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Printablenesseone said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time"  Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes.I SO agree thank you  | |
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CarrieMpls said: Ideally, both. But for me "looks" is subjective. I've never really been attracted to what people would stereotypically call a hottie. I'm more about personal style and how a person carries themselves. Of course, there's always the fact that the better the personality, the better a person comes to look in your eyes. And the uglier the personality, the uglier they look too.
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nesseone said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes.Very sweet of you to say all those things, but if you think about what you're saying you'd realize that you're actually putting down people who are tiny. Also, a size 3 does not necessarily mean the girl is flat and even so, that can be beautiful too. Me, I don't care. I've had a gf who was 110 lbs and one over 200 lbs at pretty much the same height. Both beautiful to me. Some look less attractive when they're too skinny, some look less attractive when they're big. | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: nesseone said: Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes.Very sweet of you to say all those things, but if you think about what you're saying you'd realize that you're actually putting down people who are tiny. Also, a size 3 does not necessarily mean the girl is flat and even so, that can be beautiful too. Me, I don't care. I've had a gf who was 110 lbs and one over 200 lbs at pretty much the same height. Both beautiful to me. Some look less attractive when they're too skinny, some look less attractive when they're big. I see what your saying, and these days when I see a size 3, its usually a teenager. But yes, there are a few women out there that are a size 0, or 3. They can be beautiful as well. But the majority of us women are between a size 6 and 16. Which is not big, but we have been told that if we are not a "small size" we are not attractive, which is just bull. And its sad because these comments usually come from other women. | |
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Looks and personality matter. The latter more than the former. And smell. A woman who smells good, in a unique, complementary scent ... exquisite. | |
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Sinister said: Natisse said: because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway... "Paint a perfect picture Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind The beautiful ones always smash the picture Always, every time" The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents) Bars and clubs? Not much of a chance to get to know people there where the music's too loud. People can really only choose by looks in these places 
My husband always takes a second look if a blonde with long legs walks past, but other times he will see a girl and say "she has got the most infectious smile" because an insight into this person's beautiful personality rather than their general looks is what he finds attractive. A cheeky face, sparkling eyes, dimples, fun clothes - all these things can show people something about you that will draw people to you, regardless of your looks. Even a funny laugh! It takes a guy with a strong sense of himself to see it this way, there are so many insecure ones out there that are trying desperately to get a good looking girl just to boost their egos. | |
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I have both...so I want both.  | |
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Byron said: I have both...so I want both.
MAN WHORE!!!!! Love it or shove it! | |
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MsSmartypants said: Byron said: I have both...so I want both.
MAN WHORE!!!!!  | |
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Byron said: I have both...so I want both.
and you deserve nothing less, my friend  | |
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Natisse said: Byron said: I have both...so I want both.
and you deserve nothing less, my friend And I shall have nothing less, my dear.. 
(and YOU...you deserve much more than even that.. ) | |
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Ya know- from personal experience----- the Hotter they are- the worse the personality!!!!
SERIOUS- If a girl is like SUPER FINE- tight body, curves in the right places, good skin, pretty teeth, cute feet, gorgeous hair, stylish.... ya know- whatever the elements are that make a woman "hot".... she in my experience- is either: A: Dumb as a rock. B: Bitchy as hell C: HIGH MAINTENENCE D: Stuck on herself- bow down everyone who she graces with her pressence- or E: An evil combo of all the above A Guy- who is physically tone and has a good body shape, sexy hair, strong jaw line, deep voice, the Trianlge (ladies you know what I am talking about), well manicaured hands, beautiful eyes, style..... ya know- those things that make girls heads turn---- The HOT guy will either be: A: Dumb as a log. B: Stuck on himself C: Higher maintenence than me (a girlie girl) D: A man whore E: BORING! or F: All the above as well as all the above for the girls- SO- From my dating diary and years of experience on 5 continents and 28 states- I look for someone with similair interests, who is physically stimulating to ME- which is usually not the "HOT" guy! I figure if we have stuff to talk about and there is atleast somewhat physical chemistry- we will be fine! My mom always says, "Looks go away, so if you don't have anything to talk about with the old wrinkley man- he isn't who you belong with." Love my momma! [This message was edited Sun Jun 20 21:37:51 2004 by MNlivingCA] "It's only been an hour since you left me, but it feels like a million days...... I'd crawl on my belly and beg you but you're so far away."  | |
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Looks are what attracts me to the girl at first....but if there is no conection with her personality or spirit, then it doesn't go any further. | |
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MNlivingCA said: SO- From my dating diary and years of experience on 5 continents and 28 states-
That's a helluva lot of dates... 
