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anyone else have issues with their family?? I love them but I hate them! I have 3 siblings, and getting older I've just learned to not like them even more.... I'm tired of my manipulative sister that has my parents and other people fooled as to how selfish and sneaky she is, and her son that is a heathon (sp?). My brother makes asian jokes to his wife (who is japanese) and an occasional black joke -- now don't get me wrong, I have humor, but these are not appropriate when my 8 yr old daughter is around... especially since her dad is half black. And my youngest sister, and her GHETTO ASS, her and her husband are such losers... and the only time she comes over is every saturday to do free laundry.
there is SO much more to all of it.... loads of drama, but I'll save it..... I want to say something so bad, but it will turn into a family fight, and I live with my parents so I can go back to school..... so I don't want to rock the boat. If I didn't live here, OMG I would be going off in a heartbeat! I'm really tired of seeing my parents not be appretiated like they should be... but at the same time, my parents are enablers and basically ask for crappy treatment!!! Please say there's someone else with these problems..... I am so close to just grabbing my daughter, and our things, and moving far far away to avoid the stress and worry. | |
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If it's any comfort - which Im sure it's not - I got nothing but issues with my, so-called family.
Sorry to hear about your present suffering though and there it is | |
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just about everyone has issues with their family, i think. if my mother wasn't making me crazy on a regular basis, i'd wonder if she'd been kidnapped and replaced with a robot clone. but, as cliche as it sounds, they're the only family you have, so ya gotta make the best of it to some extent. sometimes it's really hard. sometimes it's just annoying. sometimes it's cool. | |
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IADOREHIM said: I love them but I hate them! I have 3 siblings, and getting older I've just learned to not like them even more.... I'm tired of my manipulative sister that has my parents and other people fooled as to how selfish and sneaky she is, and her son that is a heathon (sp?). My brother makes asian jokes to his wife (who is japanese) and an occasional black joke -- now don't get me wrong, I have humor, but these are not appropriate when my 8 yr old daughter is around... especially since her dad is half black. And my youngest sister, and her GHETTO ASS, her and her husband are such losers... and the only time she comes over is every saturday to do free laundry.
there is SO much more to all of it.... loads of drama, but I'll save it..... I want to say something so bad, but it will turn into a family fight, and I live with my parents so I can go back to school..... so I don't want to rock the boat. If I didn't live here, OMG I would be going off in a heartbeat! I'm really tired of seeing my parents not be appretiated like they should be... but at the same time, my parents are enablers and basically ask for crappy treatment!!! Please say there's someone else with these problems..... I am so close to just grabbing my daughter, and our things, and moving far far away to avoid the stress and worry. See you say you are against racist jokes, but I think calling someone a ghetto ass has racist connotations. | |
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i'm so glad i'm an only child. i don't have to deal with crazy siblings and parents who play favorites. although sometimes my parents act like kids and that can be damn annoying. | |
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I do, but I don't think that's any of y'all's business. NEW WAVE FOREVER: SLAVE TO THE WAVE FROM THE CRADLE TO THE GRAVE. | |
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My family is cool. I knock around with my brother all the time. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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Ugh I can't stand my family. They get so upset over little things...like when I want to borrow money to build a cool soapbox racer. Or they get pissy when I ask them to run in and get me cigarettes and then I drive away. Or they criticize my clothing: like when I wore my aluminum suit to by nephew's christening. And Jeez, my sister threw a fit just because I parked my Dodge Dart on her front lawn for a couple of months!
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2the9s said: Ugh I can't stand my family. They get so upset over little things...like when I want to borrow money to build a cool soapbox racer. Or they get pissy when I ask them to run in and get me cigarettes and then I drive away. Or they criticize my clothing: like when I wore my aluminum suit to by nephew's christening. And Jeez, my sister threw a fit just because I parked my Dodge Dart on her front lawn for a couple of months!
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To me your situation sounds more common than you might think. There's a lot of drama and dysfunction going on in many families. This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes. | |
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Issues with my family??? Darlin', I have more issues than Time magazine... | |
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I love them all dearly...they are annoying...they are and I avoid them at all costs when I can | |
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Yes. I get along heaps better with my in-laws, and that's probably because they don't speak English very well
My family can spend about half a day together before someone blows up. So we just don't. It makes me sad since I have kids of my own and they don't see much of them, but at least my husband's family is always there for us. | |
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2the9s said: And Jeez, my sister threw a fit just because I parked my Dodge Dart on her front lawn for a couple of months!
