First let me say that I want a sex forum.

Now let me tell you why.

This damn place is a lot like Prince himself. The man can't take his mind off of sex but seems to feel guilty about it; in his case guilty enought to become a Jehovah's Witness.

It is weird to have the fetish and pretty titties threads mixed up with the "look at me in my hat" and "what are you cooking for dinner" type threads. I guess sex could be discussed over dinner while wearing a snazy hat but somehow on the GD forum it makes me feel bad.

I am tired of getting on a filthy ass thread that is clearly filthy from the get go only to have Sr. Holy art thou get on there and be all . I just don't get it.

I hate TV, absolutely hate it and think it is mind numbing.

However you will not see my ass on a TV related thread going ; If that is how they choose to spend a portion of their time, so be it. They are grown folks and I am not their mama. Those threads are there so that they can meet up with other TV lovers and actually get down to business discussing some of the things that they find most interesting in TV land. I think that having someone to talk to about your interests is a good thing.

Like I say I don't know what the hell they talk about because I don't log on to find out but I am sure they must say something like "What do you think of "X" do you like her persona? Then each one ways in on their take on the show.

I like sex threads. I like when people say "what do you think of fisting?" or whatever. I like hearing people talk about such things rationally and from different perspectives. prince.org is not a singles site. These people are not posting in hopes of either getting fisted or fisting someone else. They are just expressing their experiences or their misgivings.

I don't mind someone saying I could never, ever, do that in a any way shape or form. I personally have never done that in any way shape or form and it is not on my bucket list. However I like hearing people speak openly on what it was really like for them verses what they thought it would be like.

However some people don't even want to see the title on the forum. They don' t want their mind to go there even for the second it takes to read the title in the GD list on the GD forum and pass over it. They are seriously disgusted that it is even allowed to stay there and people actually keep posting on it and bumping up so that it stays on page one. That means that they have to keep reading past it.

They want this filth to stop!!!

I love this filth and look for it specifically.

It is filth in conversation and different viewpoints verses just about of random internet filth which doesn't really add up to much.

Anyway I would be happy if we had a "sex " or "NSFW" or "naughty" forum; call it whatever you want but seriously think about it, PLEASE AND Thank You !!!!

That was tried one time a long time ago.

It did not work out. Site owner discontinued it.

luv4u said:

That was tried one time a long time ago.

It did not work out. Site owner discontinued it.

Why did it not work out?

Can we take this one step at a time and look at how maybe we can make it better in the future?

How long did it last for?

If we talk about why it failed maybe we can make it better and more successful in the future.

A "NSFW"-type forum sounds appropriate in light of the current mindset of the Org.

When was that tried before? Why was it considered a failure?

Maybe the Orgers that we have now are just hornier???

I guarantee you that DavetheRave would keep it going and probably post in no other forum.

luv4u said:

That was tried one time a long time ago.

It did not work out. Site owner discontinued it.

I'd like an explaination on why "it did not work out".

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

That was tried one time a long time ago.

It did not work out. Site owner discontinued it.

I'd like an explaination on why "it did not work out".

I was not a moderator at the time. That's all I know about that. I will leave it to those that remember/know to put their 2 cents in.

JustErin said:

luv4u said:

That was tried one time a long time ago.

It did not work out. Site owner discontinued it.

I'd like an explaination on why "it did not work out".

O.K. so now we have to go and find who remembers it ...

PurpleJedi said:

A "NSFW"-type forum sounds appropriate in light of the current mindset of the Org.

When was that tried before? Why was it considered a failure?

Maybe the Orgers that we have now are just hornier???

I guarantee you that DavetheRave would keep it going and probably post in no other forum.

We are also older.

Those of us who are older but have not given up on having a sex life seem to be on here plenty.

I honestly see a lot of mature posting about sex in the sense that people are more and more willing to admit their genuine curiousity and take responsibiliyt for clicking on the thread in the first place, for the most part.

I find orgers both intelligent and diverse and that is what makes me love talking to you all about sex.

This is a great idea..........On the threads we have now eye have 2 hold back so much 4 fear of the ban.....There r many ogers who feel comfortable talking about sex and things of an adult nature on GD but im sure they hold back on alot of stuff thats on there mind...which if u ask me is retarded....

