He's been bringing home Playboy,he watches videos online while Im sleeping!!!
I didnt say anything about the Playboys cuz I like to look at them myself
But I checked his History on the computer and he's been looking at porn EVERYDAY

Is this considered cheating??? Cuz we havent had sex in 14 days

Thats a hella long time for us

14 DAYS!!!!! now thats a problem

ThreadCula said:

[color=orange:a1d45fcbce]ALL MEN love porn. Its their nature. As long as hes not physically touching another women, I wouldnt consider it cheating. [/color]




no sex in 14 days???? I say you start watching some porm with him.....
[This message was edited Thu Jun 24 13:01:04 2004 by anastesiatalk2me]

I watch porn 2-3 times a day.

I suggest he be castrated and his penis pickled!!!!

14 days ain't nothin'! I've gone longer then that. A LOT longer! I say join him! Find something that gets you both off then let your hormones take over!

Men like porn AND sex. If he's not bringing The Club to the bedroom...it might not be the porn that's the problem. I have a great collection of porn...but I like the real thing too.

He feels uncomfortable when I watch with him. he thinks he's corrupting me. But I dont mind

Maybe its me


[This message was edited Thu Jun 24 13:08:38 2004 by ThreadCula]

ThreadCula said:

maybe it is

Damn it
Im not going there!!!!!

IT IS NOT ME

Im freaking sexy,Im a good woman, I have to fight men off on a daily basis,If he wants to wack off everyday thats his problem
[This message was edited Thu Jun 24 13:19:11 2004 by ThreadCula]

14 days? I'm so sorry for you...

Hey, I love porn too, but this could be serious! It's not technically cheating, but it is neglect!

Does he please himself while he's looking at porn? If porn has replaced you as his sexual interest, you two seriously need to talk! Confront him about it. He may get mad, but you really need to find out what the problem is. I know how you feel, believe me... Maybe you guys need to spice up your sex life, or you could look at porn with him and then he could compromise and do something with you too. Talk it over with him. Don't just keep quiet; it's not a healthy relationship if he's ignoring you and becoming obsessed with porn.

ThreadCula said:

Exaclty. I was going to say maybe he has intimacy issues. If you like sex that much and you don't make use of your partner... then something is wrong.

have you considered bringing in a 3rd person for fun? Swinging?

I'm an big time porn fan myself.
It's never been a problem cause I dont neglect who I'm with because of it I suppose.

Tom said:

Tom!

ThreadCula said:

I would be livid. Not at the porn watching, but the fact that he would prefer to look at that than to touch me.

Hmmm... have you tried to get him in the mood?

AzureStarr said:

It sounds to me like he's getting himself in the mood and taking care of business by himself too.

He's a man whore!!!!!

LittlePill said:

Exactly!!!!!

LittlePill said:

Right... but, perhaps he doesn't think she wants to have sex... so, maybe he's releasing his sexual tension with the internet porn. Hop on him the next time he's killing it at the computer...

He's a man whore I say!!!!!

AzureStarr said:

I see what you're saying.

Next time he does it sneak up behind him naked and say "can I help?".

MsSmartypants said:

You would know.

LittlePill said:

Off with you man whore!!!!!

MsSmartypants said:

LittlePill said:

Exactly!

At first I thought he was too tired to have sex,...then I checked his computer and found all of this porn. So I figured he's not tired from work,he's worn out from pleasuring himself

When I do try to get him in the mood, nothing I do phases him.
But he's always been like that,he likes to make the moves
Plus,he's always at work or sleeping. i tried to get it on with him last Sunday while he was sleeping,he got pissed

So he knows I want to do it
He's always touching me and kissing me and stuff but he doesnt go any further

ThreadCula said:

Hmmm... that's a little strange then.... that he stops himself and then goes and sits in front of the computer? How long have you two been together?

4 years