Families! damn, my high school girlfriend owned a dodge dart. we thought it was The Shit. | |
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lovemachine said: See you say you are against racist jokes, but I think calling someone a ghetto ass has racist connotations. #1- ghetto isn't racist because it's a way you choose to be, not a way you HAVE to be.... it's not a RACE. If you were going to correct me maybe you should choose the correct word... maybe prejudice? #2- i said i didn't appretiate the jokes around an 8 year old impressionable girl, if he wanted to say it on a message board on the internet, away from my ears, power to him. BUT THANKS ANYWAY | |
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Thanks everyone with serious input.... it's much appretiated. Some days I just feel like I'm going to blow..... it helps to know i'm not the only one with these problems!! Bad day I guess..... THANKS AGAIN | |
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2the9s said: Ugh I can't stand my family. They get so upset over little things...like when I want to borrow money to build a cool soapbox racer. Or they get pissy when I ask them to run in and get me cigarettes and then I drive away. Or they criticize my clothing: like when I wore my aluminum suit to by nephew's christening. And Jeez, my sister threw a fit just because I parked my Dodge Dart on her front lawn for a couple of months!
Families! That poor family! | |
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IADOREHIM said: lovemachine said: See you say you are against racist jokes, but I think calling someone a ghetto ass has racist connotations. #1- ghetto isn't racist because it's a way you choose to be, not a way you HAVE to be.... it's not a RACE. If you were going to correct me maybe you should choose the correct word... maybe prejudice? #2- i said i didn't appretiate the jokes around an 8 year old impressionable girl, if he wanted to say it on a message board on the internet, away from my ears, power to him. BUT THANKS ANYWAY Ghetto aint always bad either shorty...and some people are forced to live in the ghetto's, cause that is all they got for one reason or another. Yes they could probably work their way out but it is harder then you think. | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: IADOREHIM said: #1- ghetto isn't racist because it's a way you choose to be, not a way you HAVE to be.... it's not a RACE. If you were going to correct me maybe you should choose the correct word... maybe prejudice? #2- i said i didn't appretiate the jokes around an 8 year old impressionable girl, if he wanted to say it on a message board on the internet, away from my ears, power to him. BUT THANKS ANYWAY Ghetto aint always bad either shorty...and some people are forced to live in the ghetto's, cause that is all they got for one reason or another. Yes they could probably work their way out but it is harder then you think. omg yall are trippin.....NOBODY said it wasn't hard being in the ghetto. My sister, however, isn't in the freakin ghetto so CHOOSES to act that way. And I KNOW FIRST HAND ABOUT THE FREAKIN POOR SIDE OF TOWN so chill. shit [This message was edited Mon May 31 20:39:25 2004 by IADOREHIM] | |
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IADOREHIM said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Ghetto aint always bad either shorty...and some people are forced to live in the ghetto's, cause that is all they got for one reason or another. Yes they could probably work their way out but it is harder then you think. omg yall are trippin.....NOBODY said it wasn't hard being in the ghetto. My sister, however, isn't in the freakin ghetto so CHOOSES to act that way. And I KNOW FIRST HAND ABOUT THE FREAKIN POOR SIDE OF TOWN so chill. shit [This message was edited Mon May 31 20:39:25 2004 by IADOREHIM] girl relax I am not trippin I am just sayin....that is all | |
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And on that cold Chicago night a little baby was born that night....
in the ghetto. and his momma cried. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: And on that cold Chicago night a little baby was born that night....
in the ghetto. and his momma cried. are you drunk again?? | |
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bkw said: And on that cold Chicago night a little baby was born that night....
in the ghetto. and his momma cried. Sing it Elvis!!!!! | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: bkw said: And on that cold Chicago night a little baby was born that night....
in the ghetto. and his momma cried. are you drunk again?? I so wish I was! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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althom said: bkw said: And on that cold Chicago night a little baby was born that night....
in the ghetto. and his momma cried. Sing it Elvis!!!!! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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I hear what your saying.I find myself bitting my tongue all the time to avoid a huge blow out.Sure the hell isn't like the brady bunch.Damn,would that be worse? | |
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crazyhorse said: I hear what your saying.I find myself bitting my tongue all the time to avoid a huge blow out.Sure the hell isn't like the brady bunch.Damn,would that be worse?
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littlebabyseal said: crazyhorse said: I hear what your saying.I find myself bitting my tongue all the time to avoid a huge blow out.Sure the hell isn't like the brady bunch.Damn,would that be worse?
Blah blah blah blah LMAO... | |
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crazyhorse said: littlebabyseal said: Blah blah blah blah LMAO... Fo sho G | |
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