And your momma's right...  | |
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Byron said: MNlivingCA said: SO- From my dating diary and years of experience on 5 continents and 28 states-
That's a helluva lot of dates...
And your momma's right... My momma's the bomb!!!!! She tought me well! and yes- I have lived ALL over Byron- I probably left that out of my move to LA story I wrote to you! LOL! But Minneapolis is always my Home Base! back and forth- here and there- What would life be like if we didn't explore!!!!! Hey- email me your schedule- let's meet up and do coffee sometime this week, ok sugar???? "It's only been an hour since you left me, but it feels like a million days...... I'd crawl on my belly and beg you but you're so far away." | |
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MNlivingCA said: Ya know- from personal experience----- the Hotter they are- the worse the personality!!!!
SERIOUS- If a girl is like SUPER FINE- tight body, curves in the right places, good skin, pretty teeth, cute feet, gorgeous hair, stylish.... ya know- whatever the elements are that make a woman "hot".... she in my experience- is either: A: Dumb as a rock. B: Bitchy as hell C: HIGH MAINTENENCE D: Stuck on herself- bow down everyone who she graces with her pressence- or E: An evil combo of all the above A Guy- who is physically tone and has a good body shape, sexy hair, strong jaw line, deep voice, the Trianlge (ladies you know what I am talking about), well manicaured hands, beautiful eyes, style..... ya know- those things that make girls heads turn---- The HOT guy will either be: A: Dumb as a log. B: Stuck on himself C: Higher maintenence than me (a girlie girl) D: A man whore E: BORING! or F: All the above as well as all the above for the girls- SO- From my dating diary and years of experience on 5 continents and 28 states- I look for someone with similair interests, who is physically stimulating to ME- which is usually not the "HOT" guy! I figure if we have stuff to talk about and there is atleast somewhat physical chemistry- we will be fine! My mom always says, "Looks go away, so if you don't have anything to talk about with the old wrinkley man- he isn't who you belong with." Love my momma! [This message was edited Sun Jun 20 21:37:51 2004 by MNlivingCA] Man Im glad I got the all the looks and personality and ability to hold a conversation.....and Im so humble too....(kidding...)
P.S I make great Peanut butter and Jelly Sandwiches.....  | |
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Sinister said: Man Im glad I got the all the looks and personality and ability to hold a conversation.....and Im so humble too....(kidding...)
P.S I make great Peanut butter and Jelly Sandwiches..... Oh BABY- you had me at PB&J---- Praise God! Everything I was ever wanting---- someone who can slap some peanut butter on a slice of bread and glide some jelly on another and put them together!!!! WWOOOOO-HOOOOO! "It's only been an hour since you left me, but it feels like a million days...... I'd crawl on my belly and beg you but you're so far away." | |
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I just like girls who put out. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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MNlivingCA said: Byron said: That's a helluva lot of dates...
And your momma's right... My momma's the bomb!!!!! She tought me well! and yes- I have lived ALL over Byron- I probably left that out of my move to LA story I wrote to you! LOL! But Minneapolis is always my Home Base! back and forth- here and there- What would life be like if we didn't explore!!!!! Hey- email me your schedule- let's meet up and do coffee sometime this week, ok sugar???? You gonna make me some $$$??.. I told my brother about what you said...he thinks I should go for it. | |
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MNlivingCA said: Sinister said: Man Im glad I got the all the looks and personality and ability to hold a conversation.....and Im so humble too....(kidding...)
