Serious said: IAintTheOne said: I gotta agree with the girls on this one...
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Stymie said: Anxiety said: I agree that permabans should be a decision made for extraordinary situations, but I disagree with the idea that mods should not have this resource readily available. Unfortunately, this site has attracted a slight but steady amount of users who have behaved in a threatening and harrassing manner toward other users, not only on the org/online, but spilling out into offline "IRL" incidents as well. We've also had people hack into and exploit other users' accounts on the Org. In my opinion, these are the kinds of people who need to be permabanned ASAP, as soon as we identify the behavior and determine it to be a serious threat. And unfortunately, once we permaban these users, they have a tendency to come back. They'll create new accounts and come back to raise the same ol' hell. Most of the time we know how to identify these people when they come back, and we are able to permaban them again, before they have another chance to bother anyone. In my experience the whole mod squad is informed of such "dangerous" users when they're permabanned, as well as when we notice them returning under some other username. I don't think we carry this process through recklessly or capriciously. I think Ben trusts us to know when to use these functions, even if there are situations where we have erred on one side of the moderation fence or the other. Wait a minute: I keep talking about fairness. Silly me. mods are regular people too. i understand the public united front, but if that's causing some to not get issues resolved maybe it's time to review how grievnce process all the up to Ben. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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IAintTheOne said: Serious said: Which girls and what statements are you talking about ? Stymie and Teacher Okay, thanks for clearing it up. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Anxiety said: I agree that permabans should be a decision made for extraordinary situations, but I disagree with the idea that mods should not have this resource readily available.
That's not what I said. I said they should't be a part of the warning/strike/equation. Unfortunately, this site has attracted a slight but steady amount of users who have behaved in a threatening and harrassing manner toward other users, not only on the org/online, but spilling out into offline "IRL" incidents as well. We've also had people hack into and exploit other users' accounts on the Org.
I'm not talking about individual cases or extreme examples, or rather I'm saying that the extreme examples should be handled differently than the way the normal longtime users are handled. Don't make a permanent ban the inevitable result of the strike structure. In my opinion, these are the kinds of people who need to be permabanned ASAP, as soon as we identify the behavior and determine it to be a serious threat.
Which is what I said. I never said that it shouldn't be an option. Or if I did (because my way of expressing this has developed as I'm been thinking about it) I'm not saying it now or above. And unfortunately, once we permaban these users, they have a tendency to come back. They'll create new accounts and come back to raise the same ol' hell. Most of the time we know how to identify these people when they come back, and we are able to permaban them again, before they have another chance to bother anyone.
I'm saying that the way that the REGULAR users are dealt with be rethought and that the perma-ban option be removed from that equation. There's no point in constantly directing the discussion towards the extreme examples. In my experience the whole mod squad is informed of such "dangerous" users when they're permabanned, as well as when we notice them returning under some other username. I don't think we carry this process through recklessly or capriciously.
Then what happened here? I actually think that removing the perma-ban option from the strike structure would make it easier on you all. Though that doesn't answer the question of what other kind of "punishment" you would have available, and I don't have an answer to that. I just know that this current system seems like more trouble than it's worth and often aggravates matters. I think Ben trusts us to know when to use these functions, even if there are situations where we have erred on one side of the moderation fence or the other.
I think for the most part that's right and that moderation on this site is damned good. Even working with such a flawed policy. | |
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xplnyrslf said: 2the9s said: As hateful as that kind of statement is, I don't think that should be a permabannable offense. Or rather, policy shouldn't be framed around that kind of idiotic statement. The comment, (along with other bizarre statements) was snipped at the time. If consistant personal attacks by the same orger were made, towards myself or others, absolutely a ban is called for. It's a steady source of conflict. I don't know the specifics and thus shouldn't have commented. But then again, I am trying to make this a discussion about policy, and bringing anecdotal evidence into the mix doesn't help for a couple of reasons: for one thing, you're personally invested in the matter; and secondly, we can't know the specifics of the case since the mods are not allowed to broadcast private information about accounts etc. How much effort should mods exert, to change someone's behavior?