There r times im on the org when it feels like ur being watched by the Taleban which is crazy.People love sex love chatting about it and interested in other peoples sex lives and habbits.....Something tells me that the org will see this as intrusive and possibly dangerous....So eye cant see a Sex Forum in the near or distant future but would Davetherave love 1???? Hell Yes.....It would b great fun....Damn id never b off the Org if there was a Sex Forum....

davetherave6767 said:

This is a great idea..........On the threads we have now eye have 2 hold back so much 4 fear of the ban.....There r many ogers who feel comfortable talking about sex and things of an adult nature on GD but im sure they hold back on alot of stuff thats on there mind...which if u ask me is retarded....

There r times im on the org when it feels like ur being watched by the Taleban which is crazy.People love sex love chatting about it and interested in other peoples sex lives and habbits.....Something tells me that the org will see this as intrusive and possibly dangerous....So eye cant see a Sex Forum in the near or distant future but would Davetherave love 1???? Hell Yes.....It would b great fun....Damn id never b off the Org if there was a Sex Forum....

Yes, exactly!

Maybe we can all hang out at the artist forum instead. Less competition.

Think about it

The art of fisting

The art of anal cleansing

The art of D/s relationships

etc...

I think sex can be elevated to an art form, don't you??

Can I throw my two cents in here please?

To be honest I've avoided GD for a little while now (for the most) because it's become....well....slutty.

Now there have always been some people who have made me cringe with the way they write. I'm not a complete prude but I don't feel the need to go into deep discussion about swapping body fluids with complete strangers.

I for one would second this. If people want to talk about porking each other constantly, please let's have a forum for them to do so. GD should remain for conversation and inane drivel.

If I can recall, orgers (old schoolers) like Dex, and Humpthang told me that this is supposed to be a site catered to 18+ so Ben thought just labeling threads NSFW was good enough and the forum was discontinued allowing for fewer mods to have to juggle another forum.

This is what I remember being told to me as to "why" there was no sex related forum.

I think someone who's old-school can come in and correct me... I wasn't there, just going by what I was told.

My opinion is that even if we had an entire forum dedicated to all things sex... there would STILL be the holy-trolls rolling up in there calling me out on my ho-ism just like they do now.

Its the nature of the org. to have specific orgers troll forums to be negative. Seems like when any orgers are having too much fun there's always a "negative-Nancy" to poop on someone's party.

My one problem with the org. is the influx of teenagers trolling, I though we had to be 18 to join and I find it uncomfortable orging my personal biz with some nosy teenager that is in too deep into grown folks conversations.... but also I have witnessed orgers here give excellent advice to younger orgers and steer them in the proper direction. I myself have done that too... regarding sex. So in that sense, its all good.

So for me, a sex forum is not needed... what is needed IMHO quiet and swift system of making sure predators do NOT find information on the younger orgers here who foolishly post that they are virgins. I worry for the young ladies who share too much of them selves and they forget who is watching their every move.

I have heard too many instances of weirdos who lurk to victimize and/or stalk thge ladies here.

More warnings to this effect should be posted, and consequences should be swift.

connorhawke said:

Can I throw my two cents in here please?

To be honest I've avoided GD for a little while now (for the most) because it's become....well....slutty.

Now there have always been some people who have made me cringe with the way they write. I'm not a complete prude but I don't feel the need to go into deep discussion about swapping body fluids with complete strangers.

I for one would second this. If people want to talk about porking each other constantly, please let's have a forum for them to do so. GD should remain for conversation and inane drivel.

Are you speaking of regular threads (not sexual in topic) where orgers go on flirt fests?

If so, they will do that anyways because many use the org as a cyber-dating-flirting site.

Deadflow3r said:

davetherave6767 said:

This is a great idea..........On the threads we have now eye have 2 hold back so much 4 fear of the ban.....There r many ogers who feel comfortable talking about sex and things of an adult nature on GD but im sure they hold back on alot of stuff thats on there mind...which if u ask me is retarded....

