I was having a conversation with some co-workers.

One guy who is a really good friend of mine says women should wait 4 to 5 months before giving it up to a new man. I've heard 3 months, and six months from a relationship "expert" book.

Anyway, we got into a bit of a debate....but I think I'd believe my guy friend. Just because he's a guy. What do you think? When is it appropriate to start giving up them panties?

4 to 5 months..??? The humanity!!

I am so glad I am a slut and brought it down to five bleeding minutes.

MartyMcFly said:

Somehow I think you would LIKE being gay.
Really.

gooeythehamster said:

5 BLEEDING minutes... you mean AFTER you've had your anal pounding?

MartyMcFly said:

LoL
How rude!

You are obviously a penetration man.
That indeed would not make the DEED longer than five minutes, as you fessed up in another thread.

I meant five minutes before you give up the drawers. What then starts lasts waaay longer than five minutes in my case.

gooeythehamster said:

But how many days before you can sit down properly??

MartyMcFly said:

On what?




Was nice playing with yer prejudice, mate. Gotta go.

Why wait?

J0eyC0c0 said:

i would expect that from you

so you are supposed to wait 4 to 5 months? sorry no way.

Gawd no! I figure if there's an animalistic attraction, let him dip in your peanut butter as soon as possible! Just make sure he doesn't get any bread crumbs in your jar.

I don't think you should wait a particular amount of time. You should do it when you feel that it's right. Your heart will know.

I thought this was a thread about when to throw away old underwear.

Anyway... 3-6 months!!!!!?????!!!!! Good luck with that. I'd say anywhere from the first night to the first month. Depends.

nakedpianoplayer said:

I think people are taking this the wrong way. All I meant to say is why use some kind of idiotic protocol in the first place? If it feels right, just do it. Don't be counting days for no reason. lol

It should be determined by how wet he makes you and how fast. He you take one look at him and start to drip, better give it up!













[This message was edited Tue Jun 8 11:06:21 2004 by LittlePill]

LittlePill said:

I agree

J0eyC0c0 said:

you know im just messing with ya

As soon as I get to do "this" to him.....The drawers come off and its time to play!!!
[This message was edited Wed Jun 9 19:08:51 2004 by nesseone]

J0eyC0c0 said:

Boy do I agree with that - sometimes waiting is okay - but sometimes ya just need to er as well, you know you need it.

You should Really Want to be With that Person. If ya have like SEVERE LUST well why ya gotta wait 4 or 5 months? I Think sometimes when ya wait too long it's Not good. Usually, I play with how I feel about the person. I don't even BOTHER with SOMEONE I'm Not ATTRACTED to. Sometimes ANIMAL LUST well Ya Just Can't Wait. Ya Want That PERSON So MUCH...

totally depends on how much time you spend w/ the person & how comfortable you feel w/ them, there's really no marker one should go by IMO...

CalhounSq said:

EXACTLY. For those people who care, they are waiting to have built a pretty good foundation in their relationship before they "rock the boat" so to speak.

So basically if u are x number of months (weeks?) into the relationship you can either give up the draws, or you can fucking break up and see other people.

That's just my , doe.

CinisterCee said:

Yea, you can "date" someone for 2 months yet only see them once a week or so...

...or "date" someone for only a few weeks & see them damn near every day. The comfort level is gonna be better w/ the latter - shorter time frame but you might feel you know them better b/c of the frequency & obvious chemistry. It's a coin toss...

CalhounSq said:

sex is soo much better when you are comfortable with each other

Sweeny79 said:

Co-sign on that one