Don't mind my sulkin, y'all. I'm just a lil' on the depressed side tonite. My so-called bf and I are kinda on the outs right now and I'm thinkin bout giving him up. Answer me this: why the hell are men so hard to find? And when ya have one, why does he either have to be cheap, unreliable or just a plain jackass? Once again, don't mind my whinin.

But seriously, why are the good ones so damn hard to find?

MEN = JACKASS.

A GOOD HEART - FEARGAL SHARKEY

I hear a lot of stories
I suppose they could be true
All about love
And what it can do to you

Highest risk of striking out
The risk of getting hurt
And still
I have so much to learn

I know, 'cause I think about it all the time
I know, that real love has quite a price

And a good heart, these days, is hard to find (a good heart)
True love, the lasting kind
A good heart, these days, is hard to find
So please be gentle with this heart of mine

My expectations may be high
I blame that on my youth
Soon enough, I'll learned
The painful truth

I'll face it like a fighter
Then boast of how I've grown
Anything is better
Than being alone

I know, 'cause I learn a little every day
I know, 'cause I listen when the experts say

That a good heart, these days, is hard to find (a good heart)
True love, the lasting kind
A good heart, these days, is hard to find
So please be gentle with this heart of mine

As I look back
On all my childhood dreams
My ideas of love
Weren't as foolish as they seemed

If I don't start looking now
I'll be left behind
And a good heart these days
It's hard to find

I know, it's a dream I'm willing to defend
I know, it will all be worth it in the end

And a good heart, these days, is hard to find (a good heart)
True love, the lasting kind
A good heart, these days, is hard to find
So please be gentle with this heart of mine

And a good heart, these days, is hard to find (a good heart)
True love, the lasting kind
A good heart, these days, is hard to find
So please be gentle with this, with this heart (with this heart) of mine

kiss85 said:

A good man is very, very hard to find.....You will never find a perfect man. Just take the one ya got and mold him into "an almost perfect" man (only if you feel that he is worth the time and effort). But if your not happy in your present relationship, kick his ass to the curb.

I am wondering the same damn thing... at this same exact moment... I think I will sleep on it kiss85

And... tomorrow...

Oh... and 's to you.

good men ARE out there, but they are indeed very hard to find...when you do HOLD ON coz they're like needles in a haystack

hope everything works out for you

I thought the whole plan was for you to get a man and then mold them into what you really want.

sinisterpentatonic said:

Wait... wait... a second... (before I go), I have been there and done that... oh... well...

sinisterpentatonic said:

I would prefer to be happy with the person just the way they are - I would never want to ask anyone to change just to suit me

Well one of them lives the other side of the Atlantic.

Freespirit said:

What happen? Did the clay harden in the middle of your sculpture?

I have been asking myself this same question. I wonder where they all b @?

Freespirit said:

Gonna sleep on this as well...

I know what I was gonna say... I just feel this is not the place.

kiss85 said:

maybe you should go after a completely different type of guy that you are maybe used to.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

exactly! You have to haul your ass to the UK to find one.

Natsume said:

mmmmm I'm gonna agree with that

Milty said:

Yeah, like Milty. He seems to be in need of affection.

CHEECHWIZARD said:

kiss85 said:

Because life's not fair...

I know how you feel. I've been there many times. Don't worry; the bad things can't last forever. Keep your chin up and things will get better.

Natsume said:

Funny, that's the same thing American men say about American women.

kiss85 said:

Please...we're extraordinarily easy to find.


































I mean, "they"...they are easy to find.

Byron said:

trust me Byron - no you/they aren't AT ALL easy to find

Natisse said:

Actually, my dear, a good man IS very easy to find..

Now, finding a good man who also clicks/connects with you in a spiritual, sexual, emotional and intellectual level is harder...but just finding a good man? Piece o' cake.

Byron said:

LOL I stand corrected

Natisse said:

Byron said:

Know it all...

Freespirit said:

No winky's allowed...

sinisterpentatonic said:

ROFLMAO! For serious! Well, certainly if one tries to mold one (especially one of the male persuasion) that is precisely what will happened.