both

nesseone said:

OK I'm gonna play devils advocate here what do you REALISTICALLY look for in a partner - looks, personality or both - and why?
[This message was edited Sun Jun 20 18:27:32 2004 by Natisse]

I look for both. Personality is more important but looks dont hurt. Sometimes really nice looking guys approach me but I dont like their personalities. So its not always about looks

A Heartbeat.

Chico1 said:

Liar!

oh yeah. And a BIG BANK ACCOUNT!!

Chico1 said:

Which makes you a rent boy.

NakedPreacherLady said:

uh...NO! Makes me comfortable!


Rom-ANCE without Fin-ANCE is a Nu-SANCE!

You both smell like pee.

INSATIABLE said:

Eat shit!

BeautifulOneJem said:

because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway...

"Paint a perfect picture
Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind
The beautiful ones always smash the picture
Always, every time"

BeautifulOneJem said:

because I have a little weight on and I'm not exactly model material it's very, very rare I've ever been approached and alcohol's been involved on thier part anyway so in my experience people will usually go for looks more - for something real, anyway...

"Paint a perfect picture
Bring 2 life a vision in one's mind
The beautiful ones always smash the picture
Always, every time"

Natisse said:

Baby, weight is the least of your worries. Who wants to be a size 3 and a stick figure? I dont. I have a little weight on me as well. Curves are better!!! Curves are sexier. You have a great personality. When the "right" person comes along, he will love you for whats inside, not whats on the outside. A persons outside changes all the time. But a persons morals, character, love, etc... never changes.

Natisse said:

The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents)

nesseone said:

Absolutely.....

Natisse said:

The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents)

Natisse said:

The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents)

Sinister said:

I agree completely Sinister.
Nat you are indeed beautiful both inside and out

The thing is and I know this is Cliché but if someone approaches you because of your looks yes that is because they like what they see....But that does not mean unless you look like a supermodel you will not be approached. I have seen pictures of you Natisse and I think you are very pretty and that is before I got to know you and now I think even more highly of you. It really depends on where you go....If you go to clubs or bars yes the prettier/Handsome people are held in higher regard but that's how those places are....and you must remember a lot of men/women in clubs and bars are dogs (not all but some).....A lot of them look like shit themselves and expect the woman they get to look like models and thats B.S..... Looks are important but if they are the most important for somebody then they just haven't progressed enough mentally and emotionally, and you don't want to deal with someone like that anyway.....(again my opinion/2 cents)

Ocean said: