June7 said: Mach said: It seems that often times Perma banned orgers return in some fashion ( account ) or another which might be seen as proof that perma banning does not work 100% . It seems that some perma banned users come back and are allowed to stay - some arnt. I find that strange I personally, though I understand the whys of it, do not see the perma ban as a successful tool I do support Ben's choice in using it as a tool here on the Org though I don't know of this situation ever taking place, nor do I condone it. If permabanned, all like accounts should/will be permabanned as well. If it is noticed that the user is back, that user is permabanned as well. If it is known that a permabanned member is back and nothing is done about it, that's news to me. Not to say that it should be considered the best option to use, but, if used should be one that is made after careful consideration of the violations, facts and history. I myself have made errors in judgement on this very issue. It is with this in mind that I offer my opinion. I've said it before though, it is a necessary evil. But, I am a whiner who bitches too much so who cares? | |
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Stymie said: June7 said: I don't know of this situation ever taking place, nor do I condone it. If permabanned, all like accounts should/will be permabanned as well. If it is noticed that the user is back, that user is permabanned as well. If it is known that a permabanned member is back and nothing is done about it, that's news to me. Not to say that it should be considered the best option to use, but, if used should be one that is made after careful consideration of the violations, facts and history. I myself have made errors in judgement on this very issue. It is with this in mind that I offer my opinion. I've said it before though, it is a necessary evil. But, I am a whiner who bitches too much so who cares? I believe you mentioned trolls. I don't recall you ever listing a specific orger who fit this scenario. |
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Spookymuffin said: June7 said: But that's just it... how long and often should we continue to temp ban people. There has to be an end, a last resort. You can only say, "I'm telling you for the last time" so many "last times"! A promise of a "final action" must be in the mix, and a follow-through on those who wish to ignore the warnings must be utilized. If a threat of a permaban won't make them change their ways, how can a repetitive warning with no fear of an end result, help? This problem I can understand, but I do feel giving someone say, a 6-month ban with a warning of the next one being a 12-month (virtually permanent!), will mean that a) they spend enough time away from the site to potentially get bored of it and simply leave of their own volition, and b) be a far stronger incentive to be good rather than, say, a 2-week ban. Also, I raised this before, but more as a side-thought, however this time perhaps we could actively discuss it, but what about permanent banning from certain forums? i.e. Banned from P&R, but not GD? I think that would be a truly effective way of stopping GD minor issues resulting in larger, lengthier bans due to someone's P&R rep - we all know politics and debates get heated, especially with the mix we have here - so this may prove an effective solution? I'd be willing to look into a longer term temp ban prior to a perma-ban. However, I don't know if the site is saavy enough to introduce a specific forum ban... If it were possible, I'd consider that one too. |
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June7 said: Stymie said: Oh really? I wrote about it in my open letter to Ben as well as addressed it with the mod I have seen interact with said banned Orgers.
But, I am a whiner who bitches too much so who cares? I believe you mentioned trolls. I don't recall you ever listing a specific orger who fit this scenario. Permanently banned Orgers who are friends/friendly with mods are allowed to stay while others are not. Permanently banned Orgers even post pictures of themselves here. I do not particularly care if this goes on but at least be fair about it. One stays, all stay. One goes, all go. | |
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Stymie said: June7 said: I believe you mentioned trolls. I don't recall you ever listing a specific orger who fit this scenario. Permanently banned Orgers who are friends/friendly with mods are allowed to stay while others are not. Permanently banned Orgers even post pictures of themselves here. I do not particularly care if this goes on but at least be fair about it. One stays, all stay. One goes, all go. That's why we have orgnotes. If you want specific answers to specific questions and want to follow the guidelines in regards to orgers' privacy, use the orgnotes. |
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June7 said: Stymie said: This is what I said and I didn't mention names because the last time I did, I got a warning from you:
Permanently banned Orgers who are friends/friendly with mods are allowed to stay while others are not. Permanently banned Orgers even post pictures of themselves here. I do not particularly care if this goes on but at least be fair about it. One stays, all stay. One goes, all go. That's why we have orgnotes. If you want specific answers to specific questions and want to follow the guidelines in regards to orgers' privacy, use the orgnotes. Which Stymie does. Space for sale... | |
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sosgemini said: June7 said: That's why we have orgnotes. If you want specific answers to specific questions and want to follow the guidelines in regards to orgers' privacy, use the orgnotes. Which Stymie does. | |
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Stymie said: sosgemini said: Which Stymie does. From your previous post: "I'd be the first to say that I can be hypersensitive. I feel things way too deeply but I think my main beef is not so much that there are racists here but more that the rules are not being followed by all involved. You shouldn't be able to punish one person for something and not punish the other. But, in listening to Insatiable and Mach and Cinnie and Ben, the fight has left me." [bait snip - luv4u] From the current post: Yeah I do but I can admit I have been very vocal about the moderation on this site. I promise not to do so anymore. [bait snip - luv4u] [This thread is supposed to be for a civil discussion. It's not for baiting, etc. - Let's keep it on topic - luv4u] | |
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do you all discuss permabanning members before you do it? maybe there should be a vote of a quorm of mods to get a permaban.
