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Reply #60 posted 10/30/19 8:40am

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Again - context. Terrible case sentenced here yesterday.

https://www.nola.com/news...caeb5.html

For the first time since he drunkenly slammed his Chevrolet Camaro into nine bicyclists on Esplanade Avenue after the Endymion parade in March, Tashonty Toney stood in a courtroom Tuesday and told the families and friends of the two riders he killed and the seven he injured that he was sorry. The judge said she didn't believe him and handed him a sentence of over 90 years behind bars...

...But Napoli (defense attorney) turned the tables on Toney and his family during cross-examination. Most dramatically, he played a phone call from the New Orleans jail between Toney and one of his sisters on which they could be heard laughing soon after the harrowing testimony from witnesses such as Hynes’ widow and Walls’ parents.

White (judge) pointed out with a sigh that jail phone calls begin with a message warning the callers that their words are being recorded.

Speaking on the call, Toney’s sister said the worst part of Monday's testimony was “those two (expletive)" N-words, in an apparent reference to Walls’ parents, who had called for Toney to receive a stiff sentence. The Walls and Toney families are both black.

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Reply #61 posted 10/30/19 8:18pm

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OldFriends4Sale said:

jjhunsecker said:

I pretty much see the so-called "N word" and all it's variations like I see the word "pussy"- it has multiple meanings, and can change context based on who is saying it, who it's directed to to, the intent, and the context.

Yes, and that is where the contentions come in.

If people say it within their safe space of friends/family(not in public) I have no issue.
But the problem is when someone tries to push that word on another person who does not like it.

As is in this case.

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It should not be allowed in schools and the work place. Like some other words, slurs, terms.

I agree- there's a time and a place for everything, and one size does NOT fit all situations

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Reply #62 posted 11/04/19 11:45am

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Michael Che made a joke this weekend on SNL about a White man calling him "the N-word.... with a HARD 'ER'"...

Which goes along with what I was saying.. that most Black people (certainly not all) see a distinction between the words "N***A" and "N***ER", that the differing pronunciations mark a big distinction,...
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Reply #63 posted 11/04/19 11:56am

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jjhunsecker said:

I pretty much see the so-called "N word" and all it's variations like I see the word "pussy"- it has multiple meanings, and can change context based on who is saying it, who it's directed to to, the intent, and the context.

i do not agree.

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Reply #64 posted 11/04/19 12:00pm

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I've been called variations of that word: in both friendship and familiarity, and in hatred and as a provocation to violence
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Reply #65 posted 11/04/19 12:04pm

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jjhunsecker said:

I've been called variations of that word: in both friendship and familiarity, and in hatred and as a provocation to violence

i get it you have to make up excuses for some people using it... I will not. But we all know some have a double stantard and some do not.

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Reply #66 posted 11/04/19 12:10pm

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I speak from my own experiences and give my own personal perspectives on this issue (as well as others)...,There are no "excuses " being made. Just an acknowledgement that sometimes things are more complicated and nuanced than some may be able to grasp
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Reply #67 posted 11/04/19 12:19pm

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jjhunsecker said:

I speak from my own experiences and give my own personal perspectives on this issue (as well as others)...,There are no "excuses " being made. Just an acknowledgement that sometimes things are more complicated and nuanced than some may be able to grasp

that is making an excuse. that is literally what "making an excuse" means.

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Reply #68 posted 11/04/19 12:36pm

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I repeat: too nuanced and complex for some to grasp... I'll leave it at that. Either you get it, or you don't (or choose not to in an attempt to make a "point ")
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Reply #69 posted 11/04/19 12:39pm

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Why would someone take a hardline stance on the intricasies of a racial slur, with someone who is of the race the slur is about? Especially when he is not of the race himself? Is there ever a learning curve?

The same person who cannot understand the nuance of the topic word in any instance has absolutely no problem calling people pig diarrhea vomit. In fact, he called a Jewish and a Muslim person swine today.

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Reply #70 posted 11/04/19 12:49pm

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poppys said:

Why would someone take a hardline stance on the intricasies of a racial slur, with someone who is of the race the slur is about? Especially when he is not of the race himself? Is there ever a learning curve?

