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LOOKS OR PERSONALITY? OK I'm gonna play devils advocate here what do you REALISTICALLY look for in a partner - looks, personality or both - and why? [This message was edited Sun Jun 20 18:27:32 2004 by Natisse] | |
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Both. | |
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Pancreas. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Looks alone don't impress me. | |
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both | |
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nesseone said: both
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2the9s said: nesseone said: both
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I look for both. Personality is more important but looks dont hurt. Sometimes really nice looking guys approach me but I dont like their personalities. So its not always about looks. Did you order a pizza ma'am? Prince- UTCM | |
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Natisse said: OK I'm gonna play devils advocate here what do you REALISTICALLY look for in a partner - looks, personality or both - and why?
[This message was edited Sun Jun 20 18:27:32 2004 by Natisse] Personality first for sure....I don't care how fine you are if I can't stand you as a person your looks don't matter to me... Both is nice but it seems that a lot of people with looks don't have good or great personalites (not all but some) maybe cause they get so much in life cause they look good they don't have to work on themselves or be personable... just my opinion... | |
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BeautifulOneJem said: I look for both. Personality is more important but looks dont hurt. Sometimes really nice looking guys approach me but I dont like their personalities. So its not always about looks
because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" | |
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A Heartbeat. | |
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Chico1 said: A Heartbeat.
Liar! | |
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NakedPreacherLady said: Chico1 said: A Heartbeat.
Liar! oh yeah. And a BIG BANK ACCOUNT!! | |
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Chico1 said: oh yeah. And a BIG BANK ACCOUNT!!
Which makes you a rent boy. | |
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NakedPreacherLady said: Chico1 said: oh yeah. And a BIG BANK ACCOUNT!!
Which makes you a rent boy. uh...NO! Makes me comfortable! Rom-ANCE without Fin-ANCE is a Nu-SANCE! | |
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You both smell like pee.
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Personality... then cleanliness (top notch). I will only consider the rest if these two qualities exist. No if's and's or but's about it. | |
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Chico1 said: NakedPreacherLady said: Which makes you a rent boy.
uh...NO! Makes me comfortable! Rom-ANCE without Fin-ANCE is a Nu-SANCE! Which translates into rent boy. | |
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INSATIABLE said: You both smell like pee.
Eat shit! | |
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NakedPreacherLady said: INSATIABLE said: You both smell like pee.
Eat shit! Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Natisse said: BeautifulOneJem said: I look for both. Personality is more important but looks dont hurt. Sometimes really nice looking guys approach me but I dont like their personalities. So its not always about looks
because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes. | |
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Natisse said: BeautifulOneJem said: I look for both. Personality is more important but looks dont hurt. Sometimes really nice looking guys approach me but I dont like their personalities. So its not always about looks
because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) | |
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nesseone said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes. Absolutely..... | |
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Sinister said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) | |
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Sinister said: nesseone said: Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes. Absolutely..... co-sign Natural curves are better and sexier! Did you order a pizza ma'am? Prince- UTCM | |
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Ex-Moderator | Ideally, both. But for me "looks" is subjective. I've never really been attracted to what people would stereotypically call a hottie. I'm more about personal style and how a person carries themselves. Of course, there's always the fact that the better the personality, the better a person comes to look in your eyes. And the uglier the personality, the uglier they look too. |
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Sinister said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) I agree completely Sinister. Nat you are indeed beautiful both inside and out | |
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Sinister said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) | |
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Ocean said: Sinister said: The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) I agree completely Sinister. Nat you are indeed beautiful both inside and out | |
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Sinister said: The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) AndGodCreatedMe said: Ocean said: I agree completely Sinister. Nat you are indeed beautiful both inside and out thank you for the kind words - and right back atcha!! you three are some of the most gorgeous, beautiful souls I've had the pleasure of getting to know and I regard myself VERY VERY lucky that I have... [This message was edited Sun Jun 20 19:53:20 2004 by Natisse] | |
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