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PrintableJanfriend said: mdiver said: I have no problem calling a man sweetheart, i am very secure in my sexuality thankyou. Dayum you are tetchy. Seriously grow a set. I speak English, not slang. I have no idea what "grow a set" means, but I am an adult and I do not appreciate you trying to display superiority by calling me sweetheart or any other variation of that. I know what you meant when you called me that. You were being condescending and sexist Now who is talking about stuff they don't know about. You have no idea what i was trying to do, you don't know how i speak irl or how i refer to people. So tell me, how was telling me to "shut up" not trying to demonstrate your superiority by ordering me what to do? | |
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evenstar said: Janfriend said: I speak English, not slang. I have no idea what "grow a set" means, but I am an adult and I do not appreciate you trying to display superiority by calling me sweetheart or any other variation of that. I know what you meant when you called me that. You were being condescending and sexist um. so i'm sexist too?  come off it.
No, you were just condescending | |
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mdiver said: Janfriend said: I speak English, not slang. I have no idea what "grow a set" means, but I am an adult and I do not appreciate you trying to display superiority by calling me sweetheart or any other variation of that. I know what you meant when you called me that. You were being condescending and sexist Now who is talking about stuff they don't know about. You have no idea what i was trying to do, you don't know how i speak irl or how i refer to people. So tell me, how was telling me to "shut up" not trying to demonstrate your superiority by ordering me what to do? No, because I knew that wasn't going to shut you up. You were just being a snobby ass You can refer to people any way you want. It doesn't mean they won't be offended [Edited 1/13/08 3:07am] | |
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Janfriend said: evenstar said: um. so i'm sexist too? come off it.
No, you were just condescending no, you're taking it way too personally.  and thanks for ignoring the rest of my post where i tried to get this back on-topic | |
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all I was doing was making a suggestion.
Me and mach talked about it in orgnotes. Its really not that deep
Just think that p&r has always had some folks complaining about its moderation over the years. Jan isn't way off on some levels. I think GD and P&R are so different that I think some are thinking of how the other forums are moderated. Once again, this isn't a slam on mach because I adore her and she knows it. I think she just needs help over there. 
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evenstar said: Janfriend said: No, you were just condescending no, you're taking it way too personally. and thanks for ignoring the rest of my post where i tried to get this back on-topic I have nothing more to say about the paysite thing as I didn't recommend a paysite, I recommended possibly paying the mods. That doesn't mean it has to be a paysite. I responded to mdiver that I feel that it the owner's responsibilty Sorry, but when calling someone sweetie or sweetheart when disagreeing with them is the same as calling them a dumbass. I do not like to be referred to as honey, baby, sweetie or anything like that in person or on the net | |
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Janfriend said: mdiver said: Now who is talking about stuff they don't know about. You have no idea what i was trying to do, you don't know how i speak irl or how i refer to people. So tell me, how was telling me to "shut up" not trying to demonstrate your superiority by ordering me what to do? No, because I knew that wasn't going to shut you up. You were just being a snobby ass You can refer to people any way you want. It doesn't mean they won't be offended [Edited 1/13/08 3:07am] Wow insults now too, way to go  | |
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Rhondab said: all I was doing was making a suggestion.
Me and mach talked about it in orgnotes. Its really not that deep
Just think that p&r has always had some folks complaining about its moderation over the years. Jan isn't way off on some levels. I think GD and P&R are so different that I think some are thinking of how the other forums are moderated. Once again, this isn't a slam on mach because I adore her and she knows it. I think she just needs help over there.
Amen on that one | |
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Janfriend said: evenstar said: no, you're taking it way too personally. and thanks for ignoring the rest of my post where i tried to get this back on-topic I have nothing more to say about the paysite thing as I didn't recommend a paysite, I recommended possibly paying the mods. That doesn't mean it has to be a paysite. I responded to mdiver that I feel that it the owner's responsibilty Sorry, but when calling someone sweetie or sweetheart when disagreeing with them is the same as calling them a dumbass. I do not like to be referred to as honey, baby, sweetie or anything like that in person or on the net Errrr no it isnt and if YOU dont like it then say so, dont get all pissy if other people use it. You are just demonstrating the same attitude, its your way or the world is wrong...good luck with that  | |
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Janfriend said: mdiver said: Then if you can't bring the "proof" that people are acting like God (who,if you believe in him is supposed to be perfect in justice and love,so if they are acting like him them you as the imperfect one would,by definition be wrong so i am all for "God" moderating here.) then why bring it up here. If the proof has to stay private then keep the beef private otherwise you just look like a plum with a problem. IMHO You don't get it. No one is God, but if a human acts like God, they are abusing their power because they are imperfect. Hell God really isn't perfect either, but that's another topic [snip - CarrieMpls] | |
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Hold on guys. This sections is about making suggestions on how to improve the site or even complain (on some level).
You know what....nevamind
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Rhondab said: all I was doing was making a suggestion.
Me and mach talked about it in orgnotes. Its really not that deep
Just think that p&r has always had some folks complaining about its moderation over the years. Jan isn't way off on some levels. I think GD and P&R are so different that I think some are thinking of how the other forums are moderated. Once again, this isn't a slam on mach because I adore her and she knows it. I think she just needs help over there.
  TY for the kind words ( again )
Janfrind and I have also touched base via orgnotes and share a mutual respect for each other and understanding P&R is a debate forum and much different then GD in my opinion as well. Often times it does need a different style of moderation. Because of the "Debate" energy there I do see/feel that P&R could use another mod or 2 | |
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mdiver said: Janfriend said: I have nothing more to say about the paysite thing as I didn't recommend a paysite, I recommended possibly paying the mods. That doesn't mean it has to be a paysite. I responded to mdiver that I feel that it the owner's responsibilty Sorry, but when calling someone sweetie or sweetheart when disagreeing with them is the same as calling them a dumbass. I do not like to be referred to as honey, baby, sweetie or anything like that in person or on the net Errrr no it isnt and if YOU dont like it then say so, dont get all pissy if other people use it. You are just demonstrating the same attitude, its your way or the world is wrong...good luck with that I'm not pissy if you use it with other people. I have every right to tell you not to use it with me | |
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Looks like Rhonda's suggestion was addressed...
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