The same person who cannot understand the nuance of the topic word in any instance has absolutely no problem calling people pig diarrhea vomit. In fact, he called a Jewish and a Muslim person swine today.

oh calling someone who sees swine as inclean is the same as te N-word? you know a horse is also unclean as are dogs and cats and beavers...

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Reply #71 posted 11/04/19 12:58pm

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poppys said:

Why would someone take a hardline stance on the intricasies of a racial slur, with someone who is of the race the slur is about? Especially when he is not of the race himself? Is there ever a learning curve?

The same person who cannot understand the nuance of the topic word in any instance has absolutely no problem calling people pig diarrhea vomit. In fact, he called a Jewish and a Muslim person swine today.



Because they are trying to score points (and obviously failing)
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Reply #72 posted 11/04/19 12:59pm

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jjhunsecker said:

poppys said:

Why would someone take a hardline stance on the intricasies of a racial slur, with someone who is of the race the slur is about? Especially when he is not of the race himself? Is there ever a learning curve?

The same person who cannot understand the nuance of the topic word in any instance has absolutely no problem calling people pig diarrhea vomit. In fact, he called a Jewish and a Muslim person swine today.

Because they are trying to score points (and obviously failing)

score points with who?

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Reply #73 posted 11/04/19 1:09pm

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I can't make people understand something if they don't want to
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Reply #74 posted 11/04/19 1:20pm

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jjhunsecker said:

I can't make people understand something if they don't want to

tell me about it

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Reply #75 posted 11/04/19 9:35pm

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poppys said:

Why would someone take a hardline stance on the intricasies of a racial slur, with someone who is of the race the slur is about? Especially when he is not of the race himself? Is there ever a learning curve?

The same person who cannot understand the nuance of the topic word in any instance has absolutely no problem calling people pig diarrhea vomit. In fact, he called a Jewish and a Muslim person swine today.

I've been called "N***ER" several times in my life (with the hard "ER" at the end)....I think I know a little more about this issue than others who are using this issue just to spout off and push their agenda....Logically, why would I be "making excuses" for those using it to spread hatred and division ?

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Reply #76 posted 11/05/19 11:51am

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Anderson:

Short story....
I get called a bit@# @ss Ni€€A by a student, I responded do "not call me ni€€a !"

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A Wisconsin security guard was fired earlier this week for telling a student not to use a racial slur. Now, Cher is offering to pay for any lawsuit he may file.

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Marlon Anderson, a 48-year-old black security guard at a Wisconsin high school, was fired for repeating the N-word. He said he used it in order to tell a student not to say it. The student, who is also black, called Anderson the slur along with a number of other expletives.

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"I made a conscious decision to address the word because it is an epidemic,"

Anderson told CBS News affiliate WISC. "Our kids use it every day."

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He also questioned how he could be fired for standing up for himself.

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"I just don't understand getting fired for trying to defend yourself," said Anderson, who worked for the district for 11 years. "As a black man, I have a right not to be called that word."

Anderson said he had been called the slur by students before, and typically uses those conversations as teachable moments to explain the history, context and meaning of the slur, WISC reported. He and the Anderson and the Madison teachers' union filed a grievance seeking his job back.

On Friday, legendary singer Cher offered to pay for any legal fees Anderson may incur if he wants to sue. She said she was shocked by the disrespect, especially following the death of Rep. Elijah Cummings.

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Cher also tweeted that she is trying to get in touch with Anderson in order to help.

On Friday, students at Madison West High School skipped class and marched through the streets of the state capitol to protest Anderson's firing. Anderson's son, Noah, who is the leader of the school's Black Student Union, led the protest, WISC reports.

During the march, several students reportedly went to the district administration building to meet with interim superintendent Jane Belmore and Board of Education president Gloria Reyes about Anderson's firing.

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"It was a powerful day today for us all," Reyes told WISC. "They are educating us. They are our future, and we have to consider them in making decisions and policies that impact them directly."

