anyone ever feel like this?

how do you deal with it....?

how do you vent? what do you do to feel better?



I'm looking for a solution to eliminate my pain, not any sympathy what so ever.

I feel like this to Pej, I feel like this A LOT, but I don't know how to get rid of it either.

Pej, my brother, it is just a matter of perspective.

Either you let your mind run you or you run your mind and feeling bad can be changed with your will (or lack of)

I know how to get rid of it. Just close your eyes.....

Hi Pej

Don't be sad..remember:

If U don't like the world U're living in
Take a look around U, at least U got friends

i usually call my mom and my friends. then i do something nice for myself.

PEJ said:

When i feel down, i usuaky run upstairs go through my movie collection and pick out one of my favourite feel good movies of all time.
Then i pop that in and try to relax for two hours and just watch this film:

I feel like this far too often. The only solution that I've been able to come up with, for myself, is to wait for it to pass. Usually, when I get like this, I don't feel like talking, because there really isn't anything to talk about because I don't know how or why I'm feeling the way that I am... and I just want to be left alone. To me it's a feeling of being emotionally drained I guess... just sort of a "dead" feeling.

Suggestions, other than to wait for it to pass... well, maybe you could hang out with friends to try and lighten your mood or do something that you really enjoy doing... a hobby or something.

I hope that you find something that works for you and I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. It's not any fun.

I like to walk, think, and resolve..

Something usually happens that makes me realize how good my life is..

If I lived where you live Pej, I would be walking that beach...THe ocean waves will soothe your soul.

Pej.....here.... ..have a seat.....I can make ya smile


I do this lil' dance.....don't laughin' !!!

Ya know I Luv's ya


You have always made me smile....now my turn to reciprocate.....

1...Why does round pizza come in a square box?

2...I used to skinny dippin' ...now I just chunky dunk...

3...If money dosen't grow on trees, then why do they have branches?

4...Can ya cry under water?

5...Why is it that people say "they slept like a baby ..when a baby wakes up every two hours?

6...Why are ya "in" a movie but, "on" tv?

7...Why is it that we choose from two people for President and choose from 50 for Miss America?

8...Why is it that people pay to go up tall buildings and then put money in those binoculars to look at things on the ground?

9...How is it that we put a man on the moon before we decided that wheels on luggage was a good idea?

10...Wouldn't it be nice if whenever we messed up in life we could simply press "ctrl, alt, del.." and start over?

11...Just remember ...if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.


Luv ya Pej shine

Awwww ... I have gotten like this before.. You sort of feel lost and dont know what to do.. You dont know if your feeling angry (and at who) feel lonley or depressed or sad.. I get like that a lot.. I usually do something fun to take my mind off it.. I go shopping and go out for dinner with people I like being around.. And get a good night sleep.. I had that feeling once for like a week and then it went away..

Have you tried ?

I just drink all night and sleep all day.

I can relate to how you feel Pej

When I feel like this, I throw myself into being creative, it helps to take your mind of things. draw, write, whatever your thing is Pej, tap into this and lose yourself in the process.


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PEJ said:

Now I understand.....sorry u feel crummy, let me know if there is anything i can do 2 help!!!

COME CLOSER.....

Pej honey its part of life. We all get sad about stuff. You need to find something that will take your mind off of it. That is what I do. Take your energy and emotions and put them into something that will take your mind off of things. Make your emotions and feeling work in your favor and create something in real life. For me it is pictures and art, for you it may be something something else. Look inside yourself and you will find the answer to what will make you feel better. if you want someone to bitch or talk to you know where to get my number. Hope you feel better soon!

You're all wonderful!!!! even the ones that didn't post!!! I've been at work all day and have to go back... (workin a double when my mind and spirit feel ship wrecked, sheesh) I will bbl to thank each and everyone of you for the much needed advice you have all given...












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Pej!

Sweeny79 said:

I took a stroll along the beach last night and it helped but the main problem I was having is solved.

Slave2daGroove said:

NICE!!!!! words of wisdom!!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

eyes wide shut

PEJ said:

this emoticom but two winks

AndGodCreatedMe said:

dr. everything will be just fine!!!

jessyMD32781 said:

mother knows best!

IAmTheTouch said:

noepie said:

isn't there a guy wearing a prince shirt in that movie?

AzureStarr said:

Seeing you back makes me much happier!!! You were/are always one of the nicest people I have met here!!! wanna go to the roller rink still?















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sag10 said:

I took your advice. I'm lucky I live near the beach. I should go more often.