alright, i went out with a friend a few nights ago, her and i were BEYOND trashed, it was a beautiful night, so we started walking up a few blocks to get the the hangouts up the way. we walked by a house with 10 or so folks hangin out on the porch, so we talked to them for a bit, and got some advice on which bar to go to. there was one man in particular that we thought was very handsome, and i made it a point to let him know i found him to be quite delicious looking

at any rate, he sent us to go to the bar that he happened to be working at that night, and said, i hope you drop by later, would really like to see ya there. so what did we do ? of course we went to that bar !!! about 30 minutes after we got there, he shows up, greets us with a big hug and a kiss on the cheek.

so by now, my friend had hooked up with some guy, and they were alllll over each other on the other side of the table. i didnt quite know where to 'look' as they were quite involved. so i got up to go outside and he comes out, and we talked for a while. still im thinkin, this guy is HOT !! his lips were, ummmm, so soft looking (girls you know what im sayin )

after that, i go back to the table, and these two are really turning into a freak show. my friend says,' i think you should kiss him' i said, "are you out of your freakin mind ??? why would i do that ????" so she says, wait a minute, they call the guy over there, and THEN THEY TOLD HIM HE SHOULD KISS ME !!!!! what the hell is that about ?????

he looks at me, moves in a bit closer, and says, "well, actually, i was wondering if i could give you a mothers day kiss ? would that offend you ??" after i got done blushing all over the place, i said, ummm, no, i think that would be just fine let me tell you, the man is even sexier than i thought !! OMG !!!

heres my question, i want to see him again, and he told me like 5 times that his friends live up the street, and that he is there alllll the time. HOW DO I GO ABOUT SEEING HIM AGAIN ??? whats the best way for a woman to let a man know shes into him ? and is it weird for me to do that ? or should i just let fate work its way into this ????

Make him some paella.

that works for me.

hey 9s! when i move to NYc i have to make you and the mrs. some paella.

JasmineFire said:

2the9s said:

yay! we've jacked a thread!

i always thought nakedpianoplayer was a man!

anyway, i'd probably go to the bar again
before I'd go to the friend's house.

JasmineFire said:

nakedpianoplayer said:

Why would it be weird? You have an invite.

Two words: freak him!

2the9s said:[quote]

JasmineFire said:

but is that really an invite? did she get his number? i wouldn't know what to do in this situation either. i wouldn't want to scare the guy away but just showing up at his house like that.

JasmineFire said:

Hmmm good point. We need more info!

alright, i already know how this turns out, and i will tell you in a minute heres what i can tell ya now though...he also told me where he worked other than the bar. so i had a friend come over, she read my thread, and said, oh no honey, you have to find him ! so, i said, damn shame we arent going to need a hotel room (hes one of the managers at the hotel up the street) ..do you think i should call there and see if i can find him ???? and if so, what should i say ??

madartista said:

im very much a woman

i have no earthly clue. this is why i like guys who are aggressive enough to tell you straight out that they want to see you again, get your number, and then call you up for a date. i can't deal with these subtle, "here's where i work" and "here's where my friend lives" kinda guys.

good luck to you, whatever you do.

Being a shy type, I know I love it if I think/know someone really likes me. If you don't go for it and act all cool he may think you don't like him and then his interest in you will cool too. We are human after all nakedpianoplayer. Without wishing to sound too Dirty Harry-ish..Go ahead... make his day.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

awwwww, thats so sweet !!!

well, thats exactly what my friend said to do, so i called up to his other job, was gonna leave a message for him, but, he answered the phone i said, hello, this is me, i met you on saturday night, is this a bad time to talk ? he said, omg, hi there !! i was thinkin of you and didnt know if i would get to see you again, im so glad you called. he took my number, and said he will be calling later tonight lets just hope hes not crazy !!! but, truth be told, im glad i made a move, if he is what i think he is, then maybe i found someone cool to hang out with, wonder if he likes prince ?????

Find out exactly where this friend lives and then go through his bins. You might find some valuable info in there!

nakedpianoplayer said:

i don't know why i thought that!!!!

heres my question, i want to see him again, and he told me like 5 times that his friends live up the street, and that he is there alllll the time. HOW DO I GO ABOUT SEEING HIM AGAIN ??? whats the best way for a woman to let a man know shes into him ? and is it weird for me to do that ? or should i just let fate work its way into this ???? [/quote]


Go see him again(at the house or bar)and set up a date.And tell him how you feel.Not too much though.Just thst you'd love to hang out sometime.I love it when a woman expresses her thoughts,about me.(doesn't happen much to me personally ,ie, too shy) Not a fan of the game playing crap.See where that takes you.

13inchshoe said:

thanks baby, great advice