when u get married ur marriage vows are supposed to be kept sacred, they are not just pretty words to say on ur wedding day. adultry has been a common problem in the past, it's the main reason why some get a divorce. it's dishonest and hurtful, let's just face it, there are a lot of dis honest people in the world who would rather do something behind ur back other then be upfront of about it. 2day adultry has become more easier. u don't even have to leave ur home in order to commit this crime. online dating has become a main vessel for a adultry and no one has to ever know about it except u and the person u had a conversation with online, but u have to ask the question what are the lines between meeting someone online or actually having a online affair. imo when u begin to exchange sexual conversation, pictures, and set up a date 2 meet so and so, hello it's a affair! The only difference between having a affair online or meeting somone in club. the lying prt of ur relationship status becomes more easy to lie about. i ask myself this question, why do some people get married just to have a divorce settlment over adultry a few later? wouldn't it just save u time not walk down the isle or say those vows, if u weren't ready ?

I had this situation where I meant this guy online at website , I thought he was cute, we had a lot in common and I could see myself possibly dating this person, however. After a few convo's someone else who didn't nesscarily had a liken to this person told me he was married.
so i stop talking to him or looking at him in that interest, when other people mentioned his name i would to tell them he's married. I was telling the truth from what someone else told me, but I guess somebody who was a friend of his went back to tell him what i said, when really i just repeated what somebody else told me and it ended up back fireing on me, cuz instead of this guy confronting the other guy 4 telling me his business in the first place, it was handled very childishly and he started putting my business in the street, when really i never had anything personally against this person who admire at first in the beginning. once again another episode of drama begin with the he/she said scenario, however.

I was the innocent bystandered who got caught up in a bunch of pettitness, all because i was interested in a supposedly married man, who i had no ideal was until someone let me know. if that person would've been straight up with me in the beginning, if he really was married, instead of trying to decieve me into thinking he was single or even i will admit to my own faults which was , instead of telling other people he was married, when first heard this information, i should've just asked him first before spreading that around. I just want people to stop, because i had to experience the pain once before i just didn't want it to happen to anyody else. Bottom is line when u get married, people keep ur vows. Stop being dishonesting, because in the long while ur only hurting urself by that person may not want to forgive. Even if it's just online it's still cheating.

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Hang with Young People who Couldn't POSSIBLY be Married. If a Man is Married let Him make the move then well it Really he wanted it now didn't he? Let the Man make his move...I'll be ya Slave ..Do Anything..I'm Told...I'm A Sex Shooter shooting Love In Your Direction..Classic Prince....Can't ya Just Squirm Knowing a MAN WROTE the LYRICS????COME On KISS THe GUN? ALSO, how about his LYRICS...I CAN"T CONTROL IT...I NEED 7" or MORE ? Now tell me This Man was a HORN DOG!!! VANITY well he NEEDED a C7n7 kinda Woman. See if he had Someone More Dirty Sleezy way back well She Wouldn't have left. She was herself Rather Embarassed by His BRASSNESS by his VULGARITY and Women who Tried out for his Vanity Part well What he Wanted Then to Do???LOL! He has /Had a Dirty Filthy little Mind..That ya Just wanna well ya wanna Squeeze all his Juice Outta Him...Sush I be now a rather Naughty,Naughty,. But Mr. Hot Fox who makes ya Heart Skip a Beat well and he just ya Wanna Dream of his Cream.. He turned Ya Inside Out. Appolonia said this Vanity well she Wore Boots..I wear High Heels.. Like High Heels Meant she was More Classy. Vanity and Prince were like Dirty and More kinda REBEL.. Appolonia was Gorgeous and Yes she was CHAMPAGNE.. She Wasn't for Prince. He liked them Dirty-Ass Ho's.

Zelaira said:

what does this have to do with online adultry ?

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NEWPOWERBABY said:

I have no idea but it's damn good reading. Zelaira.

NEWPOWERBABY said:

LAWL!