P.S I make great Peanut butter and Jelly Sandwiches..... Oh BABY- you had me at PB&J---- Praise God! Everything I was ever wanting---- someone who can slap some peanut butter on a slice of bread and glide some jelly on another and put them together!!!! WWOOOOO-HOOOOO! What can I say its a gift.... | |
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Sinister said: MNlivingCA said: Oh BABY- you had me at PB&J---- Praise God! Everything I was ever wanting---- someone who can slap some peanut butter on a slice of bread and glide some jelly on another and put them together!!!! WWOOOOO-HOOOOO! What can I say its a gift....  | |
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Sinister said: MNlivingCA said: Oh BABY- you had me at PB&J---- Praise God! Everything I was ever wanting---- someone who can slap some peanut butter on a slice of bread and glide some jelly on another and put them together!!!! WWOOOOO-HOOOOO! What can I say its a gift.... Will you make me a sandwich???? Please Honey!!!! | |
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Sinister said: MNlivingCA said: Ya know- from personal experience----- the Hotter they are- the worse the personality!!!!
SERIOUS- If a girl is like SUPER FINE- tight body, curves in the right places, good skin, pretty teeth, cute feet, gorgeous hair, stylish.... ya know- whatever the elements are that make a woman "hot".... she in my experience- is either: A: Dumb as a rock. B: Bitchy as hell C: HIGH MAINTENENCE D: Stuck on herself- bow down everyone who she graces with her pressence- or E: An evil combo of all the above A Guy- who is physically tone and has a good body shape, sexy hair, strong jaw line, deep voice, the Trianlge (ladies you know what I am talking about), well manicaured hands, beautiful eyes, style..... ya know- those things that make girls heads turn---- The HOT guy will either be: A: Dumb as a log. B: Stuck on himself C: Higher maintenence than me (a girlie girl) D: A man whore E: BORING! or F: All the above as well as all the above for the girls- SO- From my dating diary and years of experience on 5 continents and 28 states- I look for someone with similair interests, who is physically stimulating to ME- which is usually not the "HOT" guy! I figure if we have stuff to talk about and there is atleast somewhat physical chemistry- we will be fine! My mom always says, "Looks go away, so if you don't have anything to talk about with the old wrinkley man- he isn't who you belong with." Love my momma! [This message was edited Sun Jun 20 21:37:51 2004 by MNlivingCA] Man Im glad I got the all the looks and personality and ability to hold a conversation.....and Im so humble too....(kidding...)
P.S I make great Peanut butter and Jelly Sandwiches..... u mean i got cheated out a pb & j sammich grrrrr | |
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anastesiatalk2me said: Sinister said: What can I say its a gift.... Will you make me a sandwich???? Please Honey!!!! Hey Anastesiatalk-dirty2me--- *giggle* *wink* We could make a sinister sandwich---- whatcha think???? *giggle* *blush* "It's only been an hour since you left me, but it feels like a million days...... I'd crawl on my belly and beg you but you're so far away." | |
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anastesiatalk2me said: Sinister said: What can I say its a gift.... Will you make me a sandwich???? Please Honey!!!! I will slap that peanut butter on that bread real nice for ya..... You bring the Jelly...  | |
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ladies, please!!!!! don't ya'll know sinisters sammich is all mine?  | |
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MNlivingCA said: anastesiatalk2me said: Will you make me a sandwich???? Please Honey!!!! Hey Anastesiatalk-dirty2me--- *giggle* *wink* We could make a sinister sandwich---- whatcha think???? *giggle* *blush* I would like that sandwich!!!  Got Milk? | |
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Sinister said: MNlivingCA said: Hey Anastesiatalk-dirty2me--- *giggle* *wink* We could make a sinister sandwich---- whatcha think???? *giggle* *blush* I would like that sandwich!!! Got Milk?got that and then some | |
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Sinister said: anastesiatalk2me said: Will you make me a sandwich???? Please Honey!!!! I will slap that peanut butter on that bread real nice for ya..... You bring the Jelly... Ill be there in 15 minutes | |
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