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Ex-Moderator | I hear you, 9s. And in general I agree with you.
I would also point out, we're kinda damned if we do, damned if we don't. There was a time people were calling out for some sort of formalized policy that everyone could understand, to take away some of the ambiguity and inconsitencies. Hence the initial "strike program" was born. And now you're saying, but there are so many factors to consider we can't simply use a 3 stirkes you're out policy. I will say, though, since I've been a mod at least, it hasn't been routinely enforced. That is to say, strikes are notes that go on someone's record we can see, but it doesn't necessairly mean that once there are 3, someone is permabanned. It's a guideline and tool for us to use, but nothing more. I really think what happened here was a bit of an anomoly. But a good learning experience for all of us. |
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CarrieMpls said: I hear you, 9s. And in general I agree with you.
I would also point out, we're kinda damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's gonna be true no matter what you do! There was a time people were calling out for some sort of formalized policy that everyone could understand, to take away some of the ambiguity and inconsitencies. Hence the initial "strike program" was born. And now you're saying, but there are so many factors to consider we can't simply use a 3 stirkes you're out policy.
Are there degrees of "you're out"? In other words is there a day, 2 day, week, 2 week, perma ban option etc.? I mean I'm sure those things have been used, but are those built in to the system the way it is? I guess you don't want to make the system too arcane either, and it's great that the current mods are good enough that you all can rely on your discretion and for the most part that works best. I think that speaks to the job that you're doing. I will say, though, since I've been a mod at least, it hasn't been routinely enforced. That is to say, strikes are notes that go on someone's record we can see, but it doesn't necessairly mean that once there are 3, someone is permabanned. It's a guideline and tool for us to use, but nothing more.
I really think what happened here was a bit of an anomoly. But a good learning experience for all of us. Like I've said before, I think the current mods do a good job. Though stymie makes good points as well. | |
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Stymie said: Serious said: While I don't agree with that poisining statement I find a picture of an orger with a dead animal he/she killed offensive and disrespectful towards others who don't believe in killing animals for entertainment and being proud of it. So to everyone here different things are offensive. If I want to post hunting photos, there's plenty of other websites to do so. I enjoy Prince.org, and therefore, don't want to post something that is offensive and is going to cause problems. I don't want the grief, nor the mods to referee. (I've posted 2 pics the entire time I've been here.) Let's discuss perception. of offensive behavior. Do multiple complaints ensure mod action?? No, they shouldn't. The majority isn't always right. | |
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sosgemini said: perma-bans aint going away folks.
i think the only time this sentiment comes up is when someone who is perceived as well liked gets into trouble. however, there are some serious offenders who need to be permanently removed from this site. now, i'm not an expert on this specific situation but in addition to lobbying for the removal of permanent bans i'd kinda like us to discuss how the community has gotten to the place where individuals feel it's okay to defy or ignore mod requests in the first place...or better yet, why is there such animosity in the p&r forum at the moment? because... ppl have become 'familiar' with them.. they feel cause they form friendships with Moderators.. their friends will 'over-look' their offenses and in so doing.. they take it for granted and think they can bypass the rules .. ('oh.. im cookie crunch with such n such.. so they'll over look my mistakes...and they understand') | |
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2the9s said:[quote] xplnyrslf said: I don't know the specifics and thus shouldn't have commented. But then again, I am trying to make this a discussion about policy, and bringing anecdotal evidence into the mix doesn't help for a couple of reasons: for one thing, you're personally invested in the matter; and secondly, we can't know the specifics of the case since the mods are not allowed to broadcast private information about accounts etc. How much effort should mods exert, to change someone's behavior?
