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Mizzunderstood

i'm going 2 have a affair

with somebody's boyfriend or husband, cuz 4 some reason i'm always always attracting somebody elses man. fuck doing the right thing u know, i'm just gonna be like everybody else and get my freak on.

lol
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Reply #1 posted 05/17/04 1:14pm

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What for? You will pay later.
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Reply #2 posted 05/17/04 1:16pm

AzureStarr

Are you serious, DL?
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Reply #3 posted 05/17/04 1:26pm

Mizzunderstood

this is what my book is going to be about. smile
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Reply #4 posted 05/17/04 1:32pm

AzureStarr

Mizzunderstood said:

this is what my book is going to be about. smile


You worry me sometimes, you know that?

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Reply #5 posted 05/17/04 1:36pm

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One thing about "cheating" is that sometimes there is justification for straying from one's married partner.

IMO, if a couple have sex on a regular basis before they get married and then after they get married the woman holds out and only gives sex once a month or worse, once every few months then you can't realistically expect the man to be faithful. I'm not saying that women should be bound to their male partners every sexual whim without consideration for their female partner but if women continually deny men a healthy sex life, they only have themselves to blame if their man strays.

Likewise, if a woman is being abused by her husband I don't think it's unethical to find comfort and solace with another man. It's obvious the husband doesn't respect his wife if he's abusing her so where there is no respect given, none should be expected in return.
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Reply #6 posted 05/17/04 1:38pm

AzureStarr

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

One thing about "cheating" is that sometimes there is justification for straying from one's married partner.

IMO, if a couple have sex on a regular basis before they get married and then after they get married the woman holds out and only gives sex once a month or worse, once every few months then you can't realistically expect the man to be faithful. I'm not saying that women should be bound to their male partners every sexual whim without consideration for their female partner but if women continually deny men a healthy sex life, they only have themselves to blame if their man strays.

Likewise, if a woman is being abused by her husband I don't think it's unethical to find comfort and solace with another man. It's obvious the husband doesn't respect his wife if he's abusing her so where there is no respect given, none should be expected in return.


What!?
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Reply #7 posted 05/17/04 1:41pm

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AzureStarr said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

One thing about "cheating" is that sometimes there is justification for straying from one's married partner.

IMO, if a couple have sex on a regular basis before they get married and then after they get married the woman holds out and only gives sex once a month or worse, once every few months then you can't realistically expect the man to be faithful. I'm not saying that women should be bound to their male partners every sexual whim without consideration for their female partner but if women continually deny men a healthy sex life, they only have themselves to blame if their man strays.

Likewise, if a woman is being abused by her husband I don't think it's unethical to find comfort and solace with another man. It's obvious the husband doesn't respect his wife if he's abusing her so where there is no respect given, none should be expected in return.


What!?


Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?
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Reply #8 posted 05/17/04 1:43pm

AzureStarr

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

AzureStarr said:



What!?


Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?


Of course. That's what his hand is for, silly.

And... if they're only having sex four times a year, their realtionship isn't healthy in the first place and they probably shouldn't be together. But... he shouldn't cheat. That is a "no-no".
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Reply #9 posted 05/17/04 1:44pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

AzureStarr said:



What!?


Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?


But see, it's only cheating if it's behind someone's back. In that type of situation, it would behoove the man to TELL his wife that he wasn't satisfied and what he would be doing if she wasn't gonna give it up. She could then decide if that was something she could live with or if meant time to separate. I can't abide cheating. But I can understand people who have an open relationship.
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Reply #10 posted 05/17/04 1:46pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?

Hell no. 1 month is the most amount of time a couple should go without sex, imo. There are many reasons why sex can be skipped for a week or two... emotional issues, trouble at work, etc... Although making love can be a good stress-reducer, it's sometimes hard to get fully in the mood if you got a lot on your mind. The important thing is to talk about things and understand each other.
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Reply #11 posted 05/17/04 1:48pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

AzureStarr said:



What!?


Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?

omfg Four times a year!?!

Lucky bastard! mad
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Reply #12 posted 05/17/04 1:49pm

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AzureStarr said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:



Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?


Of course. That's what his hand is for, silly.