for instance when the Sisters have a problem with a member we have to provide overwhelming evidence, and have a vote. regardless of my position as Chair of the Board of Directors i still have make a case and leave it to the vote of the members, in this case the mods, if the action should take place. that would help take the heat of one mod and leave to the mod board. we also have a 48 hour rule when it comes to excommucation. you have to have two votes at least 48 hours apart to remove the member totaly from the group. it gives time for the heat to die down. because of what we do things, as a legal 501(c)3 and inc, have to be above board just incase we are sued and/or audited. minutes blah blah blah blah... i realize that it's two different animals but maybe a more collective approach would lead a more uniform way of doing things. i question just leaving it up to one person to make the decision because that leaves alot of room for personal issues to intefere with rational choices. [Edited 6/17/08 0:22am] You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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Spookymuffin said: Anxiety said: ya know, i'm going to borrow from the wisdom of my dearly departed mother, who once ended an argument about the death penalty by yelling in my face "WELL IF WE DON'T MURDER ANYONE, IT'S A MOOT DAMN POINT FOR BOTH OF US, OKAY?!?"
and while she could have worded it more in more genteel terms (it would have been much less entertaining), she did have a point. don't behave like an ass and you won't get banned. don't behave like an ass repeatedly and you won't get permabanned. it's really not terribly difficult. i know we get into some heated discussions on here and tempers can flare high and wide. lord knows, i am aware of this. but there's a point where, ya know what, this may "only" be the internet but you're still interacting with other people, and you have to act like you have some home training, common courtesy and respect. i'm not saying we all have to be emily post, but come on now. how hard is it to just fucking be NICE? spooky, i do "get" a lot of what you're saying, but i still think it works both way. whether the mods soften our ban structure or not, we still expect people to behave like they have some sense. you know? I completely get what you're saying too. I think where the problem arises from people having differing opinions of what "being an ass" entails. Permabans are surprising to individuals because much of the time they weren't aware of having crossed such a serious line as to be permabanned. On the flip side of the coin, I know that many permabans come after repeated warnings and temp bans, but there will always be that small percentage who are taken aback/overly-severely punished. I don't think it's a softening of the banning structure that's being called for either, but rather a re-organisation. The jump from 2-week ban to permaban seems just too great for me, when you consider how active, and how involved (even in a relationship, etc) some users are with this site. Perhaps even some private email correspondance could be held with such individuals prior to their receiving a permaban if they are facing one imminently (one last chance to justify themselves and swear to never do it again - mod would then have email evidence as justification for permaban if said user reoffended, etc). I still prefer more tiers being introduced though. I do think a 6-month ban would be a more suitable deterrent. Or a permaban from a specific forum. I agree with you that more notice or correspondence should happen before someone is permabanned on the org. Also the idea about a temp ban or ban from a specific forum would be a good idea as well. Gotta go answer some orgnotes... my box is full. | |
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MrsMdiver said: Spookymuffin said: I completely get what you're saying too. I think where the problem arises from people having differing opinions of what "being an ass" entails. Permabans are surprising to individuals because much of the time they weren't aware of having crossed such a serious line as to be permabanned. On the flip side of the coin, I know that many permabans come after repeated warnings and temp bans, but there will always be that small percentage who are taken aback/overly-severely punished. I don't think it's a softening of the banning structure that's being called for either, but rather a re-organisation. The jump from 2-week ban to permaban seems just too great for me, when you consider how active, and how involved (even in a relationship, etc) some users are with this site. Perhaps even some private email correspondance could be held with such individuals prior to their receiving a permaban if they are facing one imminently (one last chance to justify themselves and swear to never do it again - mod would then have email evidence as justification for permaban if said user reoffended, etc). I still prefer more tiers being introduced though. I do think a 6-month ban would be a more suitable deterrent. Or a permaban from a specific forum. I agree with you that more notice or correspondence should happen before someone is permabanned on the org. Also the idea about a temp ban or ban from a specific forum would be a good idea as well. Gotta go answer some orgnotes... my box is full. I really like the idea about a ban from a specific forum. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: MrsMdiver said: I agree with you that more notice or correspondence should happen before someone is permabanned on the org. Also the idea about a temp ban or ban from a specific forum would be a good idea as well. Gotta go answer some orgnotes... my box is full. I really like the idea about a ban from a specific forum. I guess all we can do is express our opinions and hope that we are heard. Maybe something good will come of it. | |
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MrsMdiver said: Serious said: I really like the idea about a ban from a specific forum. I guess all we can do is express our opinions and hope that we are heard. Maybe something good will come of it. Hopefully yes . With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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I've been busy and missed the banning of Phil and MuthaFunka. They are, IMHO, polar opposites but based on my experiences with them, I think banning either one of them is unwarranted.
Heck, I think banning anyone is not right. It's just a message board, after all. If mods can delete offensive posts, what is the point of banning someone? Just let the mods do their job. Maybe a better way to go is to have an Ignore feature, if possible. I know we have it with OrgNotes, so can it be instituted for the boards? And if so, can you let everyone back in? | |
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RodeoSchro said:[quote]I've been busy and missed the banning of Phil and MuthaFunka. They are, IMHO, polar opposites but based on my experiences with them, I think banning either one of them is unwarranted.
[/quote} I agree. I miss Mutha Maybe a better way to go is to have an Ignore feature, if possible. I know we have it with OrgNotes, so can it be instituted for the boards? And if so, can you let everyone back in? Great idea! Ca that be done? | |
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Ex-Moderator | RodeoSchro said: I've been busy and missed the banning of Phil and MuthaFunka. They are, IMHO, polar opposites but based on my experiences with them, I think banning either one of them is unwarranted.
Heck, I think banning anyone is not right. It's just a message board, after all. If mods can delete offensive posts, what is the point of banning someone? Just let the mods do their job. Maybe a better way to go is to have an Ignore feature, if possible. I know we have it with OrgNotes, so can it be instituted for the boards? And if so, can you let everyone back in? We've talked about an "ignore" feature before. My only worry about an "ignore" feature is that we already don't always have everything reported to moderators, I worry that repeat offenders would fly even further under the radar (if lots of people have them on "ignore" ) and cause more "harm" (for lack of a better word) to casual users without the mods being notified quickly enough, if at all. |
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Graycap23 said: [bait snip - luv4u]
Wow. Why I am I not surprised this happened. Surely this right here is a better candidate for some form of punishment than what mdiver was banned for? This level of immaturity is staggering. | |
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Spookymuffin said: Graycap23 said: [bait snip - luv4u]
Wow. Why I am I not surprised this happened. Surely this right here is a better candidate for some form of punishment than what mdiver was banned for? This level of immaturity is staggering. Yes, I know you really want him gone too, and it shows. Let go of that hate friend, nobody hates you. Mdiver and Mutha were banned for more than one simple offense, we all know that. Continued hostilities exist because points of view are not respected and considered hostile towards your friends. Nobody hates you, no one is trying to demonize you, no one is trying to shut you up. What goes for one should go for the other, its simple. It hurts, but the mods did what they thought was fair, and continue to do so. Polar opposites in views, but both are men, both deserve respect. Let's not talk about what's immature, I can say much to that as well. I saw his post before Luv4U snipped it. It was not an unfair statement, but she did what was needed. | |
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RodeoSchro said: I've been busy and missed the banning of Phil and MuthaFunka. They are, IMHO, polar opposites but based on my experiences with them, I think banning either one of them is unwarranted.
Heck, I think banning anyone is not right. It's just a message board, after all. If mods can delete offensive posts, what is the point of banning someone? Just let the mods do their job. Maybe a better way to go is to have an Ignore feature, if possible. I know we have it with OrgNotes, so can it be instituted for the boards? And if so, can you let everyone back in? I agree. An ignore feature would solve a whole lot of the drama around here. It could even be implemented that a mod is notified when an offensive Orger has reached a set limit of ignores. At which time perma-banning could then be considered. I miss MuthaFunka too and really can't see why he was perma-banned when others have behaved far worse and are still posting as I type. [Edited 6/17/08 18:25pm] I knew from the start that I loved you with all my heart. | |
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HatrinaHaterwitz said: RodeoSchro said: I've been busy and missed the banning of Phil and MuthaFunka. They are, IMHO, polar opposites but based on my experiences with them, I think banning either one of them is unwarranted.