"I want to thank our students for coming today and for engaging in a conversation with us," Belmore said in a statement. "We support our students when they disagree with us and challenge us to do better."

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"Employees always have the right to appeal decisions and we will move this process forward as quickly as possible," Belmore said. "As we go through the appeal process, we will also be conducting a review of the current approach around racial slurs."

Currently, the Madison School District forbids employees from saying racial slurs regardless of context. Last school year, there were at least seven cases in which a Madison School District staff member used a racial slur in front of students, according to the Associated Press. All of those employees were either fired or resigned.

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https://www.cbsnews.com/n...ity-guard/

#IDEFINEME #ALBUMSSTILLMATTER

A Liar Shall Not Tarry In My Presence
I will make you cyber shit in your pants!
What's the matter with your life
Is poverty bringing U down?
Is the mailman jerking U 'round?
Did he put your million dollar check
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Reply #77 posted 11/27/19 6:52am

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I did not want or need to start a new topic, but came across this about Nick Cannon

This would not be the first time "AGT" has been accused of insensitivity towards top talent. Nick Cannon, who hosted the series for seven seasons, resigned abruptly in 2017 in a scathing Facebook post that condemned NBC.

In a standalone comedy special for Showtime, Cannon made a joke about "AGT's" squeaky-clean image, saying he could no longer use the N-word in his routine. Cannon said NBC attempted to retaliate when they caught wind of the bit.

"I was to be punished for a joke ... My soul won't allow me to be in business with corporations that attempt to frown on freedom of speech, censor artists, and question cultural choices," Cannon wrote. "Not to get too detailed but this isn't the first time executives have attempted to 'put me in my place' for so-called unruly actions."

http://www.msn.com/en-us/...ocid=ientp

#IDEFINEME #ALBUMSSTILLMATTER

A Liar Shall Not Tarry In My Presence
I will make you cyber shit in your pants!
What's the matter with your life
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Reply #78 posted 12/01/19 10:15pm

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jjhunsecker said:

I've been called "N***ER" several times in my life (with the hard "ER" at the end)....I think I know a little more about this issue than others who are using this issue just to spout off and push their agenda....Logically, why would I be "making excuses" for those using it to spread hatred and division ?


Correct me if I'm wrong, but you only have a problem with the word when it's used by non-blacks ... right?

If so, you're indeed "making excuses" for African Americans because you don't like non-blacks chiming in on words you should or shouldn't use. You're taking sides for all the wrong reasons.

Agenda? What do non-blacks have to gain by trying to prevent the use of the word? If they wanted to stop the use of contextual racial stereotypes such as fried chicken and watermelon, would you be against THAT too?

Seems like all you care about is suppressing the opinions of non-blacks, even when they clearly have good intentions and absolutely nothing to gain personally.








[Edited 12/1/19 22:16pm]

"Jussie Smollett wanted to become the Rosa Parks of Gay Black Men, but instead he became the Rosie Ruiz."

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Reply #79 posted 12/02/19 6:44am

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And yet certain white guys on the org P&R do nothing but tell black posters how they should think and act. Why is that?

[Edited 12/2/19 6:48am]

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Reply #80 posted 12/02/19 8:08am

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poppys said:

And yet certain white guys on the org P&R do nothing but tell black posters how they should think and act. Why is that?

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That way of thinking apparently stems from the ignorant mentality of the past, where today, some, not all, believe they have ‘special privileges’ to question and dictate the rights and actions of many people of color. That type of mentality is still an infection combined with racial ignorance, in today’s society, unfortunately.
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Reply #81 posted 12/02/19 8:11am

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jjhunsecker said:

I repeat: too nuanced and complex for some to grasp... I'll leave it at that. Either you get it, or you don't (or choose not to in an attempt to make a "point ")



@ Bolded part. Exactly.
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Reply #82 posted 12/02/19 10:06am

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2elijah said:

jjhunsecker said:

I repeat: too nuanced and complex for some to grasp... I'll leave it at that. Either you get it, or you don't (or choose not to in an attempt to make a "point ")



@ Bolded part. Exactly.