And... if they're only having sex four times a year, their realtionship isn't healthy in the first place and they probably shouldn't be together. But... he shouldn't cheat. That is a "no-no".


True. I wouldn't recommend "cheating" in any form for a long period of time. At that point, you know it's time to move on. A one-time "mistake" under certain circumstances is sometimes understandable.
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Reply #13 posted 05/17/04 1:52pm

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CarrieMpls said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:



Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?


But see, it's only cheating if it's behind someone's back. In that type of situation, it would behoove the man to TELL his wife that he wasn't satisfied and what he would be doing if she wasn't gonna give it up. She could then decide if that was something she could live with or if meant time to separate. I can't abide cheating. But I can understand people who have an open relationship.


OK, yes I agree the man should leave before cheating. So let me amend that, I don't think it's "justified" but I understand it and don't feel so bad for the woman in that case.

And I do think that all steps should be taken, i.e. counceling, communication etc..., before cheating.
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Reply #14 posted 05/17/04 1:57pm

AzureStarr

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

CarrieMpls said:



But see, it's only cheating if it's behind someone's back. In that type of situation, it would behoove the man to TELL his wife that he wasn't satisfied and what he would be doing if she wasn't gonna give it up. She could then decide if that was something she could live with or if meant time to separate. I can't abide cheating. But I can understand people who have an open relationship.


OK, yes I agree the man should leave before cheating. So let me amend that, I don't think it's "justified" but I understand it and don't feel so bad for the woman in that case.

And I do think that all steps should be taken, i.e. counceling, communication etc..., before cheating.


Okay... I probably wouldn't feel so bad for her either if she was only giving it up four times a year.

I know a woman who is in her late 40's and she is seeing two men right now. Both men are married and she is fully aware of it. Neither man is willing to leave their wife and she is completely happy about that.

I don't understand why the men would cheat on their wife if they are not wanting to leave her... clearly, something is lacking in the relationship if the man (men in this case) are willing to be with another. And... I don't agree with this woman being with these men, being fully aware that they are married. She's married herself... sort of going through a separation... she prefers the men to be married. That way she gets all of the trips and gifts and fun without the hassle of being attached to them. It makes no sense to me what-so-ever.

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Reply #15 posted 05/17/04 2:00pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:[quote]

AzureStarr said:



Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?


omfg I could never be a 4 times a year person....

I am to spoiled now... purrrrr!
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Reply #16 posted 05/17/04 2:01pm

AzureStarr

sag10 said:[quote]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

AzureStarr said:



Does it sound realistic to expect a man to be faithful if he's only having sex with his wife 4 times a year?


omfg I could never be a 4 times a year person....

I am to spoiled now... purrrrr!


I wanna be like you when I grow up!

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Reply #17 posted 05/17/04 2:04pm

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AzureStarr said:

sag10 said:



omfg I could never be a 4 times a year person....

I am to spoiled now... purrrrr!


I wanna be like you when I grow up!

biggrin


I must give alot of credit to Jess... He is so passionate, verile...
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Reply #18 posted 05/17/04 2:06pm

Mizzunderstood

u guys i would never do a thing like that, but if it's a revenge thing wink
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Reply #19 posted 05/17/04 2:08pm

NEWPOWERBABY

they shouldn't have a thing 2 worry about , let's celebrate ugly

lol

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Reply #20 posted 05/17/04 2:11pm

Slave2daGroove

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A one-time "mistake" under certain circumstances is sometimes understandable.



Vina, this is shocking to me, did this just come out of your fingers?

I'm not going into a holier than thou rant but I've never cheated on anybody because it's a choice and respect. It's not like you're walking down the street and your dick accidently slipped into someone. It takes more than one choice to cheat and if a person is unhappy in the relationship, end it out of respect for the person you're suppose to care about. Then go fuck whoever you want.

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Reply #21 posted 05/17/04 2:11pm

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Better be careful cause what goes around comes around nod
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Reply #22 posted 05/17/04 2:15pm

NCC2012

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You ever see "Fatal Attraction"??? eek

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Reply #23 posted 05/17/04 2:17pm

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Slave2daGroove said:

VinaBlue said:

A one-time "mistake" under certain circumstances is sometimes understandable.



