with everything in life that you just want to say "Fuck it", and give up? That's kind of how I feel right now with all the negative crap that has been going on with me lately. I know some of you are going to say, "It will get better", but I'm not so sure of that, since my life has been going steadily downhill for the past year or so.

Just needed to vent.

Thanks, I would vent, but I feel like my last few threads have been nothing but me bitching, and I think people get tired of it, to be honest.

psychodelicide said:

Are you still angrey about that sex toy you bought off tv?

psychodelicide said:

Sometimes it's hard to give a shit when other people dont' seem to give a shit either way. I can identify with the apathy of it....U just work thru it I guess.....can't stay that way forever, it's not healthy!

psychodelicide said:

Things will get better. Think positive so you don't attract the negative. Don't ever give up. May be go get some counselling to help sort through your mess

Oh, yeah... I have!

I know what you're saying about "things will get better"... you really don't want to hear it because it seems as if it's only going to get worse. Instead of saying that, my grandma always has said to me, "You'll make due". I wanted to scream every time I've heard those words... lol. Now, I reflect upon those words when shit hits the fan in my life, because I have made due.

And, you're right, things may not get better right now. They may get worse. But, keep in mind that if they do get worse, things can really only get better from there.

I hate going through those times in life where it seems like everything that can go wrong in my life are all going wrong at the same time. Just keep your head held high and you'll get through it, and don't ever give up. As they say, everything happens for a reason - as much as I hate that saying, too... it's very true.

And, vent all you want! Sometimes you just need to get it out so that you can get through the day!

Only in the mornings nancy.... Only in the mornings...

I know exactly how you feel. 2003 was the absolute worst year of my life. I felt like I was drowning everyday. What changed was I got some really positive people in my life who made me feel absolutely wonderful and gave me coping skills. When I look back at what happened, I can't believe that was me. I'm not going to tell you things will get better but I will tell you to Org me if want or need someone to talk to or scream at. When I get a little down, I think of the words to one of my favorite songs that perks me up:

"If they turn off the lights in your house,
Don't you let them cut off the sunshine in your heart."


Yeah, it's corny but I hope it made you smile a little.

YES... You feel like things are going no where.. personally, financially, emotionally, physcially.. I am sure everyone has been there at some point. You need to do things for a while that make you feel good.. Maybe exercise, shop, pamper yourself a bit.. Keep optimisitic and be well.. Things will improve and look up, I promise you!

mmm...monty python kinna sums things up best:

Some things in life are bad,
They can really make you mad.
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle,
Don't grumble, give a whistle!
And this'll help things turn out for the best...
And...

...always look on the bright side of life!
(whistle)

Always look on the bright side of life...
If life seems jolly rotten,
There's something you've forgotten!
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing,

When you're feeling in the dumps,
Don't be silly chumps,
Just purse your lips and whistle -- that's the thing!
And... always look on the bright side of life...

(whistle)
Come on!

Always look on the bright side of life...
(whistle)

For life is quite absurd,
And death's the final word.
You must always face the curtain with a bow!
Forget about your sin -- give the audience a grin,
Enjoy it -- it's the last chance anyhow!

So always look on the bright side of death!
Just before you draw your terminal breath.
Life's a piece of sh*t,
When you look at it.

Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true,
You'll see it's all a show,
Keep 'em laughing as you go.
Just remember that the last laugh is on you!

And always look on the bright side of life...
(whistle)
Always look on the bright side of life
(whistle)

Monty Python has the answer to all of life's problems.

Nan-y, hang in there. You are a wonderful, strong person. It stinks that life is flinging poo at you.

psychodelicide said:

Hey nancy...sorry 2 hear u are goin through some rough times.
Keep UR chin up hun!

It'll get better

Thanks to all who posted, I appreciate it, and it brought much laughter and smiles to my face (which I need right now).

You love me, you really love me! You guys rock!!
[This message was edited Fri Mar 26 17:39:29 2004 by psychodelicide]

Everything they said is true. I remember 1996 and 2002 both sucked so big I thought nothing could ever be right again. Dark patches always drag (just like boring times) but they always end.

Remember.....

shine & 's .....

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Dosen't that just tickle ya ....