okay back in the days u use to could tell who was gay and who was not. now days you got gay men living hetero sexual lives. I know when u watch on tv we only see the stereo typical type of gay person, but in real life it's really hard to tell, because they just want to blend in with everybody else. now don't get me wrong i don't have anything against gay people, i think gay people are cool, especailly the men, u just don't know sometimes a gay man can be better friends then a female, i just don't like when gay men try to come off straight u know, cuz i be attracted to them , then they tell me i'm gay, then one of my biggest fears is one day i'm gonna come home and see my man in bed with another man instead of a woman, it might sound crazy but it would hurt me more. am i the only one who feels like this ?

are you concerned about closeted or "questioning" men or are you concerned about gay men who don't present themselves as stereotypes? i'm not following you here.

Anxiety said:

more like in the closet cuz i don't have a problem with gay people at all, before people start snapping at me

Mizzunderstood said:

Maybe they're just trying to let you down easy.

((nevermind, I just re-read this thread and realized I have no clue what she's saying, so I'd better not even reply))


[This message was edited Fri May 14 22:44:26 2004 by AnotherLoverToo]

OHHHH ALTHOM!!! I think we got a thread here for you

2the9s said:

let me down easy

then the following week i hear he was at a gay club

okay





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Mizzunderstood said:

so how big is the chance that u fall in love with man that turns out to be gay ? 10 % ?

how big is the chance that a gay man falls in love with a man that turns out to be straight ? 90 % ?

and it is quite difficult for a gay man to live a heterosexual life. what do you consider to be a heterosexual life ?

dunno.

Im a guy and I was with a guy the other night, he was gorgeous, everything i could want. Then he tells me he's married! Great!

Mizzunderstood said:

Not all gay men "try" to come off "straight". It's just their personality, they're being themselves.