They shouldn't be trying to change anyone's behavior. Nevermind. [Edited 2/3/08 17:03pm] | |
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xplnyrslf said: 2the9s said: They shouldn't be trying to change anyone's behavior. Anecdotal? This discussion is about bans by mods. My example, is how some here, respond to something they disagree with. Consistant personal attacks to deal with a conflict is unacceptable. The orger is always going to have the mods busy. I prefer to give specific examples, which have occurred, rather than generalized "theory". I don't expect mods to respond to site personal affairs. Regarding this perspective: "They shouldn't be trying to change anyone's behavior". There are warnings given, regarding an orger doing something they shouldn't. If the individual wants to stay a member, YEAH! the bad behavior needs to change. There's an opportunity to do that. If not, "take the nonsense, and go elsewhere". ie banned. I guess you're right. The only change, is the individual is elsewhere. Oh hush. | |
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xplnyrslf said: Stymie said: If I want to post hunting photos, there's plenty of other websites to do so. I enjoy Prince.org, and therefore, don't want to post something that is offensive and is going to cause problems. I don't want the grief, nor the mods to referee. (I've posted 2 pics the entire time I've been here.) Let's discuss perception. of offensive behavior. Do multiple complaints ensure mod action?? No, they shouldn't. The majority isn't always right. very true basically the events of the last few days, should be a wake up call, it is the resposibility of the orgers themselves to come clean, and make this place a site worth visiting, I personally find the moderation here ok, but like all situations where one allows freedom, there are those willing to take advantage of it, but with far more darker intent than what Ben has done. The unusual aspect of the org lately for me, is it has started to reflect alot of the way the world is, no one can get on together, even if they are drawn together by one force. If it were not for insanity, I would be sane.
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2the9s said: xplnyrslf said: Anecdotal? This discussion is about bans by mods. My example, is how some here, respond to something they disagree with. Consistant personal attacks to deal with a conflict is unacceptable. The orger is always going to have the mods busy. I prefer to give specific examples, which have occurred, rather than generalized "theory". I don't expect mods to respond to site personal affairs. Regarding this perspective: "They shouldn't be trying to change anyone's behavior". There are warnings given, regarding an orger doing something they shouldn't. If the individual wants to stay a member, YEAH! the bad behavior needs to change. There's an opportunity to do that. If not, "take the nonsense, and go elsewhere". ie banned. I guess you're right. The only change, is the individual is elsewhere. Oh hush. DANG. I was too late. Don't you have something better to do, than respond to my posts like, immediately???? (I tried editing it) | |
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horatio said: I thought this thread was about getting straightened out
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xplnyrslf said: 2the9s said: Oh hush. DANG. I was too late. Don't you have something better to do, than respond to my posts like, immediately???? (I tried editing it) | |
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HamsterHuey said: live4lust said: Cousens is awesome and we all know that.
Oh common. He is a brat pumping the Org for attention. Wel all know that. His first post back better have the word 'c#nt' in it or he can go piss off again. I'd expect nothing less. | |
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2the9s said: Anxiety said: I agree that permabans should be a decision made for extraordinary situations, but I disagree with the idea that mods should not have this resource readily available.
That's not what I said. I said they should't be a part of the warning/strike/equation. Then what happened here? I actually think that removing the perma-ban option from the strike structure would make it easier on you all. Though that doesn't answer the question of what other kind of "punishment" you would have available, and I don't have an answer to that. I just know that this current system seems like more trouble than it's worth and often aggravates matters. I think Ben trusts us to know when to use these functions, even if there are situations where we have erred on one side of the moderation fence or the other.