Vina, this is shocking to me, did this just come out of your fingers?

I'm not going into a holier than thou rant but I've never cheated on anybody because it's a choice and respect. It's not like you're walking down the street and your dick accidently slipped into someone. It takes more than one choice to cheat and if a person is unhappy in the relationship, end it out of respect for the person you're suppose to care about. Then go fuck whoever you want.

twocents

Well... I've never cheated. But I wanted to when I was neglected and ignored by my "boyfriend". Communication goes a long way. If I'm not given a reason as to why I'm not getting a healthy amount of love-making and even kisses and hugs from my significant other and someone else wants to show me affection... Well....


I'm a lot better at waiting now though.
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Reply #24 posted 05/17/04 2:18pm

BlueEyedAngel

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

One thing about "cheating" is that sometimes there is justification for straying from one's married partner.

IMO, if a couple have sex on a regular basis before they get married and then after they get married the woman holds out and only gives sex once a month or worse, once every few months then you can't realistically expect the man to be faithful. I'm not saying that women should be bound to their male partners every sexual whim without consideration for their female partner but if women continually deny men a healthy sex life, they only have themselves to blame if their man strays.

Women are denied sex too! My best friend just dumped her man yesterday for this reason! If it gets to the point where you're going to be unfaithful, why not just end the relationship?
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Reply #25 posted 05/17/04 2:19pm

AzureStarr

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I'm a lot better at waiting now though.



lol
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Reply #26 posted 05/17/04 2:19pm

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VinaBlue said:

Slave2daGroove said:




Vina, this is shocking to me, did this just come out of your fingers?

I'm not going into a holier than thou rant but I've never cheated on anybody because it's a choice and respect. It's not like you're walking down the street and your dick accidently slipped into someone. It takes more than one choice to cheat and if a person is unhappy in the relationship, end it out of respect for the person you're suppose to care about. Then go fuck whoever you want.

twocents

Well... I've never cheated. But I wanted to when I was neglected and ignored by my "boyfriend". Communication goes a long way. If I'm not given a reason as to why I'm not getting a healthy amount of love-making and even kisses and hugs from my significant other and someone else wants to show me affection... Well....


I'm a lot better at waiting now though.


You know what.... a woman, or man should not have to wait..

Love, caressing, kissing is so vital to any relationship.. I still don't understand why this is such a problem..
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Reply #27 posted 05/17/04 2:23pm

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sag10 said:

VinaBlue said:


Well... I've never cheated. But I wanted to when I was neglected and ignored by my "boyfriend". Communication goes a long way. If I'm not given a reason as to why I'm not getting a healthy amount of love-making and even kisses and hugs from my significant other and someone else wants to show me affection... Well....


I'm a lot better at waiting now though.


You know what.... a woman, or man should not have to wait..

Love, caressing, kissing is so vital to any relationship.. I still don't understand why this is such a problem..

there are so many people who have a genuinely hard time expressing affection. sometimes it's because of the way they were raised or because of some trauma they've experienced. it's important to undrestand that and be supportive of them even though they can't lavish you with affection. sometimes they may love you very deeply but just not know how to express it. it can be devastating for all involved if there isn't proper communication.
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Reply #28 posted 05/17/04 2:25pm

Muse2NOPharaoh

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

One thing about "cheating" is that sometimes there is justification for straying from one's married partner.

IMO, if a couple have sex on a regular basis before they get married and then after they get married the woman holds out and only gives sex once a month or worse, once every few months then you can't realistically expect the man to be faithful. I'm not saying that women should be bound to their male partners every sexual whim without consideration for their female partner but if women continually deny men a healthy sex life, they only have themselves to blame if their man strays.

Likewise, if a woman is being abused by her husband I don't think it's unethical to find comfort and solace with another man. It's obvious the husband doesn't respect his wife if he's abusing her so where there is no respect given, none should be expected in return.



In both cases wouldn't the appropriate course of action be to get help or get out?
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Reply #29 posted 05/17/04 2:27pm

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AzureStarr said:

VinaBlue said:


I'm a lot better at waiting now though.



lol



mr.green Always growing and learning! Patience was NEVER a strong point for me...
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