...what precautions do you take 2 make sure they never find out about each other?

ArdeoTheMerciless said:

erm..have 2 phones.
2 different cities.

girls know about this kind of thing..so watch yo back.
or at least try and convince her you got a twin.

ArdeoTheMerciless said:

don't get their names mixed up when u talk to them and keep a calendar so u don't double book.

actually.
the advise is don't.
unles they know that you are not in an excluvie relationship with them.

When one of them says "Hey sweetie, guess what, I got us tickets to Jerry Springer!", DON'T GO. IT'S A TRAP.

Been there done that( with 2 men of course)...it's a slippery slope my friend.

Why don't ya just date me instead handsome?

Get their Views on Menage A Trois and if They Dig the Thought well Introduce them and have a fun time in some Bubbly Hot Tub drinking Champagne. LOl Just like a PLAYBOY
[This message was edited Sat Jun 5 23:33:08 2004 by Zelaira]

It's next to impossible to get away with unless one of them is in the know. How do you explain to one of them why you don't answer your phone after 8pm every night or at all on weekends? You can't. All you can do is lie your arse off till the lies don't add up (give it two weeks), and you're stuffed.

Ive dated more than 1 person at a time and I dont see anything wrong with that. I wasnt committed to them so what difference does it make. Im young, I wanna have fun!

Hi nesseone!

dreamfactory313 said:

Hi Honey !!!

Anxiety said:

LMAO!

Don't ever buy them the same gift!!! Even if it's 2 for the price of one!

2the9s said:

This advice goes double if your girlfriend is a transsexual dwarf who's in the KKK. DON'T DO IT!!!

sabaisabai said:

soooo right!!! why R u seeing 2 women NEway? U want ur cake and eat it to. I guess I will never understand. I found out that the guy I was seeing was doing the same thing. I didn't even give him an option, if you think you can play me, ur wrong. Good luck to the other girl....

preciosa863 said:

well guys do that if you're not attractive enough

sabaisabai said:

I agree. One of them should know. Be extremely honest with one of them and then be slightly less honest with the other. Lol.
~*~Bunny~*~

CottonTail said:

Besides, you'll want to be able to talk to someone about everything. If you're with two chicks, you should be close to both of them but be much closer to one of them so you can talk about problems that you're having with Girl A (we'll call her Girl A, the girl who doesn't know) to Girl B (the girl you're closer to, the one who knows everything). That way you can talk to Girl B instead of going to one of your other friends who might just go back and tell Girl A.
Yeah, that was confusing. But I'm in a situation where I'm Girl B and it works fine as long as he's totally honest with me about everything.
Hope it works out for you.
~*~Bunny~*~

Tsk. I've done the multiple dating partners thing before, and the thing is, I was UPFRONT about wanting to date with no commitment or "going out" status. If you are "going out" with two women at the same time, no only are you a schmuck but you're stupid too. You're only going to end up hurting someone. There's nothing wrong with being a playboy...but don't break hearts.

Women just "know" when their man is fooling around. Been there..... I am a one man woman....

ArdeoTheMerciless said:

I'm a one woman kinda guy myself.I've dated many women at the same time but they always knew.After a brief period I'd always choose one that I thought would be good for a relationship with.If there just in it for the sport of it then its cool.But if there looking for something more and your playin the game then its really a fucked up thing to do...

But since your ardeo and boss of our "no affiliation to a org. mafia mafia" I'll give you these tips.One of them has to be your primary and the other is on stand-by status.Reason being,your not going to be able to fool either of them for very long if you try to divide your time between them.Tell the one you dig the most something that will give you a solid foundation for getting outta the house two nights a week.If you have a cell phone tell her its a second job and the boss will bust your ass for receiving private calls.She can call your cell though when needed.Thats the easy lie.Now the second girl is a bit tricky.First she has to not be looking for something serious or just taking her time.Having a job that keeps you busy most of the time and also requires you to be on call.With that type of an excuse you can recieve calls from the primary girl when with the other without rasing suspision about why dont you answer or call right back.It also gives you an out if you have to jet to see either of them.

Good luck lol,and remember.The mark of a great lover isnt how many women you've had in your life.Its showing one woman great love all your life.

crazyhorse said:

Sweeny79 said:

if only i lived in New Jers, sweeny, if only i lived in NJ

crazyhorse said:

your avatar belies the clarity of your wisdom CrazyHorse...i shall consider what u have said

ArdeoTheMerciless said:

either that or some sort of Star Gate contraption....damn, why u gotta live so far away

CokeJohnson said:

fortunately in my situation, that's NOT the case. And why would you make an assumption that I am not attractive enough, when in fact you have never seen me. And for the record, there are many beautiful women who have been two timed by men.....HALLE BERRY