There r times im on the org when it feels like ur being watched by the Taleban which is crazy.People love sex love chatting about it and interested in other peoples sex lives and habbits.....Something tells me that the org will see this as intrusive and possibly dangerous....So eye cant see a Sex Forum in the near or distant future but would Davetherave love 1???? Hell Yes.....It would b great fun....Damn id never b off the Org if there was a Sex Forum....

Yes, exactly!

Maybe we can all hang out at the artist forum instead. Less competition.

Think about it

The art of fisting

The art of anal cleansing

The art of D/s relationships

etc...

I think sex can be elevated to an art form, don't you??

Kamasutra inspired conversations would be appropriate in the study of "art".

connorhawke said:

Can I throw my two cents in here please?

To be honest I've avoided GD for a little while now (for the most) because it's become....well....slutty.

Now there have always been some people who have made me cringe with the way they write. I'm not a complete prude but I don't feel the need to go into deep discussion about swapping body fluids with complete strangers.

I for one would second this. If people want to talk about porking each other constantly, please let's have a forum for them to do so. GD should remain for conversation and inane drivel.

Maybe we can call it the "Grown Ass Porkers forum" something like that but a bit more artistic. I think that there are other folks who were regulars on GD who don't really love seeing all the gravity that the sex threads get. I of course am bumping them every time I come on and that could easily piss some one off whose "inane drivel" thread gets hurled onto page 3 before anyone even got a good look at it yet .

JustErin said:

I think a separate Sex & Relationships forum is totally logical and most other sites have them. I don't know it could not work. It's all the same shit, just relocated.

Oh yeah, the anti sex people will show up but they will know that they did not have to be there.

They don't even need to ever look at what type of threads are on the sex forum; they lurked, they clicked, it's their bad.

If they are 15 it says on there NO ONE UNDER 18, sort of like youtube. If you clicked on it is not our fault.

I have no clue what is now in the concert forum because I never pull that forum up. Anything could be there and I will never know about it. Just like this site forum. None of you would probably have clicked on here today if I had not begged you to. It is seldom a hopping forum.

Well same goes for the "Grown Ass Sex" forum. You will can ignore it as completely as you do this forum if you like.

paintedlady said:

connorhawke said:

Can I throw my two cents in here please?

To be honest I've avoided GD for a little while now (for the most) because it's become....well....slutty.

Now there have always been some people who have made me cringe with the way they write. I'm not a complete prude but I don't feel the need to go into deep discussion about swapping body fluids with complete strangers.

I for one would second this. If people want to talk about porking each other constantly, please let's have a forum for them to do so. GD should remain for conversation and inane drivel.

Are you speaking of regular threads (not sexual in topic) where orgers go on flirt fests?

If so, they will do that anyways because many use the org as a cyber-dating-flirting site.

Usually when it goes that deep they run off to the org notes.

They crack me up though. I kinda like watching them flirt with one another.

"I had a boner on the bus thinking about you today babe", , too cute.

[Edited 10/13/11 10:23am]

paintedlady said:

Deadflow3r said:

Yes, exactly!

Maybe we can all hang out at the artist forum instead. Less competition.

Think about it

The art of fisting

The art of anal cleansing

The art of D/s relationships

etc...

I think sex can be elevated to an art form, don't you??

Kamasutra inspired conversations would be appropriate in the study of "art".

The Kamasutra Forum sounds very "classy" byline is "for classy whores only" .

Deadflow3r said:

paintedlady said:

Kamasutra inspired conversations would be appropriate in the study of "art".

The Kamasutra Forum sounds very "classy" byline is "for classy whores only" .

We could speak of position and massge techniques... in a medley of classy meets slutty dialog.

Sign me up!

paintedlady said:

connorhawke said:

Can I throw my two cents in here please?

To be honest I've avoided GD for a little while now (for the most) because it's become....well....slutty.

Now there have always been some people who have made me cringe with the way they write. I'm not a complete prude but I don't feel the need to go into deep discussion about swapping body fluids with complete strangers.

I for one would second this. If people want to talk about porking each other constantly, please let's have a forum for them to do so. GD should remain for conversation and inane drivel.

Are you speaking of regular threads (not sexual in topic) where orgers go on flirt fests?

If so, they will do that anyways because many use the org as a cyber-dating-flirting site.

