If I sent a naked picture of myself to a girl and she used it as masturbatory material.....does that count?

If not, the answer is no

I get my gf off most of the time. I mean its not like every time we do it she is gettin off, but alot of the time she is. Also if I am going down on her or using my hands I dont stop until she does, and if ya dont believe me you can always ask her

I think it is easier for a girl to get off if she is comfortable with the guy. I think that if the girl is in a new situation with a different guy it might be harder for them to get completely in the mood and get relaxed so they can even get off. But thats just my opinion.

J0eyC0c0 said:

It all depends on the situation about faking it.If your in a relationship then I agree it needs to be dealt with for sure.

I also agree women needing lots of foreplay is a myth.

Yes, of cause. I find it just as satisfying that you have satisfied your partner.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

You're too nice about it. I would have worded it as "I get off on getting her off".

LittlePill said:

I am nice, that's my problem I guess. I often think what you said though.

J0eyC0c0 said:

It all depends on the situation about faking it.If your in a relationship then I agree it needs to be dealt with for sure.

I also agree women needing lots of foreplay is a myth.

crazyhorse said:

I disagree... Alot of women need lots of foreplay..

What is the fucking use of having sex. Foreplay is what makes the act of making love better.

sag10 said:

Men too.

Well, I'm an honest guy. I can't always make my wife come through straight penetrative sex, for whatever reason. Sometimes I may be tired after a hard day, sometimes it just may not happen. I'm cool with that and so is my wife. The thing is, I have a tongue and it never fails. I don't think u need to have the world every time u make love to make it enjoyable. There are so many things u can do and so many ways u can bring about an orgasm. When u say make a girl cum I assume u are referring to full sexual intercourse. For me that is only part of "sex" so I won't beat myself up if I can't always make my wife come that way. She'll come one way or another and so will I. It's all good.

Also if I am going down on her or using my hands I dont stop until she does

crazyhorse said:

I disagree... Alot of women need lots of foreplay..

What is the fucking use of having sex. Foreplay is what makes the act of making love better.

GollyJeepers said:

Every time here. I always make my wife cum first and at least once before anything else.

J0eyC0c0 said:

I'll admit it... I've faked it... simply to get it over with. If I'm just lying there and they don't stop, or if I'm talking about something that I need to do and they don't stop, I have to resort to faking it so they feel their mission is complete and they can stop the whole thing. Which means that whatever they're doing isn't working.

There are times where men can feel secure enough to realize that the woman isn't always going to reach orgasm and are okay with that. But those that just pound away and break a sweat, determined to give the "big-o"... are tiring, in my opinion.

I also agree that women don't require lots and lots of forplay, however, there are men out there that should realize that simply jumping on a woman isn't gonna help matters out any. They should also realize that simply pounding away like a jack-hammer isn't going to help bring about anything other than our rolling our eyes in our heads, and not out of ecstasy.


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[This message was edited Tue Jun 29 14:25:12 2004 by AzureStarr]

Isn't it all a matter of timing isnt it. Men and Women have different moods each day, and that does have some influence. The majority of the time it should take longer for the women, but that aint always the case. If things are very passionate, then its best to go with the flow, but taking time to care about what you do, how you touch, and when to touch what, rather than just going through the motions is important.
People get aroused by different things, so ya just gotta flow with it. If it dont work the first time, then ya could always try again,

fauxnewbie said:

Well, I'm an honest guy. I can't always make my wife come through straight penetrative sex, for whatever reason. Sometimes I may be tired after a hard day, sometimes it just may not happen. I'm cool with that and so is my wife. The thing is, I have a tongue and it never fails. I don't think u need to have the world every time u make love to make it enjoyable. There are so many things u can do and so many ways u can bring about an orgasm. When u say make a girl cum I assume u are referring to full sexual intercourse. For me that is only part of "sex" so I won't beat myself up if I can't always make my wife come that way. She'll come one way or another and so will I. It's all good.

Well, I'm an honest guy. I can't always make my wife come through straight penetrative sex, for whatever reason. Sometimes I may be tired after a hard day, sometimes it just may not happen. I'm cool with that and so is my wife. The thing is, I have a tongue and it never fails. I don't think u need to have the world every time u make love to make it enjoyable. There are so many things u can do and so many ways u can bring about an orgasm. When u say make a girl cum I assume u are referring to full sexual intercourse. For me that is only part of "sex" so I won't beat myself up if I can't always make my wife come that way. She'll come one way or another and so will I. It's all good.