You know it !
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Reply #83 posted 12/02/19 10:11am

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poppys said:

And yet certain white guys on the org P&R do nothing but tell black posters how they should think and act. Why is that?

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And even those who claimed in the past to be “Black “...
They refuse to acknowledge the complexity of these issues because their purpose here is chaos and disruption, not discussion and debate
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Reply #84 posted 12/02/19 10:23am

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jjhunsecker said:

poppys said:


And yet certain white guys on the org P&R do nothing but tell black posters how they should think and act. Why is that?


And even those who claimed in the past to be “Black “... They refuse to acknowledge the complexity of these issues because their purpose here is chaos and disruption, not discussion and debate


Pokeno is also taking credit for the collapse of the Hard Rock Hotel that was under construction in New Orleans - because he was in town at the time. Joked about it and posted a giant photo. There are still 2 bodies in the wreckage because it's too dangerous to recover them. Disgusting.

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Reply #85 posted 12/02/19 11:48am

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jjhunsecker said:

poppys said:

And yet certain white guys on the org P&R do nothing but tell black posters how they should think and act. Why is that?

[Edited 12/2/19 6:48am]

And even those who claimed in the past to be “Black “... They refuse to acknowledge the complexity of these issues because their purpose here is chaos and disruption, not discussion and debate


So you didn't answer any of my questions.

Not surprising.

"Jussie Smollett wanted to become the Rosa Parks of Gay Black Men, but instead he became the Rosie Ruiz."

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Reply #86 posted 12/02/19 11:49am

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poppys said:

jjhunsecker said:

poppys said:
And even those who claimed in the past to be “Black “... They refuse to acknowledge the complexity of these issues because their purpose here is chaos and disruption, not discussion and debate


Pokeno is also taking credit for the collapse of the Hard Rock Hotel that was under construction in New Orleans - because he was in town at the time. Joked about it and posted a giant photo. There are still 2 bodies in the wreckage because it's too dangerous to recover them. Disgusting.


Spamming the forum with lies. You're sad.

"Jussie Smollett wanted to become the Rosa Parks of Gay Black Men, but instead he became the Rosie Ruiz."

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Reply #87 posted 12/02/19 11:58am

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Pokeno4Money said:


Correct me if I'm wrong, but you only have a problem with the word when it's used by non-blacks ... right?

If so, you're indeed "making excuses" for African Americans because you don't like non-blacks chiming in on words you should or shouldn't use. You're taking sides for all the wrong reasons.

Agenda? What do non-blacks have to gain by trying to prevent the use of the word? If they wanted to stop the use of contextual racial stereotypes such as fried chicken and watermelon, would you be against THAT too?

Seems like all you care about is suppressing the opinions of non-blacks, even when they clearly have good intentions and absolutely nothing to gain personally.


or liberals, or people he likes, or if he thinks it was funny, or somehow the person deserve a pass...

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Reply #88 posted 12/02/19 12:38pm

poppys

Pokeno4Money said:

poppys said:


Pokeno is also taking credit for the collapse of the Hard Rock Hotel that was under construction in New Orleans - because he was in town at the time. Joked about it and posted a giant photo. There are still 2 bodies in the wreckage because it's too dangerous to recover them. Disgusting.


Spamming the forum with lies. You're sad.


No lie. You just doubled down your brag on the School Shooting thread yesterday after we had the mass shooting.

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Told ya stuff always happens when I'm there. When I gassed up at the Exxon on Elysian Fields this morning somebody gave me the 411 on what went down. All I'll say, glad I don't live there.

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Reply #89 posted 12/02/19 1:20pm

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Pokeno4Money said:



jjhunsecker said:


poppys said:

And yet certain white guys on the org P&R do nothing but tell black posters how they should think and act. Why is that?


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And even those who claimed in the past to be “Black “... They refuse to acknowledge the complexity of these issues because their purpose here is chaos and disruption, not discussion and debate


So you didn't answer any of my questions.

Not surprising.



Your “questions “ were just idiotic trolling and beneath my dignity to even address. Work harder next time
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