No not the flirting ones. They're fine and harmless.

Well it's all harmless really but I just don't like going to GD to find people posting topics on the intricacies of their genitalia and discussing how many partners is too many. (just pulled those out randomly from memory)

paintedlady said:

Deadflow3r said:

The Kamasutra Forum sounds very "classy" byline is "for classy whores only" .

We could speak of position and massge techniques... in a medley of classy meets slutty dialog.

Sign me up!

You could be our mod "Keep it classy folks, just keep it classy"

paintedlady said:

My one problem with the org. is the influx of teenagers trolling, I though we had to be 18 to join and I find it uncomfortable orging my personal biz with some nosy teenager that is in too deep into grown folks conversations.... but also I have witnessed orgers here give excellent advice to younger orgers and steer them in the proper direction. I myself have done that too... regarding sex. So in that sense, its all good.

There is no age restriction to join the org.

connorhawke said:

paintedlady said:

Are you speaking of regular threads (not sexual in topic) where orgers go on flirt fests?

If so, they will do that anyways because many use the org as a cyber-dating-flirting site.

No not the flirting ones. They're fine and harmless.

Well it's all harmless really but I just don't like going to GD to find people posting topics on the intricacies of their genitalia and discussing how many partners is too many. (just pulled those out randomly from memory)

But can you see the need for some people to discuss this?

Like maybe they were raised a Jehovah's Witness and they never had someone to openly discuss their own insecurities with.

I was raised Catholic by a woman who went to Mass every morning and at 3pm stopped and got down on her knees and said the rosary. Everyday!

Aint no way I would be asking her about anything.

I have posted my insecurites before but lets just say my body did not look ready for prime time and it would take some serious $$ for it to look like what seemed to be what most men were looking for.

I would have loved to have a paintedlady type in my life to just ask simple questions about stuff with. It would have made me a lot less insecure. Even now I like feedback to let me know just how far outside the bell curve I am.

connorhawke said:

paintedlady said:

Are you speaking of regular threads (not sexual in topic) where orgers go on flirt fests?

If so, they will do that anyways because many use the org as a cyber-dating-flirting site.

No not the flirting ones. They're fine and harmless.

Well it's all harmless really but I just don't like going to GD to find people posting topics on the intricacies of their genitalia and discussing how many partners is too many. (just pulled those out randomly from memory)

Oh, OK... so the sext threads are the ones that bother you.

I am guilty of the "overly descriptive" TMI thing (confetti coochie & phimosis threads) ... but I only tell the truth and most of my genitalia posts are well.... embarrassing. I try to be informative for educational reasons or just cautionary tales of what NOT to do.

Just to clear it up I do understand that it's liberating for many people to discuss and this may also be the only place some people have the opportunity to discuss it.

That's why I'm all for a new forum specifically for this. It's fine if people talk about who they want to shag in GD, that's normal. I'd just not want to know HOW they're gonna do it

I pop into GD while on my lunch break at school. I'd rather not be reading about semen at the same time as eating my lunch

Overall I consider it a good idea. I am not sure if it would work this time, but why not give it another try.

I enjoy talking about sex, but I am not sure how much I'd post there as I am a bit worried that it might attract more people who might see everybody who posts there as an easy target for offers I don't want to get.

WE NEED THIS :

Oh my. Sure I think it would be a good idea, though I don't really go into many of those threads. There have been some informative ones I've run across around here. Seems like a lot of the consistant orgers have gotten older with more diverse interest, so why not. Who're the "finger shakers", I've missed those?

As Erin said quite sufficiently: The org needs a Sex & Relationships subforum and most other forums have them. Truth be told, General is a mixed bag and while that may be the point of the name "general" it can sometimes sway into nothing but a huge chunk of sex threads.

Those of us who -do- feel comfortable talking about sex, relationships, and similar topics should be able to do so without the added unease of having intimate details bouncing around someone's 65th installment of the NY Housewives thread or someone posting about their dead or dying relatives, etc.

Out of respect for all parties, the subforum should be added and allowed to flourish. The Org crew of current regulars are much more adult than the past groups of regulars anyway. Hell, that may end up meaning GD is a ghost town eventually.