I think for the most part that's right and that moderation on this site is damned good. Even working with such a flawed policy. It seems to me as though we're pretty much saying the same thing, only in the form of a disagreement. | |
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To think this comes from my first really successful thread.... "will you swear on your life, that no one will cry at my funeral" I guess they would cry at Ben's...but prolly not at mine... Glad it worked out for you Laurel and Ben.... | |
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Anxiety said: 2the9s said: I think for the most part that's right and that moderation on this site is damned good. Even working with such a flawed policy. It seems to me as though we're pretty much saying the same thing, only in the form of a disagreement. It's the subtle differences in his stance that makes him right and you wrong. | |
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Stymie said: Anxiety said: I agree that permabans should be a decision made for extraordinary situations, but I disagree with the idea that mods should not have this resource readily available. Unfortunately, this site has attracted a slight but steady amount of users who have behaved in a threatening and harrassing manner toward other users, not only on the org/online, but spilling out into offline "IRL" incidents as well. We've also had people hack into and exploit other users' accounts on the Org. In my opinion, these are the kinds of people who need to be permabanned ASAP, as soon as we identify the behavior and determine it to be a serious threat. And unfortunately, once we permaban these users, they have a tendency to come back. They'll create new accounts and come back to raise the same ol' hell. Most of the time we know how to identify these people when they come back, and we are able to permaban them again, before they have another chance to bother anyone. In my experience the whole mod squad is informed of such "dangerous" users when they're permabanned, as well as when we notice them returning under some other username. I don't think we carry this process through recklessly or capriciously. I think Ben trusts us to know when to use these functions, even if there are situations where we have erred on one side of the moderation fence or the other. Wait a minute: I keep talking about fairness. Silly me. I find it hard to accept the perma-banning of someone that's very young if they show signs of adapting. Of course, I don't want to open up a whole can of worms with the age-vs-maturity thing, but permanently banning someone based on something they did when they were 18 years old assumes they don't grow, etc. etc. Of course, being everyone's friend is not a viable option when dealing with a place with as much traffic as the org. It's a damned good thing I's so fucking popular and stuff--the mods wouldn't dare ban me. | |
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Imago said: Stymie said: What about cases where the mods know certain permabanned people are back who have done some of the egregious things you mentioned and they don't take action because it's someone they like?
Wait a minute: I keep talking about fairness. Silly me. I find it hard to accept the perma-banning of someone that's very young if they show signs of adapting. Of course, I don't want to open up a whole can of worms with the age-vs-maturity thing, but permanently banning someone based on something they did when they were 18 years old assumes they don't grow, etc. etc. Of course, being everyone's friend is not a viable option when dealing with a place with as much traffic as the org. It's a damned good thing I's so fucking popular and stuff--the mods wouldn't dare ban me. | |
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Stymie said: Imago said: I find it hard to accept the perma-banning of someone that's very young if they show signs of adapting. Of course, I don't want to open up a whole can of worms with the age-vs-maturity thing, but permanently banning someone based on something they did when they were 18 years old assumes they don't grow, etc. etc. Of course, being everyone's friend is not a viable option when dealing with a place with as much traffic as the org. It's a damned good thing I's so fucking popular and stuff--the mods wouldn't dare ban me. Is this about my boolationship with rushing07? Cause I will fight to keep him girl! | |
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Imago said: Stymie said: I'm not just speaking of 18 year olds Dan. Immaturity knowa no age.
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Imago said: Stymie said: What about cases where the mods know certain permabanned people are back who have done some of the egregious things you mentioned and they don't take action because it's someone they like?
Wait a minute: I keep talking about fairness. Silly me. I find it hard to accept the perma-banning of someone that's very young if they show signs of adapting. Of course, I don't want to open up a whole can of worms with the age-vs-maturity thing, but permanently banning someone based on something they did when they were 18 years old assumes they don't grow, etc. etc. Of course, being everyone's friend is not a viable option when dealing with a place with as much traffic as the org. It's a damned good thing I's so fucking popular and stuff--the mods wouldn't dare ban me. well said Dan If it were not for insanity, I would be sane.
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Stymie said: Imago said: Is this about my boolationship with rushing07? Cause I will fight to keep him girl! oh damn | |
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Stymie said: Ben have never responded to a signle email I sent. He actually says that? Then what is the point of mods telling us if we don't like something, to take it up with him? Essentially this means, there is NO grievance process. That's good to know.
