its understanadable...no mystery there ''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''
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yeah and I personally am like that as well. So I get it. Doesn't mean I havent fallen in love and tried to fashion a nontraditional relationship that would work for me, and maybe he was trying to do that too. | |
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Honestly, the more I look at this whole thread and differing opinions on here it leads to one clear conclusion, if you really you want to get to the bottom of what he felt and thought, look at what he's writing and singing about. He's telling you what he thinks. And he's telling you in a really clever way with all these layered nuances of symbolism and language. He totally exploits every art form he touches to give you a full multi-dimensional story. And he was a master at conveying his emotions and feelings through music. Why do you think that all of you feel so much for him? It's not just about how he looked.
But hey if you'd rather argue about trivialities to do with the wash of information and buzz that surrounds him, go ahead. But it's not where the truth lies. [Edited 5/28/16 13:48pm] [Edited 5/28/16 13:53pm] [Edited 5/28/16 14:54pm] | |
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I would agree. The minute you look at the full dimensions of his art as a songwriter and storyteller you realise that Vanity/Denise was his main muse. He was writing about her the whole time. Why? Who knows? Were they together? Who knows? But he was writing about her. It's all there. [Edited 5/28/16 14:06pm] | |
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It is True -Prince touched me in ways that are not about his "looK" but the music it is what drew me | |
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SunnyGirl8 said:
I would agree. The minute you look at the full dimensions of his art as a songwriter and storyteller you realise that Vanity/Denise was his main muse. He was writing about her the whole time. Why? Who knows? Where they together? Who knows? But he was writing about her. It's all there. THIS. The picture that has emerged is clear to me. | |
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Hmm....i dunno Bcuz he married Mayte (didn't have to she was like 21, so why propose?) just keep living together and then lost 2 babies with her...one was actually alive for a bit You'd think that would be it for him 1 divorce, 2 lost children.....
. So, then he got married again to Mani..why do that more than once? Some part of him must have wanted the marriage & family thing..or why keep trying?
. Many celebrities have multiple wives and children, partly because they crave normalcy..especially as they get older. I have heard several famous people say that, family keeps you grounded......just saying
. [Edited 5/28/16 14:02pm] ''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''
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Of course he cared for these women too but I don't believe he necessarily liked the idea of marriage. My opinion of course. [Edited 5/28/16 14:15pm] | |
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I don't think it's appropriate to discuss Mayte at this stage, she is grieving. All I'd say if you want his story at any stage in his life, look deeper into the songs he was writing at the time, the themes etc. You'll draw your own conclusions as to what was going on with him. He laid it out for you. [Edited 5/28/16 14:11pm] | |
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I don't Prince was depressed about Vanity but had regret over not reconciling that particular relationship before she passed away. I believe that at the age of 57 he had reached a stage in his life where it was about God and music. With that in mind I don't think he's been writing about Vanity all these years. Maybe in the beginning, but I think he moved on and made God his true love. | |
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I agree, his music was his way of communicating and there is a lot there to look into..with that said, i also go by his interviews, what he shared and the most telling for me was with Oprah interview..he was giddy over his llife at the time, never saw him smile or laugh in interviews before or show off his home (baby playroom) he seemed to be looking ahead, positively...especially for impending fatherhood..even though baby Ahmir had sadly passed by the time it aired. Thats what i saw and felt. Its my take on things
. I'm not commenting on his life at that point anymore, bcuz ONLY he, Prince, knew the truth...what he felt and whom he felt for. And for me, in life its really what a person takes from anothers actions and words..and thats what i got from all i've seen and heard from his own lips.
. I do feel though, LATER in life..his God, his religion and his music were his muse. Its where he found peace and comfort i believe, especially after losing his son and multiple failed relationships.
. I also feel he was in poor health and like Denise, it changed him in the end b4 he went home to be with God, which they say is what happens...your soul prepares to depart ''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''
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I must respectfully agree to disagree.
I believe Prince had strong faith in God but I also believe he is a human being and he can be celibate and he can proselytize for his faith and be "married" to the music but I also believe that he had real relationships and his relationship with Denise was one that stood til the end of time. I believe they shared a connection that was something that is beyond what is here on earth very spiritual and soulful. One could not exist on earth without the other. People are soul and spirit and theirs were entwined soul/spirit stuff is very mysterious but I believe they shared something in that level to the point he followed her in death. Their lives (as so many have said on this thread )were on the same paths and it is so clear-things that are factual not made up fangirl stuff. Their passing so closely to each other was just something else that reflects their paths being "same" throughout their lives. I cannot even begin to touch Purple Rain and it being about them and that being the vehicle that cemented Prince as an International Superstar - his life with her was a big part of himthat resulted in being part of his public persona for the ages.
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I have always said that the 2 of them passing so closely 2gether was definitley a continuation of what was happening between them here, on earth in the physical world..their love obviously transcended all space and time.
. I will always believe that...she willed him to her, and like in life, they mirrored each other in death as well. She got the face to face she wanted with him. Eternally. ''The beautiful ones they hurt you every tiiiiime....''
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