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Reply #30 posted 06/15/04 1:37pm

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Natsume said:

ew Sweeney I'm going through an eerily similar experience. After coming back to California, I logged onto AIM for the first time in nine months. I was immediately bombarded with IMs, two of which were my ex boyfriends. One was my first serious boyfriend throughout high school (who told me I 'really needed to get over him' and I STILL can't tell if he was kidding or not) and the other was one that I had something for for years and years and years but our relationship was always ultimately a physical one. The latter keeps coming onto me and saying suggestive things - I'm just having fun yanking his chain. He doesn't know I have a boyfriend and am not interested in the slightest.

in any case, these two are keeping me entertained when the org is slow...

very entertaining.... hug

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Reply #31 posted 06/15/04 1:38pm

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TheFrog said:

uhm, i don't talk to any of them bar one, who's still a good friend of mine. acrimony rules, people. neutral

Ah ok good...

still have one as a friend smile

, what allowed you to remain friends? How did you do it?

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Reply #32 posted 06/15/04 1:39pm

doctormcmeekle	Whenever I see one of my ex's, I throw eggs at them.
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Reply #33 posted 06/15/04 1:43pm

Nocturnal	doctormcmeekle said: Whenever I see one of my ex's, I throw eggs at them. still got a full box of eggs, huh Doctor.
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Reply #34 posted 06/15/04 1:44pm

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doctormcmeekle said:

Whenever I see one of my ex's, I throw eggs at them.

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Why not throw bricks?

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Reply #35 posted 06/15/04 1:44pm

doctormcmeekle	Nocturnal said: doctormcmeekle said: Whenever I see one of my ex's, I throw eggs at them. still got a full box of eggs, huh Doctor.
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Reply #36 posted 06/15/04 1:46pm

doctormcmeekle	Sweeny79 said: doctormcmeekle said: Whenever I see one of my ex's, I throw eggs at them. Why not throw bricks? I do at those I split up with on bad terms.
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Reply #37 posted 06/15/04 1:47pm

Nocturnal	doctormcmeekle said: Sweeny79 said: Why not throw bricks? I do at those I split up with on bad terms. poor doctor's never touched a brick in his life.
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Reply #38 posted 06/15/04 2:03pm

2the9s	Sweeny79 said: I'm DEFINITELY getting the vibe from him that he wants to rekindle something between us... I have NO interest in doing so, but again I don't want to hurt his feeling either. Sweeny, baby! Don't do it for that reason!
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Reply #39 posted 06/15/04 4:07pm

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2the9s said:

Sweeny79 said:

I'm DEFINITELY getting the vibe from him that he wants to rekindle something between us... I have NO interest in doing so, but again I don't want to hurt his feeling either.

Sweeny, baby! Don't do it for that reason!

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I have NO intentions of doing so smile

I just don't want to hurt his feelings...

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Reply #40 posted 06/15/04 9:53pm

Case

I'm great friends with one ex lover, but I've learned from experience that in most cases, being "friends" with an ex is a temporary arrangement. Going from romance to platonia is NOT an easy adjustment and frankly, any time there's a breakup, there's going to be feelings hurt. Even the most amicable breakup will have crushed egos and hurt feelings. These feelings will spill over into the new "friendship" and almost ALWAYS will end up spoiling it. I have an old lover who lives in Washington who calls me on occasion and while I don't MIND talking to her, I DO squirm when I realize that she still loves me and is only calling me cuz she's unhappy in her life and wants me to...Im laughing now...come and rescue her!!

Having said that, you CAN be friends with an ex...but be prepared for a rocky road at first.

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Reply #41 posted 06/15/04 9:59pm

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Case said:

no it's never easy... but some time has passed and we both seem to have moved forward in our lives, and we both still respect the bond we share.

Thank you for sharing your story smile

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Reply #42 posted 06/16/04 4:38am

Lleena	I wouldn't do it..pity is no basis for a relationship. Send him on his merry way, it'll be better for you (and him) in the long run.
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Reply #43 posted 06/16/04 5:01am

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Lleena said:

I wouldn't do it..pity is no basis for a relationship. Send him on his merry way, it'll be better for you (and him) in the long run.