Heck, I think banning anyone is not right. It's just a message board, after all. If mods can delete offensive posts, what is the point of banning someone? Just let the mods do their job. Maybe a better way to go is to have an Ignore feature, if possible. I know we have it with OrgNotes, so can it be instituted for the boards? And if so, can you let everyone back in? I agree. An ignore feature would solve a whole lot of the drama around here. It could even be implemented that a mod is notified when an offensive Orger has reached a set limit of ignores. At which time perma-banning could then be considered. I miss MuthaFunka too and really can't see why he was perma-banned when others have behaved far worse and are still posting as I type. [Edited 6/17/08 18:25pm] Then why not orgnote the mods with the list of those "others". We mods cannot be everywhere. Help us to help you. Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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luv4u said: HatrinaHaterwitz said: I agree. An ignore feature would solve a whole lot of the drama around here. It could even be implemented that a mod is notified when an offensive Orger has reached a set limit of ignores. At which time perma-banning could then be considered. I miss MuthaFunka too and really can't see why he was perma-banned when others have behaved far worse and are still posting as I type. [Edited 6/17/08 18:25pm] Then why not orgnote the mods with the list of those "others". We mods cannot be everywhere. Help us to help you. Why bother, it's not like it isn't already common knowledge. No one expects the Mods to be everywhere, hence the requests for ignore features. If you really want to help, then help us help ourselves. I knew from the start that I loved you with all my heart. | |
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HatrinaHaterwitz said: luv4u said: Then why not orgnote the mods with the list of those "others". We mods cannot be everywhere. Help us to help you. Why bother, it's not like it isn't already common knowledge. No one expects the Mods to be everywhere, hence the requests for ignore features. If you really want to help, then help us help ourselves. Try anyways, you assume that its common knowledge, it might not be. Heck some people don't even know when they make racist remarks, and others assume that folks have personal agendas. We all need to fix this mess, its our community. Let Luv4U hear you out atleast. Only good can come from it. | |
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paintedlady said: Spookymuffin said: Wow. Why I am I not surprised this happened. Surely this right here is a better candidate for some form of punishment than what mdiver was banned for? This level of immaturity is staggering. Yes, I know you really want him gone too, and it shows. Let go of that hate friend, nobody hates you. Mdiver and Mutha were banned for more than one simple offense, we all know that. Continued hostilities exist because points of view are not respected and considered hostile towards your friends. Nobody hates you, no one is trying to demonize you, no one is trying to shut you up. What goes for one should go for the other, its simple. It hurts, but the mods did what they thought was fair, and continue to do so. Polar opposites in views, but both are men, both deserve respect. Let's not talk about what's immature, I can say much to that as well. I saw his post before Luv4U snipped it. It was not an unfair statement, but she did what was needed. I don't know who he is?! | |
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Essentially, really, the whole P&R forum appears to need a big revisit, rethink and renovation.
I don't go there as a rule, but this is clearly what this thread is about. | |
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Spookymuffin said: paintedlady said: Yes, I know you really want him gone too, and it shows. Let go of that hate friend, nobody hates you. Mdiver and Mutha were banned for more than one simple offense, we all know that. Continued hostilities exist because points of view are not respected and considered hostile towards your friends. Nobody hates you, no one is trying to demonize you, no one is trying to shut you up. What goes for one should go for the other, its simple. It hurts, but the mods did what they thought was fair, and continue to do so. Polar opposites in views, but both are men, both deserve respect. Let's not talk about what's immature, I can say much to that as well. I saw his post before Luv4U snipped it. It was not an unfair statement, but she did what was needed. I don't know who he is?! Well dayum.... nevermind then | |
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paintedlady said: Spookymuffin said: I don't know who he is?! Well dayum.... nevermind then It was more at the idea of disrespecting someone on a thread that is trying to solve a long-running problem, not just save mdiver. | |
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Spookymuffin said: paintedlady said: Well dayum.... nevermind then It was more at the idea of disrespecting someone on a thread that is trying to solve a long-running problem, not just save mdiver. I understand, its HOW the problem will be resolved that's the tricky part. | |
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Spookymuffin said: paintedlady said: Well dayum.... nevermind then It was more at the idea of disrespecting someone on a thread that is trying to solve a long-running problem, not just save mdiver. Funny how everyone assumes if we speak out that we want to save Mdiver. Believe me, it would take more than the org to save that poor soul. Hehehe I can talk some shit about him now that he is gone. | |
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