Why can't a woman look Sexy,or dress with short skirts or shorts and not have men bother them. Why must I cover up if I don't want to or else be afraid of being Raped? Why do men always think as women as just T&A? Ladies what do you do to fend off unwanted attention? I actually have Stalkers. Please help me with some Advice. I'm not changing my Apparel Skirts,Shorts, Sexy Tops for anybody. And Platforms Rule Too. Now when will men Understand I just want to be Alone? Do I have to wear Skunk Repellent? If such a Thing!

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I'm beginning to think that the more I say No the more they want it or get Turned on and I don't want to be involved right now. I need some ideas besides dressing Down cause I won't.I'd be the only JW in a Mini-Skirt.
[This message was edited Mon Jul 22 16:48:17 PDT 2002 by Vagina]

because some men have lost their minds. Love them platforms!

Because a lot of the time, women will back down and eventually say "yes", either to get rid of him or because they "buy" into his lines...so they figure since it worked with some other girl, it might work again with another girl...

SexLovely said:

HEY NOW

WOMEN SAY YES TO POOK WITHOUT BEING ASKED

POOK STAY OUT OF THIS ONE

Oh yeah, like it was Eve that tempted Adam. Adam was weak and Eve was at Fault. Didn't Rapists always Blame the women? Why is everything the Women's fault even in the Bible? Who told Adam to listen? Even if he was tempted seems to me Adam was the Weak one. Eve was just Hungry so to speak.Do you all take the Apple to be SEX? Was this the Original Sin? Pray-tell what do you think. Why is the Devil looked at as being a Beautiful Woman? Revelation? Women are not Evil! This is Fear ! Believe in God and you will Have no Fear! Peace.

A good kick to the groin ussually works for me. But if you don't want to get close I would suggest a mixture of mace and a stun gun. I not joking either. I had a guy I went out with once who didn't want to take no for an answer at the end of the night. When he kept trying to pin me against my front door I kneed him in the crotch, brought both fists down on the base of his neck and ran around the house and went in through the back door. Some men are just assholes and need a good ass kicking to get the point across. And no I am not a violent person but I have had to learn to defend myself because of my past.

men don't take no for an answer. It is sooo frustrating. Men think No means yes, and yes means yes. What part of No do men not understand??

If you dress the part, look the part, smell the part, pretend the part, they'll think you play the part as well. And that's all I got to say about that, Temptress.

I'm not changing my way of Dress for Anybody. I'll wear Bones around my neck maybe that will scare them Off. God, I hope nobody get's turned on with my Damn luck.

STARFISHNCOFFEE said:[quote]A good kick to the groin ussually works for me. But if you don't want to get close I would suggest a mixture of mace and a stun gun. I not joking either. quote]

thec
when i first started reading this i thought u were a man..it's hysterical if u look at it that way.although the subject isn't funny 2 me.no1 should force themselves on any1.

why dont women like it when they hear it???
and why when men tell them 'no', dont they believe it
and then still do the thing anyway???
why wont the kids listen when you try to give them goood advice???
why is it that i spend all this money on lotto
and havent won yet???

oh...
nevermind.

I'm just glad that in this thread no-one is making any gross generalisations about men.

Vagina said:

Oh, you'r poor vagina! Well, I cannot help you, I'm sorry, I seldom do use sexy clothes, but it doesn't chaged nothing, they can look but not touch! I'll don't touch them neither, men respects my NO. (it exist but also the cases to think: Man, why do you do nothing?!?!?
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I can tell them no,or I can tell them I'm not interested and they follow me, or tell me they want to kiss me, or touch me, they've even exposed themselves to me and I've Screamed at them. I hate this Retarded behavior. I think sometimes Men are crazy. I want them to Contain themselves cause it's So Annoying.

Cuz men are human...and, like pretty much all "catagories" of humans, there are some who are just gonna be disrespectful and oblivious to the thoughts and feelings of others...me, personally, I want to know that the attraction is mutual...not that she's "giving in" to my pressures...nothing more beautiful to experience than when someone comes to you and gives to you of their own desires and free will...

Interesting coming from you!

sag10 said:

Who you talking to, Sag...me or Vagina?

wellbeyond said:

splitting hairs again?
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Chandrasonic said:

wellbeyond said:

I am sorry that was meant for Vagina...

Chandrasonic said:

Vagina said:[quote]I'm beginning to think that the more I say No the more they want it or get Turned on and I don't want to be involved right now. I need some ideas besides dressing Down cause I won't.I'd be the only JW in a Mini-Skirt.
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Vagina said:

Because men are always horny and think that they are the shit. I know I used to be that way, but after a while I saw what was happening with the ladies I KNEW and how most of the new one I would meet acted. Most of these guys haven't figured that out yet that if you just be yourself and just talk you may get a better response and possible a better change of meeting a lady who might be willing to have a friendship with them or possible a relationship. Works for me.
[This message was edited Mon Jul 29 10:40:47 PDT 2002 by fairlite]

Wear a wedding ring.

Berry said:

better yet get married!!!

I never have this problem and I dress pretty light in the summertime. It's not enough to say no to a man. It's not enough to say no to a telemarketer, it's not enough to say no to a child begging for candy. You have to say it with conviction and mean it and show them you mean business. I am not accusing you of being the culprit, but sometimes women have a way of saying no sound like "i'm not sure
maybe after a couple of drinks", and then when a man oversteps his boundaries, they get all shocked and fragile. I am a woman who believes in the whole no means no thing, but sometimes ladies the word itself is not enough you have to say it with conviction and then back it up!!