That's what he told me when Ian banned me for discussing something with him. I didn't break a single Org rule (even though Ian made it look that way, he ain't dumb) and he banned me. I emailed Ben and he said that I was a troublemaker and that my list of offenses was mile long (something that was news to me since I'd never so much as recieved a warning) and that he totally agreed with Ian, but that he'd reverse my ban anyway. As we all know Ian was booted later for making many dubious mod calls. You know what? I broke an Org rule, I discussed mod decisions. Sue me. | |
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Teacher said: Stymie said: Ben have never responded to a signle email I sent. He actually says that? Then what is the point of mods telling us if we don't like something, to take it up with him? Essentially this means, there is NO grievance process. That's good to know.
That's what he told me when Ian banned me for discussing something with him. I didn't break a single Org rule (even though Ian made it look that way, he ain't dumb) and he banned me. I emailed Ben and he said that I was a troublemaker and that my list of offenses was mile long (something that was news to me since I'd never so much as recieved a warning) and that he totally agreed with Ian, but that he'd reverse my ban anyway. As we all know Ian was booted later for making many dubious mod calls. You know what? I broke an Org rule, I discussed mod decisions. Sue me. | |
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Stymie said: Teacher said: That's what he told me when Ian banned me for discussing something with him. I didn't break a single Org rule (even though Ian made it look that way, he ain't dumb) and he banned me. I emailed Ben and he said that I was a troublemaker and that my list of offenses was mile long (something that was news to me since I'd never so much as recieved a warning) and that he totally agreed with Ian, but that he'd reverse my ban anyway. As we all know Ian was booted later for making many dubious mod calls. You know what? I broke an Org rule, I discussed mod decisions. Sue me. Teacher: Since you opened this pandora's box... let me say this as a response to your many, many statements in regards to you and moderation: You're full of it. There's one thing we can always count on. When there's an opportunity to voice one's opinion in regards to moderation, I can always guarantee that you'll be on the thread spewing out your same old rhetoric! When there was a thread by ian, THE SAME IAN YOU'RE BASHING NOW, that questioned my posting a thread for each song on the Planet Earth cd, you were GUSHING over missing him as a mod, and thanking him for "speaking on behalf of you", etc! LOL!!! I've looked at your record. Since you've brought it up and are obviously in denial over what you were moderated for, time and again, it was clearly NOT for questioning a mod. Nor was ian "booted"! You really need to reevaluate your whole reason for being on this site if you are so unhappy with what goes on here, and with those in charge. It is my opinion that those who complain the loudest on these types of threads almost always have a reason with why they are so angry. More often than not, they have had a decision or two (or three or four or five... ) against them that they were unhapy with, regardless of the fact that they were in the wrong. Go on... keep being you. We all know the truth. |
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June7 said: Stymie said: This stuff makes my head spin.
Teacher: Since you opened this pandora's box... let me say this as a response to your many, many statements in regards to you and moderation: You're full of it. There's one thing we can always count on. When there's an opportunity to voice one's opinion in regards to moderation, I can always guarantee that you'll be on the thread spewing out your same old rhetoric! When there was a thread by ian, THE SAME IAN YOU'RE BASHING NOW, that questioned my posting a thread for each song on the Planet Earth cd, you were GUSHING over missing him as a mod, and thanking him for "speaking on behalf of you", etc! LOL!!! I've looked at your record. Since you've brought it up and are obviously in denial over what you were moderated for, time and again, it was clearly NOT for questioning a mod. Nor was ian "booted"! You really need to reevaluate your whole reason for being on this site if you are so unhappy with what goes on here, and with those in charge. It is my opinion that those who complain the loudest on these types of threads almost always have a reason with why they are so angry. More often than not, they have had a decision or two (or three or four or five... ) against them that they were unhapy with, regardless of the fact that they were in the wrong. Go on... keep being you. We all know the truth. There are, I am assuming more people on this thread speaking about moderation problems than actually have them. And there are people who speak only behind the scenes for "fear" of retaliation for speaking out. It is not always people who are angry who speak out. I'm not even angry. I'm saddened that people don't feel there is a way to air grievances here AND BE HEARD. | |
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