Either ya Can be a Jimmy Swaggert or thatJimmy Carter..I LUSTED IN MY Heart crapo. Ya can Cry about Stuff or ya can Think about 9-11 and how Life can be taken in an instant. I say live Everyday as your last..Party -Up and Have Fun...Pray every Day to your Diety and I Believe you Will be Saved. I don't Think GUILT is the way. I think just have Fun and Live...But I'm also sooo Bad as I live a kinda DECADENT Lifestyle of DEBAUCHERY...LOL! I would WeLCOME Any AFFAIR Especially ONLINE cause Really That is 100% Safe from Disease. Ya can Still Get Wet and Come also. Listen,I know people who wear a Condom to Masturbate or even gloves...

I've been a Bad,Bad Girl!!!

Zelaira said:

You know, I think feminists would be proud of that sentence - taking the word "deity" but spelling it "diety" so as to ironically suggest that women are worshipping at the altar of commercialisation and obsession with their bodies.

I'm not a Feminist. I am Totally into Wanton Sex! I cannot give a Fig about Feminism in the Regard that I gotta Lose my Female Sexual Self. I dig being a Female and Choosing to have either Female or Male sex. Makes for Intense FUN!

I know, Zelaira. Just pulling your leg.

Ya can Believe in God and Still have Sex ya Know.. Just be Safe and Careful.

Zelaira said:

true but in the mean time people do get hurt. i just don't understand it, if u want to fool around, then why walk down the isle ? right now i would never get married, i know i'm not ready to make that kind of commitment to someone.

Plus sometimes like being a Virgin ya Wait forever and when ya DO It ..It's such a Let Down..Only Thing ya Don't have to worry bout Sex if ya want the person is There for ya. Still I Know soon I am going to Have Mad Wild Sex on the Hood of my Car.... I just Can't go without anymore.. Can ya Believe ya can hide in someone's Lawn and have Sex at like 2am?If ya Scared wear a Mask....LOL!

People in Ny are Actually good about Public Sex they Wait Until it's over and then come out! So Maybe they LIKE to Watch..l

One time I swear some couple were like in the Street by my house on a car doing it.

Zelaira said:

Yeah, sorry about that. Just couldn't help ourselves.

LOl. I was in South Beach when Prince was there and 2 couples were doing it RightNear Us.. We just Blew out the Candles. I don't Think Prince watched either.

Zelaira said:

u see i couldn't hang around u, u would have such a bad influence on me, i would get into some trouble.

Yes,but it would be Such Fun and ya could go to Confession the next day. I just like Fun!

what makes me sad the most is, i still kind of like the guy, not in that way, but i just think he's a cool guy who knows a lot of things and could teach me something, but he treats me so mean, because of that, man it's just a messed up situation.

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Yes, it Really is.

I would Risk it actually and let God Judge me... Look at Liz Taylor?

This is not Online this is Real adultery. Lionel Ritchie Cheated on BRENDA RITCHIE with a Diane woman there was a fist Fight. Brenda Caught them at diane's house.. Lionel Ran away. Later he Married the Diane woman... I believe they had a child also. Bad thing they are Divorcing and she wants mega bucks.

Zelaira said:

the thing is the guy doesn't care much 4 me anymore, though we where friends in the beginning. it's a different story now though.

Then Forget it. I thought he was Digging on you.

Zelaira said:

naw what bugs me even more is he won't admit it, but i know. even his friends don't like me, lol If i'm gonna deal with this kind of drama, i need a real life.

I wouldn't bother with Any of Them.. Forget them all. Move on..I gotta rest now..E-mail me if ya want to talk more.. Peace. Personally, I always was able to get an X back but well ya say Married. I Never go with Married always Single..

Zelaira said:

aight cool, will do. u know what i'm not gonna worry about it anymore, cuz i even tried to apologize but i guess he wasn't trying to hear it. so i'm just gonna let evil people be evil and not worry about no more. 4 now on i'm gonna be careful about liking someone online though.

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