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PrintableLleena said: minneapolisgenius said: Well, from now on I'll answer your thoughts. At least one person (besides 2the9s  ) will respond then.  Help me  He wont shutup.I know. Here, this may help a bit.....   "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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He seems to be withstanding the onslaught.  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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2the9s said: Lleena said: It's okay, I have a fridge already.  You might want to check the expiration date on that milk, if you know what I mean. heh heh I have no idea what you mean? are you okay? | |
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minneapolisgenius said:
He seems to be withstanding the onslaught. ~~ignoring MinnieG~~ | |
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2the9s said: minneapolisgenius said:
He seems to be withstanding the onslaught. ~~ignoring MinnieG~~  "I saw a woman with major Hammer pants on the subway a few weeks ago and totally thought of you." - sextonseven | |
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minneapolisgenius said:
He seems to be withstanding the onslaught. He has a natural protective layer, rolls of it. | |
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Lleena said: 2the9s said: You might want to check the expiration date on that milk, if you know what I mean. heh heh I have no idea what you mean? are you okay? I'm good, thanks. | |
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...if people post their photos here and you find them attractive, do you treat them differently than you would if you didn't know what they looked like?
No. I honestly don't think that I do. But, I guess I'd have to ask those that I talk to. I think that I treat everyone that I talk to on here the same as I did before I saw any of their pictures. If I'm wrong... someone say so. ....if you think someone's "hot", do you treat them with more respect and/or have more patience in your replies to them? Again, my answer is "no". In person, I tend to shy away more from those that I think are attractive to me. I'm a shy person anyway, but tend to become even more-so in the company of those that I am attracted to. On the org, it doesn't make a bit of difference to me. Probably because I don't have the eye contact. ....do you treat male and female Orgers differently, as far as how you respond to them? In a sense, but it really has nothing to do with their sex, as it does with our relationship. For instance, I will joke differently with 9s than I would say, oooh... bkw. It goes the same way with female orgers. But, I don't believe that I stop and say something differently to a male orger because they're male. If a female were to have said the same thing as a male orger had, I think I would respond in the same manner. Think about it!
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Sweeny79 said: Take Althom as an example, everyone likes him, he has a beautiful warm soul that "shines through the computer screen" does anyone think differently of him since he started posting his picture? I always liked Althom but does the fact that he's a nice looking man make me like him more? No. I feel the same way about him that I always did, it's just nice that I can now put a face ( and a voice
 ) with the personality I have come to know in the forums over the last two years.
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IF....was a great song by Bread in 1971(which was a great year btw  )
If If a picture paints a thousand words, then why I can't paint you? The words will never show the you I've some to know. if a face could launce a thousand ships, then where am I to go? There's no one home but you, You're all that's left me too. And when my love for life is running dry, you come and pour yourself on me. If a man could be two places at one time, I'd be with you. Tommorrow and today, beside you all the way. If the world should stop revolving spinning slowly down to die, I'd spend the end with you. And when the world was through, Then one by one the stars would all go out, and you and I would simply fly away sappy but still good | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: namepeace said: Well, I take a golden rule approach. Treat every Orger as you'd want to be treated if they found out you didn't look as good as they thought you did. But to answer your larger question, I don't know whether I treat ugly people worse than beautiful ones. I make a sincere effort not to. Who said anything about "ugly people"? 
I sho didn't.....? Aren't most of us somewhere in-between?
Okay, I misunderstood the original post, paying attention to some of the replies moreso than your original question. None of us are perfect in any respect, least of all me! Anuhweigh, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That's on the real. It is no cliche! Good night, sweet Prince | 7 June 1958 - 21 April 2016
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AnotherLoverToo said: ....if people post their photos here and you find them attractive, do you treat them differently than you would if you didn't know what they looked like?
....if you think someone's "hot", do you treat them with more respect and/or have more patience in your replies to them? ....do you treat male and female Orgers differently, as far as how you respond to them? Think about it! 1) Ummm... no, not exactly, except Dora  Seriously, I don't, there have been several occasions where I chatted with people for ages, like Dansa, and only recently found out she was black, for example. Doesn't matter one bit to me. Hey, come to think about it, I treat ex plastic surgery patients with less respect, where applicable.
2) No, the reverse, cos I think people with looks rarely have brains. 3) Yes, most of the time I get along way better with males that with females. I know you used to be a "victim" of that  but we're cool now.  | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Let me clear up my meaning on a few things, especially pertaining to the last question ('do you treat male and female Orgers differently')
That aspect of my thread deals with Orgers treating men and women differently, but NOT necessarily in a sexual or flirtatious way. For example, there was a female here who became angry at something I said to one of her friends, and she went after ME on a thread and in orgnotes, even though there was a male who said almost the exact same thing to her. In response to him, she was quite passive and almost apologetic. In another situation, I experienced a male Orger in the P&R section being much more rude to males who disagreed with him than to me, for example. So what I'm saying here is that I wonder if sometimes we're conditioned to try to please a certain gender, and to feel more comfortable being aggressive with another, and to watch yourself here at the Org to see if you do this. I'm fascinated with human behavior, obviously!  I don't think I'm more or less aggressive toward a person based on their sex. I probably used to be, but not anymore. I've met men and women who are hardball players or softies. Again, I think the way I engage a person has more to do with how they engage me -- most certainly online. [This message was edited Tue Apr 20 10:34:35 2004 by Lammastide] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
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If a picture paints a thousand words,
Then why can't I paint you? The words will never show the you I've come to know. If a face could launch a thousand ships, Then where am I to go? There's no one home but you, You're all that's left me too. And when my love for life is running dry, You come and pour yourself on me. If a man could be two places at one time, I'd be with you. Tomorrow and today, beside you all the way. If the world should stop revolving spinning slowly down to die, I'd spend the end with you. And when the world was through, Then one by one the stars would all go out, Then you and I would simply fly away david gates | |
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gooeythehamster said: AnotherLoverToo said: ....if people post their photos here...
 hey there mr goo! [This message was edited Tue Apr 20 12:51:27 2004 by shausler] | |
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gooeythehamster said: And I admit. I still have the ability to fall in love without having seen pics. In love with PERSONALITIES. Look at Cloudbuster. And Christopher. Haven't seen pics of either of them, love them to bits still.
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i never go by pictures, a picture can speak a thousand words. Sometimes u see a person's picture and in person they look totaly different from what u thought they look like in the pic, so really you can't always go by a picture. A person can also alternate the picture from what they really look like, or get a fake picture from google. So no i never really go by orger just cuz i seen the pic, Look everybody thinks i'm fat around here, if u saw me in person u'll see how tiny i am. they say a camera adds ten lbs, my point is u can't always tell by a peson pic, so i never ever go by the pic alone. Some people r just shallow though. | |
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