I've come to a point in my life whereby I know who I am and what I stand for and people will have to accept that. I know I'm 'a good man' and if women can't see that or have realised it too late than it's there loss.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Yeah. What is a 'good man' anyway? I do my best. I give everything in my relationship and my patience has had to increase ten-fold since living with a Thai woman. I think that makes me a good man.

BTW. Big ass.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

JD IS a good man!

Famboozled said:

I think I've got a new friend in you! What exactly is the stereotypical Thai woman then?!

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Shrill.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Seriously, although I don't like to stereotype as I'm above it intellectually, all Thai women are small, love jeans, green tea, Harry Potter, Michael Owen and/or David Beckham and can scream in a way so unbearable it brings to mind the aliens in War Of The Worlds.

Ooo-laa

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Er 2 of them mate

mdiver said:

No doubt.

Good women are hard to find too you know

CokeJohnson said:

I was just going to say that. lol

kiss85 said:

Sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend. I agree, good men ARE hard to find. Don't know why that is, but that seems to be the way of the world (sad to say).

Kind of reminds me of a track off the Sue Ann Carwell CD, called a "Good Man". The lyrics, in part, read: A good man is hard to come by girls...so if you find one...if you can...try to give him the world...cuz he's gonna treat you right.

In case ya'll are wondering who Sue Ann Carwell is, she is a singer who worked with Prince way back in the day. I think she also opened for The Time during one of their tours. I wonder whatever happened to her; she really had a great singing voice.

Natsume said:

It can be hard to find a good person to share your world with. And it would help a lot if we could avoid wearing the masks we use in some situations. There are a lot of fakers around, and if people could be straight up and honest with themselves before getting to know people then I think things would be simpler. We all feel the peer pressure the world generates for us, but all act on it at various levels. Some dont care what we think, and others try to fit too hard.
Things always go wrong from time to time, but if ya can find someone who wants to work with you, then perfection can be viewed as slightly overrated. Love is a bubble you shape and mould together, but is too big a task to do alone when in a relationship.
Fingers crossed for all of us orglings

AdamB said:

But then it can be frustrating when you're open and honest as can be and attracted to someone who consistently is attracted to jokers and fakers. Can anyone relate to that? I'm referring to both sexes.

CokeJohnson said:

Damn right.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

I can relate JD, but if ya stick to who you are, then least you can stay on the ground, filter what ya dont need, and hopefully have fun on the way to true love.....Ahhhhh

COME ON THE IRONS!!!

Byron said:

yup... very true

crazyhorse said:

Here I am

crazyhorse said:

They can be. I think there's that same trade-off a lot of women face: The kind of person who attracts you versus the kind of person who'll be good for you (and, conversely, for whom you'll be good).